Tweet of the year. I keep going back to it many times. Hard truth. You cannot be friends with Muslims and still support the Modi govnt and its cronies.
Niece and nephew collect birthday/Eid money and pay Zakat on it 😀 It is a 'pillar' of Islam to annually pay 2.5% of our wealth as charity. I sent them this pic - people who work on the streets as trash pickers eating a wholesome meal supported by their Zakat contributions ❤
@khanumarfa
Not everyone thinks or empathises beyond their own lived experiences. Bollywood nepotism saga is her lived experience, so she can passionately critique, but Hindutva politics is opportunistic and zero empathy for Muslims, so being on the wrong side doesn't feel wrong.
Cooked food for 13 homes. Husband is out delivering to neighbours and relatives. Chicken cheese parcels, dal pakode (fritters made of lentils), sausage puff pies, chicken pulao, cake.
#Ramadan
#Iftar
Enough is enough.
@atulkochhar
has apologised for getting the Islamic date wrong, but not for his bigotry (!). The toxic anti-Muslim climate in India is encouraging these bigots to crawl out of the woodworks. But globally, this bigotry will not go unnoticed.
This
#AtulKochhar
episode is not about tolerance and freedom of speech. If it is simplistic to you, then check your privilege. There are minorities in India dying because they have MEAT IN THEIR FRIDGE. Voices like Kochhar encourage the bigots, feed the hysteria.
Today's
#Iftar
delivery to the homeless, the refugee families and others who would appreciate a meal cooked with so much love, thanks to
@Darjeelingldn
- so much gratitude for these acts of kindness in times of hate.
Not my typical read but on
@aaolomi
's recommendation, started reading this today. So far, so good. Takes my mind to a completely different space. Am done with reality, so some djinns and other spirits are welcome 😊
Many of you ask me if I am fuming 24/7 because of what is happening in India. Yes, I am mad. But more than that, I am just sad. Little boys and young teenage boys were sodomised/raped but there is no outrage. Radical Hindus are saying that these boys deserved it.
#india
Sent food to 10 homes as part of the
#Ramadan
spirit of sharing. (Mutton pulao, chicken haleem, daal pakodas, two flavours of cake: orange, vanilla & fresh strawberries)
Planning to host an Iftar dinner one weekend during
#Ramadan
(May) at my house in London. Anyone want to come home for a Ramadan feast, with conversations with other good people on anything (doubts, fears, food, religion)? Let me know.
I've been up, cooking since 3am. It may sound exhausting for some, but I really look forward to it. I keep my alarm for 4am but I almost always wake up before that. While cooking, all kinds of thoughts were crossing my mind today.
For people who find nothing wrong in Muslim 'slaughtering people' in history, remember that every religion has blood on its hands. Should I hold every German friend responsible for Nazi crimes? This misplaced burden - who should endure it. Pls have empathy as humans.
#AtulKochhar
...and THIS is why
#TalkToAMuslim
is problematic because we remain caricatures of the stereotypes. Unless everyone owns the problem, there is no constructive conversation. ENDOF.
10 years with The Husband 🧡 Spent the day in Surrey, with more geese than humans. Picnic in the car w/ yesterday's leftovers from a party (as romantic as it gets).
Ramadan starts in April. I have already started thinking of the 'curated Iftar' where we bring Twitter strangers together to eat with us, and leave with new friends. I have a few new names on my mind for this year 🥰
It is
#EidAlAdha
today 😍🥰 I have been in the kitchen since 4am. Sheer khorma, done. Qeema, done. Aaloo, done. Making batter for aaloo pakode and then frying pooris. Packing it off to friends, relatives, and neighbours.
A delicious orange-chocolate cake made by our non-Muzlamic neighbour. Going all out in getting the Arabic script icing even though it must be a dollop of noodles to her eyes. I am making biryani for her today.
#EidMubarak
#EidAtHome
@irenaakbar
Having grown up in an Arab country, I did not hear of this Syed caste/class until I got married. And only heard of it from Indians - it sounds like a mutated version of a caste system.
Today, we are taking
#Iftar
food (food traditionally shared to break a fast). 10 homes 🥰 (Chicken pulao, chicken shaami kababs, daal pakoras, and cake (pineapple/coconut).
#Ramadan
@jennaalansari
In Dubai, hand sanitisers are EVERYWHERE - in public spaces, elevators, ATMs etc. At Heathrow, not once did anyone ask abt Covid test, or take our temperature. A box of 50 disposable masks cost upto £2 in Dxb and EACH such mask I tried buying in a London pharmacy was for £1-2.
