Class in Session: Head 101 with
@Lotanaa
And while different women and vulva owners prefer different things, there’s barest minimum and basics we should always expect e.g communication and reading reactions/body language.
New episode is live today. 💕
On this new episode, our host is joined by an Adult Film Star
@badgalwunmin
, they take a glimpse into the Nigerian porn industry.
She shares her experiences being a porn actress and navigating the adult content scene in Nigeria, dealing with the attention, revenue and much more
It does look like most of
@lavezzedout
sex stories are actual realities 👀. And with the pros superseding the cons - Lavezz, come list out the other pros of being an Erotic writer, we are taking note 😅
Tap the link in to watch this episode!
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On this new episode, our host is joined by queer activist, creative and writer -
@Ani_Kayode
and they dive into a multifaceted discussion about the politics and realties of queerness and activism in Nigeria.
Tap the link in bio to listen to this super packed episode now!
True liberation and self-actualization is deeply connected to sexual freedom and everyone should feel safe enough to show up in the world as their true selves.
@AshleyOkoli
shares some of her journey on the latest episode.
Watch it on YouTube 👇
@badgalwunmin
speaks on the pros and cons of mainstream vs independent adult film entertainment and why she did prefers having her own channel.
Tap the link below to watch this episode
A super gem
@Ani_Kayode
dropped on this episode is learning to question our desires and preferences. How did you come to like what you like? Where did you learn what is desirable to you? What is the political consequence of openly expressing your preferences?
New episode alert! 🚨
For our 10th episode, our host is joined by
@Lotanaa
and they discuss oral sex. The attitudes towards giving and receiving oral sex, funny experiences, preferences and some tips.
Episode is live on audio streaming platforms, tap the link in bio!
Long time no solo!
So much of sex begins in the mind and as mental health awareness month draws to a close, we peek into the nexus between mental health and sex
How are they connected, sexual wellness, the psychological benefits of a good sex life and sexual dysfunctions.
Another friday and you know what's up😉
On this new episode, your fav host is joined by two erotic writers -
@theorebadmus_
&
@lavezzedout
They talk about erotica, the art of sex writing and sexual fantasies. They also discuss multipartnered sexual relationships
Link in bio!
A myth we heard growing up is ‘’Virgins’ don’t know what bad sex is.’ we think this is a big lie passed on to ‘encourage’ sexual purity. If it doesn’t feel good, your body will tell you.
Tap the link to watch this episode with
@IamAnnyRobert
on YouTube!
New episode alert!🚨
Our host holds a really
insightful conversation about sexual safety with award winning writer and activist
@tayobero
They discuss what safety truly means with sex outside of the physical… sexual agency, power dynamics and the radicalisation of pleasure.
You know it’s double trouble when
@H_L_MA
links up with
@SGaWD01
🔥🔥
Check out our latest episode “Transactional Sex and the Billings Pandemic” 💫
Link to listen 🔗 ✨
New episode alert! 🚨
This week, our host is joined by Coco for a super interesting discussion about sexuality.
They talk about the continuum of sexuality and attraction, nuances and how conditioning can affect how people show up in the world sexually and romantically.
What’s the deal with sex and periods? Unless you’re really averse to blood, there's no need to avoid sexual activity during your period. Though period sex can be a bit messy, it is safe and we debunk a few myths on the episode.
We also share some period sex tips. Link in bio!
Men will always jump at the mention of an FFM (Female Female Male) threesome but won’t accept an MMF threesome, why? It’s an annoying double standard. Why are you afraid of being around body parts you have inside your pants?
And btw, like I always say - f*ck with the lights on.
We Are Back! (or almost 😉).
The Second season of “Spit or Swallow Podcast” kicks off this Friday!
Turn on all notifications cause we're coming with so much heat and you wouldn't want to miss a thing.
When last did you get tested? 👀
For our last episode of the season,
@H_L_MA
was joined by health professional, Dr. Stallion
@jeffoshodi
to discuss sexually transmitted infections, diseases and other sexy time infections.
Click the link below to listen!
