If you’re dating & want someone to put you in your soft girl era, then you gotta make sure to give softness to your partner too. You can’t expect it if you’re giving your partner headache & stress all the time. It gotta go both ways.
People need to realise that true intimacy isn’t just about the physical. If you can’t stimulate my mind, feed good energy into me or make me feel safe around you, then there’s absolutely no chance of getting anywhere with me, pls know that.