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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

26 days

A thread of my threads.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

7 months

I have no interest in the richness or poorness of the woman I'll choose to marry. But you see, class, style, grace, abundance, and a penchant for risk, curiosity, and adventure are non-negotiable.

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A little unrelated, but I've turned down a lot of pretty and decent girls who made the first move on me, 'cos they didn't have any substance. I'm sure they'll be the type to say, "I'm a good girl, I should get it." But you can be good and pretty, but you're boring as hell.

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@Naeto__

7 months

Better shoot your shot and do it properly ‘cause I don’t read signs

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@enyinna_

6 months

You know why she had the guts to do that? 'Cos if the man had declined, another man will step in to show he's a "bigger man." You know why he didn't decline, 'cos he wants to show himself? He's timid as hell, like a lot of Nigerian men. But on Twitter, it's "fear women."

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She caught the bouquet and was asked to pick her spec from the crowd 😂👋

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

7 months

Lots of Naija women bore me to shits. My messages are full of texts that stopped 'cos I chose not to settle for a beautiful mute, who has no true excitement, passion, or thrill. One who can hardly give an explanation of something that lifts her spirit. Yet, expects desire.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

3 months

Be extremely competent at what you do, live within your means, socialize frequently, and engage in your hobbies.

Mystic Prince

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3 months

@enyinna_ How do I find good women😭

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

2 months

Feminists look at men in the same way children look at adults. The only difference is that children eventually find out.

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@enyinna_

7 months

Even worse are the girls who equate fun and excitement to sex and degeneracy. You really can't with those ones. Spend one afternoon with them after the club, and you'll feel the sadness in the atmosphere.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

7 months

I purposely ask people what their hobbies are, if they've gone through an adventure, if they've done naughty things, 'cos however they react to these questions are a fair judgment of who they are.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

1 month

BS. You're supposed to protect women of whom you're in affinity—daughters, sisters, mothers, romantic partners, and friends. Not "women." The society men set to protect women are the same ones women held a duty to. In this society, the justice system must protect everyone.

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@RealDonaldDoo

1 month

Some of you are very daft, I swear. Women are protesting that they should stop killing them. You’re telling them it’s not about gender or they’re not the only people getting killed. Forget all this talk y’all have here, we’re meant to protect our women as men, it is how we

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7 months

I sometimes explain to men about the women I've loved, and they found it unreal. Men did it all—dates, pimping, spending, sex. They never thought a woman could just be interesting. They never thought you could just enjoy a woman. I mean, to just really like her. Not her body.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

1 month

She knows. She only claims ignorance when her own plans don't fall through.

The Canadian

@kharacta

2 months

That UK guy texting you now is cultivating you for December harvest🥂

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

6 months

I criticise Naija men and Niaja women, but I will hardly do is: join Naija men in criticising Niaija women for their ways. 'Cos, I know Naija men. Oh, I know them so well. The women are a clear reflection of the loosers that approach them daily.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

1 month

You can be defensive about allegations laid against you. You can't defend the crimes of another person. Many men (and women) here will beat shege in a man who kills if he's in their neighbourhood. But don't burden people with the need to perform virtue, anytime, a story trends.

Solomon Buchi

@Solomon_Buchi

1 month

Put that “not all men” effort into condemning the wicked acts of some men. Please, it’s not time to be defensive.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

3 months

I don't have a tough framework with women. I often triple text, I send VNs, I express myself, I don't keep scores, etc. If she's not down for what I'm after, I leave. And I often know this soon enough. My main priority is my well-being first, not how I appear to others.

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@DioExcelo

3 months

If you blocked her, she won, and you lost.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

7 months

If I dm a girl and she comes online to "expose" me, I'll just dm another one. This "I no go ever dm girl for my life" ish is weak. What could I possibly be ashamed of? Thinking I might like a girl? C'mon now

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

5 months

A young man needs to be a little reckless, then learn from his recklessness, then build models and principles off them as he gets older. This is why I can't "red pill" my child early. He must make mistakes. He must be a little stupid. He must regret.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

2 years

Wizkid's More Love, Less Ego is beautiful

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

3 months

I don't complain about the dating market or "the streets" 'cos I'm not actively searching. For the same reason, I don't generalise a nasty attitude of a woman to be of all women. I know how to find good girls. Until then, whatever bs I get from the streets is a result of my lust.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

