Officemate aku ni baik giler😭tadi gi beli makanan dgn dia pastu ternampak dimsum, cakap kat dia macam sedap je tapi tkpe la dah beli makanan lain.pastu twtiba tadi kat opis dia cakao qilah makan la dimsum tu.weh dia beli dimsum tu utk aku😭effort A+ semoga dia dapat gf yang baik
Tadi pagi aku malas sikit sebab penat semalam balik lewat ada urusan. Wife aku kejut aku tahajjud cakap ada few minutes lagi ni sebelum subuh.
Rasa berbunga-bunga ambil wudhu syukur ada wife macam ni.
Tak perfect tak apa. Asalkan sama2 strive to be better.
Boleh improve sama-sama bab ilmu, hafalan, ibadah zahir, kalau memang berniat macam tu. Yang susah adalah akhlak, sebab itu terpancar dari hati. That, I can't really do anything about.
You should stop at "idk". Learn akidah properly. Iman is not up to anyone to set the standards. It is solely Allah's. So check what Allah has said abt things that make iman increase & decrease.
Something is wrong lah with our edu system. Lots of palatao when it comes to deen.
Salah satu hari paling bahagia adalah hari kahwin.
Allah cakap ingat Allah di hari2 kita senang, Allah ingat kita waktu kita susah.
Rumah tangga ni tipu tak akan ada hari susah. Kalau waktu tu nak Allah ingat & tolong kita, jagalah had2 Allah di hari kahwin.
Sedih bila tengok kawan2 sendiri bila sanding je, tudung mesti atas dada.
Macam dah jadi satu kewajipan 🥺 Yang belum kahwin, mohon la ambil berat isu aurat di majlis hari bahagia kalian. Aurat tetap aurat.
A tip.
If you feel the urge to do a sin, raise your hands immediately & make du'a to Allah.
Ask Allah to give you patience.
Ask Allah, with you being patient, bless & multiply for you a better substitute(halal version) of that sin & the other rewards in this Dunia & Akhirah.
@Khayr96
The fact that people consider this is "sporting" and can't see the bigger picture of why it is wrong, just make it worse. We are not just weak men, we are unaware we are weak!
Lelaki biar bini simpan gambar lelaki lain ni, ada 4 kemungkinan.
1. Gay.
2. Bini pandai sorok tak kantoi lagi.
3. Sipi2 dayus simp takut bini.
4. Tak kisah/tahu tanggungjawab lelaki.
Moga Allah beri hidayah.
@malaygentleman
Bitter how? Focus on my statement and prove it wrong if you can. I still stand with my statement. Or if you put a mirror, you'll see you, being bitter using my father's existence as a reply. It is okay. Think & once you gain clarity, come back.
Aku hafal Quran. Kau tak? Nak hafal Quran? Nak. Jom.
Aku dah belajar sikit agama. Kau tak? Nak belajar? Nak. Jom.
Aku jaga makan. Kau nak jaga? Nak. Jom.
Isteri/suami yang strive jadi better ni yang menyejukkan hati.
Yang hopeless tu mcm, "kau buatlah. Let me be myself.
@adzman86
@emmelynnamal
Yang kau cakap didikan ekstremis agama tu, itu didikan nabi engkau. Dia yang larang duduk dekat majlis yang ada hidang arak. Kalau jahil, tak tahu, belajar. Bukan selamba label itu ini ekstremis bila tak kena tekak & gaya hidup kau.
Apa2 pun, belajar lah Arab. Baca & faham Al Quran tanpa perlu tengok terjemahan ni satu nikmat. Dapat baca & faham bacaan solat, doa & zikir ni, syok dia, Allah jelah yang tahu. Silap2, kat Al Fatihah tu pun dah nangis.
@SunooNoona2
Bini saya fanatik lelaki lain, saya babab dia dulu. Kalau tak jalan, syariat dah gariskan apa yg boleh saya buat alhamdulillah. Tapi saya inshaAllah tak akan support & redha bini saya fanatik dengan lelaki selain saya melainkan lelaki2 yg berhak untuk difanatikkan.
Normalize matangkan anak awal supaya diorang boleh kahwin awal.
"Tapi umur 18 tu muda lagi. Umur tu sepatutnya...."
This is the herd mentality of "weak people create hard time".
And these weak people are the majority in our time. Will you lower your standard to their level?
Girl: *Saying racist things about Malay.*
Me: That is racist.
Girl: I am Malay.
Using this logic, I can go rampant saying keling mabuk, cina sepet busuk tak mandi pagi since I am a cindian.
This is an unfair advantage tht I didn't realize. The lesen to curse 3 races freely.
Everything deteriorates with time. I’m sure if many men were to take good care of their wives, their wives will last longer, their body and shape will remain intact.
