my biggest happiness is how bts have obviously let jk be ND in peace bc they don’t batt an eye at this. it’s normal. BECAUSE IT IS. he’s expressing joy :”) w/o shame.
i just love the gentle boundary tannies set & the conversations they have bc this video isn’t “men showing physical intimacy = bad” but more about joon’s comfort w physical touch vs tae’s request, followed by joon’s gentle but firm response. +
@BTSSBEDS
@lovebugjoonie
Nah man 2seok really his handlers with the way they tried the stern parenting. Remember when they got to know kook was drunk & lost in Malta so they left so fast for their baby. 100% bet Hoseok scolded him
tae immediately felt some rejection (he’s sensitive to words, WOA is probs his love lang) but asked immediately for confirmation (that’s on RSD lol) which joon reassures just as fast, but w boundary again. i love hoseok coming in w his own gentle reminder (in case of any shame) +
bc men ARE socialised to be wary of physical touch w other men so maybe that’s why, & we know through this it’s just about joon’s comfort levels. tae respects that & asks if hand holding is fine. don’t have the rest but this entire 16 sec clip tells us SO much about their +
daily interactions, their knowledge of each other as well as the respect + consideration for individual lines while also asking consent. we see how HARD they’ve worked to reach this level of communication bc by god it’s not easy, esp for men socialised to keep shut.
i can’t help but notice these moments as the most precious thing they do. this & tae asking to speak w jungkook bc he felt distant from him (even tho as a group they had a dynamic) are my top fav communication moments from bts. 🥹🥹
jimin has been instrumental in the healthy emotional values bts are lauded for bc despite his own identity struggles he’s the one in the group who brought open love, sharing gifts, fostering emotions in men & making it a SAFE process enough for the rest to accept it.
i was not expecting this to blow up. it’s nice to see so many other ND ppl relating :”) but this also means attracting the ableist crowds. i work w ND ppl, i am an ND kid— i’m not “diagnosing” jk— i can’t. i’m noting some traits, relate to some of them & made an observation.
you can interpret it however u want but saying shit like “he’s normal like other ppl” “stop calling him mentally disabled” is tone deaf. ND ppl are just as fine, capable, intelligent, empathetic & exist in day to day society. they’re successful. yes, it’s very much a projection
@jiministheory
@lilyoonberry
Just want a fic where Hoseok is oblivious until Joon starts working out then is all admiring him but like a bro and everyone knows he has the giantest crush but Hoseok denies lol
@jinjoonies
LEGIT THE WAY THE REST OF THEM FOLLOW NAMJOON LIKE BABY CHICKS PROUDLY SHOWING THEIR ENGLISH PRACTICE AND HIM LISTENING TO THEM WITH CARE AND ATTENTION I CANNOT
on my end but that’s how this works. we try to relate to our fav ppl & form a community when we find similar ppl through it. this is fandom. idk if he ACTUALLY has it bc im not his damn psychologist. regardless if he has it or not i like seeing that he’s doing something ppl 100%
@minyoongispiano
@goyeopstan
that’s yoongi showing how to kill capitalism and monarchy with smarts rather than complaining. yoongi on that liberal arts agenda mmmm
@Hedgegi
@taetaesoro
BH and BTS were also the first to start the streaming culture on YouTube and move off 1theK which had till then been monopolising artist content for a fee. Now THEY have to pay a fee to the artist to show the MV and I think it’s fantastic.
get shamed for & BTS are not doing that. they’ve not in any case. it’s happy. i’m happy. now stfu & get your sour moods outta here. & to the ones relating— thank you for sharing your experiences! :”)
@shaelynavalon
@jzux
i swearr it doesn’t even hit me sometimes that i’m too alone cuz i don’t feel pained by it? it’s too natural. even if it bothers me it barely lasts a moment, so i can’t obsess over it & find a solution lol
@jmxyg
@minjooniesangel
Busan boys really be hitting the wild end of getting drunk, Yoongi is your whiskey and cigars classic, Tae cannot handle the taste except soju, Hoseok passes out probably after 3 shots, Joon is a beer boy & Jin is tequila man. My observations from their latest live.
