Once you start getting attached, your mood depends on how that person treats you including all the other small details. This will leave you empty in a way where you lose yourself, hence why it’s made Haraam for that reason.
The concept of Tawakkul goes hand in hand, laying your trust in Allah after having done what he gave us within our own capacity. Its not just relying solely on Allah’s plans
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the heart shouldn’t be attached to the matter in question, the virtue of making Istikharah is to seek goodness and that you become content with the outcome, most importantly knowing Allah ﷻ is aware of what you are not
being labelled as a ‘hater’ for wanting whats best for your own good and not being a dayouth is just crazy, only embarrassing herself. may Allah ﷻ guide us all man
if i could say one thing it would be to cherish the time you have with your grandparents and to stay in close contact with them, before your time with them is up
the beauty of Ramadan is that there is always a constant reminder to ourselves to refrain from bad habits and replace them with good ones, most importantly getting used to it so that we implement them outside of fasting and stay consistent with them إنْ شَاءَ ٱللَّٰهُ