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Romance bookaholic📚 | I tweet for a living, Literally

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@frinazhar
Frina
2 years
Convincing you to read this book by its first line; “I am finishing up dinner with my family & my fiance when my husband calls” If you’re in the mood to cry go buy this book😭. 10 kali i baca, 10 kali jugak nangis baca buku ni. There’s no cheating involved ke apa tapi-
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My dad’s parenting tip; If you don’t like what ur parents did to you when you were younger, DON’T do it to your children. Be the better parent. AND this is exactly how he raised us. Dia tak pernah pukul i & jarang marah. If anything is wrong he calls us privately to talk-
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3 years
Dulu i jenis yang suka puaskan hati orang. I happy gila bila dapat tahu people are pleased with me. I punya biggest fear is probably risau orang tak suka i or fikir negative pasal i. I tried my best to fit in dengan orang lain so i boleh ada kawan. Tapi,
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2 years
Told my parents (separately) i needed to see a therapist & this was their reaction: Abah: “Do you know one already ? My friend brought her daughter to one & it went v well, i’ll try to get their number” Mummy: “Awak okay ke ? Awak nak shopping apa ? Maybe that would help”
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2 years
I cerita kat my dad i can’t seem to move on from an incident & he told me; “If you don’t move on from what hurt you, you will find yourself stuck in your own cubicle. Even if you tak maaf kan orang tu pun, they’re not worth your energy. Its time to find peace & be happy”
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1 year
I baru first time pergi Klinik Kesihatan, then: Staff: awak sjdndb ke? Me: sorry cik? Staff: awak suicjdjd ke? Me: huh, apa cik? Staff: AWAK ADA RASA NAK 💀🔫 KE Me: ohh 🥹 ABANG TU BUAT ACTION KEPALA SEKALI MASALAHNYA HAHAHA ADOI I DARI NAK MUNTAH TERUS TERGELAK
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2 years
I sedih sebenarnya tengok kawan-kawan i ada yang dah tunang / kawin & ada kerja yang stable. I bukan sedih sebab iri hati tapi i sedih for myself sebab i rasa macam i’m still lost. I’m still in the process to figure myself out & my future-
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2 years
Pernah tak your mood satu hari tu okay je like literally super happy & everything seems to be going fine but then suddenly macam kena tampar dengan reality, you end up wanting to cry for no absolute reason at all 🙃🙃
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2 years
My conversation with my therapist today: Him: do you think you’re depressed ? Me: i don’t think so. I have nothing to be depressed about & i think i’m doing alright so far. Him: yes, that is exactly what every depressed person would say. I felt attacked but it was funny 😂-
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2 years
I tengok lately ramai yang buat parody kalau kena tangkap bunian & kena paksa menari diaorg akan menari based on the music groups / tv shows they know. Kalau you tak pernah kena dengan benda mistik ni, memang kelakar. If only you knew that they’re there watching everything u do
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Frina
3 years
How Raja Farah and her husband responded towards the viral tweet shows how important it is to have a husband thats wise and educated bukannya cari yang sweet talker je / suka cakap benda tak berfaedah A good husband = a good future for you AND your kids. Choose wisely
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3 years
Personally i rasa self healing is VERY Important. Its okay to distance yourself from others. Its okay to take a break. You nak rehat lama ke kejap ke, go on. I faham kadang-kadang limit kesabaran kita nak layan orang dah takde & ITS FINE. You don’t live to please people.
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3 years
My toxic trait is i choose to be silent whenever i’m hurt. I tak bagitau on the spot what hurt me because i feel like i need time untuk tenangkan diri i dulu & to avoid saying things i don’t mean.
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2 years
Back when i was still healing, i tak tau kenapa i catch feelings super easy when someone showed me even the tiniest bit of attention & care. But when you learn how to value / love yourself, you’d stop settling for less because you finally know how much you’re worth.