@vmnsie
flashbacks to that 2016 interview where jimin refused to play w him cuz of hwarang hyungs now tae is like MUST COVER all grounds (also HELP jimin’s expression he was “that’s right i am your only friend mister” 😭😭😭)
@saraddaeng
@NAMUWU98
I think Tae doesn’t hide it, that’s all. All of them know, Joon HAS to act nice cuz he’s the leader, Jimin is generally good natured & goes with flow. Tae literally doesn’t care; if he doesn’t like them he just doesn’t. He won’t force himself too either.
@Hedgegi
@sandemonyeondan
The same goes for songs like Baepsae and Spine Breaker, they’re legit about boomers shaming millennials and elderly disrespect bordering on abuse hidden behind cheerful tunes & upbeat choreo while tackling some really imp issues.
@littlestartae
@taetaesoro
Jimin is the champion of block and report. Unfortunately some people in the fandom have not caught onto this fascinating method of peace achievements
@MolotovBangtan
@sandemonyeondan
I read somewhere that jin’s role is to be the ice breakers with the older people while hoseok’s role is to be the ice breaker with younger people and I’m so 🥺🥺 Jin is gonna be the death of me
@mikrotaegismos
@taetaesoro
This entire episode was the powerful combination of what happens when two slytherins & their hufflepuff baby combine forces to demolish their enemies
he exists on a wildly different plane that keeps us on our toes while meeting his brand of “i’m friendly but weird & that’s a u problem” god i love him
@ddaeng_ma
I’m legit gonna cry ok like he was so SMOL 🥺 look at those big eyes he took care of his dongsaengs at that age and raised them :(( now Jin’s got his best friends PLS NO
i have many thoughts on colonisation cuz as an indian, we’re taught this from the very beginning. joon’s answer has evoked a lot of feelings so i’m just gonna say it. there are certainly aspects of india ik aren’t the best— which country isn’t tho??? that being said, it crushes
@giggleyoon
@sandemonyeondan
It reminds me of them saying they’ve lived together so long they don’t even need to talk to understand each other, Issa another level of satisfaction
@katt_wonderland
i’m not diagnosing. you can’t diagnose someone on a twitter post anyway. noting a trait that’s typical for ND ppl is not diagnosing. correlation is not equal to causation. make of that what you will.
@lovelybangta
Being from an Asian society, I’m taken aback again & again by how unusually supportive Jimin’s parents were. He used to change his interest all the time & his parents supported him throughout. Also that he’s from Busan & that has a generally masculine perception. It’s amazing.
@dontatme30
@taetaesoro
@BTS_twt
I feel Hoseok has a natural flow for learning languages and comes across as natural. Rm pauses a lot in contrast but I think that’s because he’s thinking and forming his words.
ace perspective but i think some of y’all are so desperate for them to be in a relationship/have a personal life sometimes y’all take your jokes TOO far, covering it up w “delulu” thoughts. like i hope u realise that as ok as it is for them to date, it’s also ok for them to not.
i’d also recommend to people engaging w this tweet to not give into ableist takes. it’s hard & hurts but you’d have better luck communicating w a wall. if someone’s committed to misunderstanding this twt you can’t reason w them. save energy. block or mute. most are jk solos.
@kkeomtae
@ivorytaetae
Tbh like I get it it’s fanfic & people mess around but some things you just DONT do. Like. Jimin is a genius, good af math, physics was his favourite, can drink like Thor. He isn’t just a petite little dancer
@producermygs
I love that they bicker so much like in that memories DVD when Jimin made fun of past Yoongi and Yoongi called out his AYO greeting like two slytherins being petty with e/o xD
@cherrykoya
@taetaesoro
I think he means that Hoseok doesn’t hug the hyung line or maybe even Jin; he’s definitely cuddled and practically smothered the maknae line with hugs. Also that he doesn’t like affection shown towards HIM, he likes to do the affection.
