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The way Allah has made a mockery of them 😂

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From yesterday’s nikkah

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Can we normalise accommodating children at weddings? I had a whole separate room with a soft play setup & an area for children to eat at mine. It was one of the best decisions we made! Parents took it in turns to supervise and it meant nobody missed out.

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Officially engaged to the loml 🇪🇬💍🇨🇴🇬🇧 @noorudeen 🤍💛 Disclaimer: I’m not sitting or a tiny - he’s a 6ft7 giant 😂

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For people coming at me for travelling without a mahram, I literally don’t have one to travel with (I have two in this country who have their own lives/responsibilities) and even when I WAS married, my ex would go on three holidays a year without me 🙃 so leave me alone pls ✌🏼

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2 years

Muslim men who are always talking about marrying ‘an established woman’ as a second wife take heed

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My kiddy friendly wedding setup - kept the kids busy all day! 🤍

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1 year

If you plan on attending the protest in London tomorrow - know your rights! #FreePalaestine #FreeGaza 🇵🇸 Photos via @libertyhq Instagram

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2 years

I feel so sad that I’m not really looking forward to Ramadan this year. It’s the first Ramadan I’ll be spending alone and I probably won’t even be able to attend taraweeh much due to the kids. Single mama life is hard.

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6 months

I really dislike when invites includes not having children. Children are a part of our community too and parents shouldn’t feel excluded (or made out of pocket) from celebrating a couple due to having children.

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2 years

So who’s marrying single mothers? Or are they expected to either be single forever or second wives?

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1 year

My fiancé brought individual flowers for each of my daughters to come and formally propose 🥹🤍

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2 years

During the time of the prophet saw women (divorced or widows) would be receiving proposals as soon as their iddah ends. The prophet saw himself only married ONE virgin out of the 9 wives he had. Idk how some of you men have the audacity to talk down about marrying single mums.

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So who’s marrying single mothers? Or are they expected to either be single forever or second wives?

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1 year

My fiancé has taught my 2yo to call me pretty. He always looks over and tells my girls ‘isn’t your mama so pretty/beautiful?’ Randomly whilst playing 2yo stops and looks at me and goes ‘it mummy! pretty mummy!’ 🥹 my heart is so full 🤍

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1 year

Married my absolute soulmate 🤍 @noorudeen

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6 months

It cost me less than £300 for 5 hours and kept the kids entertained - which meant they weren’t in the way during the nikkah & celebrations.

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2 years

And this is why I encourage every woman to have an education, or skill to fall back on. Stop romanticising the ‘soft life’ of a sahw, because if sh*t hits the fan you’re left with nothing.

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2 years

Lady couldn’t afford to buy her kids a drink from the gas station. Glad she’s put her life back together. Some of y’all with these delusions of grandeur need to see this.

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1 year

And this is why you should always avoid media production companies. I have worked alongside so many and they all send their work abroad for editing (as it’s cheaper and less time consuming). You will not get the same experience as working with an individual/small business.

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1 year

When my friend was getting married she wanted a female videographer and the company were like to her what’s the point men are going to be editing your wedding video and pics anyway 😭

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My fiancé and I’s love story is my absolute favourite, 12 years of love, loss, heartbreak and hardship. It’s taken us a lifetime to reach where we are and it hasn’t been easy by any means, but if it means I get to be with him forever I’d do it all over again 🤍

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4 years

Nothings beats sisters gathering for the sake of Allāh — I loved hosting this 😍💕

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7 months

Why’s everyone so pressed about this? This is standard when it comes to marrying an Arab woman (literally our customs) If she chooses to forfeit some of these things it’s entirely up to her

Imran Muneer (SIM)

@ImranMuneerTMM

7 months

A friend recently shared a list of marriage demands from a girl he met. Fellas, I beg you - it doesn't matter how beautiful she is when her heart is polluted she will devour you spiritually and financially. The funny thing (and sad for this girl) is that most decent women

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@aisha_xyz I genuinely don’t believe this, I understand that SOME men are this way but please don’t generalise.

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3 months

This is Imane Khelif as a child, she is NOT transgender and is biologically a female. Algeria has laws prohibiting transitioning and homosexuality.