Please be just in your house. And Take care of them. They need it. May Allah SWT bless all our marriages. Ameen
By changing your perspective, "the reality of dealing with everything is you are dealing with Allah." You become more cautious in what you type, what you say, what you do & your reaction to things.
@ibjela
1. Doa. Yang pegang hati suami ni Allah. Minta sungguh2. Allah janji kabulkan doa kita.
2. Biasakan pasang audio Al Quran dekat rumah yang Qari(Tajwid ok) tu, suami suka.
3. Bila ada anak, biasakan anak dengan Al Quran. Ayah dia mesti terikut sebab cair dengan anak.
"Hati2, belajar aqidah ni boleh jadi gila."
Rupanya sebab yang dipelajari dulu tu bersalut falsafah Yunani.
Sejak mula belajar balik dari Ustaz yang dipercayai manhajnya, rupanya semudah-mudah perkara adalah belajar Aqidah kerana selarinya ia dengan fitrah.
Streotaip Pengajian Aqidah
Sewaktu dawrah tempoh hari, soalan pertama yang saya ajukan kepada jemaah.
“Kalau tuan puan pergi kuliah di masjid atau surau, subjek apa yang paling berat dan bosan?”
Para jemaah terus jawab: “Ngaji Tauhid Ustaz!”
Ya, itulah realitinya.
Kelakar manusia ni, dia simpulkan semua benda ikut kaca mata dia.
Dia masuk rumah orang, tak ada tv, dia ckp mesti sedih & boring family ni. Tak ada hiburan.
Padahal family tu ok je. Laki bini anak semua gembira tak ada tv.
Yang tak boleh hidup tanpa tv tu hang. Bukan depa.
Pasal Riba' ni. Umar R.A cakap kami(Sahabat) tinggalkan 9/10 transaksi yang halal sebab takut terpalit dengan Riba'.
Jangan ambil mudah apa yg sahabat nabi jaga2.
On the other hand, jangan ambil mudah & remehkan apa yg sahabat paling tekankan, Aqidah.
@mamma_ell
I remember the day I found this video & I rasa, at the end of the day, your beauty & strength will diminish slowly. But what makes the affection & love keep on blooming is to wake up to the other half wishing me to be with her entering Jannah together.
It is called sensitivity. Weird take from a muslim like you knowing Semenanjung full of muslim. We don't joke about how tasty cow is if we know lots of hindu are there. Apa kebenda entah asyik2 semenanjung this & that.
Tok moyang kita boleh hidup tanpa kipas & elektrik. Tok moyang kita boleh hidup di rumah berlantai tanah. Tok moyang kita makan sekali sehari.
Bukan nak suruh kau hidup macam diorang. Cuma nak suruh kau rendahkan threshold line bila kau mula rasa bersyukur.
Drive pagi hadap jem dengan awek halal ni best. Dapat zikir pagi+kahfi sama2. Then dah sampai, pergi sarapan sama2.
Partner in crime yang tolong uplift kita untuk istiqamah waktu tak ada mood/down/malas ni adalah nikmat.
May Allah bless you, my Schmetterling.😘
@mamma_ell
Siapa yang bertawakkal kepada Allah, Allah itu cukup baginya.
Allah mampu selamatkan Ibrahim A.S. semenjak dia ditangkap atau sebelum dia dilontar ke dalam api. Tetapi Allah selamatkan Ibrahim A.S. ketika dia di DALAM api agar kita sedar dengan SIAPA kita sedang bertawakkal.
Seronok masing masing mengomen. I nak ingatkan lagi sekali. Kita perempuan, ada anak perempuan. Kita tak tahu pengakhiran kita and keturunan kita macam mana lagi nanti. Ingat.
We were watching a ceramah on TV3.
My mom: Ibu tengok, ustaz-ustaz Malaysia ni selalu gemuk. Habis ceramah, makan. Ada event, makan, habis terawih, makan. Kan badan sihat tu sunnah.
Me: You are... right.
Me: Tahu tak kalau sayang jaga solat sunat 12 rakaat sebelum & selepas solat fardhu, sayang nanti dapat istana dekat syurga.
Wife: Kenapa tak share je istana tu dengan abang. Kenapa nak kena sorang satu.
Help😂😂😂😂
Kursus pra perkahwinan. Yang penceramah2 cerita pasal ex2 dia. Buat joke pasal dating lepas kursus. Peserta2 macam dah kahwin interaction depa.
Man, I love to be around Arabs yang culture depa sorok & elak cerita pasal perempuan depa.
If we only understand the concept of Rizq.
If it has been decreed, a person will get 20,000, He/she will get it by any means.
It is up to us to choose the means.