@hobisbi
@deepisca
I find it so attractive like??? He’s so smart and knowledgable and knows random trivia shit and so proud of his major while being good at math oof.
@Iuv_twt
@hobibluedream
Joon is the logical leader & hobi is the emotional balance one, they work together seamlessly like yin & yang. God it was so relieving to watch Hoseok correct them like that.
i know the song is primarily about romantic angst but for a brief moment there i saw aroace representation & felt so much joy. i totally want to throw away a proposal ring just for laughs. and petty.
@katt_wonderland
i’m not diagnosing. you can’t diagnose someone on a twitter post anyway. noting a trait that’s typical for ND ppl is not diagnosing. correlation is not equal to causation. make of that what you will.
@raihseo
i was not expecting this to blow up & i can see some quotes/comments about diagnosing (which?? i cant im just relating w the guy), it’s just so obvious to me. being ND is so much more common than we realise.
@fendijms
@taetaesoro
Ngl I cry everytime I remember how Jimin was kinda bullied for his busan accent & Taehyung stood up for him against everyone while being the most popular boy ever. The courage & kindness ENDS me
@Rellen2
@taetaesoro
I think it explains why the got overwhelmed enough to want to disband briefly because 2017 was TOO fast for them- the ppl who take it slowly & steadily. They worked on it & that’s why I feel Tear was like a second debut for them- more self aware, self assured & confident.
one of the snippets explains this as a teen pregnancy where apparently dude’s best friend got the girl they both liked, but after the daughter was born dude is like “holy shit she’s the one” this is literally twilight who tf is this author thinking GOOD GOD
im trying to understand this age difference… if they’re 15 years apart and she was 5 that would make him 20. so he was 15 when she was born. her dad was best friends with a 15yo when she was born?? was she a teen pregnancy baby? was her dad a 20-something being friends w a teen?
@Flogistona2
@raplinegold
bc apparently anything that humanises women & their experiences is now seen as feminism & not basic human decency acc to men -.-
@134340mree
@SdimplesJoonie
The fact that people discredit Namjoon saying he’s the emotional leader, the one who takes charge for the group emotionally & does weird shit & willingly acts weird so his group can feel normal, he’s the icebreaker you WISH you could be
@moonIightrm
@VANTAEGIELLA
If BTS has taught me one thing, it’s to never regret what has happened. I’m grateful every second that I was guided to them, the way I’ve grown in the past 2 years is more than all my previous 20 years combined and I owe a part of that to having them around. So no Joon. I won’t.
@pearlowrites
HES SUCH A DAD like why are y’all calling Namjin parents when Yoonjin is where the deal is at look at how FOND he got of namjoon’s baby antics pls :((
he might have briefly given into the hyper masculine hip hop image but he’s always been quick to challenge notions or right/wrong, men/women, blending logic w emotions. it’s so clear that he makes each of them OKAY with their emotions & encourages it actively while respecting
@ITSVMlN
bruh a whole ass slytherin too like i swear, i know i don’t ‘own’ my friends but god i’m so protective/possessive of them, sometimes i don’t even let new friends use MY nicknames for them & im always openly salty about new friends stealing my true ones. not ashamed👁
@sugar_lizard
Winning at everything else but run. A small price to pay. But also losing gives us more hand holding and pouting Tae and Jimin babying him so. Who is losing really
their individual boundaries & styles. his adaptive-ness is legendary. the way he is a go to mediator (b/w taejin, helping taekook speak w each other, bringing out the kid in yoongi etc) he’s just. so cool. mature. fun yet serious. he’s so important.
@fayepjm
thinking about joon begging hoseok to comeback & telling the company they can't make it without him and hoseok saying 'it's always been namjoonie for me i always show my songs to him first' i cry
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