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Author | Expatriate | Living in Ethereal Paradise: Cabo San Lucas, Baja California Sur, México 🇲🇽

Cabo San Lucas, México
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Matthew Dexter
10 years
“I quit my job just to quit. I didn't quit my job to write fiction. I just didn't want to work anymore.” ―Don DeLillo
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@MikeElChingon Wall between Italy and Slovenia.
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"Always be a poet, even in prose." ―Charles Baudelaire
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3 years
Best beach is an empty beach. I'm still alive. I sporadically post ethereal videos from my tropical beach. Follow your dreams. You don't need to write yourself to a private beach at a young age, but it's possible. If I did it, you can. Sky's the limit! 🏖🇲🇽🪅💯☀️🎏📚💙🌊⛵🐳💦
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Thridrangar (Þrídrangar) Lighthouse, Iceland. Þrídrangar means "three rock pillars" and the lighthouse was built there in 1939. The only access to the Þrídrangar lighthouse is by helicopter. Thridrangar Lighthouse, Southern Iceland 📸 via Árni Sæberg
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@TheLincoln Ottessa Moshfegh:
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"We're all going to die, all of us, what a circus! That alone should make us love each other but it doesn't. We are terrorized and flattened by trivialities, we are eaten up by nothing." ―Henry Charles Bukowski (August 16, 1920 – March 9, 1994)
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@Rosie @YouTube You're trying to comb churlish into charity. You should be ashamed. Enjoy your slippery slope argument.
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8 years
"I need solitude for my writing; not 'like a hermit'―that wouldn't be enough―but like a dead man." ―Franz Kafka
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@TheLincoln Philip Levine:
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5 years
Another horrible day on my private beach in ethereal paradise at land's end. Life is Hell. The pervasive burdens of being the greatest writer in the history of Los Cabos. 🇲🇽 💙 🌊 💦 🏖
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@KunGains @matthewbdexter Please follow me. I follow everybody back. Instagram too: Maxed out on FB. 💙✌💯
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6 months
Today, it looks like I'll need emergency surgery. I hope to live, but if not...it's fine and I lived a good life. It's nice to have a Sugar Mama girlfriend intensive care internal medicine physician who is head of the Intensive Care Unit at the best private hospital in Los Cabos.
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"But luxury has never appealed to me, I like simple things, books, being alone, or with somebody who understands." ―Daphne du Maurier
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I have fallen into an abyss. I live in a world so curious, so strange. Of the dream that was my life, this is my nightmare. ―Camille Claudel
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"I became insane, with long intervals of horrible sanity." "Music, when combined with a pleasurable idea, is poetry; music without the idea is simply music; the idea without the music is prose from its very definiteness." —Edgar Allan Poe (January 19, 1809 – October 7, 1849)
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Philip Levine (January 10, 1928 – February 14, 2015)
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"I desire the things that will destroy me in the end." ―Sylvia Plath http://t.co/QEJQ1H77zq
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"True terror is to wake up one morning and discover that your high school class is running the country." ―Kurt Vonnegut
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@MayaCPopa Philip Larkin:
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3 years
Received the best email last week. Brought me to tears. Couldn't see the ocean through salty blurriness. Can't announce everything 'til it's official & my agent gives me permission. Going to auction & maybe a larger advance than anticipated. Struggles & starvation was worth it.
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“The trouble with emergencies is that I always put on my finest underwear and then nothing happens.”―Zelda Fitzgerald http://t.co/7TcVLk7H5I
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"If you're going to be crazy, you have to get paid for it or else you're going to be locked up." ―Hunter S. Thompson
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"You must stay drunk on writing so reality cannot destroy you." ―Ray Bradbury (August 22, 1920 – June 5, 2012)
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@Miss_Mcfadyen Cabo San Lucas, Mexico 🇲🇽
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4 years
Lydia Davis:
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8 years
"I know pretty much what I like and dislike; but please, don't ask me who I am." ―Sylvia Plath (at the beach) 1953
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"Art is not in some far-off place." ―Lydia Davis
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Elaine Kahn:
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📚⏳⌛️🖤✨🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️
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5 years
"I'm not interested in writing short stories. Anything that doesn't take years of your life and drive you to suicide hardly seems worth doing." —Cormac McCarthy
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4 years
Beautiful sunset last night on our private beach. Somebody come live with me for summer. We'll get lost forever. Marooned in paradisiacal euphoria as this decrepit planet burns before the fledgling Second Great Depression. "I have suffered the atrocity of sunsets." —Sylvia Plath
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"Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift." ―Mary Oliver (September 10, 1935 – January 17, 2019)
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2 years
F. Scott Fitzgerald died eighty-two years ago tomorrow at the age of 44. The greatest writer of lyrical prose in the history of American literature. We light a candle in his honor. 🕯📚
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Finished my new novel. Now I can commit suicide.
