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Believer in Jesus. Married to @yom_ash . Lawyer. I love good books and amazing food. Host of Big Sister Conversations

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Joined April 2020
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@eniola_ash
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1 year
The other day, I was telling my sister about married life and she looked at me for a moment before saying, “Eniola, you married a good man”. I know 🥹. I’m astonished at my good fortune. 😂 Thank God! And happy one month (in advance ish), babe! I’m so in love with you! ❤️🥰
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My body is not for fornication or sexual immorality. It's for the Lord. Pass it on.
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2 years
Being in a relationship exposes you. The way I'm seeing myself in 3D is paining me. So you mean, I'm not perfect and all that? 🤧 Like I actually have stuff to work on? 🥴 Noooooo 😭😭
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2 years
Exactly a year ago, one fine man slid into my DM. I had no idea it would end here. But here we are. Getting ready to build a family with Christ and for Christ! God, thank you! 🥹🥹🥹
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My husband and I did long-distance for nearly 10 months. Across continents and time zones. We got married this July and neither of us cheated. So please, dead that narrative.
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I struggled with addiction and shame for many years. Yet I couldn't tell anyone about it. I didn't believe anyone would understand. For some reason, all the people who were open with their struggles, and they weren't so many, were guys.
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1 year
Getting married to my best friend this weekend! 🥳❤️ #EniTemi23
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Merry Christmas! ❤️
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@eniola_ash
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1 year
We met on Twitter. After tweeting about my experience at our church’s camp meeting, he slid into my DM for a follow up conversation. It was natural & fun, so we kept talking. We had our first date a couple of weeks later. From there, we fell in love. We’re getting married soon
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Inari NOT Briana .
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Couples… don’t all speak at once but… how did you meet your other half? Indulge me I’m a romantic!
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1 year
One week ago, we exchanged our vows before God and our dear ones. It's been a sweet ride. Cheers to a lifetime of love and family 🥹💖
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2 years
Dating someone for a whole year has been a pretty interesting ride. Having the best partner I could ever imagine has made it absolutely worth it and beautiful. I am looking forward to getting married because I trust his heart and love for me. It’s steady and committed.
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1 year
Need to get married so I can come back and recommend it. 🥹❤️ Anyway, it's almost here. 😄
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Need to get married so I can recommend it😂❤️ She’s my happy place >>>💛 📸: @DavidKagba
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@eniola_ash
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2 years
See, God can be trusted with your heart and journey towards romantic relationships. When my last relationship ended, I was so mad and hurt that I didn't think I could be vulnerable with somebody again. I was also afraid that I'd end up single for life. Nothing bad with that
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2 years
Goge Africa
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Tenure
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3 years
Dating someone whom you shouldn't will cost more than you are willing to pay in the long run. I know being single gets tiring and frustrating sometimes, but the antidote isn't to start dating just anyone. Be patient and enjoy the alone moments. The right kinda love will come.
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1 year
It's my birthday! 🥳🥳 Thank you Jesus for not giving up on me. #twentyfine
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1 year
Long-distance relationships are not easy or even ideal. But they are becoming inevitable at this time. If you’re in a long-distance relationship, my biggest advice is: 🧵🧵
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2 years
I cringe now when I think of the kind of guys I used to find attractive. There’s nothing more attractive than a man who loves God and is submitted to his Lordship. Such a man can be trusted with your heart.
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2 years
Just because it's the will of God doesn't mean that it'd be easy. Sometimes, doing what God wants is difficult and costly. In such moments, you must get over your emotions and pray for the strength to push through.
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3 years
If you're really serious about finding love, I have advice for you. Rest. Surrender the desire to God. Take your mind off it and just live your best life. I've heard/seen it over and over. Often, you find love when you're not actively/desperately looking.
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1 year
I’m super excited about starting my graduate program (LL.M) at @uOttawa this fall. I’m looking forward to learning more about international law, meeting new people, and exploring the city.
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1 year
My Saturday is Saturdaying. My friends are married and I am so ecstatic!
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2 years
Experience is not the best teacher. The Holy Spirit is. Don't keep making mistakes and then console yourself that it's a learning curve. You can learn without the mistakes.
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1 year
There is some benefit with long-distance relationships. They help you solidify your friendship, improve your communication skills, and reduce sexual temptation.
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Unpopular opinions about long-distance relationships? Let’s have them!
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3 years
It's very hard to want something and watch others get it while you wait in uncertainty and sometimes fragmented hope that it'd happen for you. Don't give in to envy. God has a plan for you. The best, really. All things are working for your good.
