dear men, being emotionally vulnerable is not going to damage you! it will probably help you grow, have meaningful relationships, and feel happy and whole
quick update, we're okay. power, water, and cell service is down (starting to come back in places) โflooding at waterways was "biblical" (fire chief's words), there's a ton of destruction and it's going to take a while to get back to normal
you know how sometimes what's at the bottom of a bag of greens is unusable because a few leaves start decomposing & their juices turn everything to mush? this can also happen with our unexamined feelings