"O Allah, make me better than what they think of me, and forgive me for what they do not know about me, and do not take me to account for what they say about me”
-Abu Bakr (RA)
May Allah grant us steadfastness and easy in carrying out acts of worship for his sake
أمين
Advice to married brothers.
Ibn Aqeel رحمه الله Said:
"When the wise man is alone with his wife, he should then leave his intellect in a corner as a respected shaykh and (start) joking and fooling around with her to give her and her soul it's rights.
And when he is alone with..
It was said to Aisha رضي الله عنه
Which type of woman is best?
She said: "The one who does not know about saying bad things, and she is not crafty like men; her focus is on adorning herself for her husband and taking care of her family."
"mashallah ur so pretty"
"mashallah ur makeup😍”
"allahumma barik ur outfit”
Imam Ibn Al-Qayyim رحمه الله said:
"Whoever congratulates a person for
disobedience, innovation or disbelief has exposed himself to the hatred and
wrath of Allah."
(Ahkam Ahludh-Dhimmah 1/441)
Ibn al-Qayyim رحمه الله said:
"Women (wives) are the cause of happiness of the heart; that's why they're also called the reason to the happiness of the soul!"
(Rawdat al-Muhibeen (p. 217)
The sweetness of a righteous wife:
Ibn Al Jawzi رحمه الله:
“A man's life is full of misery that he can't overcome without the sweetness of a women by his side”
کتاب صيد الخاصر
Salih Al-Fawzaan حفظه الله:
“A man who enters a empty house and has no wife, lives a difficult
As a Muslim woman, you shouldn’t be accessible to all men, nor found joking, flirting, laughing with them or known/heard by them.
Except for your modesty, being hard to reach and reserved.
Stay unknown and don’t lower your value by making yourself easily accessible to men.
“Don’t preach if you don’t practice” “Practice what you preach”
Hasan al-Basri said to Mutarraf Ibn Abdullah:
"Advise your companions!"
He replied: "I am scared to say something to them that I do not practise myself."
Hasan said: "May Allah have mercy upon you! Who is there..
Ibn Al Arabi Al Maliki رحمه الله said:
"A righteous wife does not come due to your efforts rather she is a provision that is handed over to the one who fears his Lord."
[Ahkam-ul-Qur'an 1/536]
Don’t make halal what is haram.
Music, birthdays, tabarrujj, free mixing, new year, tabarrujj again, lucky charms, drinking/smoking, plucking your eyebrows etc
I see this a lot specially in Muslim countries, May Allah swt guide us.
I heard about this sister who asked her husband to recite Surah Baqarah for 40 days in front of her as her mehr.
سبحان الله , that's truly what will bring barakah to their marriage. May Allah bless their marriage.
Feminist logic:
✅Khadijah was a business woman
❌Khadijah obeyed her husband
❌Khadijah took care of her husband/ house
❌ Khadijah completely covered
❌Khadijah stayed away from men
❌Khadijah sacrificed her wealth to follow her husbands path
The Fitnah of the Women.
Shaykh Al Albani رحمه الله said:
“By Allah, I have certainly reached the age of 74 and I still fear the temptation of women for myself,
So what about the others from amongst the youth?”
[Silsila Al-Huda Wa-n Noor 212]
I don’t understand how you, as a man, want a righteous wife who doesn’t post herself online, etc., but you entertain other girls until you’re ready for marriage.
May Allah protect us from these types of men.
🧵•Teach your sons & daughters tawheed by regularly asking and repeating them these questions•
I’m gonna be placing 33 questions with answers ان شاء الله
↓
Your small home is the dream of every homeless.
Your little money is the dream of every debtor.
Your health is the dream of every ill.
Your smile is the dream of every depressed.
Allah concealing your sins is the dream of every exposed.
Always say الحمدلله, because we have-
What’s recommended to read in the sunnah prayer of fajr.
1st rak'ah - Surah Kafirun
2nd rak'ah - Surah Ikhlas
[Riyad as-Salihin 1108]
“The two Rak'ah before the dawn (Fajr) prayer are better than this world and all it contains”
[Sahih Muslim 725]
Backbiting.
A man said to Hasan Al-al-Basri رحمه الله:
"Indeed, someone has backbitten you."
He sent a dish of sweet dates to the backbiter saying:
"I heard that you have given me your good deeds as a gift, so I want to repay you for it, but please excuse me for I am unable…
This sister has returned back Allah swt.
Go and repost her videos as a sadaqa jhariyah and even benefit from her posts ان شاء الله.
This is also a reminder for you, to look at the things you post/repost on sm, it can either be a regret or a benefit.
Tomorrow is never promised.
🤦🏽♀️okay read all this:
Khadijah (ra) inherited her business and wealth from her husband who had passed away (before the prophet).
Her business of buying/selling was conducted by MEN on her behalf.
She did not communicate directly with men, her servants did this on her behalf.
Moments of Regret mentioned in the Quran:
"I wish death was the end"
69:27
"Woe to me! I wish I had never taken so-and-so as a close friend."
25:28
"I wish i were dust"
78:40
"Oh! I wish I had followed the Way along with the Messenger!"
25:27
"My lord, send me back"
23:99
Shaykh Salih Al-Fawzan حفظه الله said:
"The woman without a man is suffering and the man without a woman is suffering.
As for when two suitable spouses join together, this is from the complete blessings (of Allah upon them both)."
[l'anah al-Mustafid 2/206]
We have reached some very strange times.
People are afraid of marriage but not afraid of zina.
People are afraid of poverty but not afraid of riba and Haram.
We have reached times in which women show their faces and cover the faces of their husbands.
