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Researcher / writer / lecturer. LGBT+ belonging | gay culture, sexual identity & wellbeing | autobiography & narrative.

Monmouthshire, Wales
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Richard Vytniorgu
1 month
My book on gay bottoms, effeminacy, and belonging is now out in all its peachy fleshiness. 🥰🍑🔥
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Richard Vytniorgu
1 year
📢🔥Delighted to see this published. My new OA article explores why the gay 'twink' is such a fraught identity, replete with age-bracket, body type, as well as expectations around bottoming & effeminacy. How did 'the twink' become so 'problematic'?
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Richard Vytniorgu
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📢Pre-order now available for Effeminate Belonging 🍑🔥. Due out on 21 June with @EmeraldGlobal , my book explores how gender nonconformity and bottoming impact gay men's identities & sense of belonging in their bodies, online, and in the 'gay community'.
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Richard Vytniorgu
2 years
Finally, some of my wedding photos! Salisbury Methodist Church, 1 August 2022. @MethodistGB Ours was Salisbury's first same-sex church wedding, and it was a truly ecumenical affair: Methodists, URC, Quakers, and Church in Wales all helped shape our marriage ceremony 🥰.
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Looking forward to spending the day with my book proofs. Always a big moment when these arrive. The book suddenly begins to look real! 🥰🍑🔥
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2 years
Are you an ECR working on Gender & Sexuality? Want to find out 'what works' when it comes to building external partnerships? Come along to the @BritishAcademy_ 's ECR Networking Day to share expertise, pool ideas, and explore potential collaborations.
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Richard Vytniorgu
3 years
@Transgendertrd @guardian I do personally feel that it's still tough to be an effeminate boy in school. In my own work I'm seeing stigma in films targeted specifically at GNC as opposed to homosexuality itself. It is still widespread across Europe and needs addressing :(.
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Richard Vytniorgu
1 year
📢Yesterday I joined @UniofHerts as a Research Fellow. I will be exploring mid-older LGBT+ people's life stories of inclusion, belonging, & community, using digital media. Will be a pleasure to work alongside others committed to interdisciplinarity 🔥.
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2 years
Open Access: my new article on #effeminate #gay bottom🍑sexual fantasy narratives on Tumblr is now out! Foregrounds the existence of 'heterogender' male androphilic dynamics in the West, but more common outside the #LGBT West. Not all #masc4masc .
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Richard Vytniorgu
8 months
My first attempt at making a Christmas wreath. Such fun! 🥰
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2 months
Wait, it’s Pride month? 🥰💅🍑🎉 Happy Pride ☺️
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Richard Vytniorgu
2 years
Delighted to be at @BiomedSelfSoc in Edinburgh with @JGarciaIglesias to work on our shame, stigma & colorectal health for bottoms 🍑 project @wcceh .
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1 year
My cushion is complete! Tapestry is amazingly relaxing to do and easier than embroidery. Just the sound of the thread going in and out of the canvas is soothing.
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Flowers are guaranteed to boost my mood. And my desk feels bright and cheery today with flowers from my husband. 🥰💐
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Richard Vytniorgu
9 months
Excited to be at @QFrontiers in Bristol today to talk about participatory research in LGBTQ+ studies.
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3 months
Pink and peonies. May is one of my favourite months for colour and flowers. 🌸
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On the last day of this year's LGBT+ History Month - the day I submit my book on bottoming to my publisher - I'm remembering those who have been punished by law for what the 1533 Buggery Act called 'the detestable and abominable vice of buggery'.
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Richard Vytniorgu
2 years
Have not worn a suit for ages. But not bad, eh?
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11 months
Live pictures of me writing, in the flow of inspiration 😂.
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2 months
A week to go before my book on gender nonconformity and bottom identities is published. 🍑🌸 A couple of weeks ago I had the absolute pleasure of chatting with @GTVlondon for @Gaydar about all things bottom.
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Richard Vytniorgu
1 year
Loving my Queen of Hearts mug. 💕
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3 years
@TheBembridge It's not his youth that's the problem. More that he seems to proclaim on everything as if he's an authority.
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Richard Vytniorgu
2 years
I visited Kyiv in 2018. In 1944 my great-grandparents fled their home in Ukraine for Romania due to the Red Army. Romania welcomed Ukrainian refugees then and I see they will welcome at least 500,000 now. Thoughts and prayers are with Ukrainians wherever they are.