Yes, there is a Nigerian Porn Industry but is it thriving? Maybe no, much like some of old Nollywood, there is definitely room for improvement. Well, unless of course you’re into that quality and aesthetic of adult entertainment 😅
Tap the link in bio to listen to our latest EP.
And, we are live!🚨
For the first episode of the season, our host
@H_L_MA
is joined by the super talented singer
@RnBPrincess_
We take a peek into out host's DMs👀 and talk about interesting “Sex Lives Of’ submissions with a few, hilarious sex stories to top it off. Link in bio
Have you ever wondered what being with an erotic guide is like?
@joykebu
joins our host on this amazing episode dispelling myths and teaching us a few things about spirituality, intimacy and polyamory.
#sospodcast
#spitorswallow
It was great having
@ozzyetomi
in the studio!
Big love to everyone supporting & sharing the Pod ❤️
Keep listening to “Polyamory, Consensual Non-Monogamy, etc”..
Tap the link below to listen ⬇
We often ask people to communicate during sex but a larger and important challenge is how this information is received. Do you prefer direct and clear communication or do you like the space to figure things out with gentle instructions?
Watch the full EP
Do you have reservations planting some on your partner’s face?
@hausachocolate
definitely had
@sonariwoondeck
shook in this episode!
Tap the link below to listen to this fully loaded episode.
🔗
This week
@tayobero
and I discuss emotional and psychological safety during Sex, power dynamics, sexualized violence and more.
Tap link in below to watch.
Don't forget to share, like and subscribe ❤️
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But really, must you bust a nut all the time? Can't you cuddle for hours?
Sometimes a good cuddle may just be better than sex, you know 🤭, well with someone that can actually cuddle.
Seen our latest episode with Alexis? Tap the link in bio to watch and listen now!
Word on the street is Men in America are the real eaters. Nigerian men, avenge yourselves!
Go watch the latest episode with and
@cheronkgriffin
and Mr. Hunni Bunni on YouTube! Listen wherever you listen to podcasts and don’t forget to share!
…
#sospod
On this episode, Our host is joined by”The Most Toasted Girl”, Actress, Director and Singer -
@TheNengers
and they discuss going from the streets to the sheets and the messiness that happens in between.
Tap the link below to listen!
You know we keep it 100 on this podcast,
@TheNengers
is now a witness😅
Let’s hear it for you guys, what’s the shortest time it has taken you to go from the streets to the sheets? Tell us in the comments.
Watch this episode on YouTube. Like and share 💕
This week
@hausachocolate
is joined by
@ozzyetomi
to discuss relationships styles such as Polyamory and Consensual Non-Monogamy in the Nigerian context and why there seems to be a general lack of honesty in a lot of relationships.
Tap the link to listen👇
There are really levels to deep throating, massive shoutout to all the throat GOATs out there (not me though)🙌🏽😅
Seen our latest episode yet with Valerie Ike? Tap the link below for all of it!
It’s been an amazing 1st Season and we are so happy with the growth & support for the Podcast since we launched ❤️
None of this would have been possible without our host
@H_L_MA
who has graced us with beauty & wisdom episode per episode 😍
Keep listening
You def want to have a partner who is mindful of your pain and pleasure if you’re having an*l sex.
Pre, during & post care is necessary to prevent injury and have a pleasure experience. Remember to start smaller, go slow and use lots and lots of lube, after that, add more lube.
Sexual relationships manifest the power dynamics of each couple. A healthy power dynamic encourages each partner to understand and make space for the other and also give room for proper Yes/No/Maybe communication.
Have you seen our latest episode with
@tayobero
? Link in bio!
And for our 16th episode, we sat with
@Edgothboy
to discuss “Age Gaps, Ratchet F***s & Dependable F***s”
We can’t believe we’re approaching the end of our first season!😩
Hit the link below to listen to all your favourite episodes and share too ❤
Does it always end in tears?😂
How important is openness in a polyamorous relationship? Is it weird to feel jealous? What expectations do you have of your partner(s)?
