he had a fetish for his lovers not showering so every time he was coming back from crusade he’d write his wife a letter (DAYS in advance) telling her not to shower for DAYS before they had sex
i have to clean chunky BLOOD off myself every 5-8 hours & my body feels like it’s consuming itself like idc if it’s normal it’s perfectly okay for me to be grossed out by that !!!
GUYS APPARENTLY ITS NOT TRUE HIS HATERS MADE IT UP🧍🏾
somehow this makes it even crazier like what did he have to do to get nights to hate him enough to fuck up his legacy…
AND his wife was STILL cheating on him like that’s crazy lmaooo
@quartzcrystalll
tw: suicide !
no literally !! they’ll be like “you can do anything on your period” & im like no actually periods make me + all my friends wanna d*e no one’s doing a fucking cartwheel rn bro
@graveyardgem
actually upper + middle class victorian’s were really particular about hygiene ! the bathroom, bathtub, and current toilet flush system were all invented during that time !
there’s lots of cases of people d*ing trying out new tech (like boiling bath tubs) to be cleaner
@hewasbasement
He didn't. This is a myth. There are no archival letters or documents where he tells Josephine (or anyone else) this. It's an unsourced anecdote which was also attached to other historical couples in the mid-1900s.
just found out about this Black trans musician who made music in the 70s & 80s & got rediscovered recently & is releasing updated versions of his 1980s albums ????
@graveyardgem
actually upper + middle class victorian’s were really particular about hygiene ! the bathroom, bathtub, and current toilet flush system were all invented during that time !
there’s lots of cases of people d*ing trying out new tech (like boiling bath tubs) to be cleaner
yall this might be the most poly tweet ever but these pics my gf’s bf took of fem on their date last night are the only things in the world that matter to me
we’ve gotta stop pretending like stone identities aren’t hot like…
the moment i read this one poem from the persistent desire everything changed for me like being stone is SO sexy pls be so serious rn
is this a good time to bring up how neither the album or the tour represented the ballroom community accurately…
still not over how none of the performers on tour were transfem or trans women
@butch_snufkin
& i blame the patriarchy !!
people tiptoe around the realities of being on your period under the guise of “wooo women are so slay” bc patriarchy don’t like the idea of women being gross / ‘undesirable’ even for a few days out of the month
autism is so weird bc sometimes i’m like scarily good at articulating my thoughts + feelings, while other times i sound like a toddler; there’s absolutely no inbetween
URGENT: FUNDS + COMMUNITY SUPPORT NEEDED
i’m a black trans masc lesbian who needs help paying off a dentist bill for a necessary appointment after breaking my front tooth !
paypal - darusiamisi
cashapp - $mspinkallure
URGENT: FUNDS + COMMUNITY SUPPORT NEEDED
i’m a black trans masc lesbian who needs help paying off a dentist bill for a necessary appointment after breaking my front tooth !
paypal - darusiamisi
cashapp - $mspinkallure
@jo_is_evil
@graveyardgem
a lot of the personal hygiene inventions (developments if we’re being fr) made in the victorian era were just developments of things that emerged in the regency era when napoleon was at his wealthiest
so yea there is overlap between the two eras !
i am so sick of this photographic practice wherein dark skinned people are used as high contrast props in order to help lighter skinned people really stand out in the foreground
north america being blue when Black & native communities in both canada & the US have been talking about their water supplies being contaminated for DECADES…
don’t piss me off ???
I would like to see more masc people talk about the way the fems take care of them…
Then maybe it won’t seem like a lie when fems say it and a fairy tale for others who haven’t experienced it yet…
Take care outside of sex btw