have u ever noticed that u never realize how lonely u are until it's the end of the day and u got alot of things to talk about but there's no one there to talk to
i respect a person who knows their energy is off and keeps their distance because they don't want to transfer it onto you. i don't think some people understand how real that is
i hate the fact that i require so much reassurance, like things could be going perfectly fine but there's always a part of me that believes that it's all a lie
y'all don't realize how much communication can really change stuff...a simple "i'm busy all afternoon imma call you tonight & i'll text you when i can" instead of just not communicating goes a longggg way
behind a girl that wants to do everything with you, is a girl who always sad by herself, ate by herself, played by herself, walked by herself, vented to herself, cried by herself & went through everything by herself
i think one of the most important qualities you need in a partner is a partner who is considerate. someone who can look at things from your point of view, who considers how you're feeling when things are rough, someone who creates a space for you to feel safe and vice versa
i’m starting to understand and relate to those people who disappear when going through stuff then reappear later after they've sorted themselves out. sometimes someone just needs a break from everyone and everything and it's okay
there's a big difference between a man that really loves you and wants to build a life with you and a man just stays around so no other man can have you
sometimes people need their space. they're not cutting you off, they just need time to breathe and take care of themselves. that has nothing to do with you
finally starting to realize i need to just let things be and stop trying so hard to force things to happen in my life because if they are supposed to happen, they just will
"you handled it so well" yes, because no one noticed those tears, no one heard the loud screams in my head, no one offered a shoulder where i can lean on, no one saw me crying my heart out. with all those silent battles, i'm deeply glad for surviving
what's sexy is a man preparing himself to be a husband. getting his priorities in line, credit right, building his relationship with God so he'll know how to love his family
it's always “be nice to your parents, they did so much for you” but never “be gentle to your child, she's trying her best to continue with life just to make you proud”