8 months

When people find someone who appeals to their fantasy, they go crazy pouring affection on the person without giving connection time to develop. I hate when they call this "love"

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

6 months

Nigeria is a culture of scarcity and lack, lowliness and oppresiveness, heartbreaks, and punishment for just existing. Our hunan condition is such that we mostly feel bad about ourselves. So men & women do reprehensible things to feel good at the expense of reason & decency.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

1 year

@Wizarab10 Write a letter to the scholarship board imploring them to extend/defer your scholarship. Explain the situation to them. Be formal, but sober. And do your 1 year. You'll be 24 when you're done.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

21 days

Growing up is knowing that when a girl talks about how she's "dying of singleness" or craves intimacy on the internet, you don't dm her. And if you're doing that, you stop abruptly.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

3 years

@jayythedope For example if a lady plans with her friends to drug a guy and have sex with him, you can't report rape. But there can be: Sexual assault, Conspiracy to commit it, Unlawful possession of hard drugs (or any law that bans drugs); Dat kine thing sha, but not "Rape".

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

8 months

From Primary 3 to law school, I came to class only 40% of the time. Sometime, in JSS, they concluded I'll be killed by cultists in Uni. In SS2, someone nick-named me NFA (No Future Ambition). I've prolly never lost an argument in a courtroom. I take people's girlfriends for fun

Saul Goodman.

@Ibnwalee

8 months

Throughout my Uni I didn’t know what was happening academically. I had parallel F results 60% of the times. I re-sat at least 60% of my courses. I managed to finish. I never felt like a failure. I didn’t get depressed. I wasn’t worried. My value and esteem is innately grounded.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

2 months

If you're out for equal standards, then you should naturally want men who never think of their future family and only live for themselves. See how that plays out.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

2 months

I get it when girls find their square root when I don't act the way other men do. I'm not even special. I've just grown to see the culture Nigerian men have created regarding women. And I don't fit in.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

6 months

Dickson rightly criticises materialistic leeches, and many of you men sheer him. But when he says you can cultivate intimacy and community without richness, the same you who should promote that message attack him. Just look at yourself: How cute? Aren't you so beautifully stupid?

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

6 months

I'll be in my comfort and write my observations, and weak idiots who will come and say bullshit in my mentions of how harsh my tone is. "You must be sad," bla bla bla. They know the society they partake in is rubbish, but they hate to be conscious of the role they play in it.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

6 months

Too many shallow folks in the comment think domestic chores are limited to cooking. But when you go to the average home, the father is cleaning cars, generators, changing wires, fixing one appliance or furniture with a toolbox. When you can't think of anything beyond yourself.

Big Sheddy 🦅

@coder_blvck

6 months

Lmao, I pity you people. We are in 2024 and the only way to achieve financial stability as a married couple or family is a double income household. None of that I’m the head of the family bullshit, everybody will and must contribute a quota to the family finances. Sure fire way

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

5 months

In real time, it's not even "ordered," it's a simple tell, and she accepts 'cos she considers him a leader. They may have a back-&-forth before or after. You wouldn't understand 'cos feminism is a power play. It's having your way by outrageously preconcieved victimhood. Silly.

Dandelion

@Aituaa_

5 months

I’ve a theory that women who can be ordered by their spouses have swallowed the lie that somehow, husbands are more sensible. So they’ve outsourced their thinking, submitting to the man’s authority. Meanwhile he’s an ordinary human, clueless af. Probably foolish. Sigh

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

6 months

"Money he didn't plan for," "Women are entitled." Lol, all of una dey craze.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

7 months

It's a misconception that style & class must come with having means. My mum raised us in a face-me-I-face-you away from her "privileged" family. Yet, our hand-picked family friends in the hood were folks who had considerable self-esteem and lived with some level of decency. 1/

Máyọ̀wá

@pkmayowa

7 months

Don’t style , class , grace , and abundance come from experience with means?