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2 years

Might be justifiable? It is the children’s God given RIGHT to be financially taken care of by their father. This includes their food, clothing, education, medical care and suitable accommodation. The only oppression is by the men who try to get away scot free.

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2 years

Child support and alimony might be justifiable if a proper islamic contract allocates it before hand, especially in cases where the woman is poor, but giving your house to your ex-wife is pure oppression and anyone who supports that is supporting injustice.

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2 years

Went to go see the Ramadan lights tonight, they’re so cute!

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1 year

Ever since I started going out more I’m starting to meet people more organically, I’m so done with the crazy people on apps 😂

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@summersaying

2 years

I’ve seen two tweets today about different people who had car accidents yesterday. It’s crazy subhanAllah, I had a car accident yesterday too. Elhamdulilah I’m okay, it’s just the car that’s damaged. Like the Arab saying goes ‘it came out of my wealth and not my health’ 🤍

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1 year

Influencers always show their true colours when the Muslims are being attacked. Time to unfollow Nabela too.

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2 years

Made baklava cheesecake and it’s came out amazing 😍

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2 years

Them telling you that something you did upset them isn’t them trying to pick a fight, they’re literally bringing something to your attention because they don’t want it to happen again/want you to change that thing Your partner/friend aren’t plotting against you.

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2 years

How do people meet their other half organically if they didn’t meet at school/uni? I’m genuinely curious.

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1 year

The prettiest flowers 🤍

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1 year

The salafi burn out is real - Islam is simple and should be a practised with a balance of love and fear of Allah I couldn’t handle the judgement of the salafi community and everything leading to being of the khawarij or a one way ticket to jahannam

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@D1mashqi

1 year

@romantic_nomad Salafism is a phase for most people

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1 year

The imam at my nikkah: do you have any conditions? Me: *with all the confidence in the world* HE CANT HAVE A SECOND WIFE Imam: *in the freshiest Egyptian accent ever* I cannot write zis. 🥲 It’s okay though, I know he’d never do it anyway @noorudeen 🤍

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6 months

I understand that every client has a budget but asking a photographer to cover a SIX hour wedding for £300 is an actual mockery of their craft. A six hour wedding would take me days to edit. Please be mindful and respectful of time and effort when reaching out to a photographer.

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Respectfully, go fuck yourself. Being a mother is the HARDEST job you will ever do - coming from someone who is a business owner, has a degree and has worked in different industries nothing compares to being a mother. Don’t ever let anyone shit on you celebrating yourself.

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Can’t get over this video of me trying to feed the fiancé cake 😂 6ft7 vs 5ft4 🌳🦋

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Italy was an actual dream 📍Milan & Lake Como

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2 years

It’s important to understand your child’s needs versus the parent that you want to be. Oftentimes it’s easy to project your own childhood trauma on to your children, thinking that you’re being the ‘best’ parent possible, but in reality their needs aren’t being met.

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When my dad died I learned who my true friends are. There are some people I had literally known my whole life who didn’t even call, let alone attend his janazah/condolence gathering.

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Had such a pleasure shooting @ruqaiya_h civil ceremony & wedding over the weekend 🥹🥰 it was so so beautiful! Her wedding was one of my favs this year. May Allah bless you and your hubby with endless love and happiness 🤍

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I really don’t think it’s a big deal. I had my first marriage registered, his job is off the books and it didn’t benefit me financially. Regardless of registering your marriage or not, as women we should ensure that we have our own finances in check. Don’t rely on a man ever.

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@Aqid321

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Spent a lot of time today teaching the young girlies to get their marriages registered so they can get the rights they deserve ❤️

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1 year

Happiest day of my life الحمد لله 🤍💍

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2 years

As a woman I actually really agree with this. Men aren’t built the way we are, the soft approach doesn’t work with many of them.

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My mental health hasn’t been the greatest lately - I was telling my best friend that I really need to organise the kids wardrobe and so she offered to come do it whilst I’m at work. I came home to her having deep cleaned my whole house 🥹

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This is a hard one to unlearn, but the way a person treats you is a reflection of them and not you. You are deserving of love and kindness. You are important and you matter.

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As a female photographer I pride myself in doing all of my editing myself and making sure that NOBODY sees my private clients’ images. I edit every single picture myself (never in a public space) and it’s an exhausting labour of love.