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3 years
Penat sebenarnya nak jadi positive ni. It takes alot of energy to convince myself that i am better than what i think i am. I selalu bagitau diri i yang everything is going to be okay BUT the fact is, there are days where things are gonna get worse.
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3 years
CHEATING IS A CHOICE, ITS NEVER A MISTAKE. Being cheated on is the worst kind of betrayal ever. It causes trauma & you akan selalu rasa macam diri you ni tak bagus /tertanya kat mana silap you selama ni. The only mistake here is trusting a cheater ://.
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2 years
My dad sendiri kadang tu mintak maaf dekat kitaorg if dia ada tersalah cakap or salah buat benda bc he says being a parent is not an excuse for you to be so horrible towards your child. Anak-anak pun ada perasaan, it doesn’t hurt to try understanding them sometimes yknow
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Tahlah mcm bodoh bnda ni. Mak kita sakit lahirkan kita. Bapak kita struggle cari duit besarkan kita. Dh besar nk terasa hati? Pi keluar Islam lah bodoh. Anak² yg terasa ni semua anak Babi. Sorry to say fuck you all
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2 years
I had a conversation with my dad the other day & he told me; “The day you’ll truly be free is when you learn to let go of things from your past” I was having some issues forgiving someone who has hurt me soo much & asked if i should be hoping for an apology from them-
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2 years
Bila i pergi kenduri any of my parents’ friends, mesti tanya i bila nak kawin, cakap tak elok takde partner at this age nanti kawin & dpt anak lambat la semua. Well,, maybe i don’t wanna get married. Maybe i just wanna grow old alone, live with my cat & learn to crochet or smth-
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2 years
Accept the fact that sometimes the problem comes from you. As much as it’s easier to put the blame on others for all the bad things that happened, sometimes we fail to see that we are also toxic to someone. No human is perfect & that includes you too-
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1 year
Was literally crying at the KK, i told the Dr i was diagnosed before with anxiety pastu i baru nak start telling him what i’m going through. He stopped me when i said i susah nak bernafas. He said i had to do thyroid test & amik darah & I can’t do it at this KK because my
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3 years
Lately i belajar untuk tak paksa orang stay in my life. People will give 1001 excuses to not stay, and thats okay. As much as we hate people leaving us, sometimes kita tak sedar kita yang toxic sebenarnya. Focus on those yang still ada dengan kita, and improve for the better.
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2 years
Saw a quote on tiktok saying; “Trauma explains your behaviour, it doesn’t EXCUSE your behaviour” This applies to the mental illnes card too lmao just because you went through it, doesn’t mean you have to put others through it as well or treat them badly just bc you have issues
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1 year
ABAH I BELI BAJU NI KAT KEDAI BUNDLE UNTUK BUAT BAJU RUMAH SHDBDHD TAPI DIA TAK TAU BAJU APA DIA BELI NYAH ADOI Seharian adik i pakai baju ni tapi takde siapa perasan. I balik kerja tengok tulisan kat baju dia ni tergelak i 😭😭
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2 years
Kalau you tidur ada roomate, tolong la jangan nak set alarm banyak-banyak to study tapi tak bangun. I jenis susah nak tidur balik if i terjaga so setting a bunch of alarms but then you don’t wake up & i have to shut if off for you pisses me off & messes with my sleep schedule.
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3 years
Honestly i rasa the thing that’s holding me back is myself. I’m too negative dengan diri sendiri. I pressure diri i banyak sangat sebab i feel like i’m useless when i compare myself to someone else. Its been rough for me lately but i’m still trying to hang in
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2 years
My dad’s friend is filthy rich but he still rents his house bc he says if he tak suka his neighbour he can move straight away no need to sell the house or anything 😭😭😂
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You’ll see many young people buying houses and please ha, if you cannot afford now, TAKE YOUR TIME. The reality is there are also MANY young people who ended up putting their houses up to lelong. There’s no shame in renting a place for now pun.
