When the timing is right it will find you. The career, the creativity, your soul tribe, your partner in life, it will all find you divinely. You never have to force what’s divinely yours.
I have no desire to strive for anything outside of love. More and more, this year has shown me the real value is in being loved and loving others. I only want to grow closer to those I hold close.
I want more women, especially Black women to get comfortable with embracing luxury & quality. You are NOT more “humble” if choose to live “modestly” cause wtf is that even? Do boss shit, be proud and stand on it...
you can feel it in your spirit when people don't wish you well. you can literally feel when someone is intentionally shading you. I do not wish to pretend I desire to maintain any connections with anyone who does not have my best interest at heart.
My life is shifting. My priorities are changing. My mind is flowing more clearly. My tribe is growing and becoming more healthy, loving and supportive. My finances are increasing daily along with my ability to responsibly manage them. God is working.
I really love seeing people lives shift after a dark period and they have never ending happiness and luck. I love seeing success stories following struggles. True love after heartbreak. Financial wins after being down. It’s really beautiful to see people get what they deserve.
My secret is, I am more in love with me over anything and anybody else. My love for others is just a carbon copy of my love for self. It’s me first. It has always been me.
I know there are attorneys offering probono work for protestors. Are there any licensed therapist offering probono work for Black men and women who aren’t on the front line and are not coping well mentally right now?
"I think privacy is the last true luxury. To be able to live your life as you choose without having everyone comment on it or know about it." — Valerie Plame
I am a firm believer that anything I desire and can't stop thinking about, I am meant to have. It's like feeling called to a specific location/destination. I only crave what is mine.
Every day, social media reminds me that doing the real work in your actual life is what is important. Being happy in real life, defining success on your terms, building community, these are the things that matter most.
@negrostradamus
this is what happens when you lack real creativity and you start doing shit you think will please the masses but you just end up looking dumb af.
@_bbytumz
@TallGlassofStyL
I been saying this... the Shaderoom literally preys on the discomfort, sadness and misfortune of Black entertainers. It’s a disgusting ass platform that needs to be taken down immediately. Can anonymous hack them? Lol
When we free ourselves from the shackles of external validation, we become architects of our own lives, crafting our choices and aspirations according to our true desires and principles.
If one person has ever told you I’m the sweetest person in the world and another person told you I’m completely cold, believe them both. I read energy well and treat people accordingly.
I don’t obsess over reciprocation. I am who I am by nature. I know what I give is from the kindness of my heart & will always be returned to me in some form.
Having emotional support as adults is far more important than we realize. Build community with people who care about your feelings and are willing to listen when you’re struggling to process how you feel.
Black women have been thriving during this pandemic. We’ve been launching new creative projects, starting new jobs, getting new cribs, launching bomb ass websites, businesses making millions in minutes. I love to see us win. I’m so proud!
Friendship is about understanding. We are all transitioning through something. And every transition looks different. Understanding this allows you to create space for friends when they don’t show up & meet your expectations, they’re transitioning too.
When it’s for you, you do not have to beg, borrow or steal. It all flows naturally. Everything I have came when I was deeply rooted in who I am, focused on my growth and was OPEN TO RECEIVING.
I do not care how much of a hopeless romantic I am. In this life, you will never watch me settle for less than I know I deserve. Been there. Done that. Waste of time.