@_Hydonni
drugs are never the problem...? who be this abeg? most drugs flood the brain with dopamine which creates a temporary feeling of euphoria. dopamine causes the need to reinforce that pleasure, leading to repeating the behavior over and over again – then addiction.
@MasterSagini
@instablog9ja
She doesn't need to lose weight if she doesn't want to. You don't know her family background or medical health history but you just open mouth waaaaaah cause you desperately want attention.
you women are always the perpetrators of toxic masculinity. a man shouldn't look good because you want him to fit into the box you have created for him. same women get mad when men try to tell them what they can and cannot do. Y'all be wilding.
@nnekei
If you can actively speak against tribalism, racism, sexism and gender inequality but homophobia seems to “passive” to you, then you deserve all the oppression you're getting from the nigerian government and the hate you're getting as an igbo. You deserve it all.
@IrogAnthony
@jon_d_doe
They didn't leave because society blames women for broken marriages. They didn't leave because they had no source of income – they were full time house wives. They didn't leave because didn't know their basic rights.
Anyways as a therapist, I can tell you that words that are said as ‘just another day in parenting’ are the reasons people are on my couch two decades later because they’re trapped in their minds as those little kids who never healed.
@renoomokri
there's nothing wrong with asking about where they are at life. it’s called catching up, and if done rightly, it shouldn't cause any sort of harm.
cash gifts are not creative. how much money do you need to give to create a memory? practical gifts can create a lifetime memory. i’m surrounded by gifts from someone i’ve completely fallen out with and it constantly reminds me how much i was loved. bittersweet.
if being on braids and locs made you this unapologetically stupid, then i’m fine with being bald. and keep on yammering like you know me while I scroll to check the next stupid person on twitter. y’all are everywhere.
you’re 23 & bald but i’m sure if you had walked away from that relationship at 16 instead of ‘persevering’ you’d be doing up locs and braids w the rest of us. don’t take my word for it tho 🤞🏿
A woman who wants to cook & clean for you has more to offer you than the one who chases her career.
The stress women recieve from chasing a career is turning her more masculine. A woman that is happy at home cleaning and cooking, making art, and taking care of a family is in
less texting, more physical interactions. if not, you will get used to their ‘texting persona’ that do not, most of the time, match their real life personality.
this afternoon, my neighbor walked in on me naked. i had earphones on and didn’t hear her knocking. i also didn’t know my door was unlocked. i was lying down with my legs crossed, my akpa amu n bumbum facing the world when she opened the door. i froze. still serving cunt.
I see a lot of "allegedly" strict babes on this thread, mostly under 30yrs of age
Y'all should pls keep the same energy when you're 30+ and still single
"Carry me dey go, jehova carry me dey go my husband house" na una mate??
😂😂😂
@KingOfZanga
@bunmi_grey
you’re being delusional and i love it. the percentage of women who are breadwinners in their relationships is almost insignificant. if men choose to go for women in their financial class, a lot of women won’t have boyfriends. the end.
people who pay other people to sleep with them are either ugly, low self esteemed or got no game, or all of the above. cause why can't you naturally attract people with your looks and personality?
@ThaBoyYom
wayward aura but it’s the married men who break their own vows and disrespect their partners. but they are not indecent o. it’s the ladies that are indecent. Ewu.
@0hammiri
uttering such degrading and unkind words to your own daughter out of frustration isn't good parenting. but I'm not surprised. a lot of y’all come from homes where you were physical abused in the name of “scolding”, so you see this as normal.
@Dottybowy
got you. might be a little difficult but, with relationship, you can say ‘i’m not doing this anymore’ and you’re done. but with marriage? not so smooth.
two genitals jammed but it is one party that benefits. this is the reason why women are shamed for engaging in an activity that they enjoy. when you realize that sex is something you do ‘with’ a woman and not ‘to’ a woman, you’ll get rid of this stupid mentality.
Casual sex is one of the biggest scams sold to women because it only benefits men. If that man is not benefiting your life substantially in someway it’s best to keep your legs closed.
When you start watching pimple popping videos, fight videos, ear wax removal videos, there's no going back. Those videos are very satisfying and relaxing to see.
when I see people with 4-5 piercings, i immediately conclude they have serial killer tendencies or are already serial killers becoz i know what I went through after just one piercing.
@YellzDan
you communicate then you give room for change. his reaction to your outburst might be because he didn’t intentionally want to hurt your feelings and didn’t know he was doing sth wrong. from your post, y’all had great chemistry and you threw all that away bcoz of this. well...
@ThecruiseDoc
there's talking stage, there's dating and there's relationship. you only become exclusive when you're in a relationship. talk to the whole world to find your match.
@YellzDan
yes, i agree people's weight shouldn't be spoken about but anywhere you see me, tell me I've lost weight make my self confidence dey boom plis and plis. 💀
a man will marry a woman, have sex with her multiple times, impregnate her, have 2-3 kids, but if he’s caught with another man, he’s gay and not bisexual. nigerian math.
you shouldn’t try to make a relationship with person who’s good for you work because you’re in a relationship and not married? how tf are you going to handle the problems when they become marriage problems? keep walking away. Johnnie walker.
a lot of the ‘relationship problems’ y’all have are just v. obvious signs you shouldn’t be together. you’re not married and you’re already ‘trying to make it work’ ? bffr abeg 😂
@papi_wild
no, it isn't selfish at all. self love is very necessary. it saves you the stress of seeking external love and validation. before you should even think of loving someone else, you should be able to love yourself first.
Women do not hate nice guys. What they have problem with is men that lack masculinity. Being nice is not an excuse to lack masculinity, which is a problem many nice guys have. So now you blame your failures with women on your niceness. But in actual fact, you're just an
@royzkingin
for her to be tagged “high maintenance” means she got something for herself. it's okay to admit some women are out of your league financially.