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3 years
@starlaofnight "Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great." —Mark Twain
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5 years
I posted another video a couple days ago, but weather was sort of hazy so land's end & arch was obscured. Promise not to post too many videos, yet upsets me that hazy afternoon made it arduous to see into the distance. Love acoustics of waves when alone at the beach. 💙🌊💦🏖🇲🇽
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"Plot is the bone you throw the dog while you go in and rob the house." —T. S. Eliot
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"Substitute 'damn' every time you're inclined to write 'very;' your editor will delete it and the writing will be just as it should be." ―Mark Twain (November 30, 1835 – April 21, 1910)
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3 years
Tomorrow is the 100th anniversary of the 1921 Overlook Hotel 4th of July soirée. Heard it was a killer party. Black-tie debauchery. Your choice of roasted duck or sautéed salmon on a bed of filet mignon, foie gras, pan-seared shrimp, or garlic asparagus. Open bar & live music. 🔪
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@MayaCPopa "Now I am quietly waiting for the catastrophe of my personality to seem beautiful again, and interesting, and modern." ~Frank O'Hara, MEDITATIONS IN AN EMERGENCY ✨⏳⌛️⚰️📚
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Today is a good day. Signed a contract with my dream literary agent. 2020: the greatest year of my life. Definitely plan on ending it with a bang. Culmination of decades of working round-the-clock. 2021 will be perfect. The sky is the limit.
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5 years
Love our private beach. Love the acoustics of the ocean. Illimitable perks of being the greatest writer in the history of Los Cabos. Perfect proportion of rocks and sand. No tropical storms yet this season. Cannot wait to watch another major hurricane hit this oasis. 🌊 🇲🇽 🎼🌀
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"Don't tell me the moon is shining; show me the glint of light on broken glass." ―Anton Chekhov (29 January 1860 – 15 July 1904)
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2 years
Majestic afternoon reading, writing, and editing all alone at my pool in ethereal paradise. Keep improving exponentially EVERY day & night. Never stop. Never settle. Sky is the limit! "I sometimes think my vision of the sea is the clearest thing I own." 📚🏖🇲🇽 —Sylvia Plath
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7 years
A manuscript page from J.G. Ballard's CRASH.
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5 years
Yesterday on our private beach in Cabo. Water warming nicely. Happy summer solstice. Nothing more beautiful than the acoustics of waves, especially when one is all alone. Majestic. Perfect proportion of rocks and sand. Ethereal paradise. 🌊 🏖 🇲🇽
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3 years
"You should always be trying to write a poem you are unable to write, a poem you lack the technique, the language, the courage to achieve." —John Berryman (October 25, 1914 – January 7, 1972)
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@ThatEricAlper Almost all of them.
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Perks of being an unemployed author: "The very air here is miraculous, and outlines of reality change with the moment. The sky sucks up the land and disgorges it. A dream hangs over the whole region, a brooding kind of hallucination." John Steinbeck, Log from the Sea of Cortez
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8 years
The #Biblioburro is a traveling library that distributes books to kids in Columbia from the backs of two donkeys.
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6 years
"Your body is not a temple, it's an amusement park. Enjoy the ride." ―Anthony Bourdain (June 25, 1956 – June 8, 2018)
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Beach acoustics today. 🌊 🇲🇽 🏖 📚 🎶 🎵 "I wish we could spend July by the sea...We could lie in long citoneuse beams of the five o'clock sun on the plage at Juan-les-Pins and hear the sound of the drum and piano being scooped out to sea by the waves." —Zelda Fitzgerald
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1 year
Ethereal and verdant afternoon from my writing table on the porch in Nevis. West Indies and Lesser Antilles are pretty majestic. Felt feverish this morning, but imbibed medicine and am the epitome of euphoric now and looking forward to writing & editing well past midnight. 🇰🇳📚💙
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"I do not have any home. So why should I be homesick?" ―Carson McCullers (February 19, 1917 – September 29, 1967)
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"All good writing is swimming under water and holding your breath." —F. Scott Fitzgerald (September 24, 1896 – December 21, 1940)
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"I shut my eyes and all the world drops dead; I lift my eyes and all is born again." —Sylvia Plath 🌅
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3 years
Best beach is an empty beach. It's too dangerous to swim, but my life is about risks. I swim. I've been awake for days editing books. Writing is arduous. Sometimes lucrative. No health insurance all millennium. Starved a thousand days. But my beach in paradise. Take risks. 🏖📚🐳
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Denis Johnson's Three Rules To Write By "Write naked. That means to write what you would never say." "Write in blood. As if ink is so precious you can’t waste it." "Write in exile, as if you are never going to get home again, and you have to call back every detail."