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2 years
Missing someone who’s no longer with you is PAINFUL. I remember the way they look; the colour of their eyes & hair but I’m scared i’ll forget what their voice sounds like. Even worse, i’ll forget what it sounds like when they say they love me or how their laugh sounds like.
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Frina
3 years
I suka spend duit belikan barang untuk orang lain. Bila beli tu laju je, tak tengok harga & tak fikir panjang pun. Bila nak beli barang untuk DIRI SENDIRI, beribu kali fikir pun belum tentu beli lagi even benda tu bawah rm10 🤣 TAPIIII sometimes-
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3 years
Reminder: STOP USING someone’s weight gain or facial appearance sebagai alasan untuk ‘mulakan topic’ Banyak lagi benda you boleh borak, so don’t touch on sensitive issues like that. Its their body so obviously they know whats going on, tak payah point out their insecurities.
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3 years
Haritu adik i ada biji-biji macam ni kat bawah mata dia. I ingat dia allergic benda ke apa, RUPANYA ni la Milia, or orang kita selalu panggil ‘Biji kolesterol’
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1 year
Time i form 2 ada kawan i nak pinjam kasut sukan untuk pergi camping trip sekolah. Sebulan lebih tak dapat balik i tanya la mana kasut i. Dia kata dia “oh dah buang sebab tapak dia cabut” DAHLA ADIDAS ORIGINAL TAU I BAGIII. Tobat terus i, tak bagi dah orang pinjam barang 😭
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@frinazhar
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1 year
I hope you get unlimited kuaci & popcorn in pet heaven 🕊🤍
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Frina
1 year
Rest well Gussy boy, I love you🤍
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2 years
I pernah kena ejek because i was apparently ‘too hairy’ for a girl when i was 11 years old. Balik tu i nangis & took my mom’s shaver & shaved my legs & arms. That was the worst decision ever sebab bulu tu tumbuh lagi lebat 🤡
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I used to be a people pleaser. I’ll be nice to others even when they don’t deserve it bc what they think of me matters A LOT to me. But at some point it gets tired & it drains my social energy. No matter how good you try to be, there will be others who dislikes you & its okay-
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I just started working at a cafe & i’d wear a name tag that says ‘Hi, i’m new :)’ Then this one uncle said; Uncle: you’re name very unique ah I laughed bc I thought he was kidding Uncle (5 mins later): Hi new can you get my order IT WAS FUNNY & CUTE, I SWEAR HE MADE MY DAY😭
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3 years
Lama-lama tu you rasa penat tau. Penat nak puaskan hati orang. Tapi dia bukan amik kisah pasal you pun. I sedar lepastu i kena cuba prioritize myself. Buat apa i bazir masa dekat orang yang tak reti hargai i. Sampai bila you nak orang treat you like an option ?
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I know i dah banyak kali share this doa on my tweet but i want to share it again. I’ll always start my day dengan doa ni & i nak remind; rezeki bukan dalam bentuk duit je but good health & anything good that happens is considered as rezeki too✨ Salam jumaat semua !!
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3 years
The fact is, you cuba sebaik mana pun, you TAK AKAN pernah dapat puaskan hati semua orang. If people can’t see how amazing you are & accept you for who you are, dia yang rugi. NEVER change yourself just so you can fit in sebab you akan dapat penat je. You deserve better 🤍
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2 years
Turns out shopping did help a bit & i’m still gonna be seeing the therapist. I wasn’t expecting them to be super supportive like i was ready for the ‘awak kena banyak baca quran & solat’ pep talk already shshs but god bless them 😭😭
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2 years
Cerita seram this week; My dad took my car to wash haritu & the day after when i was driving back home from campus (at night) i was adjusting my leg masa drive & i tertendang something. Bila dah sampai rumah, i tengok rupanya crocs ni. TAPI masalah dia-
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2 years
Haritu kecoh pasal Petrichor / orang yang boleh bau hujan kan? Sekarang ni, cuba bayangkan gambar / bentuk apple dalam otak you. Boleh nampak tak apple tu? If you can see atleast an outline of it, its good enough TAPI kalau you nampak hitam je, you MAY have Aphantasia. (1/5)
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2 years
Idk bout you but one of my BIGGEST fear is letting someone listening to my music playlist. Any songs that sounds good to my ears works for me tbh. BUT what if my choice of music turns them off bc people say you can tell A LOT about a person’s personality by their music taste-
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2 years
I think we need to start accepting the fact that sometimes the problem comes from us. As much as it’s easier to put the blame on others for all the bad things that happened, sometimes we fail to see that we are also toxic to someone.
