Every day you learn a new trick to stay alive. Pepper spray. Switchblade. Taser. Fake a phone call. Give them your number. DON'T give them your number. Don't visit men. Don't let men visit you. Stay home. Don't stay home alone. Don't get into relationships. Tell men you're taken.
Holding your hand when I say this, you can sexually assault/harass someone even as a woman. It is not normal to grope and touch and kiss strangers without their consent. IDC if you're queer, for the love of God, ask.
Funny thing is I don't even want men to protect me. I don't trust it. I don't want to HAVE to be protected in the first place. I just want to be left alone.
Why are you not angry? Why are you not shaking with rage? From babies to sleeping women to kids looking for help in government offices. We are never safe. We are never safe. Why are you not angry? Why do you not rage?
Be quiet, small, so they don't notice you. Be loud, men don't like loud women. Cover up. Don't have male friends. Share your location. Fawn. Strike your palm to his nose, square your stance. Always be ready to run.
the school system is so funny. because people aren't actually learning, they're cramming. in fact, it's not necessarily intelligence that some people display, it's memory. they can remember what they cram. they have good working memory.
Rape is a violent, premeditated crime, and that is what this was. Not to mention that he RAPED a bleeding body are you alright? He should get a slap on his wrists as rehab and her life - if she manages to survive is what? Mere fluff? Execute him. Fast.
Adigwe Samuel sexually harasses women, and he is a student of
@UnilagNigeria
. Do not let him graduate from the school. Don't let him graduate to harassing patients.
#RusticateAdigweSamuel
people with no perspective.
like listen, i see it from your point of view, i respect it. but this is how i see it, and i kinda need you to respect that too.
Losing touch with people because of perceived rejection and further isolating yourself. Marking messages as unread so you remember to respond, but archiving all because they overwhelm you. Silent for all devices.
- Unless I absolutely have to, I do not leave the house. Even when they're not there.
- Visits make me uncomfortable.
- I am irritable when people are not as sharp/swift with things I'm swift.
- I am hypervigilant.
- I am detached from everything.
Then more tiktoks I see on the subject, the more incensed I get. ๐ญโ๐ฝ It's not hot, you're not being direct or whatever, you're being weird. If a man did it to you, you'd be grossed out. Please please please.โ๐ฝ
Take note of the names Samuel Adigwe, Otokiti Gbemileke & Chibueze Nwammah. They are sexual harassers at best & assaulters at worst. You do not want them near you. They will violate you. Do something. Be angry. They will assault you while you seek healthcare.
#endSAcultureinCMUL
Type their full names. So when people look them up, this comes up. Infuse their names into the tweets. First and last names. ๐๐ฝ
#endSAcultureinCMUL
if this is the first time the
#JusticeForAusta
is on your timeline, clicking on it should take you to all the posts that have been made to give you more information. Austa was killed by a Benjamin Best AKA Killaboi, who admitted to the crime and STILL walks.
Two months ago, Austa was killed by her boyfriend Killaboi.
The murderer dropped one silly ass message and dipped.
He is currently back on twitter, new handle and retweeting stuff like nothing happened and also deleted those messages.
This is Austaโs mum on Instagram. ๐
happy girlfriends day to girls girls and funny women and my serious women and my assertive women and the daughters and sisters and the writers and the ones in stem and creatives and whimsy and serious and confident and silly and excitable and happy. you're everything. i love you.
Might be a long thread, but hold my beer.
- I'm very isolate-y. I know I love someone, romantically or platonically when I don't mind them being in my space. Or mind being in theirs. I know I'm in love when I would leave my space for them. Headspace, physical space, etc. +
Sometimes when you see a privileged take, you just know. So many people can't because their basic living expenses cost even more than they earn. It's not even a matter of convenience, they just don't have enough to break even.
If you canโt save money when youโre earning 10k, you canโt save when youโre earning 100k.
Saving is a habit you need to build with discipline and consistency. Itโs not always supposed to be convenient.