If we choose taqwa, there will be barakah & ziyadah in it.
If we choose haram, it will be made not enough for us.
May Allah change you from sinning in private to crying in private due to the fear of Him.
From the people of Maksiat to the one of the 7 types of chosen people under the shade of Allah in Mahsyar.
7-eleven area rumah aku dulu siap keluar fatwa baru lagi.
Aku tanya, "ni kalau kerja cashier ni, kena deal dengan arak juga ke?"
Manager tu cakap "Jangan risau, arak tu, awak pakai glove."
Saja nak share aku pernah keje fnb masa cuti sem. Cakap ngan manager nak pi solat jumaat ngan member aku. Pastu manager cakap “boleh tapi kau solat dulu, dah habis nanti dia pulak”.. anjai menangis cikgu Kafa dengar
Umar R.A tak beri sesiapa berniaga di pasar melainkan dia faqih(faham) halal haram jual beli. Kalau tak, pasti dia akan makan riba samada rela atau terpaksa.
Dari dulu cringe dengan so called "daie" influencer ni. Adik aku quote dari depa pun aku suruh pi dengar scholars yang syarah benda2 betul lah. Yg bahas ilmu syarak. Ini balik2 cinta2 & heartbroken.
This is not a normal conduct at work.
Not a normal conduct between a staff & boss.
Not a normal conduct between a Muslim man with his non mahrams.
All of u who’s been following “influencers” & letting these kind of content bermaharajalela is part of the prob.
Bring back shaming.
Wife tidur dulu. Dapat tenung dia sambil ponder how lucky I am & how I should try my best to be grateful with this nikmat & pinjaman Allah. I have been blessed. This fragile cutie pie must be cared & protected at all costs.
Jangan lupa sincerely minta mati syahid guys. It is indeed the best death one can get. Dekat barzakh orang beriman dapat tengok dari jauh je syurga tu & minta kiamat dicepatkan sebab tak sabar nak enjoy dalam tu, yang mati syahid siap boleh masuk keluar.
Women dancing for the sake of social media content during raya is just highlighting that they have unaware/ignorant/useless wali(s).
The worst is the one who dances with her wali.
Jawapan paling universal, minta doakan. Lepastu selalunya diorang stop. Tak ada nak push2 lagi.
Bila nak kahwin?
Ha itulah. Doakan saya makcik jumpa jodoh yang solehah.
Bila nak ada anak?
Ha itulah. Doakan saya makcik tahun ni dapat kembar yang soleh(ah) sihat wal afiyah.
Jawapan paling universal untuk semua soalan sensitif / susah yang saya perasan semua orang selalu guna ialah:
"Hehehe"
Bila nak kahwin?
Hehehe
Bila nak ada anak?
Hehehe
Kenapa badan makin besar ni?
Hehehe
Boleh jadi awkward, boleh jadi ramah, depends sapa yang tanya 😂
Bila perhati budaya kita, aku boleh rumuskan nak jadi bertakwa & soleh ni, kau kena buat benda yang orang kebanyakan tak buat & tak buat benda yang orang kebanyakan buat. Kena ada prinsip.
@jhnrdzi
Malaysia bukan negara sarapan je, kita negara makan. Makan makan makan mesti ada dalam semua aspek.
Majlis sedih? Makan.
Majlis gembira? Makan.
Mati? Makan. Baru hidup? Makan.
Lepas teraweh, tidur ke? Tak, makan.
"I don't have time to exercise."
In the shower, you can do:
Push-ups
Sit-ups
Squats
Pull-ups
Deadlift
Row
Chest fly
Human flag
Kong vault
Thief vault
Cat leap
Somersault
Backflip
You are just lazy.
The preparation of having soleh kids & Allah-fearing family starts from the day we have the intention to marry.
As someone soleh from the past used to say:
"I will put an extra effort in my ibadah so that Allah will take care of you O my son"
Wallahi cerita hantu rosakkan hati kita.
Budak-budak dahlah tak ditanamkan rasa takut dekat Allah.
Kita tanam pula takut dekat makhluk yang lagi hina & rendah dari kita.
Jahanam akidah. Sampai besar terkesan.
Entah kenapa cerita-cerita sial tahyul hindu ni tersebar lagi.
This is actually a compliment as every muslim should be an islamist. Now, keep on smearing cow dungs all over your face while we clean ourselves at least 5 times a day.
Away from the gatherings of solihin.
Away from the remembrance of Allah, death & akhirat.
Away from tadabbur of the Quran.
Too much self-doubt.
Lack of focus.
Mix these together, and there you go. A depressed you.