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3 years
For PREGNANT or BREASTFEEDING MOTHERS, If you tengah cari sunscreen, i would suggest using a physical sunscreen to avoid guna product yang ada 2 ingredients ni; 1. Oxybenzone 2. Ethylhexyl Salicylate Dua ingredient ni is not very recommended to take in your condition-
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Frina
2 years
Kadang tu bila orang nak luah masalah dia dekat you, it means they trust you enough. Jangan laa you pergi bandingkan pulak masalah you dgn dia. Its not a competition of who’s life is worst. Sometimes what people need is just a shoulder to cry on. All you need to do is listen.
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Idk who needs to hear this but; CHEATING IS NOT PART OF UPS & DOWNS IN A RELATIONSHIP. They had a choice to cheat or not & its not ur fault it happened. Its theirs for not finding a reason to have you in their life anymore & not realising how great you are. Know your worth :)
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I DAH JUMPA TEMPAT YANG BOLEH WALK IN BELI SKINCARE 😩!! My friends & I datang nak cuci mata je, lah sekali keluar belambak ye barang?? Dalam ni ada 30+ brands weh. International & local brands ada sekali. Pasni takyah tunggu postage dah. Walk in terus beli je hehe
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2 years
@pacalyanghina Kenapa nak kena tegur pasal misai dia 😅. For me i’d say just leave it la bc its not disturbing anyone. Bc i pun ada je misai haha it’ll be more insecure for me if you point it out
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2 years
If you’re in a relationship, i hope you know your worth. Don’t stay because you’re afraid you won’t find love anymore because i promise you will, even if it takes time. Be with someone who’d give you the world & would hype you up. Don’t be with someone who drags you down.
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3 years
I hate feeling like i’m not good enough for someone. Sometimes i rasa macam i dah cuba yang terbaik, but my best is still never enough. People are not gonna like you all the time, & thats okay because you don’t live to please them pun. You takleh nak paksa orang suka you, TAPI
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2 years
Tak faham eh adik beradik ni memang suka ke masuk bilik orang camtu je, usik / amik barang lepastu keluar 😭😭 Adik i main masuk je bilik I then amik shampoo baru i sebab dia kata rambut i bau wangi HAHAHAH.
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1 year
I had a friend back in school dulu memang takde siapa cakap dengan so my sisters & i decide to be her friend. Dia famous kat tiktok now & anak artist ni. I tried reaching out bc we lost contact then dia upload tiktok ‘when you’re famous everyone says they were your friend’-
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Frina
2 years
Ada yang cakap jumpa therapist ni lembik but honestly i rasa it shows how strong we are to wanting to help ourselves for the better. Any strong person needs to let out some steam / rant to someone too. There is no shame in seeking physical help. Kita usaha selagi boleh :)
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1 year
Update: i cancelled my KK appointment Pergi straight to private clinic. Told the Dr. everything i’m going through. Had to do blood test, urine test & got a referral letter. Malam semalam i buat DASS test & pagi tadi HTAR (Klinik Mentari) called & helped set my psychiatry
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2 years
Some parents feel like dengan cara pukul anak, baru anak akan belajar but it causes soo much trauma & pain instead. Budak-budak zaman sekarang tak sama dengan dulu & not everyone is mentally capable nak hadap kena pukul / maki. Some things doesn’t need to be solved w violence.