Okay, I have a plan. One of you should give birth. Then your baby gives ME snuggles and I take care of her when you want a two-week vacation. And when she's with me. And when I see her. And I buy her the world. But I get to bring her back to you sometimes.
you have a very smooth brain. very very smooth. common sense and ideas and rhetoric and all that good stuff just rolls off. no lumps, bumps or ridges. smooth.
do you know what is very disturbing?
the fact that yโall are forgetting that men have feelings to , they get assaulted, raped, and so on this society donโt just take it up and feel the need to silence them
nawa o
talking about gender equality and doing the opposite
โi like youโ
i'm a writer. i will immortalize you. how i remember you. whatever you do to me, however you treat me will eventually just be material for a character's depth. think again o. ๐ญโ๐ฝ
been looking for words to articulate how wicked it is to be planning an attack on someone because of their sexuality when it in no way concerns you. like you made it your business to watch his apartment and its visitors and everything, even had the gall to eat of his food.
What's happening in Niger is actually insane. They are children. No rehabilitation, no support. They are simply being allocated like one wouk do cattle. That is insane.
#KeepeyesonNiger
What I hate about myself is that you could leave me alone in a white sterile room with no stimulation and my work and I would absolutely find stimulation and not do my work. In fact, it might even be worse than when I have the usual stimulation.
my working memory has wonderfully gotten weaker over time, and it eventually has reflected in grades, from stellar to average. and it's comical because it's not that i'm stupid. exams are a test of memory, and
so many reasons why this is daft. some of them?
- rape is one of the hardest crimes to prove.
- saying someone is โnot found guiltyโ doesn't mean they are innocent.
- a punishment already exists for false information/ perjury/defamation.
- statistics show that over 80% of +
Do you also feel bone crushing sadness (that morphs into quiet rage) when you're perceived wrongly by someone who's supposed to know you well or is that just a Desire problem?
My mother funded every single whim I had. Have. Ever. There's been a lot.
When I was much smaller, a woman followed me home because she noticed a man was following me.
My grandmother knew I loved books, so each year, she'd get me books.
You people stress me out. For one, as far as I know, decentering men means removing them from the forefront of our beings, and actions and thoughts and logic. You can be attracted to men and decenter them. There is a subset that doesn't, but they're a subset within a subset +
Happy International Women's day to THE women. You're the salt of the earth and I couldn't imagine life without you. I love seeing you, hearing you, witnessing your excellence. I love all the forms you take. You're phenomenal, and you never have to prove that to ANYONE. โค๏ธ
you people have normalised ghosting and poor communication, talk about โdroppingโ people and cutting them off for every little thing, and a lot of you are passive aggressive and can't use your words. it's not that they're terrible friends. they're not making it
1/3
exams are a test of memory, and that's why i tell people that they shouldn't use that to measure their intelligence. it is just testing your memory. even your doctors and lawyers are constantly learning and unlearning, don't let them kill you please. ๐ญ
idk, it's just comical. ๐ญ๐
i can give you what you want, sure. but when later i need to apply it or use it elsewhere, i can't remember it for shit. i wish i was joking. unless you tested me on it each week and made me know it w/o learning it, lmaooo.
When will the Nigerian Police Force declare Benjamin Nnanyereugo Best wanted for murdering Augusta Osedion?
He confessed to the crime over two months ago, yet he is still free and also posting online.
All we want is
#JusticeForAusta
please do your duty and
#ArrestBenjaminBest
WANTED PERSON: PEACE EKOM ROBERT ARRESTED, INVESTIGATION CONTINUES
The Nigeria Police Force wish to provide clarity on the ongoing investigation involving Ms. Peace Ekom Robert, who is suspected of engaging in serial fraudulent activities, which have affected numerous
Trigger warning: femicide
38-year-old model Kristina Joksimovic was allegedly strangled, dismembered and pureed in a blender by her husband, Thomas (a pseudonym).
They had two children together.
I'm not gonna lie, the most amusing part is the uniformity of the police and security personnel. There's enough uniforms, arms and numbers to harm protesters but not against the bandits? Fuck you all.
#EndBadGovernanceInNigeria