+1 today. God has been soo merciful 🙏🏽I can’t wait to manifest all the blessings God has for me this new year.
Now, it’s September’s very own, serving September’s very own sauce🌶
Some Nigerian music fans are something else. If they aren’t comparing Fireboy, Joeboy and Rema today, it’s Davido & Wizkid tomorrow.
They re all amazing artists, putting in so much work and doing wonderfully well. Let’s learn to appreciate them, instead of all these comparisons
Isn’t it f*cking terrifying that no matter how many promises they make, no matter how long you’ve been together, someone can get up and walk out of your life without a second thought and you have to carry on living because the world doesn’t stop for any of us.
@NatHospital_ABJ
NIMC can use biometrics to get his details, of which BVN contains info to reach out to his next of kin. All these are in their records. What’s the essence of all this info if it can’t assist in situations like this.
Have you ever stayed up late with someone texting or chatting and as the hours ticked by you know you’d be ridiculously tired in the morning, but it didnt matter because it‘s really fun and totally worth losing sleep over just to laugh with someone and enjoy their company...
@okemzuruoke
Invictus Obi was already doing so well, went to good schools, had an amazing profile and CV, was recognized by some of the best institutions. This clearly shows that, this fraud thing isn’t cos one is disadvantaged. If you are a thief you are a thief
I’m at the point in my life where I need you to be straight up honest & back up every word yu say with actions. If yu miss me, tell me. Need to see me, show up or ask me to come over. If you’re upset with me or something in general, tell me. Say what you mean & mean what you say
“Nobody stares harder than a person that follows you on social media and sees you for the first time”.
😂😂😂Yooo! I notice you noticing me. Say hi, I recognize you.
I know as humans we have expectations, but trust me, no one is keeping track of sacrifices you make, so if you make them do so without expectations.
Feeling entitled to a return that isn’t guaranteed, isn’t healthy and will hurt you.
Do not protect my feelings if I ask for your opinion. I’m asking because I’m unsure; I’m asking because I know something is wrong. Tell me the truth, be brutal. Help me!
Are you good for my mental health? Can I actually be vulnerable with you? Can I show you me flaws and be assured you won’t use them against me?
Because, I’m avoiding people who intentionally and repeatedly do and say things that they know upset me.
Sometimes you have to put aside what you feel for them, and pay attention to what their actions are saying they feel for you.
Open your eyes and feed your heart with reality.
You are responsible for how secure your partner feels about your relationship. Because the relationship is your “joint responsibility”.
If you’re entertaining others, keeping secrets or keeping your partner a secret, that’s going to make anyone insecure about the relationship.
Before you invite them in, make sure you are emotionally available.
Do you have space in your mind & heart for them?
Are you still holding on to past hurt or betrayal?
Are you ready to listen, understand, communicate, to share & grow? Before you say yes...would you date you?🤔
“A person who truly loves you, will never let you go”
Lies!! If you continuously hurt them or push them away you will certainly lose them. Everyone has a breaking point.
No amount of love can keep you attached to something unloving.
Leave pride and check on your partner first. Text, call or do whatever you have to do. It’s neither a man’s duty nor a woman’s duty. It’s a relationship!
I’m afraid of living a stagnant life.
I want to do more & be more. I want to constantly grow & better myself in who I am, in my friendships in my relationships, in my career, in every single aspect of my life. I never want to settle for anything or anyone, even the person I am.
Many would rather do a thousand and one things to appease than say “I’m sorry” after offending you.
The inability or refusal to say “I’m sorry” is clearly a sign of pride, stubbornness and unwillingness to make amends.
1. There is this misconception that it’s how organized your CV is that gives you a job(except it’s a typist opening) even at this, it only gives you a shot at the interview not the actual job
Most Orgs. don’t even look at ur CV. They use softwares to single out the content of it
The years between twenty one(21) and thirty one (31) are really the hardest, psychologically. It’s then you realize this is make or break, you no longer have the excuse of youthfulness, and it’s time to become an adult- but most times, you are not ready.
“If it’s toxic, let it breathe elsewhere. stop waiting for bad love to feel good again. stop waiting for bad love to taste sweet. Empathy won’t change stone into gold. Time won’t change poison into honey.”
When people are ready they change. They never do it before then. You can’t make them change if they don’t want to, just like when they do want to, you can’t stop them.
Sometimes it’s not who is right, but what’s right for our relationship.
Arguments are not supposed to be lost or won. You are suppose to reach mutual understanding & argree, otherwise you both loose.
No one wins when the relationship is in feud. You are on the same team.
This isn’t the time for throwing hints & hoping your partner catches them. Open your mouth, say what bothers you
Use ur mouth for more than oral pleasure. Communicate your needs, wants & desires. Stop assuming they should know. Ppl change daily, stop assuming yu know everything
One of the worst feeling is, when you find out you didn’t mean as much to someone as you thought you did & you look so stupid for caring too much and going the extra mile.
-Don’t be this person, know your place in people’s lives.
Just because someone wasn’t right for you, or was toxic to you, doesn’t mean they won’t be enough for someone else.
Learn to accept the ending of relationships & experiences.
Never regret the things you did while in love, you did it out of love and that’s what truly matters.
My Twitter looks like I’m single, taken, depressed, in love, heart broken, a hoe, and at the same time loyal☺️
Sooo, please don’t think you actually know me simply because of a “few” twitter post 🤷🏽♂️
1998: Don’t get in a car with strangers.
2008: Don’t meet people from the Internet alone.
2018: UBER & TAXIFY- Order yourself a stranger from the Internet to get into a car with alone 🥴🤦🏽♂️
Many people have decided not to be sensitive. They have grown thick skins just to avoid being hurt by anybody. But it is at great cost, nobody can hurt them, but also nobody can make them happy either.
When someone won’t let you in, eventually you stop knocking. I hope know what I mean?
Keep looking for THE door that is open for you and it’s yours. Otherwise, be patient and have self worth.
“A ‘misunderstanding’ simply means ‘missed understanding’ someone missed someone’s point. It doesn’t imply ‘No Love’. Lovers can misunderstand themselves over issues, and it’s normal. Turning it into a fight or keeping malice as a result, is a sign of immaturity.”
Stop breaking your own heart with unrealistic expectations. You can’t keep making the wrong one right, just to fulfill the story in your head and get mad when it doesn’t work.
You keep doing the same thing and expecting a different result.
So many people in this world have trust issues because people say “I’m here for you” and then run away as soon as things start to fall apart.
But then again; you can’t expect someone to “be there for you” & then only expect them to be there for you—but never be there for them.
Self-control is strength. Calmness is mastery. You have to get to the point where your mood doesn’t shift based on the “insignificant” actions of someone else.
Never allow your emotions to overpower your intelligence.
Not everything deserves a response AND you don’t always have to have the last word.
Sometimes you just have to do yourself a favor, some discussions aren’t necessary.
At some point in life, you reach a level of maturity where you realize, most people are unprepared and unequipped to deal with the brutal truth.
So, you simple opt for silence, over participating in unnecessary conversations with some people to save yourself from drama.
As I get older, I noticed I have less energy for relationships that are confusing; If the relationship makes me feel unappreciated or draining, brings drama & confusion or I simply find myself unsure of the intentions, then I lovingly separate myself from them.
The more chances you give someone to hurt you, the less respect they’ll start to have for you. They’ll take advantage of your forgiveness. They won’t be afraid to lose you because they think you will never walk away. Never let a person get comfortable with disrespecting you.