Women having domestic violence shelters is not a privilege. The shelters were not handed to women, women fought to have them and faced much resistance from society which saw โdisciplineโ as a manโs right, and women living alone or leaving their husband instead of enduring abuse
I post about porn a lot because girls in my generation donโt know that you can criticise porn. Theyโre usually met with people insisting that itโs normal or every guy does it so they canโt have a problem or theyโre controlling or insecure or itโs actually empowering to women. So
Some of you guys have some really pornified fantasy of what a girls trip is. Meanwhile in Morocco south Asian Muslim men have a rep for travelling their for prostitution. But sure letโs stop the women. Insecure and pathetic
A woman struggling with her faith is not a sin. It is literally the point of life. Being a pimp however is a sin. Yet I see people give a pimp more grace than sisters who are struggling with their faith after seeing a misogynist pimp be welcomed and defended by their community
If youโre a woman seriously start to go to jumuah and Eid prayer and then you tell me which is better for your iman, going to pray in congregation and listen to the khutbah or staying at home? After seriously giving it a go most women no doubt will say going to pray in the masjid
Btw guys, pro-tip to praying all your prayers is to make dua that you read the next one. E.g. At the end of zuhr prayer make dua that you will be back to pray asr prayer. Even when you get into the habit of praying still do this, don't think that you don't have to ask anymore.
You are on the same side as the people who commit these killings if you think a womanโs zina is more severe. Thatโs why the killings happen in the first place, because people believe a womanโs sin is worse.
Muslim women are generalised for the tiniest things from a few, but the stampede of Muslim men defending a sex trafficker and being vile to Muslim women for him and we are being told not to generalise Muslim men. Muslim men have a major misogyny problem there is no denying that
So many blind men. Women speaking up about this atrocity just being met with โwhere is your hijabโ. So youโre going to silence a woman whoโs not wearing a hijab but platform a sex trafficker
Like as a woman you instinctively know thatโs somethings wrong. The male attitudes in porn, the gross objectification of women. But youโre made to think itโs okay so you brainwash yourself
Married women are so weird they will share something totally unnecessary that makes their husband look trash, then get upset that people are telling them their husband is trash.
Turns out, Muslim men *can* actually excuse human trafficking, misogyny, bโฌacting women, joking about stoning them and even all the degrading things Andrew Tate has said about Muslim women in particular.
Almost all women having at least one story of sexual harassment is โanecdotalโ evidence to be dismissed, but your friendโs friend having a story of a hijabi he knows having sex means all women are whores and need oppressive restrictions, okay ๐คฃ Reddit male logic
This girl bought an iPhone. When her father saw it, he asked her,
"What was the first thing you did after buying the phone?"
She replied "I put an anti-scratch sticker & bought a cover for the phone".
"Did someone force you to do so?",the father said, to which she replied
as shameful. Women in other countries (eg Pakistan) are still struggling to form shelters.
The support women get is usually from other female victims. Is it a privilege that men have abused so many women that there is enough to form a support system? That any friend a woman
You men who love using your version of Islam to traumatise women are going to rot in hell. May Allah ๏ทป guide all women to the truth of His mercy and His care for us and our rights.
Overused, uneducated excuse made for predatory men.
The best ages for women to have children if you are only considering biology studies are 25 to 35. A womanโs peak fertility is at age 27.
Teen girls and early 20s women actually have more pregnancy complications.
Why should men be allowed on boys trips thatโs for entertainment when women arenโt? So they can go to beaches and see naked women? So they can go to clubs and dance to music? Do you not like me assuming the worst of Muslim brothers even though they do this more than Muslim women?
makes in her life likely will have been harassed too?
It was not society or police who believed and cared about women, women had to make their own shelters and safe spaces. Somewhere they can go without being questioned the way police do, where people understand the stalking
I donโt think you should believe her that this is the reason why all of these women are not married. They probably just want decent guys, but a lot of men arenโt decent.
People donโt understand this so they assume girls are not married bc they wants guys with certain degrees ๐คฆโโ๏ธ
A sister in her late 30s told me that they now have an epidemic of unmarried Muslim women in Singapore. I asked why that is and she said itโs bc Singaporean women are highly educated (MA, PhD), have careers and donโt want to marry men who are less educated and earn less than them
Anyway with this marriage announcement pics, the girls hand has nails done, moisturised, hair removed, obviously taken at an angle to make her hand look good, and the guys hand is just allowed to be there as a normal, natural human hand
Andrew Tate texted a woman "I love raping you" and described strangling her in an audio she shared with UK police. The police told her there was "an ounce of doubt" that prevented them from prosecuting him.
