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🪷 Empowering women to realize their worth. Real, raw, and ready to elevate lives. 𝓝𝓮𝓮𝓭 𝓐𝓭𝓿𝓲𝓬𝓮? Click my link to book your 1:1 mentoring call.

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@simply_sheneka
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5 months
Men like this get the best version of a woman. Consistently.
@_speedfromtx
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When she has the slightest inconvenience thinking her world is over & you solve it with ease….
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The more you confidently turn down anything that doesn't meet your standards, the easier it becomes to prioritize yourself and stay true to what you really want. Saying 'no' to low-value situations actually empowers you to make choices that align with your own worth and ideals.
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@simply_sheneka
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Black women need to realize that in the black community any basic standard that you have will be critiqued because we are seen as undeserving. Please stop getting on the internet and letting the world know what you require in relationships or goals you have…⬇️
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@simply_sheneka
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2 months
Stop telling men about your triggers and insecurities. You should hold the emotional side of yourself close to your heart until he proves himself to you and earns it. Men only value things they worked hard to get. Stop giving these men weapons to use against you.
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6 months
It's so sad that women will risk all they've worked for and accomplished on a loser man due to loneliness.
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7 months
Young ladies please please please stand firm in your values. Do not bend them for the sake of having someone to do life with.
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1 year
You must move in silence because it breeds jealously from other women. If the goal is for you to land a wealthy man, you will not get far by having a bestie in your ear taking notes, or discouraging you from it because she's a pick me or jealous.
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@simply_sheneka
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6 months
Being with the wrong man makes you unattractive. This is my life theory. They are energy vampires and suck the life out of you.
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1 year
More women need to do whatever it takes to move up in life and get into better positions instead of staying where they are.
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2 years
move in silence I beg of you all. The one who moves in silence always comes out on top and gets to the goal they aspire for themselves not everything needs to be shared.
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4 months
Women like her will say anything against black women for a man to applaud them. Equal rights and treatment of women has nothing to do with who chooses to pay for dinner. And splitting bills with a man who cheats on you and led to you catching a case is beyond ignorant.
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Cardi B says bills should be split 50/50 during convo with Wallo.
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1 year
Don’t involve yourself with men who rob you of your femininity.
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@simply_sheneka
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8 months
Any man that does not want to invest in you or go out of his way to impress and genuinely get to know you outside in the open is a man not worth knowing. Keep your standards high and your tolerance for bs low.
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1 year
Black women's most urgent problem is that they need to adopt higher value systems and prioritize themselves, not that they need to choose better men.
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@simply_sheneka
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You date/marry men on your level or above. Financial, empathy, values, commitment, morals, ethics, character...goals. If he mistreats others he will mistreat you. It is who he is.
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@simply_sheneka
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2 years
Love is something that develops when you feel safe, provided for, and guided.
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@simply_sheneka
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10 months
Black women, invest more money into yourself, and traveling. Men all over the world desire us. I wouldn't tell you anything wrong.
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1 year
A man will always bring you to his level... that's either up or down.
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1 year
When a man who is already committed to another woman initiates contact, you should take a good, hard look at yourself and realize that he has no respect for you.
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3 months
Getting pregnant by a boyfriend is where most women mess up at. The bare minimum should be marriage and assets.
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2 months
My father instilled in me that a man should never ask a woman for money.
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7 months
Unless a woman is marrying UP, she gains nothing beneficial from marriage at all. Marriage was not created to benefit women at all unless they married someone of a completely different socioeconomic class than them.
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1 year
If a man isn't excited and super enthusiastic to be with you, you shouldn’t be interested.
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11 months
I know the truth might be intimidating to insecure women but the girls that want it bad enough are leveling up and getting exactly what they want.
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2 years
I don’t believe in pursuing men. If a man wants you he will come and get you.
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1 year
If you are beautiful, life will definitely be more easier for you. And if you are smart and strategic, and can actually capitalize and profit off your beauty, you will do well in life and have access to any man you desire, regardless of race.
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4 months
The highest honor you could give a man is a baby. Why give that to someone who hasn’t married you?
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1 year
Black women need to realize that in the black community any basic standard that you have will be critiqued because we are seen as undeserving. Please stop getting on the internet and letting the world know what you require in relationships or goals you have, move in silence.
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You don’t want a man with a scarcity mindset. If a guy has a need to run through as many attractive woman as possible, that should tell you he's insecure and immature. You desire a man who’s selective and who would make a good father.