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Richard Vytniorgu
3 years
"[Conservatives] do not believe that each generation in turn should start from scratch, abandoning all the wisdom of the past; on the contrary they consider that progress consists in each generation beginning at the point where their fathers [and mothers] left off." 1947
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Lovely to see the physical nature of my new book taking shape 🍑, and to have these pre-publication endorsements from such a range of disciplines 🔥. Sexuality & interdisciplinarity are natural bedfellows. See more reviews here:
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Richard Vytniorgu
1 year
Off for a day at Hampton Court Palace 🥰.
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2 months
First vase of my sweet peas. Grown from seed this time 🥰.
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Richard Vytniorgu
10 months
Okay then. But such pictures are few and far between! Far too macho for my liking 😂
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Bridget 🎀❤️
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Let’s see a picture of you in suit.
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Richard Vytniorgu
7 months
Have lots to be thankful for in 2023, and lots to look forward to in 2024. Happy New Year 🥳
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2 months
My work seems to have made it onto Wikipedia now 👍. Another reason why Open Access is so important. Anyone can access academic work and use it to inform more lay discussions.
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Richard Vytniorgu
2 years
Over the weekend my article on boiwives and pussyboys (2022) has jumped up to one of the most read of all time in Journal of Homosexuality (11,993 views). A major benefit of Open Access is enabling non-academic readers to access new research & thinking.
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1 year
I am pleased to see that the sheep in the field beyond our garden have got some snow-proof food to munch on. Especially in lambing season, these woolly friends need to keep up their strength 🐑❄️.
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Richard Vytniorgu
3 years
@darrengrimes_ You need to be careful about simply retweeting quotations out of context. Scruton was not a neo-liberal and disapproved quite strongly of Thatcher. He is not, I think, a 'modern conservative'. More like old school Toryism, far from individualism.
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So glad to get my hands on this, dubbed the “gay Pepys” by Mark Gatiss. A tantalising glimpse into a gay man’s daily life in London in the 1960s. Diaries, perhaps more than memoirs, offer that entrance into someone’s life, walking it with them.
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Richard Vytniorgu
3 years
Cooked the ham last night with my Dad, a la Delia, using my late mother's and grandmother's recipe notes from over 30 years. Feels good to pass on traditions like these, and to cook now for the men in my life 😊.
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Richard Vytniorgu
8 months
Capel-y-ffin this afternoon. Cold but lovely 😊.
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At Asthall Manor. Early home of the Mitford sisters in Oxfordshire and now a private home. Beautiful gardens.
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1 year
Come back from a weekend in London to find a fresh new bloom of my sweet peas. Long may they last! 🥰
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Richard Vytniorgu
2 years
There's some useful tips in here for bottom wellbeing, but overall assumes "bottoming" is primarily a practice, detached from issues of identity that may mean tips like #6 are out of the question for some. 13 New Tips for Happier, Healthier Bottoming
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Richard Vytniorgu
3 years
Re-reading this. Fascinating discussion here about the Whig craze for 'improving' estates. J.A. is manifestly disapproving of such vanity and disruption to settled communities, and, in a typically Tory way, links mis-design to moral failure.
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6 months
A day for everything it seems! It’s a shame my forthcoming book on bottom identities wasn’t published on bottom appreciation day. Still, good to know it’s a “thing”! 🍑
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Grindr
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in honor of international bottom appreciation day, @ someone who really knows how to take it 😮‍💨🍑
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Richard Vytniorgu
11 months
Could happily wake up to this every morning ☀️❤️
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Richard Vytniorgu
10 months
@chaseledin leading a discussion @sexpanics2023 on public panic around sexual contact during the Covid 19 pandemic. Did the pandemic panic represent a distraction from attending properly to sexual health and wellbeing?
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Richard Vytniorgu
2 years
I come back from a week away (after getting married) and await three speaking requests: one for Radio 4 on female imagist poets, one for an A-Z gay sex podcast (on bottoms), and another for an 'Ask Me Anything' Reddit forum on effeminacy and bottoms. Busy summer ahead!
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Richard Vytniorgu
1 year
📢 My new OA article with @drfredcooper , @Charlotte_Sheff & Manuela Barreto explores how students story their environmental experiences of loneliness and belonging at university. Develops the concept of "narrative environment".
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Richard Vytniorgu
3 years
@SamAburime @shipperinjapan I've noticed that in some quarters it can be fine, even progressive, to be a fem gay, but for that fem gay to then desire more masculine partners is somehow impermissible and "heteronormative".