Meanwhile Allah ๏ทป tells us to travel in the Quran.
What on Earth do you see women as that you think there must be an ulterior, shallow reason for us to want to travel? What happened to assuming the best of Muslims?
I don't understand what is with women and this obsession they all have to "travel and explore the world", like i see nearly every woman mention it on their marriage profiles, bring it up in conversations etc like is it an aesthetic that you wanna flex or something, so weird.
Men leaving comments on Shaykha Maryam Amirโs tiktoks where she recites Quran. Sheโs more knowledgeable but theyโre talking about following feelings as if their pervertedness isnโt a feeling. And even saying if you criticise them then you are criticising the Prophet ๏ทบ !!!
People say โI was okay with feminism years ago like women getting education, not depending on men, but not now. Women hate men, initiate divorce now, etcโ
Bro, women getting education and not depending on men IS going to increase the divorce rates and if you think thatโs
I know patriarchy is real because why are women hated for becoming unattractive to their husbands (just by aging), meanwhile you never hear women complaining that maybe having to clean the toilet after he shits bc he doesnโt clean stuff makes him unattractive?
First itโs wild to think you have it better than non-Muslim women (you donโt), but to use that to drag the women who apparently have it worse than you is something else
Iโve noticed that women more often than men when theyโre not attracted to someone say โIโm not really attracted to him personallyโ or something like that. But guys just say โshe is physically unattractiveโ. Likes itโs a fact and not their opinion
Itโs actually sick how when non-Muslims bring up the Aishah RA being 6 thing, Muslim men always disappoint me and just say โit was okay back thenโ. When for anyone who realises how wrong it is that argument doesnโt suffice. They really donโt give a crap about women and girls damn
So naive to think slave girls were treated well just because you donโt want to question anything youโve been told is Islam. Men donโt even treat their actual wives well, but sure slavery wasnโt that bad for women.
Years and years ago, my husband (then boyfriend) had a discussion about "save the baby or save the mother" situations, and he said he would save the baby, and I was incredibly hurt. Then I gave birth, and that reaction I had at the time is flat out embarrassing to me.
I was literally just thinking of this. Even if you wear an abaya, when the wind comes, or when youโre walking, no matter what you wear thereโs always going to be moments when your body shape is visible.
โEmmz๐ค๐โจcan hear the drums of liberation๐ดโโ ๏ธ๐ป
Get a grip.
Thereโs a limit to how much clothes can conceal the shape of your body. Fabrics will act like fabrics. Unless youโre wearing structural support like a crinoline under your clothes, thereโs no way you CANโT tell when a woman has curves.
Peopleโs take away from Maryam AS is that โwow she was so chasteโ which obviously is good. But she was attacked for not being chaste. How many ppl who revel in Maryam AS chastity and see that as THE lesson women should take from her, also attack womenโs chastity?
Itโs so strange to think Muslim men in the west blend into the crowd and donโt have to wear anything visibly Muslim. Like I canโt imagine living like that.
โIf there was a way I could practice Islam without looking like or being associated with Muslims, maybe that would be betterโโฆ
How many of us - visibly Muslim sisters feel this daily?
Imagine thinking a woman wanting aesthetic photos is worse than the above, weirdos fr going off misogyny. Give the same energy as making fun of teenage girls for anything they like
Guys on Reddit will defend this and think that theyโre being so deep and intelligent saying โwomen care about superficial things like birthdays but there are more important things in relationships and being a father than just if you remember a dateโ
Head covering isnโt a natural thing the way that orange skin isโฆacting like hijab is natural invalidates the struggle of wearing it. Itโs not like any other clothes it takes more effort.
Wives, stop rationing sex. Your husband should rarely, if ever, hear no. He shouldn't have to beg to get his needs met, just like you shouldn't have to beg for yours. Make more love, and there will be more to go around.