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2 years
Dulu masa kecik I benci gila pakai benda ni sebab bila apply tu buat ketiak i sakit. Cam sapu garam kasar kat situ 😂 TAPI I BARI TAHU I PAKAI CARA SALAH HAHAHA. Now dah tahu cara betul i guna ni je for ubat ketiak. Bagus gila i berpeluh pun badan tak berbau🤓
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Insurance mana lagi bagus eh sebab Allianz TERUK GILA‼️ Bayar insurance sebulan beratus tapi time nak guna nak dapat GL punya la susah tunggu approval lama betul. Ni dah 3 kali dengan Allianz macam ni. Time ligament i koyak, kena admit tapi insurance approve lambat end up my
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I jenis tak suka guna wallet yang besar-besar sebab makan space dalam my bag & tak muat nak letak dalam pocket. Wallet ni nampak kecik kan ? TAPI i sumbat banyak gila card dalam ni pun dia tak kembang AND IT FITS PERFECTLY IN MY POCKET !!
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Also,, there’s no shame in going to therapy. You can rant anything & just let a few steams out. Better to talk to someone rather than simpan sorang sampai you tertekan.
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After a bad break up, most of us tend to blame ourselves. Tertanya apa kita buat salah or what we could’ve done better to save the relationship. Here’s 3 tips on how I healed from my bad break up: ((Lelaki pun boleh ikut tips ni))
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Korang kalau suka bagi stray dogs makan boleh standby sabun samak ni ! I selalu je pakai gloves tapi kadang-kadang anjing tu terlebih excited habis i kena samak baju / seluar sekali 🤣 I dah guna a few tubes & this one memang memudahkan proses samak / sertu-
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2 years
LOOK AT THIS CUTE KEYBOARD CASE I BELI FOR MY IPAD !! I tak mampu nak beli original one from apple so i beli yang ni jela. Dahla comel, banyak choices of colour & dia bagi sticker sekali. Semoga lepasni lagi semangat la siapkan assignment awal 🤣
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1 year
Dia cam try hard gila nak tanya soalan tu dengan baik & perlahan so orang yang beratur belakang i tak dengar tapi i yang pekak HAHAHA. My social anxiety can’t do well with large crowds. Lepas dah habis semua benda baru i faham amenda dia cakap awal-awal tu. But he was super
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1st picture: How my face ‘feels’ like on normal days. 2nd picture: Muka i bila ada event penting, tangkap gambar class or masa raya 🥲 Siapa pernah macam ni jugak ? 😭
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3 years
If you tak sure nak doa apa malam Nisfu Syaaban ni, I sempat screenshot kat tiktok tadi & thought of sharing it with you guys here. Mintak & berdoa je for anything you want or feel like saying. Let it all out because HE hears everything & HIS plan is always the best✨
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2 years
You want your kids to respect you, bukan takut dengan you. I ada 5 adik beradik yang lain & if one of us buat hal, my dad sendiri akan slow talk dengan kita tanya apa masalah sebab dia kata lain anak lain cara nak handle.
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2 years
ITS BADDD😭😭 I lupa i guna brand lain HAHAHAHAH yang i biasa guna dia tak stain pun skdndjd ya allah
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Frina
2 years
I dyed my hair again & dyed my brows as well BUT THIS TIME I’M USING S CHEAP DYE & IT STAINED MY HANDS DHDBDH I DAHLA MAIN TEPEK JE WEH KAT EYEBROW I. I LOOK LIKE ANGRY BIRDS SJDJDJD ITS STAINED AS WELL & I HAVE A FAMILY LUNCH TMR 😭😭😭
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2 years
Get to know your child better. If the bond is there, diaorg akan open up to you easily & its easier to handle them. Tak salah pun sekali skala berlembut dengan anak, it doesn’t make you a weak parent pun.