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1 year
The best way to approach love and romance is by resting and trusting. You don’t need to manipulate, calculate, or force your way into a relationship. What you create, you sustain. (Believe me, it’s much harder) Trust God to write your love story. You won’t regret it.
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1 year
Long-distance marriage is the absolute ghetto. 🫠 My heart goes out to anyone in this situation. God is your strength and comfort. Honestly, God came through for us. It's a testimony how we reunited. The full gist is in my newsletter. Link’s in bio if you haven't subscribed
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2 years
It felt weird to be a girl struggling with lust. It took a long time to break free. But God taught me so much on my journey towards freedom. Shame was a constant companion, but I learned to see myself the way God saw me. I couldn't believe that He didn't condemn me.
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1 year
Proximity breeds feelings. If you talk to someone long enough and consistently, you could catch feelings. Even if the person is bad for you. A safer way is to let proximity help you discover substance, which should influence feelings.
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3 years
The right person at the right time in the right way. That's how relationships should be done. Pray over yourself: In God's timing, I am divinely led to the person He has for me, and we do things God's way.
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2 years
Prayer truly builds stamina. You'll literally go from struggling to pray for a few minutes to praying for hours, and you'd just be getting started. Just keep at it. Pray daily. Pray consistently.
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LAW 🅴
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Girls with nice dentition, may we have the JPEGs?
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4 years
You people, I'm looking for writing jobs 😭😭 I'm tired of asking my family members for money. If you know anyone that knows anyone that needs a freelance writer, I'm your girl. I write pretty well, as I've been told and believe. My DM is open. Thank you in advance 🙈
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2 years
I pray for safety for every gathering of believers where the name of Jesus is mentioned today. The host of heaven surrounds and protects churches all over Nigeria. Every evil plan concerning the Church is frustrated in Jesus' name. Amen.
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2 years
That realisation was a huge force that propelled me towards freedom. God didn't just save me, He gave me a brand new identity, and empowered me to find freedom. It's a testimony I'll continue to recount. You can listen to it on my new episode at Big Sister Conversations
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4 years
I'm seeing people on this app asking people to pray for the grace Laycon is receiving. Just to remind y'all. Grace is not money. Grace is not "blowing". Grace isn't hitting it big. Grace is a gift of God. It forgives sin and empowers us to live godly lives as we do God's work.
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3 years
Perhaps the thing I'll enjoy most about marriage is coming home to someone day after day, knowing that no matter how the day has gone, there's Home waiting for me.
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2 years
I low-key envy people that can process things on the spot. It takes me some time to untangle my emotions and decide on a response. That's probably why I don't like arguing or confrontational conversations. It takes me time to figure out how I feel or what I want to say 😪
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3 years
Getting over someone you like is a hard and long process. A rebound is only going to hurt you more, plus it doesn't honour the person. Sit with the pain. Go through it and heal thoroughly. Let God be enough. You won't be hurt forever.
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2 years
Every time I visit my future parents-in-law, it’s like visiting my parents. Every time. 😊
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@eniola_ash
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1 year
I got married Had a proper vacay Started grad school Finally figured out my career path Moved to a city in the abroad Ate foreign food I've never had before
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So far this year, what have you ticked off your bucket list? 😭
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Name: Eniola Partner’s name: Yomi What the Lord has done for us: This love is sweet, die! 😊
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1 year
Stop giving committed relationship privileges to someone who hasn’t even said they like you. That’s why you’re experiencing severe heartbreak from just a failed talking stage.
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2 years
Saved people aren't saved because they are good people; they're saved because they believe and are forgiven.
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3 years
How do you know you're with the right person? Peace. That's one way. God is not an author of confusion. If there's some form of fear/anxiety, pray about it. It might be the Holy Spirit telling you that you're in the wrong relationship.
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2 years
Told y'all I look like a snack.
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1 year
Trust God with your love story. Actually, trust Him with your whole life. His plans are better than you could ever imagine, even if they don't make sense to you today. Every closed door, rejection, heartbreak, or disappointment makes you available for a greater yes.
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4 years
This fight for sexual purity is real y'all. There's something about sex everywhere 😪. Today, I had to pause and ask God for strength because the onslaught is too much. I'm just here to remind you that you can ask God for help. He's not out of touch with our realities.
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2 years
@_Oyinkansolami_ Girllllll I don't think anyone can know himself/herself thoroughly without seeing through the eyes of others
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2 years
No matter how high the sparks fly or how romantic, morally upright, striking, intelligent, or rich, if they don't love Jesus, you can't be with them.