They say rape is an exception for abortion but we know they arenโt talking about rape in marriage. Thatโs just obligation sex to them. A woman who canโt take anymore kids but the husband keeps having sex with her
After seeing that hijab porn exists, instead of realising how colonialism effects women, how men degrade women, our mighty male protectors are blaming women, saying itโs because of tabaruj
Hijab porn exists because of orientalism and fetishisation of womenโs โinnoncenceโ or
MT be like โyouโre a miserable jealous insecure woman if you donโt want to watch your husband have children with another woman when you canโtโฆ as long as he is being โniceโ/โfairโ to youโ bro marrying another woman when you donโt want him to is not being nice/fair to you
Muslims adopting anti-feminist takes from right wingers is peak cognitive dissonance when a lot of their takes are points which are not used just against feminists/women, but immigrants and people of colour too
Boy math is thinking 1% of the male population being scientific geniuses means all men are better than women, but 1 in 4 women being assaulted by men means nothing about men
You guys keep saying the word marital rape doesnโt exist in Shariah but it doesnโt change the fact that it exists for many women in real life. Thereโs nothing wrong with us calling it what it is which is rape. You can still condemn it without being fussy about the wording
1) No such thing as a fake hijabi she is literally wearing hijab
2) itโs a valid opinion that forearms donโt have to be covered
3) youโre too rude to be preaching about Islam
You know how men get to complain about dead bedroom relationships, is there a word for all the relationships that lack any romance because the men canโt handle any emotional intimacy?
โIslamicallyโ this โin Islamโ that, meanwhile thereโs valid difference of opinion on women travelling in Islam.
Just because your culture/community likes to keep women at home stop projecting that onto Islam and policing other adult Muslim women that have nothing to do with you
โSecularโ education can help you fulfil your religious obligations, learning engineering can help you give people water, learning about psychology can help you understand why you do a certain sin and then how to best overcome it, thereโs so many ways getting knowledge,
Modern feminists are hella quiet about this one because it doesnโt fit their agenda but were shouting from the rooftop when they wanted to โliberateโ women from wearing hijab in Iran
Why am I not surprised thereโs hundreds of men in the replies who read this, and their first thought was polygamy would have solved itโฆ they actually think that the major problem in Dianaโs life was that her husbands mistress wasnโt a co-wife. So embarrassing
1. Charles had a babe called Camilla.
2. Camilla was not a Virginโข๏ธ
3. Tradition dictated that Charles must marry a Virginโข๏ธ
4. Diana was minding her business and facing her front
5. Charles was told to marry her senior sister
6. Her sister smelled a rat and backed out
โฆ contd
You know how most men get bald as they age, I swear if it happened to women then male scientists would be like itโs evolution to let us know which women to mate with
Yeah it feels unfair that we cover up and dress modestly so no other man can see us, but at the end of the day, heโs still going to see and be attracted to women that arenโt dressing modestly, but thatโs life I get it.
So thatโs why you do it for Allah ๏ทป only.
Quick reminder before Ramadan starts, go at your pace, whatever you feel is progress, even the bare minimum is a lot, donโt feel pressured from seeing all the things people are saying to do online
Day 37372929473929848493489 of men not knowing children are part of the desires/trials of dunya and instead assuming more children = more piety
Also, in terms of biology only the best ages for women to have children are 25-35, these men stay loud and wrong
I hate this myth that men are unbiased or impartial. Everyone has an agenda or personal view, yet I see so many men confidently claim that they are โobjectively speakingโ.
Men decide whatโs the truth and whatโs not, whatโs the norm and whatโs not, so to them whatever
@AureliusAkhond
The hijabis stay on campus late night after classes to finish their class assignments with Steve and John. Sometimes in the dorm rooms. I donโt know a single chaste hijabi from my high school. Let alone college.
@Pineapples911x
This is what I mean. Itโs just accepting defeat. Letting a horrible situation carry on because itโs too embedded in culture and too difficult to face. So girls pretend itโs not a problem. But that doesnโt take away the harm, in fact it makes it worse
It does not say in the Quran that women are objects for menโs enjoyment if they donโt wear hijab ๐คทโโ๏ธ thatโs something he made up.
Hijab is for women, not for men. Women are still human if they donโt wear it. Men lower their gaze regardless of if she is wearing it.
Iโm crying ๐ญ there were complaints that girls outperform boys in gcse English and they said itโs because of female characters in the stories in the exam papers, so for my year for both papers they put only male characters and girls still outperformed boys
@AAsadauskas
@ask_aubry
Exactly I always see people say women are โpunishingโ their man when she canโt control her emotions, her lack of feeling is a consequence of his betrayal, and she shouldnโt be expected to be able to make herself love him again