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2 years
Lately class i selalu habis lambat gila so bila drive tu i selalu rasa ngantuk. That’s why i selalu tinggalkan gula-gula / anything for me to chew on in the car. Bila i rasa ngantuk i akan amik & it makes me less sleepy bc i akan focus on the food in my mouth instead-
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Sometimes i feel like i’m not good enough for myself. Buat apa semua rasa tak kena & i constantly bring myself down. I’m really trying to love & appreciate myself but smthg about self love is just hard. I hope one day i can give myself the love i truly deserve.
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2 years
IF YOU LOVE EATING JAPANESE CUISINE TOLONG LA MAKAN AT THIS JAPANESE BUFFET RESTAURANT ‼️ Nak pergi dating / bawak family pun best sebab its all you can eat, boleh tambah banyak kali sampai takleh nak sumbat dah😭😭 I bagitau nama kedai kat bawah 👇🏻
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@tattyhassan Bela laaa hahah dorang comel gila !! I ada 2 ekor hehe. Kucing i tak bothered langsung dengan guinea pig tu haha tengok la siap boleh baring lagi atas dia
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Frina
3 years
I don’t think people understand how depressing this pandemic is for some of us. Some of us are actually at the state of depression or even worse Duduk rumah ni bunyi mcm senang kan ? Yela, duduk rumah je kot bukan buat apa pun Tapi orang tak tau what actually happens at home
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Frina
2 years
I dah banyak kali kena kacau dari kecik sebab i memang boleh nampak so i don’t find it funny bila bergurau pasal benda ni. Sekali kena sampai 3 minggu boleh demam. Dia tak suka bila kita cerita pasal dia. Dia memang ada je dengar everything you’re talking about.
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@frinazhar
Frina
3 years
Bila orang kata dia taknak pakai moisturizer sebab nanti muka lagi berminyak: “There you are..Doing your skincare routine but missing out your moisturizer..You probably chose the wrong moisturizer for your skin..But its okay. I can fix that.. i can fix.. YOU”.
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@frinazhar
Frina
2 years
Its honestly perfectly normal for women to have body hairs too. Bukan laki jak yang boleh ada body hair. Please don’t feel insecure when people comment about your bulus on your arms / legs. I stopped shaving when i was about 14 I think than i switched to-
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Frina
2 years
I know god has better plans for me but sometimes i just feel really lost in what i’m doing & i selalu terfikir how my life is going to be like 10 years from now. Apa pun lah i nak pesan je, jangan sakit hati tengok kejayaan orang lain bc it’ll affect your happiness-
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Frina
2 years
Just because we’re the eldest it doesn’t mean we’re responsible for our siblings’ behaviour. They’re old enough to make mistakes of their own & learn from it. Parents can’t expect the younger ones to be a ‘complete reflection’ of your eldest.
@localrkyt
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2 years
Any late night confession? Lets go!
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@frinazhar
Frina
2 years
Selain jerawat dekat muka, jerawat yang tumbuh dekat badan ni pun sakit jugak 😭. Here’s 4 tips that could help prevent body acne, so make sure you treat your body as important as you treat your face !
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Frina
2 years
I honestly can’t stress this enough. If you choose to date someone, PLEASE DATE SOMEONE WHO KNOWS HOW TO RESPECT YOU. Jangan la stay sebab cinta je tapi your partner keeps downgrading you. Value yourself enough to just walk away when you’re being disrespected.
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Frina
2 years
I was reading this book and i loveee this quote; “Every saint has a past & every sinner has a future” IMO, the second chance in life that actually matters is not the ones we expect people to give us, but its the one we’re willing to give ourselves.
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Frina
1 year
Dia takde offer nak ganti or tanya how can she compensate the shoe balik tau andbshs Dia macam tak rasa bersalah langsung. I pun dulu jenis pendiam so i takde la mintak any compensation. I kumpul balik duit sendiri untuk beli kasut baru 🤧
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Frina
2 years
Apparently this tweet is also reaching to people outside of Malaysia, so here’s the english version of it !!