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After years of going through the application process for BHA (Islamic school based in NW London) to receive state funding, they are now at risk of losing it if there aren’t enough Reception Class applicants for 2023! An amazing opportunity for FREE Islamic education

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How we see God is a direct reflection of how we see ourselves. If God brings to mind mostly fear and blame, it means there is too much fear and blame welled inside us. If we see God as full of love and compassion, so are we. ~ Shams Tabrizi

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2 years

There are so many people going through so much in life, and I’m ridden with guilt for not being there for them, but I literally don’t have the mental/emotional capacity to with everything that I’m going through myself. How do I fight off this feeling of guilt?

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This is not it. Most women I know who have ended up in a situation where they’re divorced tried their utmost best to save their marriage and divorce was an absolute last resort. At some point you need to save yourself. It’s an option for a reason.

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I’ve seen a recent trend where divorce is being glorified. Whether on this app or elsewhere and it’s mainly coming from sisters. Why?

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1 year

Just got back from my first solo trip and I definitely have a travel bug now, where to next?

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1 year

Have kids they said. It’ll be fun they said. I opened the oven to check on the chicken and my 2 year old came running towards the open oven door. Had to choose between saving her or the chicken.

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My 3yo’s finger got caught between a man’s bag and the bus pole and she was crying hysterically. She started giving the man evils and through sobs she cried ‘NO MORE STRAWBERRIES FOR YOU’. The man’s wife was wearing a strawberry jumper. 😂😭 🍓👆🏻🎒

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2 years

the sky chronicles 🌅

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This is awesome, shared childcare, a friend who can relate to lean on, kids raised as friends & siblings More women should do this!

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I don’t think I’ve ever enjoyed motherhood as much as I do now - as exhausted I am (2.5yo is going through a sleep regression + school runs, home and work) being in a mentally good place and in a healthy relationship makes the world of a difference 🥹🤍

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There’s nothing more beautiful than watching two completely different ethnicities/cultures come together under the commonality of Islam 🥰🤍

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I sent a client some previews of her wedding photos… she re-edited them (made them super bright and yellow) and uploaded them on Instagram … and idk how to feel about that 😭

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It’s so easy to look at a couple from the outside and think they’ve got everything they’ve wanted so easily. I’ve had so many comments under my engagement post asking ‘when’ it’ll be them, good things don’t come easily & it hasn’t been smooth sailing. Elhamdulilah for everything

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Nah this is so cute 🥹

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The way your life can entirely turn around is beyond beautiful - elhamdulilah x1000 for all of the blessings He has bestowed upon me. Truly after hardship comes ease 🤍

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2 years

I’m so tired of life. Honestly it’s so hard being a mum with very minimal support.

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3 years

My daughter is convinced that ‘Iftar’ is a person and daily asks when he’s coming. Today she made a card for ‘Iftar’ 😭

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1 year

Going to leave this here, this will now be muted ✌🏼

Salma

@ablasalma

1 year

Alhamdulillah that Islam allows for plurality of opinions. This opinion is not found in the 4 madhabs and they’re all in agreement that women can travel with other women they trust. They even agree she doesn’t need mahram depending on the time it takes to travel (pt 1)

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Whenever I tell anyone I’m getting married soon and mention having daughters they automatically start lecturing me about watching my fiancé closely. He’s more of a father to them than their father will ever be. I don’t have a single doubt about him. So sick of it.

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2 months

Imagine knowing such a small gesture holds high importance to your partner and STILL not doing it 😭 girl, he doesn’t love you. Stop compromising.

★𝐛𝐚𝐜𝐤𝐬𝐞𝐚𝐭 𝐛𝐚𝐛𝐲★

@prettyvirgomoon

2 months

You’ve been talking about not getting flowers since like 2020… clearly this is something you desire and he won’t do it…

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2 years

Sometimes dress up

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1 year

Sit around twiddling my thumbs waiting for a man and even that doesn’t guarantee that I’ll get to travel anywhere 😂

Hauwa 🌟🌬

@Hauwa_L

1 year

You people would rather she sit at home.

