A day like this 34 years ago I was crying inconsolably in my bedroom on a council estate in South London
I had messed up my A- levels and lost my place for medical school.
I needed 3 Cs
I got 2 x N and a U!! (yes read that again)
Family dreams of Diana becoming a doctor in
I just heard a booming voice downstairs in the living room, โMorning 10D... letโs get startedโ. My husband teaching computer science online. Iโm filled with love for him and our great profession ๐. Well done everyone, just well done โญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธ
@rebeccajsmithw1
I'm 6ft, I've been this tall since I was 11
Now when random people say 'ooh you're tall'
I say
No I'm not
That's it, then I wait for their next move ๐คฃ
Donโt attempt leadership on your own. Take it from me, thatโs a mugs game! Talk, get a decent coach, and sit at the feet of elders who have been there. ๐ธ
This is the second Muslim woman appointed to the position of CEO of a MAT in the UK -Rahana Yasmin
@leightrustb8
, Birmingham
1- we celebrate her achievement,
2- There are only 2 Muslim women in the COUNTRY who are in this position
2.
I'm on a flight back from working in Indonesia
Got an upgrade to business ๐
They gave me a drinks menu -
- are these included?
- is there a limit?
- I mean how does this work, do I get the whole bottle like in the picture?
- a Cuba libre looks exactly like a rum & coke to
I thrive when Iโm loved. Today I felt the love from 500 middle leaders as they start their
@Ambition_Inst
leadership training. Our young people are in fantastic hands with leaders like these at the helm of our schools โmiddleโ.
#keynotespeaker
Twitter, I need you! Just had one of the most emotional phone calls with an ex-employee, tears and everything๐ข
He worked for me for 11 years as a groundskeeper and gardening man. He actually has a Masters degree in forestry and agriculture. He came to the UK to escape war 1/2
You know when you are teaching the nuances of political astuteness to leaders - but you keep getting distracted by your very PRETTY SHOES ! ๐คฃ
#shoesaddict
I donโt really get nervous, but something big is happening today! From today, Academy of Womenโs Leadership will exist. No homework, pre work, reading. Engaging with curriculum once a month that will change EVERYTHING. Ok... Iโm a bit excited! (Very) DM me for details
Iโm recruiting an assistant to come and sort my life out ๐. 10 hours per week, work from home, do my admin. Must be willing to become an employee of my company (not self employed) and willing to indulge my Haribo habit. DM me if you know anyone? Pls RT ๐
I will just say this.
In everything you do as a leader, this one thing is central to it all
Be a master of building relationships with all types of people.
Thatโs it ๐ธ.
#AcademyOfWomen
#leadership
#randomcatpic
Will you do a keynote for us , we heard you are really good ๐?
Ok โญ๏ธ
We know your fee, but can we pay half as it will be an online event ?
Only if you want me to be half as good ๐ก
Silence - crickets - tumbleweed
Youโre a senior leader in any school in this great nation of ours and you are ready to start your MA Educational Leadership and management. What if I told you itโs already paid for? Would you DM me your name and school ? Course you would ๐. Go on then!
THIS is The Academy of Women's Leadership Conference ๐ฅ
I'm still getting messages of how it changed and encouraged delegates lives.
We are ready to go again
Birmingham 22nd June 2024
I've stopped shopping on Facebook ๐คฃ
Iโve been busy making stuff for you .. launching in December
- The Courageous Leadership Podcast ๐
- The Courageous Leadership online course (for all leaders, in all sectors) December ๐
- The โnew Head teacherโ online support package, ๐๐๐
-Leadership gift boxes.
Coming soon-
Sponsorships for Girls football teams in UK schools from The Academy of Women's Leadership ๐
Drop a yes below if you want to be tagged into the release post next week
From October 2020- The Academy of Womenโs Leadership
Want to know more? Put a yes in the comments or DM me ๐ธ. And itโs all online ! This will change EVERYTHING
Shed tears this morning, ๐ข Got a text from mum. Delete the standing order of ยฃ250 I give her monthly for the past 5 years as support. โ You have nothing in the diary as schools cancel support, you need it more than I doโ she says. Her love overwhelms me.
Ok - I'm so jumping up and down like a demented 6ft rabbit ๐คฃ
My 3rd book is out now on Amazon
The Courageous Life & Leadership Planner ๐ฅ
For leaders everywhere
(Big writing, easy words, humour and truth- you know my style ๐)
Something BIG this way comes ๐คฉ
๐ Itโs free
โญ๏ธ Itโs fabulous
๐ Itโs gonna change everything
โ 13 September - 6.30pm GMT
Put a YES in the comments and tag in every woman you know !
Get on the list ๐
DHT( tall, built, young black woman). DHT (small build, older white woman) Duty together 5 days a week 11 years. Yr7 boys- Miss whereโs your sister today? Huh? The other lady who stands here with you? You think we are sisters? Yeah, youโre both called deputy head aren't you? ๐ณ
I did this thing
I wrote a second book
5 chapters -
The book is a bit like me - lovely, but to the point and no faffing ๐
Chapter one โ Why do you take it in?
Mistake one โ You internalise and take the negativity of the workplace personally, even when itโs nothing to
Iโm in a good mood ๐
Be one of the first 10 colleagues who are starting their headship in September to reply ,โ heck yeahโ, and Iโll post you a free copy of my book. Itโs like a bible of stupid mistakes you should avoid, โcoz I did โem already ๐คฉ๐คฉ
Just found out my neighbours husband committed suicide last week in the woodlands across from our houses. He was 47 married with 2 grown children. He felt he had nothing to live for ๐. Advice on how to be a good neighbour to her at this time ?
Twitter hive mind - I need you ๐
Putting together a free webinar on best practice for welcoming and supporting daily & short term supply colleagues in schools.
