one of my irl subs has the prettiest girlfriend whoโs his sub, but when the three of us get together, we double Domme him
last time we hung out, we fed him pizza scraps while heโs on his knees panting like a puppy โthis was moments after he played his DJ set during a festival
my top sub wears a necklace to represent ownership and we call it his leash
this weekend heโs out of town visiting friends and they asked him about his necklace and he said, โit holds the most important person I know close to meโ โI love knowing he take such pride in being mine
being owned as a sub is a luxury
your mind is at peace knowing youโre cared for, you feel a sense of safety and security, you know you are valued and protected, you feel a sense of belonging and purpose, and you experience deeper levels of trust and intimacy
one of my subs just said to me โโbeing devoted to you and surrendering to you feels so very similar to sitting peacefully in a forest with a waterfall nearby, that tranquil energy is something you radiate my goddessโ
in my experience, D/s dynamics are way safer than vanilla dating
at least in bd/sm thereโs protocols like vetting, negotiation, consent, safe words
most vanilla relationships now seem toxic af cause one is manipulating the other to get their needs met without communicating it
my highest engagement tweets lately have either been short stories from my experiences with my subs or actual quotes from them
it makes me realized how fortunate I am to have such good boys serving me โand my subs feel so proud and honored Iโm showing them off too
as the muse to my subs, these are a few of the things they have accomplished for themselves since connecting with me
eat healthier, work out for a six-pack, reconnect with their spirituality, start a side hustle, launch a startup, act in integrity, treat women better
@DaphneMentalS
I adore my subbies โhow could you not love a man who will let you do anything to them, and enjoy it just because itโs you doing it to them
I love to play in the shadows, I love to dive into the depths of the subconscious, I love experiencing the chaos and intensity, I love exploring the unknown, I love being the light in the darkness
Misconception: submissive males are weak
The truth is he will lay down his life for his Goddess โand heโs likely a high-earning professional, an intellectual, and a very powerful man in a leadership position
He can fight and he can love. He is both the knight and the poet
my sub just told me he writes down notes about me in his phone whenever heโs missing me, and was afraid to tell me cause he thought Iโd think it was corny โI swear I have the sweetest subs
I donโt understand why men laugh when I tell them Iโm only interested in submissives like as if being my sub is less than โmy subs get the best of me, itโs their greatest honor to serve and please me, and in exchange they receive my attention, care, guidance, and fem nourishment
I think itโs the scorpio in me that loves to track my subs โI want access to their location, their flight info, I wana know when you wake up, when you fall asleep, I want you to ask for permission to go out
and they just love knowing I have my eyes on them at all times
subs find me no matter what platform I use, and reach out in the most synchronistic ways โusually they approach me saying along the linesโฆ
โthereโs something about your energyโ
thatโs called โresonanceโ, those who are on your same frequency will naturally be pulled towards you
I know a sub looking for an owner and I told him Iโd put out an announcement for him
โข heโs a lot of fun, like bestie sleepover vibe, heโs a little bratty and needs firm dominance, likes head pats, and needs to get p*gged โcan also offer legal advice
Ive noticed a lot of hate for Snapchat saying itโs childish, but I have a lot of fun using it with my subs
itโs how I track their location and where they send their outfit of the day, itโs also where I tease them and have them beg to save my snaps โchildish can be playfulness
last night I was approached by two men, the first one shot his shot and failed โthe second one thought he had a better chance, but I turned him down saying Iโm not into traditional relationships
if only these men knew I was secretly getting off on rejecting them lool
when a sub has true devotion for his Goddess, he will often have mythological or religious type dreams of submitting to her power and greatness โso when Alla shared her subโs dream I knew exactly what she was talking about, cause my subs have had those kind of dreams too
Thank you
@sensualsedusa
for sharing this picture with me. Birth Tray (Desco da Parto) with the Triumph of Venus from the 1400s.
Thatโs exactly what he saw in his dream.
How do I program my subs?
