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@kandidlykayla
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I am taking a break from streaming until
@Twitch
makes it safer. I am now being doxed. My address is being posted in my chat. The usernames are my address. Twitch is my job, how I make my money to provide for myself. I deserve to feel safe at my job.
Please don’t stop talking about Roe v. Wade. Please don’t let up. That’s what they want. These days we are easily distracted and they know it but please don’t stop talking about this.
@TheLakeWolf
Walmart assistant manager here! There are several things wrong with this.
1. Where is the asset protection associate? Or on-duty ASM? Cashiers, customer hosts or self-checkout hosts should NOT be outside of the store or calling police on customers even if they seen you steal it
I’m going to say this and I want y’all to read to comprehend and not just respond:
@TheSims
has always failed their black community. ALWAYS. They choose to work with the same few black creators. Mira & Ebonix will always deserve their flowers because they put in a massive amount
@TheLakeWolf
2. The police cannot go through your stuff without someone SEEING you steal. If they felt you were under ringing items they’re supposed to use the 10ft rule and be SUPER friendly. And get a member of mgmt to do any further investigating.
The only reason I just ran to do this update. I am so excited. this is the best new feature of the game. thank you EA. I will no longer spend 18hrs in CAS; I will now spend 17.
DONT COME TO ME WITH THAT “Kids are a blessing” SHIT!! KIDS ARE A BLESSING TO THOSE THAT WANT THEM AND CAN TAKE CARE OF THEM!!! THERE IS SO MUCH GENERATION TRAUMA PASSED DOWN WHEN KIDS ARE FORCED INTO UNFIT HOME WITH UNFIT PARENTS. FUCK YOU!!!
I feel like I’ve been making statements weekly. But here we go.
Yesterday was the scariest thing to ever happen to me. I am a black woman in America. To step outside of my home and see 30+ cops surrounding you with guns is terrifying. I couldn’t breathe. I couldn’t focus. 👇🏽
We are in a economic crisis right now. People are struggling to take care of themselves. The fucking earth is on fire and y’all have the audacity to overturn Roe v. Wade. You can’t even put in gun laws to protect the kids you are trying to force women to have!!
@TheLakeWolf
because the police were waiting for your outside, and not in the store with an asset protection associate, so they could VERIFY camera footage it is safe to say you were racially profiled by someone else that does not work in asset protection. Anyone in asset protection would be
@TheLakeWolf
Walmart recently changed their policies. That’s why they have someone scanning receipts. Since Covid-19 happened they haven’t been doing it because “6ft apart”. But it doesn’t change the policy that they’re not allowed to go past the posts once the customer exits.
After being doxxed (multiple times), swatted, continuous harassment, I can finally share that I’ve moved and I’m all settled in to my new, much safer, place!! I am so grateful and blessed. Thank you to those that have supported me during this journey. 🤍✨
@TheLakeWolf
fired or written up for not following the policy and they know that. That decision doesn’t come from store level either. Home office decides. If you choose to file a lawsuit do not bring it up to Walmart because once you say lawyer they no longer have to comply, they’ll direct
This is such a bad take. 1. she doesnt even use cc/mods (outside of mccc and ui cheats). 2. A lot of us were not privy to all that was happening in gaza until AFTER the partnership with curseforge. Those of us that know, don't use it. Find a different angle.
@TheLakeWolf
you to the right person but you’ll be waiting a while. Get your ducks in a row (aka make sure the associates get in trouble first. Walmart has strict rules on discrimination) & then file. This is a big company they have lots of money to make it harder for you. I wish you the best
✨2021 what a year:
• Beat cancer
• Made Twitch Partner
• With the help of my community I paid off my medical debt
• I found myself
• I fell in love
• I made some lifelong friendships
• I learned to set healthy boundaries and to never give up on myself
I’m ready 2022 ✨
Good Morning, I took some time away from all of this because I needed to breathe and ensure I remained safe. I want to address a few things in regards to what happened on fri.
I said
@Twitch
needed to make it safer for us because it is their job to do so. They are my employer.👇🏽
Of time, effort and energy to make sure we feel seen when playing that game. But when do they get to rest? When can they feel like “okay, we did it. The black community is FINALLY be represented without having to force our way in”? They don’t. Every other culture can turn on that
Just typing this my chest is aching because I don’t know if the person harassing me is following me. I am not okay mentally, but I will keep fighting for us.
Thank you for your positive messages and cute animal pictures. I’m gonna take the day to rest.
Love and light always. 🤍✨
Game and feel seen (and not by force). They have their own packs, kits, base game updates, etc. we got bonnets and durags during BHM 🫥. If
@EA
wanted to ensure we were properly represented they wouldn’t only work with their black creators behind the scenes. Yeah I said it.
chose not to do early access content for the new stuff pack just like
@TheSims
/
@EA
chose not to acknowledge black simmers for Black History Month. I wont be pushing my black viewers to spend their money on packs when they're not appreciated. be well.
We shouldn’t have to beg to be seen. We shouldn’t have to beg to have the same opportunities as your white or other simmers of color. Black simmers have been breathing life into the sims for way too long to still be so underrepresented in that game.
Please stop blaming Twitch for what happened to me. What you all don’t know is I’ve been working with Twitch behind the scenes to make things safer for marginalized creators. I was on a video call with them when it happened. They witnessed what happened to me👇🏽
@kay_austin3
@mrcolossus2k
@TheLakeWolf
Nope. You have a right to refuse. Walmart policy also states that!! If you are ever in a Walmart and someone attempts to check your receipt it against policy for them to go any further without video proof that you were stealing. You’re free to leave otherwise :))
We HAVE to have storylines. We HAVE to have overly exciting gameplay. Being mediocre in this space isn’t an option for black creators. People watch us because of what we bring to the sims 4 franchise. Storylines that other black simmers can relate to.
while I do not expect anything I have been asked for ways to donate to me. I appreciate it. I am still shaken up by everything and I'm so sorry if I don't respond to everyone. Thank you so much for your support.