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

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There are thousands of white collar girls between the ages of 24 and 29, working in Lagos Island, Ikoyi, VI, and Lekki, who will say yes, if a financial stable guy ask for their hands in marriage.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

3 months

Today's my birthday. Thank you, Jesus.🙏🏿🍾💥

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

3 years

@jayythedope They won't. It's not a crime under Nigerian law. But if he can connect with state prosecutors (through or without police) they might find a charge under Sexual Assualt.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

3 years

@jayythedope Men can not be raped under Nigerian law. Our criminal code hasn't changed much in 100 years. Legislators will prolly laugh if you clamour for changes on this. So if there's rape, have your lawyer find other crimes in the act (tho usually with lesser sentences).

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

2 months

Children think adults have money 'cos they see a little more than what they have with adults. But they become adults and realise things like Pillows, Curtains, Bulbs, wires, and paint, don't just come with the house. And life is a little more complex.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

2 months

They'll ignore the fact that all the men around them are disposable for the sake of the women and children around them. But will pick men's relative sexual freedom, or "ability to be out late," as a point for agitation. Like greedy brats.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

6 months

Loosing attraction for them when they pay attention to you, 'cos beneath, you don't rate yourself enough to think people of value can find you worthy. So you punish them for it before searching for the next dreamy excitement to manifest your damaged self-esteem & purposelessness.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

7 months

@cviathavibe You might need to avoid establishing depth with the men you're meeting until you find the ones capable of leading you into it, effortlessly, and by themselves. If they don't lead you into it, you'll exhaust yourself, and might be exploited easily. Be shallow and open, for now.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

7 months

You're an educated woman your concern should be whether he's wrong or right. You're disingenous in the same childish way many of your types are. If you cared about an answer to your question, you'll dm him.

Olúwatósìn Olaseinde

@tosinolaseinde

7 months

Why are you always at the helm of topics like this. You go the extra mile for it. I’m genuinely curious.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

5 months

I don't have a business with both parties. But I'll say as a side-looker, this is why I don't rate Nigerian men's "game" or Nigerian dating culture. It's pretty much having money, generator, car, or being a "senior"; little intimacy or true attraction, mostly opportunism.

Sir Dickson

@Wizarab10

5 months

Congratulations

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

11 months

I love to write about life, leisure, first principles, and style. My writings are often decorated with pictures showcasing my love for classic style (elegance, music, and art) and Golden Age Hollywood. Here's a list of my writings (let me know which you love most!):

Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

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I should be sharing my pieces on Twitter.

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@enyinna_

1 month

If the boys complained about many girls in their set, some men would say "skill issue." 'Cos, what's a Naija man, if he doesn't throw subtle shades at other men, just to feel superior.

kiitaan!

@kiitaan44

1 month

ejor why are people dating for financial stability at 19???😭😭😭😭

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

7 months

Nigerian men are the Igbo men of the world. No rizz. Just capitalising on women's desire for extravagant provision and company.

AKIN-MADE

@bibzyCarter

7 months

Once you enter abroad, you fit do 1 year stainless. 6 months sure pa. Nothing for you.

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@enyinna_

3 months

A person simply being interested in you is not "bothering," though. Many folks have their self-esteem so low to the gutter that they think a simple interest in them imply that they're superior. People can like you, (alright?) get to know you and avoid you for their own good.

Call Me Von

@D_RollWasHere

3 months

Getting ghosted by somebody who bothered you in the first place is crazyyyyyy

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@enyinna_

2 years

@SamuelOtigba I sent some money to my mate. I was searching for a Job for him too. We were talking when he said he'll rather vote a Rat than any Igbo. I'm Igbo. He admitted that Igbos fed him in school; yet they irritate him. We still talked until I couldn't take the slurs he posts online.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

2 years

@Ed0king_ @izuchukwuxavier @unclechibuzo The Igbo Catholic Aesthetic implies an aesthetic peculiar to Igbo Catholics. O buro na ndi igbo niile bu ndi Catholic. That's why you got such response, lmao

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

5 months

Girls start having sex and start feeling like they've opened eye. Can't read, can't get a grasp of documents, no hobbies, can't command respect, can't handle conflict, can't account for bills, can't regulate emotions, can't dress well without spending. "All men are the same," lol

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

5 months

The reason why many Nigerians bother about people who speak "too much English" is 'cos they really don't understand it. It's an expression of mockery to veil their anxiety and frustration over this particular inadequacy.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

7 months

I like food, I'm not a foodie. I'm orderly. It's not OCD. I like conversations. Not "networking" events. Don't use "nyansh" or "boobs" to describe a woman I'm dating. It's forced and vulgar. I'm not going to give your small updates on my relationship. Let me be.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

6 months

"I hope he heals," "I hope she heals." Stupid talk. What truly is healing? People don't have to "heal." They just have to continue life. Fairly.