@adzman86
@emmelynnamal
Nabi larang umat daripada duduk dekat majlis yang ada arak. Ini sahaja dah cukup tak perlu acah2 nak dilute the hukum dengan "you do you" & dekat bar ada intellectual discourse bagai. Kau melalut pergi masuk fathu makkah rom jadah ni, kau faham tak kita tengah bincang apa ni?🤭
At the end of the day, the best partner we can get is the one that brings us closer to Allah.
Just love how the wife of Habib woke him up for qiamullail.
I use the audio today as an alarm. May one day Allah make me and whoever she is waking up each other like that.
Your surroundings shape you. Your ways of thinking & your ways of perceiving things. Once you acknowledge this, you are able to choose the best outcome you want to achieve & build the surroundings needed. Resistance is inevitable by the people around you & that is okay.
Pagi tadi potong rambut dengan a pakistani. Baru 4 bulan kat sini & tatih2 lagi cakap BM. Sembang punya sembang tiba2 dia cakap, no money, okay, can live. No namaz(solat), no okay. Cannot live.
This is iman. It is universal. Mukmin kenal barang.
Iman ni bukan kau punya rasa2. Dia tambah turun ikut apa Allah set. Kalau ikut rasa, siapa punya rasa kita nak follow? Kalau ikut rasa, yang paling best, wahdatul wujud batiniyyah ni lah. Siap rasa dia adalah tuhan, tuhan adalah dia.
@agirlnamedzahra
Would like to add one.
Ya Mu'allima adama 'allimni, wa ya mufahhima Sulaimana fahhimni.
O The One who taught Adam A.S., teach me. O The One who gives understanding to Sulaiman A.S, make me understand.
Yesterday at work, I pondered upon rizq.
Have you ever waking up worrying your mum will be someone else? She is no longer Fulanah binti Fulan?
No, why?
Because subconsciously you know It is impossible for her to be swapped with someone else.
So does your Rizq.
So don't worry
Umar suruh belajar Bahasa Arab sebab itu adalah sebahagian daripada agama kita. Agama ini sumber dia, Quran & Sunnah berdasarkan fahaman Sahabat & Tabieen(in arabic). So, aneh kalau kita nak go deep into discussion pasal islam tanpa faham Bahasa Arab.
Persoalan, adakah mana mana dalil yang mengukuhkan perkara ini? Yang clearly Nabi larang bangsa yang tak bercakap pasal bahasa Arab, untuk bercakap soal agama?
Sedangkan Nabi sendiri suruh sampaikan apa apa dari dia walaupun satu ayat. Meaning tiada kebatasan bahasa la kan?
@malaygentleman
@KamalAsyrof
@feeftytree
Chill. My dad is good, Alhamdulillah. My father taught me to be patient with people like you. Hope you have a good dad too. So, you may start with learning the responsibilities of a father. And then come back, you shall be entertained.
Read dayus.
Kita kat sini sebenarnya bosan & single. Aku rasa kalau korang semua kahwin, nanti tweet pun jarang2. Tengok macam aku. Last tweet 3 days ago.
Pergi kahwinlah!
Memori makan dengan family banyak. Yang paling ingat & seronok, nasi putih, telur mata & kicap yang disuap tangan makcik dekat rumah atok. Sambil kitorang berlima sepupu main, sambil tu dia suap sorang-sorang.
Read Surah Al Qasas. Ponder upon the story of the mother of Musa A.S. and then the journey of him growing up until he had to encounter Firaun.
Then read Surah Maryam. Ponder upon the story of Zakaria A.S & Maryam A.S.
These 2 are enough to strengthen your tawakkul.
To learn about tauhid and tasawuf. To continue building understanding and translating it into faith, words and action.
Read and listen to people's stories of how He gets us into certain situations and got us out of it, sending help in forms of people, opportunities & ilham.
Someone should raise from his seat, slap & kick this Hussam guy. This guy, an adult, in Masjid, "religious" figure, in front of people, blatantly uses curse words, and people are okay??
My fellow brothers,
berhati2 lah pilih isteri, sbb perempuan jahat celaka gini mmg wujud.
Dan judging from the direction of our world is moving, bilangan mereka makin ramai.
Mereka nak dilayan bagai ratu, disembah bagai tuhan, princess syndrome teruk, dan bila nafsu mereka
@DiyaSeesGhosts
Nah. You don't know the basic. I come from a mixed family & we know we are MALAYsian. So we speak Malay fluently. You want to speak bahasa lain, make sure you understand and speak Malay first. Hidup dekat MALAYsia, mental macam negara luar. That basic pun fail.
Tinggal muzik ni buat diri rasa tak selesa bila makan dekat kedai/shopping mall penuh dengan muzik. Lagi prefer bunyi yang alami. Bunyi kelentang-kelentung dapur & hiruk pikuk manusia bersembang dah cukup dah.