- PayPal:
- Ko-Fi:
I have been able to work with EA behind the scenes a few times and it sucks that that’s as far as it goes. You won’t see me represented in front of everyone because they choose not to highlight black creators in that way. Why? Are we too “ghetto”? Is our gameplay not as “safe”?
I'm really disappointed in the lack of black simmer/creator acknowledgement from
@TheSims
, as usual, but especially this month. And at this point it feels so pointless pointing it out. We have this same conversation with brands + companies every year. I'm sure Trixie is great -
This is actually laughable. Like suddenly it matters??? So the next time marginalized creators are being targeted y’all better be the first ones to speak up, “raising awareness”. Or is that not part of the selective activism yall partake in?
@CocoElleann
you were right. I was not prepared. there is no one on that list except for one that she (
#2
) should be above; maybe Ice, but i dont know her music. this is a popularity list for sure and not a talent one.
I told my (long distance) boyfriend that I wasn’t feeling well this morning. He just surprised me with a doordash. 😭 Roses and comfort food/snacks. My chest. 🤍✨🥺
Waking up and seeing these big creators join forces to stop gambling on Twitch but they were silent when Black creators were being targeted for months??? El Oh El. They told us our protests and petitions were meaningless yet here they are…
Hey Simmers!
@TheSims
has some new merch coming out () and this set is sooo soft. What a perfect shade of purple. Thank you for my new favorite cozy fit. 😍☺️
I’m in a long distance relationship and today we had maybe our 9th date. We watched movies on
@PrimeVideo
, ate cup noodles and candy. All via FaceTime. And it’s one of the best dates I’ve ever been on. My heart is so full.
I went live today and immediately started crying when my chat told me they missed me. This whole situation has been so draining, I’m so blessed to have a community that cares. My heart is so full.
hi friends!
I'm looking for 3-4 Twitch streamers, viewer count/community size does not matter, who like to talk about the effects of being a content creator + trying to balance irl, taking care of your well-being etc. for something exciting
please tag your fav (or yourself) ty✨
A key to being a content creator that they never tell you is having friends in this space that GENUIENLY care about you. Not just people you want to network with. People that care and yall can be there for each other. Get you some people and build together.
I've been going through a season of bad news/bad things happening to me. I want to share something good: I got offered to do my first sponsored stream with a brand I've been wanting to work with. Despite everything, I'm gonna allow myself to be happy for once.
Stop coming in my mentions with your unsolicited opinions about how we as marginalized streamers should just deal with it or stop streaming. Fuck you. I don't care what the job is, racism, bullying, bigotry etc would never be allowed. Contact any HR professional you know. 👇🏽
I just realized after everything I’ve been dealing with, only one irl friend reached out to me. One. And that hurts only because if the roles were reversed I know my friends wouldn’t have to question whether or not I care about them.
I have lost so many followers & subscribers this past week. Even someone DMing me saying “too much political talk”. I can promise you two things
1. I do not care
2. I will continue to do whatever I can, on and off the internet to ensure we don’t let up. For the sake of humanity
What yall are gonna stop doing is telling me how to handle what happened to ME. If I want to take 1000 days off I can. If I wanted to take a week off I can. Stop telling me "sub only, emote only" You don't think I know this? Stop telling streamers to "get a real job" Fuck you. 👇🏽
If you are a marginalized creator, know that I will keep fighting for us. I don't care who hates me in the process or who tries to scare me away. WE ARE ALLOWED TO BE IN ANY SPACE, THERE IS ROOM FOR US. Don't give up. Keep Creating. Keep demanding change. I love you. 🤍✨
Hi, I took some days off from streaming and social media altogether because I wasn't sleeping (since being doxxed/swatted) and it was really starting to affect me. I went to see my doctor and I've been diagnosed with PTSD. I'm now taking some meds so here's to getting sleep!!✨
Thank you everyone for your support. While I was streaming Twitch reached out to me to talk about what happened as well as wanting to sit down and talk about change. I couldn't have done this without you. 🤍✨
stuff like this piss me off so bad. you didnt ask one question. you asked the same question four times after my mods answered you each time. yall gotta stop coming in people chats thinking everybody is gonna play games with you. have the day you deserve.
You mean to tell me ... yall doxxed a modder... over some pixelated kewchie and dique ...??? Seek help. Immediately. And I'm being so serious. This is why I don't like simmers, because who raised you?!
I’ve got some great news:
I have gone from 9 tumors to 3! I just wanted to share it with you all because I’m shining so bright today. Love and light babes! ✨🤍
@Shythagawd
@kay_austin3
@mrcolossus2k
@TheLakeWolf
WE are not saying anything. YOU are. Me and those black men had our conversations and agreed. You’re the only one with reading comprehension issues. The point of my tweets are to give out information to HELP people. What they do with it is their choice. Again, be blessed.
Just because you can access someone's information doesn't mean you should (my name was put out there in a news article not by me for all the men that said it was my fault. fuck you). If you find it funny then you need to seek help. 👇🏽
This happened because me and many other streamers spoke out against the mistreatment of marginalized streamers. And I will continue to work with
@ColorOfChange
until Twitch makes is a safe place for everyone. Because we are allowed to be in these spaces.👇🏽
Hi, I'm so excited to announce I've been nominated for NINE GameHER awards😭
- Rising Star; Streamer
- Best Team Brand Ambassador
- Best on Camera Talent
- Top Twitch Streamer of the Year
- Advocate of the Year; in the Charity Category
- Rising Star - Up & Coming Pro Player
👇🏽