you can love a character and still admit when they’re wrong. i love alex claremont-diaz but can acknowledge his flaws (he has none) & can hold him accountable for his wrongdoings (he's never done anything wrong in his life) & call him out for his actions (which are all correct)
again if you don’t feel comfortable identifying as a lesbian there’s absolutely no issue with that, the issue is when you say you ‘don’t like the word lesbian’,,, make it out to be a gross word.
the lesbophobia on this app is something else … anyways all my lesbians oomfs and non oomf are so valid <3 ily all !!!! please don’t listen to what people say :(