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Frina
2 years
I think some part of me feels like i don’t deserve to be loved because of what i’m going through atm. My depression & anxiety keeps getting at me before i can ever think for myself lol. I’m also not mentally capable of taking risks for my heart. I can’t take another heartbreak
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@frinazhar
Frina
1 year
I pergi KK to do mental health check up bc its getting really bad recently & I can’t afford to go to private for frequent check ups & for meds. My appointment is this Wednesday. Kalau siapa nak update on the process & everything nanti i try share the whole process!
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Frina
3 years
HELLOOO I NAK SHARE I DAH SAMPAI MY TARGET SALES KAT SHOPEE 😭 Last year i nak buat sales more than rm100 sebulan pun susah weh. I target RM40k kat shopee akhir tahun, but i manage to capai dah target i. I’m soo happy for myself !!
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@frinazhar
Frina
2 years
Sometimes its okay to let yourself get hurt. That’s how you know it’s worth it. If its not, you move on & learn from it to protect yourself in the future. If it is, you’ll learn from it too. Good things take time & you’ll find that some things are worth fighting for.
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Frina
1 year
Had a mental breakdown & cried but tetiba teringat i have mascara on. Bukak camera tengok mascara tak smudge so i took a funny picture of myself & felt soo much better😙✌🏻 Anywayyys, siapa mood nak nangis boleh la beli mascara ni tengah sale RM19, its cry-proof lol
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Frina
1 year
Thank you to the Nurses & the akak at the kaunter pendaftaran for attending me when i was crying. One of the nurses sat me down & helped me calm down. Dia siap kata “nak nangis tu nangis je but jangan focus sangat dekat apa yang trigger kita. Amik nafas banyak-banyak & cuba
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Frina
1 year
Kasut tu abah i beli untuk i for msss & training. That was the only sports shoe i ada tau. Time tu family i takdela senang mana, and that shoe easily costed around rm400+ Nangis i weh dia kata dia buang camtu je. Kalau la i tau tapak dia cabut i boleh je gam / tape balik 😭
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@frinazhar
Frina
3 years
It hurts when you’ve tried your best, but your best is still not good enough for some people. So what i do now is i stop proving others wrong, i try proving myself right instead. Stop trying to please everyone, you never can. Just grow at your own pace, and you do you !!
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Frina
3 years
I tak tau kenapa tapi i selalu rasa macam sebaik mana pun i cuba, it will never be enough for some people. Penat la jugak you keep trying your best EVERY TIME tapi ada je orang yang asyik throw negative stuff to you. Sampai satu tahap-
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Frina
2 years
@NabellaAnuar Bila tak tunjuk netizen bising, bila dah tunjuk ada yang kutuk appearance budak tu 😭. Kalau i jadi dia pun memang i taknak reveal anything anymore
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@frinazhar
Frina
3 years
Moving on is a tough phase. Some days you rasa macam dah okay, tapi ada hari you rasa nak nangis & blame yourself for everything. Its okay to feel that way. Move on ni bukan untuk melupakan, tapi untuk kita terima & redha dengan apa yang jadi.
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Frina
3 years
Self love is not selfish. Sometimes you need to learn how to prioritize yourself & stop letting yourself get hurt. Jangan terlalu baik dengan orang yang tak layak terima your good side. Sometimes people would take it as a free pass to treat you like an option.
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Frina
3 years
Trauma ni bukan jadi sebab physical abuse je. Mentally & verbally abusing someone would also cause trauma. Sebab tu its always important to watch what you say dengan orang lain, different people handle things differently. If you have nothing nice to say its better to shut up.
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Frina
1 year
Helloo semua wanita cantiks, I nak tanya how do you shoot your shot / make the first move ? I’m contemplating like I don’t wanna seem desperate BUT ya girl gotta try no?
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Frina
2 years
Its scary how one minute a person can say they love you, that they’re willing to give the world to you, only for them to leave you the next day, without a reason & treats you like a complete stranger as if ‘we’ never happened.
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