Just had a referee quit adult football due to abuse received from a team this morning. When half the country canβt play football due to Covid-19 youβd think the ones that can would embrace this fact and appreciate it. Sadly idiots will be idiots.
As a referee, am I responsible for your missed chances? No. Am I responsible for the poor defending? No. I may get a call wrong on occasions but is it worthy of threats and abuse as suffered for two weeks running. I canβt go running into Twitter and slag them off can I?
I go out on a Sunday to enjoy my refereeing. I took no enjoyment in todayβs game at all. Why donβt players realise no matter how much you argue you canβt go back and change history. I give honest decisions and give what I see. No need for the abuse.
@refsupportuk
Hearing news tonight that Ken Baillie has passed away. Itβs true that Ken and I may have had the odd crossed word since he left
@WESFA_Football
but the man was football and refereeing through & through. RIP Ken photo 2019 & Ken was well into his 70s.
@LondonFARefs
@refsupportuk
@CrayValleyPM
@EmiratesFACup
@CAFCofficial
Absolutely love the fact youβve put regulars, players families and those who help run the club above those who would just come for the spectacle. I would have loved to have been the latter, but look forward to seeing my former Sunday league home ground on the telly! Good Luck!!!
I emphasise each league meeting, we have refs who are learning their trade. Some are no where near the finished article. To take to SM after the game and call out your ref after a week where the ref officers have worked tirelessly to cover all games is just poor.
First youth game today after a couple of years. Dismissed one of the managers after 8 minutes for two yellow cards for dissent!
@refsupportuk
#referee
#wearereferees
WHAT A LAST MINUTE EQUALISER βΌοΈπ₯β½οΈ
Checks scores a last minute equaliser to take
@BaitezeSquad
vs
@grandathletic
to penalties
WHAT. A. GAME
The London Challenge Cup is down to just 4 teams
Just devastated to hear the news about Jermaine Wrightβs passing. The man typified everything that was good about grassroots football and did so much for referees in East London
@HackneyFootball
my thoughts are with his family at this awful time, May he Rest in Peace.
First menβs game back in 6 months and match abandoned in the last minutes as one player lets all the others down and tries to attack me. Abandoned for my safety. Cracking game up to that point & while there is still rust from being out so long, the contentious decision was easy!
So after 3 1/2 months out I was back in the middle today & it felt good. Never been the fittest person & itβs gonna be a few weeks before Iβm even some way there but so good to be back on the pitch being called a cunt π€·ββοΈ
#refereelife
#wearereferees
@refereeabuseUK
@refsupportuk
@johnelworthy
Good job you were there to film half of the story. You canβt even count. I see 7 police officers at most, and two of those turn up at the end.
Seeing my first referee appointment in 6 months on
@WESFA_Football
drop into my inbox tonight for the 26th. Buzzing already, itβs been a long time off the pitch.
Evening all, so today was the day, I was shipped off to KCH for an Angiogram & a new stent was fitted in my artery.
Back at Lewisham now for in the hope this will be my last night & Iβll be allowed home tomorrow. Surgeons were happy with the procedure & Iβm feeling fine.
Canβt referee at the moment so todays therapy was being able to be a match day coach at Millwall Academy, helping a newly qualified referee get through his first ever middle. He done well.
#referee
#londonfa
Many will have seen that
@Tractorboyz2012
and I like to have the odd disagreement with stuff in
@WESFA_Football
but let me say it publicly, as much of a pain he can be, he is without doubt the best League Secretary I have worked with. Nailed the constitution!
#passion
#grassroots
Congratulations to Josh Howard, Maros Valko, Steve Gorman, Peter Agboola, Alison Wade, Shae James & Jack Phillips all
@WESFA_Football
referees who have been appointed to
@LondonFA
Cup Finals this season. πππβ½οΈβ½οΈ
So the season has now officially over on Sunday. Season void. Gutted personally but democracy is what it is. Now plan for next season. Referees we need you!!
So hereβs the way it is at the moment. This time last week
@WESFA_Football
were 16 referees short for all their fixtures due to
@LondonFA
Cup appointments. Tonight we sit 5 short for Sunday morning. Tireless work by me &
@StevePe66965568
and we continue to strive for 100% covered
So frustrating that not one but THREE Match Officials failed to show up today. May have helped if clubs had contacted them, and then told me as per rules if they hadnβt responded. Can only do so much for clubs π€·
Someone Iβve never met, someone Iβve never spoken to, someone I once waved at as a child in Deptford. Someone I admired, someone I loved, someone who really set the standard for us all to be as humans & as a Christian. Thank you Maβam Rest In Peace
#QueenElizabethII
Checking on here seeing lots of Pre-season matches going on. Sundays starting soon, Iβve been offered none to referee and yet I donβt care. Enjoying my summer, suffering a little ill health and the time is now to put myself first. Gonna be mid Sept before Iβm out there I think
24 hours since the announcement from
@FA
and 10 referee appointments to
@WESFA_Football
friendly matches already for August. Would be lovely to have more refs for September!
The semi finals have been played and I now know the teams in my Cup Final on May 4th.
@MetrogasSundays
v
@Bayswater_rkfc
What a game this is going to be, between two really good sides.