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@enyinna_

2 years

@khanofkhans11_ One should expect nothing less from a society without a value system Their men can't even curb their neuroticism 'cos the men hardly perform their roles as benevolent and sacrificial leaders Broken families: Guy 26 - 3 jail terms, 4 baby mamas Girl 19 - 2 kids, 3 abortions

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

23 days

Guys in my office thinking I'm having a ball, 'cos "babes go like dis guy gan," are naive. There's nothing flattering about Naija women fancing you. They'll still embarass you at an instant to prove to others that they don't feel you like that. It's a toxic game.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

1 month

Is it today's news that men are more capable or violent crimes? Do we pick one thing that a gender is capable of and make it a single story about them? If you insist on doing so, how dare you turn around and expect protection from the same people? Are you people mad?

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

1 month

'Cos thoughts that spring out during our crazy moments are being shared in an instant instead of being held under discretion.

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@el_modestpoet

1 month

This app is toxic.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

1 year

I genuinely think people believe 400k isn't enough 'cos they're often trying to leave beyond their means to show they're better. What they call "normal" is what they see glamorised on media, even if no one they know lives like that.

Sir Dickson

@Wizarab10

1 year

Have a job that pays you 400k, a partner you love and loves you in return, Enjoy 9ja parties and Night life, Play ball on weekends with the boys, Watch EPL in conjunction with your woman who keeps disturbing you for attention. DayStar (Lagos) or HOTR (Abuja) on Sunday with family

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@enyinna_

3 months

Envy is often posed as social justice

simple boi: mabele & amabele

@Queen_Finxa

3 months

Absolutely not a SINGLE person should be a billionaire

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@enyinna_

4 months

This girl is really pretty. She was in Big Brother Africa, abi?

BELLA OKAGBUE⚡️

@bella_okagbue

4 months

I’m unable to put into words how I feel. Truly, what God cannot do, does not exist.

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@enyinna_

2 years

@Mrpossidez What's your thought on why some people mention your being in Havard in their comebacks to something you say in social discourses? Do you always find such comments as snide? Why wouldn't you?

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

6 months

@ugwox1 Your first statement could be right. Yet, the reason why there are stunts and skits of this particular kind remains.

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@enyinna_

6 months

This remains funny 'cos my mum went to several weddings and events looking almost the same. Self-esteem is probably the best style accessory.

Dammy B

@_DammyB_

6 months

Men are so lucky. They can attend owambe’s impromptu. Just enter wardrobe bring out one white kaftan and one cap. Chai.

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@enyinna_

25 days

"People can be what they want to be as long as they're not harming anyone." - People too narcissistic, arrogant, and unwise to consider the long-term effect of stupid shit.

SERAH IBRAHIM

@TheSerahIbrahim

25 days

This rubbish that lounges and restaurants do needs to stop. I can’t go into a female restroom and I’m seeing a bunch of guys on wigs and lipstick This one is even telling me “hello” with voice and leg like Randy Orton. Create their own restrooms for them Women need their space.

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@enyinna_

3 months

Some of us are not trying to date a "boss-babe," we just like a lady. A full lady. She doesn't have to be a "boss-babe" or a poor girl or a crazy girl or a "good girl." Just a woman. A good 'ol attractive woman can do. If she wants to see me and can't afford it, I'll pay. Gladly.

Nenny Ugoeze🥷🏾

@Neenyenwa

3 months

Wish Nigerian men can level up also in their mentality.. if a woman is telling you to pay her Uber for a date, ensure she’s not broke.. boss babes don’t move like that.

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@enyinna_

1 month

How is your reaction to people being killed, beaten, raped, looted from, discourse about tribe or gender? Don't you know who were police station is? Can't you sponsor an investigation or prosecution? Will you die if you don't signal virtue? Abegy.

