Kidnapper who brings you snacks and sex toys and games and books and plushies and an old mp3 player full of your favorite music and podcasts and leaves notes for you so you don't get too bored or lonely locked in your little room when they're away working to feed both of you
Kink isn't good or bad based on whether the aesthetics appear "violent" to someone outside of a scene. Someone can be punched, slapped, kicked, choked, pierced, etc from a place of absolute love and adoration because the receiver explicitly requested these things from the giver
@RottenInDenmark
Everything in this screenshot sounds like classic domestic abuse victim shit. If people actually understood/cared how abuse works and the effects it has, this would only strengthen her case
@thotscholar
People really think putting a penis in a vagina is the end-all, be-all of everything there is to know about sex, sexuality, and sexual organs 🤦🏻♂️
Trans guys who only bottom anally
Trans guys who only bottom orally
Trans guys who don't bottom at all
Trans guys who top gently
Trans guys who top rough
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puppy play but I'm not a puppy I'm a big weary old senior dog with arthritis and you have to be gentle with me and give me my meds every day but I still wanna lay my head on your lap on the couch and sometimes get surprised by my own wagging tail
Your dysphoria/dysmorphia/trauma is lying to you. You are desirable. You are attractive. You are worthy of being found attractive by people you consider attractive. You are not ugly. People like you. People think you're hot. You didn't "trick" them. They're right.
This would 100% be me as a kidnapper lol I'd come to visit whenever I could and tell you how much I love you and how I'm sorry I can't give you anything with a wifi connection bc if you felt silly one day and said something you shouldn't the cops would come take you away from me
If you're really good, I can put a harness on you and take you somewhere pretty and private to enjoy the outdoors. You have to earn my trust tho with good behavior, ok? 😊
You don't want Papa to go to jail after all the nice things he's done for you, right munchkin? They would treat Papa so much worse than Papa treats you, you wouldn't want that would you?
A gentle kiss on the cheek can be experienced as far more violating than a punch in the gut if the receiver did not not consent to a kiss but did consent to a punch.
@bimbotheory
Lmao ppl acting like this is shaming ppl for not being into kink. No one said u had to be into kink, they said the way u react to the mere existence of kink is super telling abt how u interact with ur sexuality and for some of y'all it's telling a very sad story
It deeply concerns me how many people are more interested in and invested in how things look than in how those things are experienced by the people participating.
Someone can hold someone's hand in a way that is harassment, that is controlling, that is violent, etc. It is not the act of holding hands itself that is good or bad. Acts alone, stripped down like that, don't have morality. Context is everything.
@AcidRayn31
@L0ST_VEGAS
I feel this. For a lot of ppl deer represent beauty, serenity, innocence, and fragility. Ripe subjects for horror. They're also probably the largest creatures that most of us have seen dead or even mangled.
If you can only tip me a dollar, that is NOT an insult to me or my work! Large tips are immensely appreciated and very very helpful, but small tips also show that you admire and respect me and my work and it makes my heart flutter every single time!!!
can y'all fucking agree to leave aces and aros the actual fuck alone, let them be in the community, they done been here for longer than plenty of you have been breathing
Like, genuinely, I think a lot of ppl have very little actual investment in harm reduction or material impact of things at all, they just see something that they think is yucky and decide it's bad cuz that feels better than accepting that things that make them uncomfy can be good