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We're cancelling each other over Christian dating and relationship takes today. Post your cancellable take.
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4 years
Jesus, son of God, sinless and perfect, came to earth in human form. He died a horrific death to pay the price for your sins and mine. To give us eternal life and an intimate relationship with God. All you need to do is believe in him and confess him as Lord. Do you believe?
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1 year
If you don't like someone who has shown an interest in you, be kind and firm and tell them no. Don't keep them around until you have a “better option”. Be respectful of their feelings and let them go.
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4 years
When I was 16, I had a boyfriend. I couldn't bring him home. Our chats were private. I hid his pictures in my gallery. Everything was a secret. Now I have a boyfriend. My family knows him. His picture is my wallpaper. I don't hide our conversations. Point is, life is in seasons
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3 years
I come in peace this morning. Just to remind you that not everything should be posted on social media. Get a journal, audio record your thoughts, talk to your friends, pray...these are much safer outlets. Oversharing on social media can expose & humiliate you in the end.
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2 years
I almost gave up on my relationship with God at some point in my life. Nobody warned me about how different my new life would be compared to where I was coming from. Saying no to my flesh was an intense war, and I also struggled with FOMO.
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2 years
Don't go looking for in man what you can only find in God.
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2 years
Tomike is such a happy person. Idk how she does it, but it's beautiful and so infectious.
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11 months
What an incredible book!
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ADA OBOWO ❤️😍
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September DUMP, but make it book JPEGs 😍
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4 years
Saturday was my Convocation y'all! I know this isn't IG, but I like sharing pictures with y'all 😅
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Bunnies are cute, and I love eggs. But Easter isn't about these things. 😭 Nor is it about the start of spring. As beautiful as these things are, none of them are worth commemorating. Easter is about the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus. Jesus’ sacrifice saves ❤️
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I have loved the Lord for a long time and will continue to do so until time ceases to exist. One way of cultivating and deepening my intimacy with him is my devotion. Praying, reading my Bible, the basics. But getting married, moving abroad, starting a Master’s, & adjusting…
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Qualified. Called. Admitted. Enrolled. All the glory is to you, Father! 🎊🎊
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Soooo, we're finally doing this 😅 @Amanda___praise and I are having a virtual chit chat about singleness, love & dating this Saturday 🥰. We want you to join us & DM any question/area you'd want us to address. Set a reminder for my upcoming Space!
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3 years
One of the devil's strategies is to make you think that you're alone - last man standing. True, lots of people are in relationships. But many people are also single. Let God lead you to community. Refuse to compromise because you feel isolated. There are many others like you.
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2 years
I love books so much! Especially African fiction. I think we're doing so well. We're flourishing in the literary community, and it's so beautiful.
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2 years
Here's why I've shared this - it's not to pepper you or cause you to "awww" (though you should. It's totally worth awww-ing over 😌). It's to remind you. God is good. God is faithful. Love is a beautiful thing. Trust God to provide the person.
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2 years
Beyond what we see on TV and social media, @BankyW and @AdesuaEtomiW have a beautiful marriage. 🥹🥹
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2 years
I went from “men are scum” and “I can’t trust another guy with my heart” to being hopelessly in love with somebody’s son. Again. 😂😂 Anyway, thank God for the men who love you well and protect your heart. May bad experiences not cause us to shut good people out.
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decided to trust. That's why I've written this thread. Trust God. Surrender the desire. Build a life. Deal with the baggage and weaknesses. Break the unnecessary entanglements. Rest and trust. If God is providential, do you not think it also covers your love-life? 🤗
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2 years
Ask questions. Talk. Get to know them. You need a friendship to make a relationship work. Don't just ride on vibes and cruise.
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2 months
I know what feminism stands for, and it’s not what you people are doing in the quotes. You know what he’s talking about, but you’ve turned it into a conversation about misogyny. Well done.
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The modern term for “lukewarm Christian” has been updated. Just add “baddie”to any godly title. Eg. “Tongue talking Baddie” “Christian Baddie” “Jesus Baddie” 👌🏾
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Generally, the choice of a partner is yours. After all, you’d be in a relationship with them. And if you're a Christian, it's a decision you should make with God. Here are 3 questions to help you determine if you are making the right choice (as God leads you): 🧵
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2 years
Finally, shoutout to my pretty amazing man. You have blown my mind with the little and not-so-little things. You have shown up for and served me in love. I'm so grateful for you. You're proof godly men exist. Let's build this home for Jesus!❤️
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4 years
I just remembered the day I took my friend out and paid with my faculty dues. I sat across from him watching him eat because I couldn't afford to order for myself too 😭 Kai, I was proud ehn. Luckily, my "investment" paid off. Today, I'm his girlfriend 😂
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I love being in church. Doesn't matter the kind of week I've had. It's always a delight to be in the company of my siblings in Christ, praising and worshipping God.