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Richard Vytniorgu
6 months
Great to see @ThePansyProject mentioned in February’s issue of the @The_RHS magazine, which has a feature devoted to queer people from British history associated with horticulture.
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Richard Vytniorgu
3 years
Delighted that my article on the existential impact of #Grindr , porn, and dating apps on #gaymen in Nick Comilla's novel, #Candyass , is now published in Masculinities. Open access.
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Richard Vytniorgu
2 years
Really thrilled to share with you this report on shame, stigma, and colorectal health for gay / MSM bottoms, with @JGarciaIglesias . It highlights key factors shaping bottoms’ experience of shame and stigma when seeking care for colorectal conditions.
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2 years
The presence of dogs is one of the best things about working from home.🐶
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Mary and George is entertaining, but liberal with the historic record. King James liked his “minions” effeminate and wifely, not prototypical twunky Bel Ami models who could “bury him” with their virile manhood. Why not allow George to be a fem bottom?
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1 year
Gorgeous spring flowers that bring fragrance and joy to a kitchen.
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3 months
First time at the polling station. But not thrilling enough to merit an excitement wee. Maybe next time, at the General Election?🤔 #dogsatpollingstations
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Picked up these gorgeous spring blooms today from church — another lot that would have been thrown in the bin by Tesco! Absolutely love a jug of vibrant pinks.
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My new little helper hard at work in my study with me. 🥰🐶
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3 years
Christmas tree decorated! 🎄
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11 months
Perfect place to read this 👌
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Richard Vytniorgu
2 months
I love getting messages like this on Twitter/X. For me, gendered and sexual belonging unites online and offline, past, present & future, and crosses divides of generation, culture, and language. Can’t wait for my book on effeminate belonging to come out on the 21st. 🥰🏳️‍🌈🍑🍆
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Richard Vytniorgu
1 year
I'm writing a conference paper before going on holiday at the weekend. When so much of our activity in the academic world can seem logistical and administrative and far from glamorous, writing a conference paper can help re-ignite the flame.
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3 years
First time teaching in person for over 18 months!
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11 months
John Craxton, now largely unfamiliar, was a fascinating “neo-Romantic” painter who pulsated figurative colour into a dreary post-war abstract scene in the 1940s and 50s. Fleeing English repression & homophobia, he felt free in Crete, with sunshine and sailors. ⛵️🏳️‍🌈☀️
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2 years
Fascinating to learn more about the Cuban Revolution and life under Castro from Arenas's perspective. His frank descriptions of homosexuality are also compelling, as is his defence of gender nonconformity.
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Richard Vytniorgu
2 years
Really pleased to announce this new project on #bottoms and #bottoming , and thank you to @wcceh and @BiomedSelfSoc for supporting our work.
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Jaime Garcia-Iglesias
2 years
🔥🍑 It's great to announce that @rvytniorgu ( @UniofExeter ) & me ( @BiomedSelfSoc ) have received a @wellcometrust collaborative grant to engage with #clinical and non-clinical #stakeholders to explore the impact of shame & stigma in MSM bottoms access to colorectal healthcare!
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1 year
Beautiful vase of tulips at Newton House near Llandeilo.
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Richard Vytniorgu
3 years
@Aaron_GDAC A lot of effort seems to go into "dispelling myths" that LGB people are GNC. "Effeminate≠gay" etc. But a majority of LG people at least are GNC, especially in childhood. We need more honest discussions about adult homosexuality and GNC I think.
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I always love doing the flowers for church. These were given away in separate bunches from a supermarket because they had to be. But put together that look beautiful, with life still in them: promise of Spring!
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3 years
@JamesCantorPhD What are your thoughts on the no "about us without us" discourse that's shaped research and PPI in the last twenty years or so?
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2 months
Staying in the Cotswolds for a few days. Bought some beautiful stocks to put in my bedroom. 🥰
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That time of year again. Sunflowers 🌻
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5 months
One of the best things about a week off, even a “staycation”, is reading books you want to read. I love a Duchess, and the late Duchess of Devonshire’s ramblings are a delight. Full of country shenanigans and witty observations.
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Richard Vytniorgu
2 years
Created this silhouette of myself against the cover of the fabulous illustrated book, 'Pansy Boy', by @ThePansyProject . An inspiring story about overcoming bullying and femmephobia. Silhouette originally created with scissors in studio by Charles Burns, renowned silhouettist.