I send them podcasts to listen to, ebooks to read, YouTube videos to watch, articles to review and share feedback โpretty much whatever Iโm learning, theyโre learning too
there was a time on Earth where everyone worshipped and honored the feminine โbut around 3,500 years ago the womb religion was attacked and destroyed
many researchers believe that this was the catalyst to the widespread cultural-psychological trauma weโre experiencing today
men are nourished by witnessing women in their pleasure โthis is because most men donโt have the capacity to move pleasure through their bodies the way women do
the aura of a woman in her pleasure is radiant and an abundant reservoir of nourishment and vitality
Dare to Lead by Brenรฉ Brown is an excellent book for any domme that wants to develop deep emotional intimacy with your sub
learning how to create a safe space for your sub to express his emotions openly and without judgment is what nurtures a deep bond and connection
@thesilentrouge
I make sure to let my subs know that when they make me upset, itโs a good thing cause it shows I care โand if I donโt get upset, thatโs when they should really worried
Happy Locktober to all the good boys ๐ โchastity is not only a kink but a powerful spiritual practice taught by the Tantric texts
semen retention is believed to harness and conserve life force energy to increase mental clarity, productivity, and promote personal growth
@Barbiebotox
Needed this reminder for getting back into a daily protection ritual ๐งฟโจ โI like to include a protection emoji in my bio and every once in a while I listen to a meditation for โblack magic removalโ, which Iโll prob do today
I was just approached by a man in his 50s at a kava bar, and once he found out I was a spiritual coach he started talking about his attachment style and sharing about the women who left him โthen proceeds to ask me out, why are men so desperateโฆ
itโs so refreshing to see so many heart-centered Dommes here
when I first entered the BDSM scene I felt out of place because Iโm more spiritual and not so kinky โbut now I see how I stand out cause true healthy fem dominance is actually quite rare and in high demand ๐
I love when my subs talk to me in their cute and sweet submissive voice, but then for whatever reason I need to talk to them while theyโre at work and their alpha voice comes out โI love seeing the contrast, it makes their submission so much sweeter
if you send a message without a tribute, Iโm literally not even paying attention
and those who send tribute before messaging, gets their conversation pinned
cause when a women truly feels supported by the masculine, she will provide him with nourishment and spiritual protection, which is essential for his success
Men thrive when they align their energy with the feminine force, not out of obligation, but out of a genuine drive to uplift and elevate.
By supporting and empowering women, men step into their highest potential.
To me, the most powerful men are those who understand that their
I think itโs so cute how every sub feels that his domme/goddess is the greatest in the universe โand theyโre right cause each domme is great at what she does, we each have our own mastery and magic that canโt be replicated
being a Domme doesnโt give you an excuse to be mean to your subs for no reason โyou still need consent, negotiation, and aftercare, otherwise youโre just re-traumatizing individuals
a soft domme embodies a unique blend of authority and empathy, using her power to uplift and support her subs, while creating a safe and nurturing environment for them to explore and grow
the key aspects of this kind of dynamic is the emphasis on trust and communication
@astariadivine
This is the way it should be, we should feel inspired to embody this feminine energy within us โyou find out real quick whoโs insecure when you hear her bashing another beautiful woman
Chasity is not only a kink but a powerful spiritual practice for men
Instead of wasting your precious life force energy with every nut, you could learn to redirect that energy to make you more productive, focused, stronger, and more attractive to women
This is so true, cause men need opportunities to feel needed โthey need to feel like they have a place in the world
It is their greatest honor to have purpose in serving women
Inside every man is a deep urge to prove himself useful, to please, to work, and to see the fruits of his labor.
I am here to harness those desires, shaping them into perfect tools for the Matriarchy and making them valuable not just to me, but to every woman in their life.
my cutie sub just said he wants to send me his favorite sweater from his boxing days, and you know sometimes I value these thoughtful devotional offerings more than money โlike you wana give me the sweater with your blood stain on it? ~awwwwe ๐ฅน
My ideal scene is having my most submissive alpha curled around my feet while we watch the other subs fight for whoโs more alpha in a gladiator arena
and then he said to me โโyour growth is such a pleasure to see and experience. I feel so damn honored and humbled to be close to you while you excel to new heightsโ
Using my subs to help me succeed in my business is one of the best way they can contribute to my growth.
I got one who built me a framework to scales my business and covering my biz mentorship, and the other one revamping my branding and website.
itโs been four months and my sub still hasnโt came and heโs not even in a cage โhis level of devotion to my pleasure is top notch, even heโs so proud of himself
At this point, anyone who wants to date me will have to try out as a sub first, no exceptions. And if he has a problem with it then great, that lets me know itโs not a fit.
thereโs an indigenous proverb that says, โwomen is by nature a shamanโ
women are quite literally a bridge between the spiritual realm and physical world โand each one of us have experienced the mystical alchemical journey of transmuting spirit into matter to be here
@thesilentrouge
Love this โancient womb wisdom says itโs not good to cook while menstruating so I always ask a sub to order me take out so I can lay in bed while eating my ramen or pad thai
power dynamics are everywhere
at home, at work, at school, among friends, in religion, in politics
youโre either participating in them consciously or not
@GoddessFortunaa
One of my Tampa friends says itโs the worst storm surge Tampa has even seen, coming from people who have lived there over 70 years โI also know many people who got flooded and lost everything, very sad