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@mistrixsade

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Otherworldly NYC Dominatrix • Bespoke BDSM • Private Dungeon • 13 Yrs #NYCDominatrix #SeriousKit #Venus2000 #Electroplay #MedFet 👽🕳️

New York, NY
Joined November 2012
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@mistrixsade
Mistrix Sade - NYC Dominatrix & Select Travel
11 months
If you see another sex worker into similar interests/aesthetics, etc as you, why not just try to befriend them and collaborate? And if they don't have the capacity for that, just admire. Instead of viewing them as "competition"? Don't let capitalism seep in and poison your brain.
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@mistrixsade
Mistrix Sade - NYC Dominatrix & Select Travel
5 years
Tip for aspiring service submissives: your fixation on how you think a Domme "should" be served is self-serving and irrelevant. Pay attention to how your Domme WANTS to be served, even if it doesn't center your fantasies.
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@mistrixsade
Mistrix Sade - NYC Dominatrix & Select Travel
4 years
Yesterday, I had a non SW "friend" reach out to say that the Atlanta serial killer just needed to get laid, that his very leftist, "radical" prof made this joke, and he expected me to laugh with him. I responded that SWs are not vessels for male violence or sexual frustration.
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@mistrixsade
Mistrix Sade - NYC Dominatrix & Select Travel
4 years
If you're not a sex worker and you witness someone making violent jokes about sex workers, you need to be holding those people accountable. Stop perpetuating this culture that says sex workers are sub-human receptacles for male violence. It's disgusting.
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@mistrixsade
Mistrix Sade - NYC Dominatrix & Select Travel
10 months
You don't need to have an "I am god" complex even in your marketing as a pro-Domme, imo. You can be a Domme for your subs/clients and maintain a down-to-earth, grounded in reality demeanor regardless. Specific role-plays are another thing. Makes it hotter to me, tbh.
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@mistrixsade
Mistrix Sade - NYC Dominatrix & Select Travel
5 years
I will not tolerate SWs judging others for not having large safety nets during a crisis. You never know someone's personal situation. Many are unable to save due to chronic illness, medical debt, etc. Blame our broken system instead. This isn't the time to pass judgment.
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@mistrixsade
Mistrix Sade - NYC Dominatrix & Select Travel
4 years
@AWuornosFan That was my last vanilla job before going full time with sex work. I was in the early stages of doing sex work at the same time and was just like, uh, no, I can charge WAY more for being sexual, fuck this.
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@mistrixsade
Mistrix Sade - NYC Dominatrix & Select Travel
4 years
A good service sub (to me) is studious, has numerous useful skills, is forever working to anticipate my needs, takes detailed notes, doesn't need to be told more than twice, knows when to be quiet & never, ever makes more work for me. Very, very few are cut out for the job.
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@mistrixsade
Mistrix Sade - NYC Dominatrix & Select Travel
5 years
ALSO: how are any of you "true Dommes" going to pretend for a second that sticking your arm halfway up someone's ass or using a little plastic tube to extract cum isn't sexual?
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@mistrixsade
Mistrix Sade - NYC Dominatrix & Select Travel
6 years
Not all Dommes are loud or outgoing social butterflies. And that's okay! Who else is a total introvert like Me? I love being an introvert. It only feeds My creatively weird imagination and means I much prefer deep one-on-one human interactions over big parties, etc.
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@mistrixsade
Mistrix Sade - NYC Dominatrix & Select Travel
4 years
@AWuornosFan When I worked as a server at a French restaurant I was expected to subtly flirt with customers and dress in a provocative manner to get more tips. Older male bar staff regularly made lewd comments at me and attempted to get me drunk on the job all the time.
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@mistrixsade
Mistrix Sade - NYC Dominatrix & Select Travel
10 months
To me, power exchange is hot NOT because it's about boosting my ego. It's hot because it's about providing a consensual, vulnerable space within defined parameters to experience mutual catharsis.
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@mistrixsade
Mistrix Sade - NYC Dominatrix & Select Travel
5 years
I am decidedly NOT a "classical" Dominatrix. And proud of that. I am an experimental one: a modern, de-constructivist sensory artist, and power exchange practitioner. Question everything, especially the "old school."
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