Crafty twin mom. Blogger, YouTuber, Etsy shop owner, and craft book author. Building a bigger table.
@heyletsmakestuff
and
@chapterandcraft
elsewhere. She/her
I wrote another book! It's called Sublimation Crafting and it's about...sublimation crafting.
I got the sample copy in the mail and it's beautiful!!
And it's available for pre-order!
(save 20%!) or
Just had the weirdest dream. I dreamed my boys wanted to go to Duke for college. In my dream, I stressed about where we were going to find $695k to send them.
So at 1:40 AM, I looked up the tuition at Duke.
Men On Here: Women need to submit to their husbands because we would die for you, just like Jesus.
Women: Can you please load the dishwasher while I’m half dead in bed trying to care for our children and also keep my job.
Men: Absolutely not.
I would tell my sons that this is how everyone should view relationships. If you can't make someone's life more beautiful, fun, and profound, then what are you even doing? Making someone's life worse?
I don't want my boys to give that, nor do I want them to settle for it.
Parents of 20-something men, this is what your son is encountering out here, so if he’s not dating anyone don’t shame him for it. Thoughts on her perspective?
I’m not going to repost the video, but people keep saying “but it’s a catholic university!”
Aren’t most nuns Catholic? Maybe a woman’s only calling isn’t to be a wife and mother?
This may sound crazy, but the longer I am in my marriage, the more supportive I am of divorce. I think it's because I realize how great my husband is and how lucky I am...and I see friends and strangers in crappy marriages and I want them to know it could be so much better.
Hey friends, can you pray for me? I need local friends. I've tried a few times to make friends with people I've met and we're all SO different. My heart aches for someone to connect with deeply over a cup of coffee, you know?
If you need a name, somewhere to focus your prayers, please pray for my husband’s friend Andre, who lives with his wife and kids in Kyiv. They can hear the bombs from their house.
Christ have mercy.
Not sure if I’ve told this story here before. I was diagnosed with C-PTSD after my boys were born. Early emergency c-section, pain so bad I was passing out, NICU stay, emergency surgery for one of my boys, mom had cancer, full-body rash, plus other things I’m forgetting now. 1/?
@AditiJuneja3
My mother taught me about Sikhs when I was young. To this day, I feel a measure of calm when I am around a Sikh. I feel like they might be some of the “helpers” Mr Rogers told us to look for. That being said, Muslims shouldn’t be on the other end of that harassment either.
To say that PTSD and other conditions don’t exist makes people walk away from the church. If my friends didn’t believe me and told me I just wasn’t praying hard enough, I would’ve left.
But they believed me. They sat with me. They loved me.
I’m so thankful for them. 5/5
Tips for going back to church after a long time? We stopped because of COVID, and then we moved out of state, and then I've been working through my own...deconstruction? I feel close to being ready to try a church up here, but I am afraid of getting there and, well, freaking out.
@staceyNYCDC
@tressiemcphd
I feel so terrible for her son, who might read this some day and realize his dad couldn’t bother learning how to parent him.
I posted in our neighborhood group, and a mom and her 3 kids are going to sleep in my ACed craft room tonight. A friend said “you’re brave letting strangers stay in your house!”
If we don’t offer hospitality in the worst of situations, how can we have any hope at all?
And when I was done, one of my friends, a helicopter pilot, a big solid dude, was in tears. He said that no one had ever described his own PTSD so familiarly.
Me, as a new mom.
He as a pilot who had a near-death experience.
That evening was so healing for both of us. 4/?
I am going to a professional networking event tomorrow in Seattle and there are two possibilities.
1) Everyone will be dressed like normal professionals.
2) Everyone will be dressed like a hike could break out at any moment.
Almost tweeted "We are composting people now" but then realized that it was probably not the best way to say that we, as a family, now have composting bins...
It took me a long time to believe my therapist that I was experiencing crippling anxiety and depression due to my C-PTSD. I thought I was just weak and a failure at being a mom. That I didn’t have enough faith. That I wasn’t grateful. I thought PTSD was only for soldiers. 2/?
In the last few days I’ve seen posts against Christian cussing, bare shoulders, and smoking.
People are dying in the desert. Racism abounds. Kids are committing suicide. Refugees have no homes. Our planet is dying.
We have ZERO relevance to people who are actually suffering.
My husband
@georry
is the best dad. I just got this text:
“Tell the boys that their animals are super excited to see them and have organized to get their beds washed and ready for their arrival! Hazel and Jack have been busy making sure everyone has a way to help out.”
But I finally opened up to our church small group. A bunch of very supportive people. I told them everything through tears and shaking. How I was having panic attacks and how I felt like I was literally losing my mind. How I was sure my family would be better off without me. 3/?