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2 years
Dating apps don't have quality men, psychology today even talked about that. Those men on those apps are socially akward, lazy, weird, just ugh!
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If your man is not spending on you, someone else is getting that money.
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1 year
Never allow yourself to be seen as a pretty bum.
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Don’t let yourself get too stressed over anything.
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1 year
Date the marrying kind only. Dating is not supposed to be longterm. Leave these longterm situationships alone.
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Date and vet multiple men until a man you like proposes. It is not difficult so let's stop making dating difficult. What you see is what you will get. Ladies stop super gluing yourselves to men like white on rice and playing wife. If he wants a wife then he needs a ring as well
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2 years
Never date a man that’s comfortable watching you struggle.
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1 year
Women like summer walker continue to be disrespected & discarded by men because she doesn’t know her real value. After the first mistake, learn your lesson so that you don’t continue on a repetitive of cycle of shitty men.
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Honestly, when certain men overlook you, and pass you by, sometimes, in your quiet moments, just say “Thank you, God” even when you don’t understand. Sometimes, God can hide your value from certain people—and what we perceive to be a loss, is actually our greatest protection.
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3 years
Providers don’t judge women. Takers do.
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If a man isn't taking initiative in the beginning of a relationship when he's supposed to be wooing you, then he won't take initiative during the rest of relationship when the passion is likely to fade.
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If you’re going to stay…spend his money. Use all his resources. Don’t let your “staying” be in vain. Drain that man. Mentally and financially. The End.
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Men are not complicated. So if you're wondering if he likes you, HE DOESN'T like you. If he did, you'd know it! Focus on your own goals and enjoy your life. Stop centering men all the time! Romantic relationships should complement your life, not be the center of it.
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@TheFineFeminine This is why I tell women, especially black women to not share so much online, because so many women are haters, very envious and jealous.
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@simply_sheneka
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1 year
Get in the receiving and deserving energy. This, I'm telling you, is one of the essential SECRETS to seeing good things happen in your life, ladies.
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11 months
I refuse to fraternize with ratchet people cause eventually their fuckery will enter your life.
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1 year
If he can’t plan a date, he can’t be a leader and head of household for his family.
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Whatever you do, stay away from miserable women.
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Normalize giving up on men who couldnt prove that they deserve a relationship.
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6 months
I’ve seen several women saying how they love to "spoil" their men. My take: Masculine men aren't looking to be "spoiled". The feminine ones are.
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3 years
You gain your power back when you walk away at the first sign of disrespect and never look back. Don’t explain why. Just ghost him. No matter how much it hurts. And never ever look back. He will never forget you. And it will hurt his ego forever.
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2 years
Too many women are trying to turn unwilling men into providers and too many men are trying to turn women into unwilling indentured servants. Women need to find men who are not only providers, but ones who willingly do it well.
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11 months
I wish that more women would become NUMB to being called "gold diggers" instead of accepting broke men to prove that they aren't. Men approach women assessing what they can get out of us and how they can benefit materially.
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10 months
People can’t change/ruin what they don’t know. Most women are in the habit of oversharing, over-explaining, and constantly pleading a case for their decisions. You don’t need anyone to know, approve of or co-sign your decisions.
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1 year
If you dont hear from him in 5 days or you have to reach out to him before he will make any contact, he is not that interested. Block and move on.
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Never date men below your level because it will never work out. Date men on your level and above. Yes I know 80% of women want to date the same 20% of men so many women will not date their counterpart.
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10 months
Always choose yourself first.
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5 months
Marrying a man without a complete background, health and financial investigation is absolutely wild to me.
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9 months
Listen, a man who loves you will want to elevate you, not drag you down. A true partnership is about mutual growth and respect. It's not about you bearing the brunt of struggles while he's off doing God knows what.
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This is why I advise against engaging in casual sex just for the sake of it. You might not realize the immense sacred energy you’re surrendering, and these men are aware of it; they exploit it. Take this example: there was a man who, without a job or a car, was intimate with
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Having sëx, catering to a man, and making his life easier is NOT a down payment to get a serious relationship. You can do all of that, but he doesn't owe you anything in return. He can use you and then walk away without a care.
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1 year
Spend time to educate yourself ladies. The more you know, the more you evolve. Knowledge is your most powerful weapon.
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1 year
A man can hate your guts, want you to literally die, and they will still want to have sex with you. Women who date men need to get this, please: sexual attention from men means nothing! There are ways to tell if they actually like you, but this is not one of them!
