people who don’t know me well irl think i’m a guy and sure, it’s mildly uncomfortable but it doesn’t make me want to go insane, as long as you don’t project masculinity™ onto me which rarely happens because i am a real certified softboy
you don’t write out mandarin tones in english text for the convenience of english speakers
i don’t write out mandarin tones because i can’t remember them for the life of me
we are not the same. i am dumber