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Marooned alone. Reading, writing, whale watching. Mellifluous fusion of music oozing from headphones and beautiful acoustics of waves borne by rocks and sand. 🐳 "If you're going to be crazy, you have to get paid for it or else you're going to be locked up." —Hunter S. Thompson
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Tangerine sunset today from my pool in paradise. I'm marooned here 'til I die or get famous. Love the acoustics of waves crashing on our beach. 🌅 "When I look at my life and its secret colours, I feel like bursting into tears." –Albert Camus (7 November 1913 – 4 January 1960)
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My beach acoustics. 💙 🌊 🎵 "Time is more complex near the sea than in any other place, for in addition to the circling of the sun and the turning of the seasons, the waves beat out the passage of time on the rocks and the tides rise and fall as a great clepsydra." —Steinbeck
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1 year
Zócalo de la Ciudad de México right now. 🇲🇽
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5 years
"I'll give you the whole secret to short story writing. Here it is. Rule 1: Write stories that please yourself. There is no Rule 2." ―O. Henry (September 11, 1862 – June 5, 1910)
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2 years
@jmasseypoet You might enjoy this poem by Maya C. Popa:
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7 years
"Hell hath no fury like a hustler with a literary agent." ―Frank Sinatra (December 12, 1915 – May 14, 1998)
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Been wasting time writing short stories and essays instead of novels and memoirs this summer. Received 982 rejections and 17 acceptances. I have new pieces forthcoming in literary journals including: Conjunctions, McSweeney's, Sewanee Review, AGNI, Colorado Review, Ninth Letter.
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"Something in me vibrates to a dusky, dreamy smell of dying moons and shadows." ―Zelda Fitzgerald
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Lisel Mueller:
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"And by the way, everything in life is writable about if you have the outgoing guts to do it, and the imagination to improvise. The worst enemy to creativity is self-doubt." ―Sylvia Plath
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I have a story in Bullshit Lit. It's sort of based upon the last time I saw my grandmother before she died. Thanks to @vabnt and @bullshitlit for featuring it.
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@jmasseypoet "American writers ought to stand and live in the margins, and be more dangerous." ―Don DeLillo
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𝘚𝘱𝘪𝘳𝘪𝘵 (1885) by French painter George Roux. A man working diligently at his desk late in the evening is interrupted by a ghost playing the piano. He stands up, stunned at the sight of this beautiful spectral vision.
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"This is being written in another seaside cottage on another coast. Gin and whiskey have bitten rings in the table where I sit." "Fiction is meant to illuminate, to explode, to refresh." ―John Cheever (May 27, 1912 – June 18, 1982)
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2 years
This isn't a meme but an actual vintage advertisement from the USA.
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George Bernard Shaw's writing hut, dubbed "London" so his staff wouldn't lie when they said he had "gone to London."
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My uninhabited beach at land's end in Cabo San Lucas. Pancaked golden sand sans footprints. My favorite beach is a beach with no people. 🏖 🌊 🇲🇽 📚 "All good writing is swimming underwater and holding your breath." ―F. Scott Fitzgerald
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1 year
I just received my thousandth literary journal acceptance.
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"If it sounds like writing, I rewrite it." —Elmore Leonard
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4 years
"All good writing is swimming underwater and holding your breath." —F. Scott Fitzgerald (September 24, 1896 – December 21, 1940)
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W. S. Merwin: (September 30, 1927 – March 15, 2019)
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7 years
@AnnCoulter @Delta Lmao. Delta peeled 30 bucks off their illimitable cash roll and dropped it on the floor in front of Ann Coulter and told her to STFU. 😂 ✈️
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2 years
Hello, beautiful people. I've been working round-the-clock for three days, but am now reading in the sun. Marooned in Cabo. Breathtaking ocean views, but I'm moving to Nevis in three weeks to write in the Caribbean for months. My handlers advised it: Editors, agents, publishers.
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4 years
Ezra Pound: 🎣 🌞
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4 years
Got a decent advance Friday from my new literary agent for my next novel manuscript. Bought a new car today. Not quite a Ferrari or Lamborghini, but it's gonna be fun to own a Porche in Baja.
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@BarlowAdams But f #ck The New Yorker for not accepting every single perfect short story manuscript I ever submitted to them.
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