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@enyinna_

2 years

@Hibzster She has the option of leaving to someone who treats her as a decent person

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@enyinna_

7 months

I don't agree. It's how some men think the gym correlates with toughness. It doesn't. Books can make you have great personalities, yet I don't find a correlation. A great personality doesn't have to be profound. Life is not a movie. One just has to be pleasant in association.

Sir Baggy jeans

@Ewa_ocheee

7 months

A little unrelated but there's a strong correlation between women who read and women who have amazing personalities.

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@enyinna_

8 months

What they don't know is that you've lost almost all there is to lose—felt all chaotic emotions. You play by rules you created. There's a confidence that comes with picking yourself up from your mistakes and finding a way. Alone. The responsibility & courage. Most don't get this.

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@enyinna_

7 months

Which would explain why they'll come around me and automatically start blowing their wanna-be impressive vocabulary to advertise their intellect. When, for the most part, I just want to dance in a nearby bush or walk through the city's streets to buy suya after a rainfall.

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@enyinna_

2 months

Normal level na. Na so one man over assist babe for here, kon still meet am "just to hear what she has to say." When she scammed him finish, he came here to warn Enugu men about her. When dem see woman, dem go turn Michael Helps

🅰️lvin🥷👑

@drithalvi

2 months

If men could treat fellow men half of the treatment we give to women, the world would be so nice. This guy would never have done this if it was a girl, wetin man do man?

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It's funny how we love to resort to people who purportedly lack empathy to solve our problems. I don't have no beef with you. But I'll say a person is being stupid if they think easily expressing emotions is being emotionally intelligent.

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@lovvewolf

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Men are not logical, they just lack empathy. This false dichotomy is successful because somehow men repackaged anger like it’s not an emotion.

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Younglings come around staring at you, possibly, 'cos they know you from somewhere. No "Hi!". Too timid to make an approach. Too scared of rejection. Too fragile to lead a life with intention.

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@enyinna_

6 months

A beautiful lady once wore this thing for me, a dark coloured type; and sat on the arm of my chair. I did nothing but talk about how I couldn't finish a Charles Dickens' cos of hustle and stress. It wasn't discipline or anything. I was just foolish.

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@enyinna_

7 months

I've think I'll not be interested in love until I leave Naija. For the mere fact that I'm not compatible with our contemporary social ideals. I believe in the ordinariness of human life. This is not very appreciated in our dating culture.

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@enyinna_

5 months

I've always prioritised exposure over knowledge. 'Cos, it's not just that I find a lot of information (knowledge) irrelevant, but I believe knowledge without fine accounts of experiences self-awareness is distasteful

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@enyinna_

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I've always considered myself first, an Igbo man, and a worshipper of God. But also, a lover of life—reflected in my obsession with the beauty found in literary and performative arts, history and culture, and human craft in several vocations, but also, in mundane activities.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

2 years

Fine lively girl makes sexual jokes on IG, and post "flexing" pics. One day she complains of men not wanting to marry her after "fun", so she posts her academic achievements. I felt a some kind of pity: who convinced that their grades influence men's choices of them? Is it a job?

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

3 months

Zenith was started by a group of men. A woman doesn't deserve a sit for the mere fact that she's a woman. Bugger off.

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@enyinna_

6 months

"I'm now blocking rapey men." Goes ahead to block all men who think women should dress decently. Stays men who think women shouldn't dress decently and wonders, "Where did all the good men go?" If you think of it beneath the surface, you may feel actual pity for them, not spite.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

21 days

I shall leave my role in a Tier 1 Bank soon for any suitable hybrid role. My discipline: Data Protection, Government, Risk & Compliance (+ AML-CFT), Commercial Agreements, C-Suite Assistance, Conflict Resolution & Discretion. I appreciate your advice and opportunities.💥

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

2 years

@chescaleigh The rationale isn't that all things that end is a failure. It's: a marriage that ends is a failure. If the people moved on fairly well, it means their failed marriage led to something good, not that it wasn't a failure. 'Cos the measure of it's success lies in its longevity.

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@enyinna_

7 months

"True icons are larger than life, unforgettable, with an elegance that's mesmirizingly timeless."