There was a whole squad of junior high (?) girls here in Starbucks and a boy with windswept hair and a skateboard walked in and the girls all said in singsong unison, "Hiiii Chase."
@sarahradz_
ughhh!
I had a friend who kept telling her daughter not to run, even ON THE GRASS. She said it was because she was always hurting herself.
Yeah, because she isn’t allowed to use her own body and find her limits!
We tried watching church this morning for the first time in a long time and everyone is not wearing masks while singing and not social distancing and I can’t even get to the sermon (which is apparently on humility?) because I am so ragey.
That moment when your five-year-old yells, "We're doing shots!" and takes you a second to realize they are playing Pretend Vaccine and not Pretend Beer Pong.
@realgirl_fieri
Did no one else have a Caboodle filled with all sorts of Bath & Body Works and The Body Shop stuff? I did and that was...many years ago.
(Yes, I do think it's terrible that it's being marketed to girls but it's not like it's NEW.)
I HAVE PANCAKE PNEUMONIA.
Literally, I choked and aspirated some pancake on Saturday and it is turned into bacterial pneumonia.
Did not have pancake pneumonia on my 2020 bingo card.
There's a Bernese Mountain Dog that needs a home on the other side of the state and my husband is not here (he's at the aquarium with the boys and my MIL) so this means I am the sole decision maker at home right now and I should probably just drive and get this pup.
@rowansmama_
I got a matching one of those!
They’re nine now and absolutely the best thing that ever happened to me. (You won’t remember the first year, and that’s ok.)
Saw someone basically say "something has to be the number one killer of children, so why not guns?" And now I am turning into a supernova and I am going to burn this entire place to the ground.
Lots of friends posting end times prophecies and religious fear-mongering and it’s all just so America-centric like no other place on earth could usher in the apocalypse (whatever that might be). It’s so...self-centered.
Does anyone have sensory issues at bedtime? I am struggling with the sheets not being perfectly flat, the blankets being crooked, the seams on my pillow case being annoying, my hair and the legs of my pajama pants driving me bonkers. And I feel like it's getting worse 😫
#RHE
is one of the reasons I’m still in love with Jesus. She showed me that Christianity didn’t have to look like what I’d been taught. She taught me to see with new eyes and feel with a new heart. My soul grieves this morning.
You will be missed, woman of valor.
@NishWeiseth
Truly. We send our boys to outdoor school once a week during the school year and each year it's like byeeee dollars. Not to mention new mountain bikes, kayaks, etc. We don't even go on fancy tours (but we live in the forest, so that helps!).
I've was in a class of male seminary students, plus me and one other woman. The class was Philosophy. Required for a seminary degree (men) and a humanities degree (us).
It was absolutely the worst college class I took. I never met such self-absorbed men in any other setting.
My mom just had jury duty with a guy who had to come from Point Roberts to Bellingham.
Every time I think about something being inconvenient, I'm going to say "well, at least it's not Point Roberts inconvenient."
Gunnar is gone. 💔 He passed quickly and peacefully. So thankful for the mobile vet—being with him was a gift to all of us. Heartbroken but relieved he’s not suffering anymore. Run free, my friend.
Diagnosed with fibromyalgia today. Doctor made me feel a bit like an idiot that no one had diagnosed me before (uh, not my fault?). But it does explain most of my symptoms and it's "better" than some of the alternatives.
So...now I get to figure out what this all means for me.
I’m holding my book in my hands!! More than three years from when I signed the contract. I never thought it would see the light of day but here it is and it’s even prettier than I could’ve dreamed.
“Are those happy tears mama?”
Yes they are, baby.
@realgirl_fieri
I haven't seen the original post, but I fell asleep standing up. At the changing table. With the baby on the changing table. Thank goodness he was still to little to roll but I was seriously impaired (as was my exhausted husband) when we were caring for twin infants.
Me: I am unfollowing everyone on Facebook because I am tired of your relentless conspiracy theories.
People: No problem, we'll send them directly to you in messenger.
@clhubes
One of my boys woke up early when he was maybe seven. He grabbed a blanket and asked me to sit on the deck with him while he listened to the “morning chorus of the birds.” 🥹
This amazing kid should not have to lead the adults. Let’s do our part. For her, for my own sons, for
@LittleMissFlint
,
@israhirsi
, Autumn Peltier, the Stoneman Douglas kids, and every other young person begging us adults to GET IT TOGETHER.
Here we go again...
As you may have noticed, the haters are as active as ever - going after me, my looks, my clothes, my behaviour and my differences.
They come up with every thinkable lie and conspiracy theory. (Thread->)