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2 years
It's the Day of the Lord! How was church?
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2 years
Don't underestimate the power of a To-Do List. As simple as it is, it's an incredible productivity hack. The satisfaction of ticking off tasks is enough motivation to complete them.
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4 years
I don't know why people think that becoming a Christian means living a "less than" life, filled with restrictions and soberness. I'm a Christian. My life is amazing. I'm madly in love with God. I'm walking in wisdom and grace. I'm enjoying God's help. Who wouldn't want that?
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@The_Florentyna With the little you have now, you could still make a difference, albeit little. It's who you are now that you'd be when you're rich.
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2 years
I can not serve God the way I want. My life is not about me. There is a way that God wants to be served. #PstIrenSaid
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2 years
Peer pressure made me do eet. 😩😩 #APOSTOLOSISHERE Grace changes everything. 🤭
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3 years
Lirru tip for the guys: The easiest way to a girl's heart is through friendship. Be her friend first. Her guards will drop and you'd have it easier winning her heart. Not every time, "I like you... let's date" after 2 days 😒😒
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2 years
I'm so proud of how I've been writing every day for the past two weeks. Some days, 500 words, some other days, 2000 words. I really like it here.
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2 years
The most beautiful thing I've seen in the past 52 weeks is growth. A partner that loves God and loves you will take care of you properly. They may not get everything right at first but if they are teachable, you have won in this life!
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1 year
Take your time before going “social media public” with your relationship. Being public with your relationship is not wrong. But there’s another approach that is in your best interests. It’s far more advantageous to build your relationship privately (not in secrecy).
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1. Communicate often and about various things. This is what you have now, so use it well. Without proper communication, your relationship will be strained. So, text, have video calls, make regular calls, send emails, and try conversation starters. Whatever works for you.
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Dear Eniola, Don't be afraid to talk to strangers about Jesus. Don't get tired of praying for someone's salvation. Don't be too conscious of protecting a friendship that you fail to share the Gospel. You've found eternal life here, And to whom much is given, much is expected
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2 years
Don't miss out on a good person because of unhealthy expectations. Don't let the media define your standards. Learn how to choose and do so confidently and in faith. Love is sweet. Very sweet. With the the right person and the right attitude.
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I love washing plates and scrubbing the bathroom (maybe because I was forced to do them when I was younger). Best times to catch up on a sermon, podcast, or just have a mini praise party. 😅
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2 years
Jesus is not just a message to believe, but an example to emulate. What a life-changing statement.
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3 years
I know the kinda man I want to spend my life with. My standards are quite high, I know this. But, I really can't settle for less. There's too much at stake, purpose to live, and assignments to carry out. My choice of a partner goes beyond me. Rather than settle, I'll wait.
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It was it for me tonight when Pastey @pst_iren said mediocrity expired the moment you joined this ministry. If you see my lips moving as I'm walking on the road, I'm not mad abeg. My devotion has caught fire and it's not going out 💃💃
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1 year
On this thing of hearing God about a partner - you should already have a solid relationship with Him. The first time you get a leading from God shouldn't necessarily be about a spouse. Desire can be strong and misleading. So, be patient. Seek counsel. Surrender your feelings.
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1 year
Use proximity to know who they are, and let that knowledge influence your emotions. Don't just catch feelings because you're in each other’s spaces. Be wise.
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1 year
Not all relationships will work out. More than 85% of dating relationships end up in a breakup. And breakups can be messy, dramatic, and painful. But you can pull through. No matter how hard it may seem right now, you will be fine. If you heal properly. Here's how - 🧵
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5. And on the more challenging days (you'll have several of them), remind yourself why your partner is worth it. It may be tough, but it won't last forever. If you're a believer, ask God for strength and patience. You will be fine. 💙💙
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2 years
Again, I have the sweetest partner. But relationships take work. A lot of work. But they are worth it when you’re with the right person. So, don't idolise romance or put it on an unreasonable pedestal. You will work for the love you want.
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2. Resolve conflict quickly (and effectively). If you let conflict fester, it can affect your relationship. Talk about offense, sort out issues, and forgive. Stonewalling and giving the silent treatment will only make things worse. You have to be a big boy/girl, dear.
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3 years
Dear Twitter, I'm a Barrister and Solicitor of the Supreme Court of Nigeria 💃💃💃
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