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

7 months

People who've seen me write or heard me speak often misunderstand me. But since it's often from a good place, I'm good. There's this stupid idea that what moves me in a woman (or anyone at all) is the intellectual disposition to know a thing about everything. But 🥱

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

1 year

@Mrpossidez The avoidance of suffering is a form of suffering. Yet when folks suffer 'cos they're avoiding suffering, they convince themselves they're going through enough. In this sense, those who opt to work in fraud, over legit work, convince themselves they're hardworking.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

8 months

When you like someone, you need to let go of the idea that they must be for you. You should communicate your likeness in simple and plain terms and later by actions. But you should let them be. Until you're sure you can accommodate who they are. It's not by force.

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@enyinna_

6 months

It's almost like they need to be protected from themselves. Reminds me of the joke Dave Chappelle made that feminism will have better reasoning if it was led by a man. A feminist can call him misogynistic on one hand and say, "I want a strict man who can check me" on another.

Null

@Vhoyde

6 months

They way they think, women would vote for cheating to be made a crime and be shocked once they start going to jail too

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

23 days

You say "Europe is beautiful," and "Twitter intellectuals" will show a pic of a dirty part of Europe to prove you're wrong. Lol, there's a lack of comprehension, then there's a violent mix of arrogance, boredom, and loneliness that makes folks act like they escaped the psych ward

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

2 years

@Hibzster Yeah I suppose it will be "understanding" to you, only if I derive the same meaning which you derive from the tweet.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

7 months

Sometimes, I rizz girls and know I'll not get them. 'Cos they require an extra effort. And it's that extra effort I chose not to put.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

7 months

I am too clear, scaringly blunt—hell too obvious & specific—about the things I give a damn about. It sometimes sadden me that many Nigerians, in their lowliness, think being educated and attractive means to engage in bullshit that only makes one feel bigger than the next person.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

6 months

Sometimes, people don't acknowledge your fine qualities, 'cos of their low self-esteem. They genuinely don't think they can be associated with someone like you. If you kept a distance, they wouldn't just acknowledge you, they'll respect you.

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@enyinna_

2 years

@khanofkhans11_ The women are a lot more hardworking, but not in an admirable way. More like in survival mode. They're so terribly unrefined, they project their self hate on everything, and celebrate their bitchy-ness as cope. Which is why I look down on Nigerians who employ their mannerisms.

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

9 months

An argument is not win/loose. We can agree on a few, disagree on some, and be inconclusive on others. You can tell a person you want to talk with them, but don't have much to say. We grew up in different cultures. It's silly to be annoyed that people enjoy what you hate.

Mr. Possible

@Mrpossidez

9 months

What do you think is common sense but somehow doesn’t seem that way to most people you interact with whether online or offline?

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Enyinnaya

@enyinna_

6 months

A big part of being a young man of value in Naija is learning to quietly say "e no worth am," in many situations, and walking away. You don't want to expend your energy and resources on things, people, to satisfy your lust, esp in such that it leaves you worse than you were.

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@enyinna_

3 months

You need a type of patience if you need to find that one woman. This isn't the 90s. You can't just hit it off with the girl down the street, especially if she's active on social media. She's subject to a million distractions, marketing campaigns, online feminism and pop culture.

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@enyinna_

7 months

I think a lot of men who focus on raising awareness on how "our women are turning into whores" are virtue signalling. They don't care much about sexual degeneracy. They're just idle folks who like being in a morally superior position.

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@enyinna_

4 months

When the system tries to assure boys that there's no need for men in their lives, the boys will look to the Internet to find men and take out their resentment on girls. Feminism is poison to society.

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@enyinna_

21 days

A lot of girls don't want to exploit your resources. They just want to be with you. But there's a social pressure from other women, especially their "friends," to show that their man has doings. So, they redirect that pressure on you. It's a cultural problem.

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@enyinna_

3 months

People who like Trump either like his person or simply prefer him to Democrat front-liners. Your condescension is stupid and baseless.

Keneike

@keneike

3 months

For the Nigerian Trumpers with no depth and knowledge, your god stopped this woman from contesting for this position. Biden came in and enabled her to contest.

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@enyinna_

6 months

Men of old set a system to which people can go from their parent's home to their matrimonial home. Almost all social problems of the world have been caused by the destruction of this system—the original patriarchy. Interestingly, those who attack the Patriarchy, suffer the most.

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