I can't be the only person that wakes up, gets workout clothes on... then stalls by doing the wordle and the crossword, reading news, calling my mom, drinking tea, and playing with my dog..and posting this photo 😑😔.
#imlazy
@WordsyWaifKeel
@BritniDWrites
The problem isn't the desire to help others...it's that our yt counterparts might have one sibling or one friend to lift up. We often have a whole community looking at us for help...and often times .that community helped us get where we're at. It's so complex...
So I noticed that my dog has only been eating half of his food in the mornings. At first I was concerned then I realized hes been waiting a few hours for when I eat lunch, then he'll start eating the rest of his food, so we can eat together. 🥹🥹. I swear I don't deserve him. ❤️
I really wish I had more friends close to my neighborhood that just wanted to do low key things. I miss having buddies to play video games with, check out a play or museum, go shopping with. The simple stuff... 🤷🏿♂️😞
I don't care what they say on
#RHOBH
,."Homeless not toothless" is the WORST name for a charity EVER! 😂. Like....why not just fix both problems for someone? Are they just sending homeless people back to shelters, but with pretty veneers?
I have no problem spending a few hours in the kitchen, but it's these 20 minute Tuesday night quick cooks that seems to SLAP the hardest these days. Who would have thought? 🤷🏿♂️
Oh you thought a little work trip to rural Utah was going to keep me from making it to a marvel movie premiere on opening night? I'm a 10yrs deep on this tradition....ain't stopping now lol. Let's goooo!!! Early reviews have been much better than expected!!!!
#TheMarvels
The best workouts are the ones where you're not pushing yourself at 100%. Just got to listen to some music I like today and go at my own pace ...
#therapeutic
#peloton
Oof...the bf is smart spoiling my dog as much as possible when I bring him to his house for the weekend. These two are going to gang up on me one day. 🤦🏿♂️😂
Cleaning out my freezer. I found 6 different packs of smoked turkey necks 🤣. Apparently Im always thinking about making greens or green beans when I'm at the grocery store. 🤷🏿♂️
I just told
#ChatGPT
to write a love letter saying goodnight to my boyfriend. Then I said...make it sound "black". Oh my....this is what it spit out . I'm dead hahaha. It's the "goodnight, my king" that took me out. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@HarlemJ11
True, but the problem is that our collective definitions of clingy are wildly different. some want proactive communication early in the relationship...others find that overwhelming. We gotta stop applying these subjective labels and just say what feels healthy for ourselves.
Bae and I are both a little under the weather....so I made a little fall happy meal: baked Brie, smothered pork chops, brussel fennel salad, and potatoes. Let's hope we feel better tomorrow. 😶❤️
Day 11 of quitting vaping and truthfully I don't really think about my vape much now . So happy I did this! And thanks for all the words of encouragement from y'all! Definitely helped!!!
Thank God for my diabetics support group on Reddit. They've made the last 3 years after my diagnosis so much easier 🙏🏿☺️. Lots of things I've gone through only they would understand.
I'm starting to get concerned by how many times in a day Im singing "im so deep in my bag like a grandma wit a peppermint" in my head. I wake up singing it...I go to sleep singing it 😳😅
#lawdhelpme
Yesterday I pulled out the tool belt and changed the lid on my toilet. You could not tell my gay ass I wasnt the GOAT Dom butch top lol. Funny thing I had also put up my Xmas tree B4, so...I was covered in glitter as I did it. 😅
#gaylife
Can someone explain to me how having tattoos or a beard is somehow a personality trait...or a lifestyle?? I just don't get why so many people lead with these things when you talk to them like it's somehow telling of who they are as a person... ???
@GaryLGray
It's a scam and a trap. Your best bet is to not defend it at all. The more you talk about your money, intellect, or status (even if it's in the most humble of ways),people will continue to attempt to dim your shine. Leave them folks in your rear view mirror where they belong.