If you still simp over celebrities, interact with the opposite gender, liking their media, etc..
Don’t expect that you’ll magically stop doing that when you get married.
If you don’t stop for the sake of Allah and for yourself, you’re not doing it for your spouse.
Priorities.
amongst us who does everything he says?
This is how Shaytan attains his objective, so that no one enjoins goodness and forbids evil."
(Tafsir al-Qurtubi, 1/367)
Ibn al-Jawzi رحمه الله said:
"Work for a day, the day you die, so that you'll be laughing with joy, while they'll be crying for you."
[Sayd ul-Khatir | Pg. 203]
•Who's a Sahabi?•
1. Met the Prophet.
2. Believed in him.
3. Died upon Islam.
[Ibn Hajr Asqalaani's al-Isaba 1/7]
•Difference between us and the Sahaba•
Hasan al-Basri رحمه الله said:
“If you had seen the Sahabah, you would've said: They're crazy!
If the Sahabah had…
“When he has a full beard😍”
“When he’s a hafiz😍”
This type of “trends” open the doors of riya and will more or less affect the intentions of many people.
Growing a beard is for following the sunnah.
Memorizing the qur'an is purely and only done for the sake of Allah.
For what I’ve seen, some sisters on this app need to learn to stay quiet and away from drama, fitna, and using vulgar language.
If it’s not your business don’t get involved. Don’t speak about what does not concern you. You’re just accumulating sins and involving others with you.
Shaykh 'Abd Al-Razzāq Ibn 'Abd Al-Muhsin Al-Abbād حفظه الله said:
"The more that a woman stays in the home and lessens her trips outside, except for a need, the closer that is to her Rabb and attaining His mercy."
[Piece of Advice and Admonition for the women, pg. 28]
Be careful who you choose to be friends with.
There are sisters giving bad advices to married sisters just because they hate men or had a bad experience with them.
Like telling them to not have intimacy with them on their wedding night, etc.
Cut them off right away.
Sayyar reported from Riyah who said:
"A woman was mentioned to me, so I married her.
Whenever she finished praying 'isha, she would perfume herself, adorn herself with incense and wear her (fine) clothes.
Then she would approach me and ask:
"Do you have a need?"
If I said yes,
People shouldn't fall off once they're married.
Don’t stop setting goals, pursuing them, and taking care of your appearance and body.
A lack of self-care can affect your marriage; you get too comfortable you start gaining weight, and so on.
Yeah, you got married, but now what?
Sheikh ibn Uthaymin said:
"there is nothing wrong with asking for some worldly things, such as saying:
"o allaah, give me a spacious house"
"o allaah, give me a beautiful wife"
"o allaah, bless me with abundant wealth"
"o allaah, give me a comfortable car"
that is because…
It’s sad how some muslim women try to make the hijab more acceptable to the western society by wearing tight clothes, lots of makeup, flashy accessories, treating the scarf like a fashion accessory.
Just making the real hijab look bad and harder for others.
الله يهديهم.
Be Good to those who treat you bad!
Ibn Kathir said:
"Whoever is bad towards you, repel his harm by showing him your goodness."
Tafsir Ibn Kathir (41:34)
She never travelled to do business or worked in an office or any mixed enviroment.
She stayed at home, her business was conducted from home.
All the western obsessed, liberal, feminsts who incorrectly use khadijah (RA) as an excuse to justify their evil lifestyle need to stop
Why is Zina more normalized and accepted than polygamy?
Zina-> This act harms well-being and distorts expectations in male and female relationships and it’s Haram.
Polygamy-> Produces physical, social and emotional benefits leading to a well balanced society and its Halal.
Female Servant Of Allah,
"your mirror is your husband"
Display the beauty that he desires.
Be a righteous wife to him.
Be pleasant for him with your clothing and the upkeep of your home.
(Book: Divorce Its Reason and Its Cures. P. 40)
Ibn al-Jawzi رحمه الله said:
If the wife does not look after herself, shortcomings will become apparent leading to her husband being turned off and causing him to look for another wife and so forth. The same is requested also from the husband who needs to look his best and adorn
You “wear” the hijab and show yourself online but you cover your husband’s face?
You’re afraid of poverty but not of Haram money and Riba?
You’re committing Zina but you’re afraid of marriage?
Very strange times, may Allah guide us all.
“Its just a small sin it’s ok”
The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said:
"Beware of minor sins. Verily, they pile upon a man until he is ruined."
[Musnad Ahmad 3808]
Al Imam ibn al-Jawzi رحمه الله said:
"One of the deceptions employed by Iblees (Shaytan) is to persuade people to…
Don’t use social media for male attention or to create unnecessary fitnah.
Use it as something beneficial not to share unnecessary things about yourself/life for other men to see.
Women should be more careful in terms of using social media and not be so easy and cheap on them.
The role of a man in our Ummah is so important.
Specially to lead us the sisters, so I blame men for the lack of Haya sisters have, they give them all that attention and compliments they’re seeking, without shame.
Men are the ones that are leading women to act the way they act.
Don’t be posting the ss of someone approaching you privately on ur dms.
It’s literally an amanah.
It’s embarrassing seeing ppl sharing the ss trying to make fun of them or whatever.
Remember you can close ur dms if u don’t want them, stop w the attention seeking, too childish👍🏽
seen you, they'd say: They're not Muslims!”
[al-Hilyah 2/1324]
Ibrahim Al-Taymi رحمه الله said:
"What a difference there is between you people and the earlier ones!
This Dunya came towards them, but they fled away from it,
Whereas it moves away from you, and you chase after-