Listen to
@H_L_MA
&
@ozzyetomi
on “Polyamory, Consensual Non-Monogamy, etc”✨
Link 👇
So, Reintroduction - for those that don’t know my many names!😝
But yeah, this podcast is all about tearing down stereotypes around sex
Ok, can you listen to this podcast in public with no headphones and you won't feel some type of way? Exactly!
For all episodes - Link in bio
Some like it fresh, some like it a little spicy, this is why communication in any sexual relationship is key for growth. What if your partner loves to eat it musty and you just come in and wash off the seasonings of the day? 😂
Catch out latest episode with Valerie. Link in bio!
New episode out now featuring the lovely Mene ! 🚨
Is having sex with your friends a big deal? Does it have to change the friendship for better or worse?
Listen to this week’s episode: “If You Can’t F*** Your Friends, Who Can You F***?”
Link below
How can you have better sex?
If you’ve listened to the last episode you definitely heard most of these but just ICYMI, here’s a list of a few ways to improve your sex life.
#sexpodcast
#spitorswallowpod
Ms
@cheronkgriffin
and her husband Mr. Hunni Bunny teach us that there is no age limit to keeping things spicy! We just loved listening to their love story!
Watch full episode -
#sospodcast
#spitorswallowpod
New Episode Alert🚨
This week, multifaceted artiste/rap goddess
@SGaWD01
to discuss Transactional Sex and how it differs from Sex Work. They also talk about the ‘Billings’ pandemic, Lagos streets and if there is true romance without finance.
Listen here
On today’s episode of the podcast,
@HausaChocolate
sits with erotic goddess, a reiki healer, companion and guide -
@Joykebu
They talk about the connection between sex and spirituality, helping men access deeper intimacy and their inner eros and much more!
Link in bio to listen.
On this brand new episode, our host is joined by visual artist - Alexis and they have a conversation about bad sexual communication during sex.
We say ‘communication’ is the bedrock of good sex but what are the wrong ways to do it in and out of the bedroom?
Let's find out!
“If you are going to be sleeping with younger people, there’s a financial cost to it” -
@Edgothboy
What are your thoughts on this? Share them in the comments.
To catch the full episode, listen to “Age Gaps, Ratchet F**ks & Dependable F**ks”
Link below
Joining our host for the final episode of the season is Tushar Hathi and they talk labels, gender and queer sex!… What it’s really like to be questioning while actively exploring your identity in the tumultuous yet exciting city of Eko! (Lagos 😉)
Tap the link in bio!
Our host is joined by
@SonariwoOnDeck
&
@olumurewa
of
@menismspod
on this new episode.
Know that thing where some men reserve missionary for ‘wifey’ and get freaky with the babes on the streets- The Madonna-Whore complex. That’s what we’re talking about and more!
Link in bio!
This week we had
@IamAnnyRobert
on the podcast.
He joins our host to talk about the sexual expectations of men and the intricacies of coming into oneself sexually.
Tap the link below to listen to this episode! 🤗
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Sex drive is a person's desire to engage in sexual activity, your sex drive changes as you age with hormones, lifestyle and health playing a massive role.
Y'all watch after yourselves to retain effective performance😅
We had a full table courtesy of Hurricane Toys
Link in bio!
The Most Toasted Girl
@thenengers
and
@HausaChocolate
discuss what you would do if a couple propositioned you.
Would you be more comfortable if the woman approached you vs the man? Or would you shut both of them down?
How do you express intimacy when you’re asexual?
We had Enee williams in the studio sharing her own forms of intimacy, as an artist and multi-creative ❤️
You can check out the full episode with the link below
Sex is a sensory experience and you owe it to yourself to have sexual encounters that get your neurons firing. In the wise words of
@Edgothboy
#MidSexIsBadSex
😌
Have you seen our latest episode? We talked about how much our senses come into play during sex
Tap the link in bio!
We had so much fun recording this episode, we literally did a photoshoot 😂
So, take 4.🤭
S/o to Mene for coming through and being such a vibe ❤️
Keep listening to our latest episode (and the old ones too)..
Link below
STI’s aren’t only passed among people, you can get them from infected toys too(we don't recommend sharing 👀)
If you must, make sure they are properly disinfected between each use.
Moral of the story -keep it clean, always.
