I managed to pay 31 school fees for 31 kids for my 31st birthday coming up this week. I’m so proud of myself and I’m grateful to God for giving me the resources to make a difference.
Talk to me. Tell me when you think your needs aren’t being met and we will figure it out and find solution where both our needs are good. Tell me when I do something that upsets you so I can fix it immediately. Just talk to me
Lupita reminded me that it’s okay to feel things deeply whether it’s love or pain. Denying myself from the human experience is only a disservice to myself
There was loadshedding at my place so I dropped my girl off at Seattle so she could do work and I went to my therapy session. Now I’m at Seattle, reading my book and watching her do her work. Idk if feels small but this is how I’ve imagined someone fitting perfectly in my life
Hi guys , I’m looking for a job as a gardener. With over a decade of hands-on experience in gardening, I've honed my skills in nurturing plants and tending to various gardens.
I love being in a open relationship so much. There’s nothing you can tell my main that she doesn’t know already, I even send her my live location when I’m at an away game.
Doctors are complaining about being understaffed and lack of resources in public hospitals but the government thinks it’s a good idea to say “hey guys, let’s sign a national health insurance bill”
PRESIDENT RAMAPHOSA TO PUBLICLY SIGN NATIONAL HEALTH INSURANCE BILL INTO LAW
President
@CyrilRamaphosa
will on Wednesday, 15 May 2024, publicly sign into law the National Health Insurance Bill which directs the transformation of the South Africa’s health care system to achieve
You are disrespectful.
Calling someone's kids a mess simply because it's not your preference is a sign of disrespect.
There are decent and mature ways of addressing issues.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you preferring a guy without a "mess" but you don't have to
I took an adult gap year and I was teaching English in Korea and this one time a 6 year old said to me “Teacher , if you are from Africa, how can you speak English?”
“If you sell cars for a living and someone steals your car. You’re definitely lying because we all know you sold it to them”
Do you see how dumb that sounds
I’m so grateful that I’m learning to hold space for my emotions. My heart is now a place that is safe, warm and provides comfort. It’s like I’m giving myself a big hug every time I acknowledge and validate my feelings both positive and negative feelings.
Everytime I see him he is so happy. He ran to me and asked me to buy him school shoes, I asked where’s his mom so we can talk to her and he was so happy to be in the car even though it was for less than a minute. great kid 🥺💛
Nah I’m going to have women fill out a questionnaire before making it official with questions like
“How do you want me to hold space for you when you’re upset?”
“How do you manage conflict?”
“What triggers are you currently aware of”
“Do you still choose me even on my bad days”
Lord I don’t want to ever be old and look back at my life and think “what if”. Please give me the capacity and resources to live out all my what if scenarios while I’m still young.
Physical touch is a love language that really reassures me during times of conflict. If we’re annoyed at each other but we still hold hands walking the street; if we hug after an argument, or if you stroke my face when I’m upset, it makes such a positive impact…
you can lie in therapy and play victim in all scenarios lol and your therapist won’t know and they’ll keep validating you. You need to go to therapy with a clear goal in mind and leave afterwards.
It's frustrating when someone approaches you under the guise of being friends, only to surprise you later by confessing their feelings for you. C’mon don’t do that, I know I’m amazing but plz
I have hectic social anxiety but it comes after every social interaction. I overthinking everything from my tone of voice, what I said and how I acted. It’s actually hell ngl