It is not even mid-Ramadan as yet and I have baked around 50 pies for friends and neighbours. Also sent these buttery-toasted creamy, spicy chicken sandwiches to neighbours today.
@LibyaLiberty
@Heblaayo_Hebel
@ForlornDope
@voteforhani
Normal acts of sharing take people by shock here. For example, when someone comes over for a meal, I always pack them food to take home, esp if they liked a particular dish, then I pack them extra of it. Consistent reaction of shock and disbelief ALWAYS.
Such a privilege to receive one of the first copies of
@Darjeelingldn
's Asma Khan's glorious book "Asma's Indian Kitchen". Filled with stories, memories and great recipes I can't wait to try soon. So proud of Asma--her journey is incredible!
Religion is personal. Yet, I am always asked why do I wear the burqa. Answer: this is my way of resisting. I break into spaces as a visible Muslim which rattles so many. Representation is bloody important.
Neighbours have received
#Eid
breakfast. Done all the washing. Phone calls to friends and fam - done. Starting work shortly. Thanks everyone for the wishes ❤❤
In the 80s, when my family had arrived in UAE from Rajasthan, among the things we carried was the lack of realisation that education is a 'normal' thing. We used to play barefoot in the building corridors, until one day, a neighbour asked my mother why we weren't in school. >
#EidMubarak
to all who are celebrating today! We have distributed Eid breakfast to our neighbours and are now on the way to deliver food to friends and relatives (who are key+frontline workers) and have a lonelier Eid than us. Cooked, showered, perfumed the house w/ frankincense!
A massive box shows up at our door. It is an
#Iftar
delivery from
@Asma_KhanLDN
. SO. MUCH. FOOD. It should last us till Eid 😄 Thank you Asma and to the excellent
@Darjeelingldn
team 💙💙 Can't wait to dig in later tonight. Last Friday of this holy month
#Ramadan
People who date or marry thinking it removes loneliness will be in for some serious disappointment. Loneliness is never-ending. You just have to find a way to embrace it, make peace with it. Imagine the disappointment to be with a partner and to find oneself lonely!
THREAD of
#MyRamadanReflections
:
DAY 1: In the Qur'an, we are told that if we remove as much as a small stone from someone's path (so as they don't trip), it is a good deed you earn for yourself. We can see external obstacles easily, and within our goodness, remove it. >>
@LibyaLiberty
@Heblaayo_Hebel
@ForlornDope
@voteforhani
Agreed. Lost count the number of times I have liked a friend's perfume (etc) and she has immediately given me hers or sent a new one to my home the next day. There is a generosity in relationships that I struggle to find when I moved to London from Dubai.
@irenaakbar
You don't have to delete them but you also don't need to become the voice for Muslim communities everywhere because we are all separate in a way (geographically!) and we don't need a burden of obligation to explain, condemn shit happening in other Mus countries.
Someday the depth of a woman's suffering and this relentless injustice will scorch all these perpetrators who manspread their way through life. No other justice will suffice.
#India
Unnao victim who complained about rape against MLA, lost her dad to custodial violence. Now lost her mom & aunt to “accident”, she, her Elder sister & Lawyer are seriously injured.
Meanwhile men be like why don’t women complain about sexual harassment & rape.
This is why!
@iamrana
Of course and if Bakrid was a non-Mus festival, then we would hear endlessly what a charitable festival this is, distributing meat among the poor who may otherwise not be able to afford it.
10am and so hot already. Heatwave on
#Eid
🥵 Trying to finish kitchen clean-up quickly and shower.
#EidMubarak
people! Just sent food to 10 homes and now finally sitting down for a quick breakfast.
> My mother relayed this question to my father, who started school hunting. And that's how we got into formal education. We started going for tuitions to the same woman, now known to us as 'Teacher Aunty'. Today, she has passed away. We continue to carry her guidance everyday 🙏
Please stop calling your friends "girl boss" 🤮 And let us also cancel "food porn". And you gain nothing by saving two alphabets when you turn 'husband' into 'hubby'.
@irenaakbar
Not surprising. That's how they have blackmailed many people to towing their line in exchange for letting go off court cases and other accusations.
(This is the face people with zero selfie skills make.) What a fabulous event
#XynteoStarter
was. A beautiful conversation about an extraordinary life. Thank you
@rosemcgowan
- haven't met a single person in the crowd of 500+ who wasn't moved.
#XynteoExchange
Happy birthday to The Mister, the cracker of bad jokes, the cooker of delicious risotto, the one who paints like a one-year-old, the hesitant laugher at my mean jokes, the one who has collected more gray hairs in this marriage. May you be enveloped in the kindness you spread ❤