But if I said the vast majority of queer people is extremely male-centred and its really isolating as a lesbian and everyone kinda hates you for not liking men
The org behind (american institute for bisexuality) also publishes "queer majority" which has run several disgustingly anti-palestinian articles as well as articles attacking "trans ideology"
But yeah what's really important is defending women's (1/2)
So tired of people claiming that just because you call smth a kink it is automatically untethered from existing systems of oppression and can't be criticised
The extreme hatred of radical feminism from people who support all kinds of other radical movements/theories needs to be recognised as simply being antifeminism
jk rowling is married to a man, has praised matt walsh and sent marilyn manson flowers after sexual assault allegations against him resurfaced. she's like the furthest thing from a misandrist
let's ignore the disabled women being exploited in prostitution to focus on the disabled men being able to "explore their sexual needs safely" by having an exploited underclass of women without alternatives be sexually available to them
Sex workers are able to provide disabled people with a safe space to explore their sexual needs and desires. If not for sex workers, some people with disability would never be able to enjoy all the benefits of a respectful sexual experience.
bi confession about how specifically *lesbian* terms are "ugly". but its definitely only lesbians that have a biphobia problem and never the other way around.
@finaltheythem
some people just feel happier identifying as a bi-lesbian and that doesn't harm you
there isn't a single person forcing lesbians to like men
all we're saying is that gender and sexuality is far too complicated to fit in a label system that can't show the true variety people have
tme queers literally saying every non-passing trans woman should be called they/them by default until she tells you she uses she/her and then they wonder why no trans woman wants to come to their queer space lol
jkr is not only married to a man and constantly works together with/platforms male transphobes but you can also notice that in her fiction she writes male main characters more than female ones and generally gives male characters more depth than female ones. she's anything (1/2)
notice how it's california's *first* fatal bear attack whereas in 2020 for example 222 women were murdered by men in california. so yes, i would still choose the bear.
@TheBdNvestments
feminism is when a woman does stuff and the more stuff she does the more feminist it is and when she does a real lot of stuff that's radical feminism
@femcelvictim
she's also one of the ppl who popularised the "bimbo aesthetic" under the guise of feminism like can we please stop talking abt her actually
@bpdprnce
instead of making up scenarios in which incest could be healthy and consensual, people with these opinions should read actual research on incest or listen to people who have experienced it and they'd quickly learn that in real life it just never is
Like no lesbians can actually find it fucking disgusting that there's a bunch of cıs men and apparently a few women too who get off to the idea of us being raped and turned straight/bi
some of you are unwilling to hear or accept that many, many “cis gay men” experience more gendered violence, bullying, and discipline growing up in response to perceived effeminacy than many other El Gee Bee Teas, especially if they are minoritized in any other way
one thing that haunts me is how "deepthroating" has become a normal widespread sexual term when the movie it derives from (1972's deep throat) is purely filmed rape, at times with lovelace's abusive husband holding a gun to her head during filming
@HullKaymbria
you have to stop pretending that dating men and dating women are like equal things societally and that theres no social force pushing women into one over the other
@aletheia327
I just think "let's be entirely uncritical of sex and view every kind of sex as good/progressive because being anti sex is reactionary so we need to be the opposite of that" is a very bad way to go about feminism
why is everyone acting like this isn't the norm... all of society forces women to date men and 84% of bisexuals date the opposite gender while only 9% date the same gender.... maybe we should encourage dating other women more....
you are genuinely despicably evil and very obviously do not see trans women as human beings if you think the murder of one is a "teachable moment" to tell trans women to be nicer to the men that murder them.
hugh hefner and his friends who were regularly at the playboy mansion were serial rapists and playboy has printed nude photos of girls as young as 11. burn them.
bi women realising theyre bi doesnt piss me off but when someone posts like "i used to be such a raging lesbo but now i have my cutesy tiny sweet little straight boyfriend" its kinda weird idk
Remember this article of a TERF talking about how basically men are better "feminists" than women because women aren't as likely to be anti-trans? Always remember these are the men they're talking about
@sky_dreamsky
As a comment, let’s remember not to call it “revenge porn”, as “porn” implies consent! It’s image-based sexual exploitation/abuse material 💜
"posture about what fiction is morally pure" is an interesting way to say that i was - on a private account - talking about the excerpts of a novel i had seen as well as the way people were talking about it on here making me uncomfortable which someone decided to leak to some gc
the "but what if someone is nonbinary" argument is so stupid bc i can assure you if you call everyone you think may be a trans woman she you'll misgender a hundred times less people than by calling them all they
10 episodes in and they're not together. there are literally 39 episodes AND a feature length movie, have people forgotten that good romance takes time to develop?!? especially if it's lesbian in a world where that isn't even an option the characters are aware is possible
I hate y’all who lied to me and told me utena was yuri
I’m literally 10 episodes in and this shit is just straight and queerbaiting???? And their fans were insulting sulemio and saying shit about my girls 💀💀💀💀💀
@treasonoustris
"Anarcho-feminist" who can't even see why it's bad when men and non-lesbian women get off to fantasies of lesbians being raped and forced to be straight. Hilarious.
please read this and if you're still on ava's side after this, lava saying what she texted him was inappropriate after all and he just didn't remember it fully, and the loli stuff, then please block me
I was sexually assaulted by Ava Tyson and here is my story:
For Context Ava and I are both adults and met each other as adults
Ava followed me on Twitter in November of 2022 after seeing my transition timelines on Twitter when I had under 500 followers.🧵
noticable phenomenon that in positive contexts people avoid the word lesbian like the plague and instead opt for sapphic, wlw, etc. but when it comes to making fun of a bi/pan celebrity for being cringe, tons of people start calling her a lesbian (e.g. jojo siwa or billie eilish)
@aletheia327
i HATE how many people - including a lot of queer people - draw this strict line between "sex" which is exclusively penetration with a penis and "foreplay" which is things like oral sex, fingering, etc.
@ringoinlifetime
literally if i go to any bookstore's manga section here it'll always be like 3-5 shelf boards bl and then 4 yuri manga and one of them is always fucking citrus
and before you call me biphobic for this maybe consider that the actual biphobia is to constantly associate bisexual women with (straight, cis) men over sapphism and the implications of this
@serenenby
??? yes you are tweaking, why is it wrong for a woman to be upset at the fact she was mistaken for a trans woman, when people do that it’s because they are calling said woman masculine looking💀idk why everyone is acting like she can’t be upset
except she never spreads hatred against or tries to take away the rights of men, she only targets trans women. she clearly does not have an actual problem with men, her saying that is an excuse for her transmisogyny
@gothwife1
@Faerynnistired
She stated herself her distain for transwomen started with a dislike and fear of men
Like seriously if someone thinks men are inferior to women intrinsically at birth why on gods green earth makes you think they will accept transwomen?
@aletheia327
in order to even start having this discussion we would need to live in a world where as a base line rape is always seen as bad, taken seriously, persecuted and punished which is just so so far from the reality we live in
also, achillean is, for one, cringe bc it tries to badly copy sapphic and also bc um 90+% sure it was coined because of the novel the song of achilles and secondly i don't like further reinforcing the idea that how we talk about sexuality should be based on the ancient greeks