Check out this episode ft Jeff Oshodi.
Link in bio
“Men want to be taken care of too"
@H_L_MA
🗣 on how problematic the double standards that exist within transactional relationships are, where men are expected to be sole providers regardless of what they earn.
Listen to the full episode ft
@SGaWD01
On this brand new episode of the podcast. Our host is joined by storyteller -
@TheValerieEkpo
and the girls talk red!
They discuss Periods, PMS, PMDD, and other conditions like PCOS and Endometriosis.
They also talk about period sex and period shame.
Tap the link in bio now!
Sex can be more than just a physical act; it’s a sacred experience where souls connect, merging energies and emotions in a deeply intimate union.
It transcends the physical realm, evoking feelings of unity and spiritual fulfillment. However this is a wildly subjective experience
Have you seen our final episode of the season?
Tap the link to watch as Tushar joins our host to discuss “Living In A Post-Label Lagos”!
Don’t forget to like, share and subscribe 💕
On our last ‘Sex Lives Of’ for this season, we peek into the sex life of a single ‘Sales Expert’ who is passionate about pleasing in tongues.. or whatever he said 😂
See her responses through the thread🧵
Retweet your best frame + leave a comment ✨
What are your thoughts on transactional sex?
Is there a difference being spent on as a babe and being seen as billings?
Hear more on our latest episode “Transactional Sex and the Billings Pandemic” (ft.
@SGaWD01
)
Link to listen below✨
Men often exclude themselves from wellness discussions and this does everyone a disservice.
Expanding male representation in sexual wellness professions promotes diverse perspectives, fosters inclusivity, and encourages open dialogue about sexual health and relationships.
No amount of violence will stop queer people from existing and we will do better coexisting than trying to force our ideals and preferences on others.
Tap the link in bio to watch and listen to our latest episode with
@Ani_Kayode
This week our host is joined by talented rapper, singer & songwriter Yazzavelli who shares her unique experience with being over-sexualized within her industry.
Listen to the full episode here:
New Episode Alert🚨
@H_L_MA
is joined by Yazzavelli - talented rapper, singer & songwriter to discuss the oversexualization of baddies who are more embracing of their sexuality & choose to not conform to societal expectations.
Listen to this episode here
Long time, no solo!
Our host takes us through an in-depth discussion into having better and more enjoyable sex.
She dissects popular sexual myths, various sexual preferences, and how to be more comfortable with sex.
Listen to "How to Have Better Sex”
Introducing New SOS pod Series: ‘Sex Lives Of’ 🚨
In the very first “Sex Lives Of” entry, we have the sex life of a faithful married man living in Lagos.
Thread to see his responses ⬇️
Notice how
@H_L_MA
looks good with everyone 👀
It was so great having Jeff Oshodi in the studio for our last episode ❤️
Go check it out if you haven’t already!
Link in bio ✨
"If you can't fuck your friend, who else can you fuck?"
Not just a question btw, but the title of our new episode. 😉
Episode out, tap the link below to listen now!
Do like and share ✨
No buttons were harmed in the making of this episode. 😌
From the dance floor to our mics, Sugar Ken joins our host for the latest episode, taking us behind the scenes of what it’s like being a male stripper.
Episode now is live on YouTube - tune in with the link in bio!
Happy International Women’s Day!✨
Today, we honour the life and legacy of Audre Lorde for everything she has done for women around the world.
We celebrate her as a feminist, an activist and as a poet who has had a profound influence on many movements.
#embraceequity
#IWD2023
We’re baaaaack like a BBL!
Season three of “Spit or Swallow” Podcast is here and we're getting hotter and diving even deeper!
Clutch your pearls, grab your popcorn, note pads and maybe some lube. It’s going to be an amazing season!
The first episode is live for listening. 💖
Do you really have friends or do you have crouching tigers and hidden dragons? 🤣👀
This episode hit home for a lot of us I see.
Click the link below to listen to the full episode.
Do you forgive the first round?🤔
It’s not just important to communicate but how you communicate can be a reason you’re not having better sex.
Click the link below to listen to the full episode ✨