Knowing we are short for refs in the coming weeks, just had a referee try and barter for his services, not accepting the Β£40 we pay as a league
#embarrassing
Going through stuff from my Mumβs house and found that refereeing is in the blood. Appointment letter Sept 1929 for my Grandad
@LondonFA
@LondonFARefs
@fa
Any
@WESFA_Football
clubs arranging pre season friendlies from 1st August, if you need a ref, please email me at refsec
@wesfa
.co with all the game details, ko time, opponents and venue and Iβll see what I can do. Please then donβt come back saying you have one!
Iβm comfortable with my decision. Over the past few weeks certain people have made it a lot easier. Iβve informed the committee Iβll be stepping down at the season end. This season has been the most trying I have ever experienced as a Ref Sec and Iβve given it my all.
In my afternoon game today, there was a penalty shout, I was 95% certain it was a pen but my positioning was poor, I glanced at the club AR who was flagging like a nutter! The other 5% made up. Superb from a club AR who simply said after the game βIβm not here to cheatβ
#referees
After spending the morning in bed watching tv, Iβve spent the afternoon and tea time on the pc sorting things like Ref & Young Ref of the Year Club AR of the year and the Sportsmanship award. 6 hours working on a spreadsheet and all will be revealed at the AGM!
@WESFA_Football
What a game this afternoon watching
@Millwall_LFC
v AFC Wimbledon in the FA Womens Cup. What a performance from the lionesses against a team many divisions above them. They should all be so proud of their performances
And it just keeps getting better. What looks like a nice gentle U13
@SelkentYFL
game for my actual return this Sunday & MRI results interpreted by my GP this morning showing a significant improvement in the function of the left side of my heart
#buzzing
#refereelife
RIP John Pitts
@MetSundayLeague
assisted me so much as a young referee then continued support when I became a referee secretary. A true football man and a grassroots hero.
Back in my happy place today. Thanks to
@danny109303
for sorting me out Teviot v Fleetdown U11 as a gentle start then a much more competitive womenβs game later this afternoon on
@SECWFLnews
. Itβs been a long timeβ¦.
Just 25 minutes between the
@WESFA_Football
appointments email and the first 2 drop outs. Wouldnβt mind, I emailed a week ago to remind people to sort their dates out. Iβve really not missed this one bit.
Making good progress according to my physio and looking forward to being back out in the middle of a
@WESFA_Football
match on Sunday for the first time in some months. Still a way to go before I can consider Saturday as well.
Shattered! That's it for another season.
@WESFA_Football
finals,
@LondonFA
finals and LCSYFL finals all done.... Congratulations to everyone involved, those who got to the finals, those who supported and those who volunteered.
#grassroots
#winners
Got to say
@MeridianWESFA1
&
@SeaMaroon
do not surprise me with their conduct and comments after what happened today. Thank you on behalf of the referee and for continuing to show there are good clubs out there.
@WESFA_Football
So today as well as my full time job, itβs been liaising with
@SouthernSunday
over the
@LondonFA
Sunday cups trying to chase a club affiliation, getting the PCC, London and Kent draws on FT, correcting grounds & assisting clubs. Itβs not the quietest time for committees!!
@Cassiiee1997
While I understand and to a degree agree with your comment, the bigger picture is those men and women fought to allow us to have a choice to wear whatever colour poppy we choose even if we choose not to. For that we should always be thankful.
Went into
@LidlGB
Bromley North today to empty the Charity box for
@AidDownham
found pic 1 & heart sank. Spoke to manager and box was so full they had emptied it and put out back! ππ People of Downham & Bromley, you are beautiful ππ
Just seen a ban for a player who threatened and abused a referee dished out by London FA. 63 days commencing 30 May! By the time football starts again they will be able to play again, but βthey canβt trainβ was one response I got
@refsupportuk
Three competitive middles into the season so far and I have to say that conduct is so much better than during last season. Really enjoyed all 3 games on the two leagues.
@KCFL_News
@WESFA_Football
@refsupportuk
I know Iβve put the bok on it now!!
Proper game of football tonight.
@BeckenhamManor
ball on the ground pinging it about with confidence while
@ElthamLionsFC
threw their bodies on the line and defended like trojans, hitting the home side on the break. 0-2, very enjoyable and good luck to both.
You know what? Thereβs a lot of stuff on SM at the moment about referee abuse quite rightly, but I have to give credit to
@MFC_Academy
@WatfordFC
academy U16s
@HolmesdaleFC
@AFCCroydonAth
@OrpAFC
& Our Lady Seniors this weekend for some really enjoyable football. Thank you.
So after last Sundayβs false dawn back into refereeing, all dates closed again βΉοΈ. Health taken another down turn, so must await to see what the doc says. Gutted. Meanwhile gonna enjoy this break
Absolutely shattered after another day at
@WESFA_Football
Finals. Congrats to both
@VanbrughFC
&
@UnderTheRadarFC
who both become the first names on their respective cups. There are two men looking down today very proud of the day in their names. RIP them both.
Just 4 days until the start of the season and Whole Game System is Playing up yet again!! How do we register players in time? League officers are volunteers!
@FAGRTech
Really enjoyable Sunday, then you come on here....ffs!! Everyoneβs a ref!! Canβt be arsed with all this anymore. Fed up with giving up hours upon hours a week for you know what I want to say.