Ok I HATE fake pasta (zucchini noodles, whole wheat noodles, etc.) But I made some spaghetti squash for the first time....put it with some Italian sausage and thangs...and Baby! This is gonna be a low calorie staple in my house from now on.
#fallcooking
Never go to
#haroldschicken
after an HOUR of sitting in the pharmacy waiting for your ear infection meds while your blood sugar is low. And for the record....this is the LEFTOVERS (and wiithout all the fries and coleslaw). 😞.
#myinnerfatkidcameout
I know! I know this is not what this attachment is for....but it really makes bathing my dog so much easier..and he doesn't get scared from the water. 😅😅😅
#IYKYK
@libra10584
It's so weird that we've normalized so much cruelty and violence to the point that something pure and innocent seems foreign or weird to us... 😔
I'm sorry y'all but these "I'm cocky because I go to the gym" posts are ...hilariously tone deaf 😅😅😅. You don't have to do everything you see others do on this app, folks. But go off.
It really shocks me how many toxic, abusive, and predatory things gay men get away with doing to each other... But we'll argue all day about how awful str8 men are to women and stick up for them. Why not do the same for each other??? 🙏🏿🤦🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️
City I dislike: Los Angeles
City I think is overrated: London!
City I like: DC
City I love: Buenos Aires or Istanbul
City I feel the most myself in: NYC
City I still need to visit: Barcelona
City I dream of living in: Montreal
City I dislike: San Francisco
City I think is overrated: Atlanta
City I like: Houston
City I love: Paris
City I feel the most myself in: NYC
City I still need to visit: Portland
City I dream of living in: Cape Town
Ive been thinking a LOT about this little girl the last couple days....such good symbolism here the more you think about it.
#LeaveTheWorldBehind
#iykyk
Does anybody else like to have "groceries" as a meal?? You know...when you eat little bits of all the new fun stuff you bought as you're putting things into the fridge? Cause my handful of nuts, yogurt, leg off a rotisserie chicken, and slice of cheese was 🔥🔥🔥 just now. 😂😂
@LadyBeastB
I get it. Everyone has to find what will ultimately work for them. I think as black folks though, we have to try and shy away from publically tearing each other down with harmful rhetoric that ultimately just gets used by yt folks to take us all down collectively. Best of luck
Day 6 of quitting vaping: feeling good. Had a rough moment last night after some wine with dinner (alcohol and nicotine are like peanut butter and jelly in my brain), but I'm fine. Now if my brain could talk it'd look like this ⬇️. But I'm in control....*repeating to myself*
News flash: you are still a toxic A-Hole if you can only befriend or be respectful to people that you're attracted to. Some of y'all need to reread that and let it sink in. That is all. 🤷🏿♂️😔
#queenscanbemean
@LadyBeastB
Speaking about a large group as a monolith in a negative way is an indirect way of tearing down. Again..I'm not saying you shouldn't explore other options (I think all blk women should) . IJS the wording doesn't lead anywhere productive as you can see from a lot of these comments
Best advice my therapist has ever told me: doing the right thing and being honest with someone does not entitle you to their forgiveness, compassion, or acceptance. Be a good person for YOURSELF...not to control someone's perception of you.
Maybe if we all stopped commenting and carrying on when someone is publicly outed....folks would stop doing it. Cause it's one of the most selfish and evil things to do to someone.
@lou_m_cypher
Agreed.A lot has to do with the death of the music industry as a whole. Streaming barely puts $$ on the table..and even then, only 1/10 people pay for the music they stream. The labels have to see the artist as profitable at the end of the day b4 they push for them to be on TV.
We have literally watched nothing but BET channel Christmas movies today. 😳. I'm blinking twice y'all, why hasn't anyone come to save me????? 😱😂
#christmaswithmom
I'm soooooo happy
#TheMarvels
is getting great early reviews online!!!! All the folks that have been hating on it b4 even seeing it are gonna be BIG MAD! Can't wait for the weekend!