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7 months

Same sis same! I haven’t cooked a single day in Ramadan yet 👀 appreciation post @noorudeen 🤍

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@NotIbnEnu As beautiful as it is being a young parent you gain a lot more wisdom with age and understand the type of parent you want to be better! There’s hikmah behind everything, as much as you wanted it when you were younger you may have not been ready

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Introducing my baby boy 😻 any cute name suggestions pls?

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I’m convinced people on this app are smoking crack.

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I feel so sad that I’m not really looking forward to Ramadan this year. It’s the first Ramadan I’ll be spending alone and I probably won’t even be able to attend taraweeh much due to the kids. Single mama life is hard.

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Is it every day talk about mahr on the timeline? Mahr doesn’t define your worth girlies - ask for whatever you want but be reasonable.

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When posting these things do they not think of their future husband and how they/their family will react when they see this? 🤢 You’re literally ruining your own life yourself

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Feeling cute today. Am I ever going to stop wearing beiges and browns this winter? I think not 🤎

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The stars tonight 😍

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1 year

The big things aren't what break hearts. The big things aren't what destroy friendships. Its the little things.

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3 years

How hard is it to make a ladies only gym with a crèche? 😭

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1 year

Really need to get out of the Muslim wedding industry, it’s so unfortunate that with such a niche profession (being a FEMALE photographer) that clients still want to haggle prices. It takes physical labour and endless hours of editing to produce good quality work.

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Khadijah RA, the most beloved wife to the Prophet saw was a single mother when he married her. She was his FIRST wife (I’m not saying make your first a sm just explaining) and look at the high esteem she had.

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Don’t pressure yourself into giving into social media aesthetic It’s something I did for so long and would feel guilty for not having the prettiest setup for my kids I went super basic this year, make this a month of spiritual connection and not aesthetics

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2 years

Hope they cancel her visa for this 🙃

KEEFAYAHQ

@Keefayahq

2 years

Hajj with my husband😍…so we get to have halal sex in mecca….just imagine the view from those high rising apartment facing the Ka’abah

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Me to 5yo: give your sister a pancake please 5yo: she doesn’t want it! Me (to 2 yo): did you eat your pancake? 2yo: Amou (my husband) ate it!! I’m totally confused because it’s Ramadan? Ask him about it and he goes: she fed me!! Me: but… you’re fasting?

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Going to janazahs always make me think of my father Allah yer7amo, it’s always a heavy day 🥺

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1 year

Now THIS is what I call wedding goals 😍🤍

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3 years

How adorable is this cake I photographed at an aqeeqah this weekend 😍

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2 years

@afaxima @nightqueen03 There is something very wrong about single fathers wanting to remarry with a virgin. Society requires balance. It’s always best to marry someone in the same boat.

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@ssn1999x You said prayer is not permissible with them in the same sentence implying that prayer is also unaccepted. Regardless one should still pray with these things as they’ll still be questioned about prayer and its validity is a separate issue.

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Isn’t it crazy how as parents we understand what our kids say like it’s normal 1yo refers to baby shark as: bebe daaart How do I even know this pls

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You @noorudeen 🥹🤍

Qitma 🇵🇸

@QitmaNoor

1 year

Being married to my husband has got to be one of my life’s biggest blessings Alhamdulillah. He’s unknowingly healing my inner child and making me feel so safe everyday. I pray Allah grants everyone righteous spouses and genuine love because I think it makes the world kinder.

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Why do people assume that someone is entitled if they aren’t closely following international affairs? We weren’t created to consume so much soul destroying news. It had lead to desensitisation and a lack of empathy. There’s nothing wrong with protecting your heart.

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2 years

Nothing beats intellectual conversations that stimulate your soul and mind

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1 year

🌙✨ Eid Mubarak ✨🌙

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2 years

As a mum of 2 who also has a physically demanding job (photographer), being a SAHM is definitely NOT the soft life. Looking after the kids is way more tiring & difficult than working.

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Sometimes life just needs to take its course - you don’t always need to understand the ‘why’ in the moment, but I promise that one day it’ll all make perfect sense.

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1 year

Afghan men (yes I can generalise - I’ve met enough to know) are the worst 🤢

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My husbands family have been so loving and welcoming - I showed his grandmother a picture of my daughters on Eid, and she asked for it to be printed and framed for her wall where she keeps pictures of the family 🥺🥹

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