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Richard Vytniorgu
10 months
Fantastic presentation by @JanKasnik at @sexpanics2023 on the sexual lives of people with intellectual disabilities in France. Interesting that professionals in France see being LGBTQ as a further “disability” so why would someone with an intellectual disability “choose” LGBTQ?
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Richard Vytniorgu
5 months
📢IncludeAge ( @ESRC ) is working with LGBT+ people and people with learning disabilities aged 40+ in Britain to better understand their historical & contemporary intersectional experiences of inclusion & exclusion. Check out the resources and blog - more to come 🔥.
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We're thrilled to launch our website, designed by the wonderful Juliet Neun-Hornick. The website has lots of info about the project, what we're doing, why, and who's involved, as well as details of how to get involved yourself.
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1 year
The UK's first ever gay dating show, I Kissed a Boy, is on BBC iPlayer, now. In the first episode, the boys talk about sex roles but only one admits he is a 'raging bottom'. Unsurprisingly, versatile was collectively recommended as more open-minded🤔.
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1 year
Got these two as a belated wedding present. Sarah and Arthur have been working together for some years now. But both offer inspiration for how to grow and arrange beautiful flowers at home. Let's see what this summer brings 🌸🌻🌹🌼💐
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1 year
Fascinating article by @neilbuttery about food writer Elizabeth Raffald in this week's Country Life. Elizabeth David was a big fan of Raffald, as was Jane Grigson. Raffald rightly deserves attention for her pre-industrial, pre-Mrs Beeton culinary imagination.
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Ever get the feeling your hens “have a plan” you don’t know about? These girls have sass. 👑💅
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Enjoyed Lost Boys and Fairies: mixed melodrama but saved by the scene with the birth mother and gay protagonist, which was extremely moving. As an adopted child myself, this represented everything good and positive about an extremely difficult process.
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Has the world of publishing changed so much that editors now have to ask whether 'Abergavenny' is an author's name, and if the Preface is written by me, then can we take away the date and place name? I've always liked reading Prefaces with a place and date.
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1 year
An article in this week's Country Life about the artist and gardener Cedric Morris, who, with his partner Arthur Lett-Haines, enriched the Suffolk countryside in the early-mid 20th century. Big fan of Morris, and always glad to see him publicised!
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My Christmas table decoration, sourced from the garden earlier in the year. 🎄
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1 year
Late to the party here, but Jack should have won BBC Interior Design Masters!
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BBC East
1 year
It's a big night for fans of Interior Design Masters with #AlanCarr on @BBCOne Finalist Jack Kinsey, from Norfolk, says local support has been "beautiful". Full story here:
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8 months
A cosy way to pass a very wet and dark weekend!
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2 years
Bought this in Edinburgh to read on the flight home. After a few days thinking about gay bottoming and shame anxiety, this is an appropriate read. Lots of thoughtful comments about growing up with shame for being not only gay but gender nonconforming.
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Afternoon open garden fundraiser for our church. Glorious weather, beautiful plants, and yummy cakes.
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3 years
Can't wait to get stuck in to these @j_l_jefferies and learn more about British Farming @LoveBritishFood .
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3 years
Unique sculpture choice at Winchester's Royal Hotel. As Freud would have said, sex is on the mind.
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Richard Vytniorgu
3 years
@DrTermagant I'd love to agree with you -- it certainly is a marketing ploy, and they can be pretty impersonal places. Probably better in research terms than other places, but not necessarily so for teaching.
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Visited my grandfather's school this afternoon @WinColl (1926-33). Such beautiful architecture, and even the newer stuff in this part of Winchester is tastefully inserted in unobtrusive ways.
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1 year
The pottery garden at the Emma Bridgewater factory in Stoke on Trent is looking beautiful in this summer sunshine. 🌹👌🥰
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Richard Vytniorgu
2 years
70 years of committed service to this country. 😊
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The Royal Family
2 years
This photograph has been released to mark Accession Day 2022: the 70th anniversary of Her Majesty’s reign and the start of her #PlatinumJubilee year. #HM70
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3 years
Lovely to be able to talk to @UofE_Research about my research journey; the theme of #belonging really comes through nicely :).
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Research at Exeter
3 years
We are excited to share the first of our #Exeter3Questions blogs. Dr Richard Vytniorgu ( @rvytniorgu ) is a postdoc researcher in the interdisciplinary @wcceh #research centre & In this post Richard answers #ThreeQuestions about his research journey
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