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Being too nice, agreeable, accommodating and permissive is bad in dating.
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2 years
My biggest piece of advice for everyone is to only date men who are going to enhance your life. Do not date men because you have feelings for them. Feelings will only complicate your life and distract you from your goals.
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Some men will make it seem like their money is the best you’ll ever get, but the fact of the matter is that there’s always better elsewhere, and you really shouldn’t force yourself into a situation you hate just because you’re in need of money or attention.
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it's never your job to schedule, plan and arrange a date as a woman, especially if he approached you expressing interest.
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1 year
Only take relationship advice from women that are in successful relationships and happy with themselves.
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Start with gratitude. Wake up every morning and think of a few things you are grateful for. When you create this momentum in your life, everything you want just unfolds, trust.
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Monogamy is for marriage. Unless a man expresses an explicit desire for marriage, with a timeline in mind, you should not be monogamous. Again, monogamy benefits men, not women.
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Invest in your personal growth and self-improvement. Learning new skills and setting goals can boost self-confidence.
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9 months
As you invest in your own growth and self-improvement, certain questions that once plagued you will naturally fade away. That's because you'll start recognizing your own unique talents, skills, and strengths.
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When dating, have a full life of your own already, and go into any relationship with prospective men with the question: How can this man add value to me and my life?
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As a woman you've got to be assertive and strong in order to make it in this world. You don't have to smile and be sweet if you don't want to.
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Never love a man more than he loves you.
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"Good dick" is just an excuse so the women can make it seem like they're getting something out of it. They're staying out of low self esteem, fear of loneliness, etc.
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My biggest piece of advice for women is to only date/marry men who are going to enhance your life.
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Y’all I’m about to tighten up and get serious about dating. Any advice?
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Remember that self-love, confidence, and self-respect are ongoing journeys. You are constantly evolving, and your relationship with yourself is the foundation for attracting a respectful partner.
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1 year
Something to always keep in mind.
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Imagine getting dolled up, leaving your home, driving through traffic to meet someone at an ice cream shop just to see if he deems you worthy of a proper date. Some people these days are so unserious.
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Marriage is only good when the man is a full provider and loves the woman that he's with dirty draws. Only then is marriage good and easier on the woman, kids or not.
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It’s extremely disgusting how nasty some black women are towards each other.
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2 years
Women are not motivated by money, it’s the security.
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10 months
Any time a man starts being inconsistent with you, it’s because his money got funny, or more than likely there’s another woman in his life.
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2 months
A lot of women don’t want to entertain a man UNLESS they can add to her life significantly. If it’s not a significant upgrade to what she has going on, what is the point?
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When a woman feels emotional safety, something amazing happens. She feels free to be her fullest self—loving, nurturing, creative, passionate, you name it. And trust me, that's the woman a man falls head over heels for, not some filtered version of herself.
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if a woman has to tell him or show him to lead, he is not a leader.
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2 years
Never believe what a man says only believe what he does.
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2 years
Some men give without being told, some men have to be told and honestly, you should prefer men that do things because it’s in them. Not because you had to beg or prod it out of him.
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There should be no reason a woman of high value should be teaching a man how to love her. First it is important to love yourself, anything a man adds is extra. Honestly he should love you more than you would ever love him.
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Continuously work on personal growth and self-improvement. Learn new skills, set goals, and achieve them.
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A real MAN will never make you feel inadequate or like you owe him because you don’t contribute financially to the household. He takes pride in caring for you and even leveling you up in every way if need be. I’m so tired of people saying a man will take advantage of you if he
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1 year
The girls that do get nice things have game. They were put on game very early and know how to vet.
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Jealous people are the worst, never keep people around you that you suspect dislike you.
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7 months
Life doesn't bless you when you hold on to mess. All it does is wait for you to finally free yourself, and heal yourself. Otherwise, you keep going in circles until you finally decided to walk a straight line.
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The main thing that you need is to make sure that you have good self-esteem and you are mentally mature and ready to date for healthy loving relationships with men.
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💅🏽💅🏽💅🏽
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Don't be afraid to be called a gold digger. It means you have standards and always keep your standards high.
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If you're single, your main focus should be on yourself, period. It's not wise to rush into having children or marriage if it seems like it's heading towards a less-than-joyful experience.
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That moment when you realize that the guy that you used to be into is a lame.
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7 months
You have to value YOURSELF before he values you. Women who have no boundaries WILL get played every single time.
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