If you do this well, would you share below what you do and why it works?
I'll collate and the free webinar will be
It took years to get comfortable with being me & come to terms with โstuffโ. 6ft tall, black and bright. The80s were not ready for that!
I want to go back and wipe the inward tears of my 15 year old self and tell her that it all comes together and that a life of influence awaits.
in Bosnia and now redundant. Anything at all would be welcome, 1-2 days a week, anything. He is based in Wood Green North London. If you can offer employment I would take it as a huge personal favour.๐
Please DM me and retweet, I desperately want to ring and give good news
Had 180 SLT respond, โheck yeah, gimme info on a free MA Educational Leadership and Management. Middle leaders itโs your turn ๐ค. Wanna study for a level 5 diploma in Education Management? Yep, cost is sorted for you already! DM me your school, trust and an email. Dare you!
The authentic me is a messy & gobby
You sure you are ready for authentic leadership?
- maybe not messy so that you can tell, I like my environment tidy.
But growing up in poverty means I still find it hard to resist a buffet ๐
I might be sat in a fine dining restaurant, but
Just woke up from a crazy, messed up, anxious dream I used to have as a head teacher๐ฑ. Iโve taken on an exec- headship and I feel the nonsense cycles trying to start in my mind. Gonna do some kicking to the kerb ๐ก
Women in leadership up north ....
Are in the UK and past the Watford Gap, I mean proper up north ๐
If I lay on a one day summer retreat in your territory (somewhere like Bolton or Manchester or Birmingham), would you attend?
My events are always ' down South' coz that's my
@MissLLewis
@Teacherglitter
Talking with a head teacher yesterday. We are both sick of hearing that Covid 19 is a leveller and does not discriminate. Self isolation in a 4 bed house with a garden is VERY different to doing it in a flat on the 16 floor with a family of 6 sharing two bedrooms.
Sunday evening, Iโm marking MEd essays. Other things on my mind and found myself having a mental โwobbleโ. Rang my coach, quick chat, will meet up next week to talk through. I am constantly reminded of how I foolishly attempted head ship on my own without a coach. DONT DO IT!
I'm speaking at a conference in Wales-
On the agenda is
@FloellaBenjamin
I was so excited- had decided I was fully prepared to tackle security to the floor to get a selfie
She's on the zoom
I'm crushed ๐
I wanted to hug her so much
I'm a Playschool baby
I had a whole marketing strategy worked out.๐ค
- All sorts of fanfare and shenanigans
Then I thought, I am genuinely knackered and I just havenโt got the oomph for this ๐ฌ
The Courageous Leadership podcast is out now in loads of podcasty places. ๐๐
There we go. Job done
En route to Vietnam for a keynote and to train senior leaders ๐
Short lady next to me struggling to get her bag into the overhead locker
I am 6ft tall
I do nothing to help
Why?
Beacause on a flight to Bermuda my husband helped a short bloke put his bag up
When we landed,
Opened more spaces on the one day retreat experience from The Academy of Women's Leadership ๐ฅ
Reset, Reaffirm, Release
Come spend some time with me
D x
@Ethical_Leader
I just saw a pupil literally 'skipping' up the hill to school
He was on his own
Singing to himself
Probably year 7
Skipping
@StockwoodPk
he was wearing your uniform ๐คฉ
Clearly a school where it's joy to be a pupil
@Mr_H1978
D
SLT in a school in England? Your MA Educational Leadership and Management is paid for. Yeah I said it. Only a sceptical muppet wouldnโt DM me for more info!
I told you last week ๐ณ
โSomething BIG this way comesโ
๐๐ Free
๐ Fabulous
๐ For every woman who is a leader in the workplace
I am bursting just thinking about it
6.30pm GMT Monday 13th September
You miss this, you will kick yourself ๐ฅ
Drop a โ oh yeahโ or DM me๐
@MissLongland
I was a 6ft black woman in my 40โs, my colleague was a 5ft 2 white woman in her late 50โs. Year 7 pupils thought we were sisters as we were both called โdeputy headโ ๐คช
Just finishing this....
Beautifully written letters to the next generation of black school leaders.
To every assistant head- you should be pushing for deputy headship
To every deputy - you must push and step into headship
The elders are here with support, challenge and love
A head teacher from Northern Ireland called me on Friday about 4.30pm, I was driving and didnโt take a number, itโs not showing on my calls on my phone and I have no email address for him ๐ฑ I need him to get back in touch! Pls help RT (a long shot, but
#edutwitter
can do it!)
We have just launched The Academy of Womenโs Leadership 2nd cohort.
If you wanted to join,
missed the deadline
lost the email
the cat ate your application
Donโt worry ๐
Another cohort will start in October 2021!
Poverty can rob you of the dignity of choice
I heard a leader say this and I stopped. ๐ค
I am not sure I agree, I am challenged, - the next moment I wholeheartedly agree.
I grew up in relative poverty
When I was young we never had enough
My brother came along when I
Iโm normally bright, breezy, & lemon squeezy. Now I spent nearly a year in the house with hubby and Iโm feel like a dragon on steroids. ๐ก
So I better take my own leadership advice...
BEWARE of making permanent decisions based on negative temporary feelings. ๐ค
Donโt take the potential of your life to your grave.
Leave it in the earth invested in the lives of others and the world around you. (Bit deep, but I canโt help it ๐ฅด)
Quick, whilst itโs half time, Iโm donating ยฃ250 of book tokens from
@Bookishcrick
to 4 primary schools to boost your library. To get one, tweet me a pic of your school dog and Iโll pick the 4 cutest. The 4 winners will be chosen on Monday noon. Pls RT ๐
โBalloons donโt float because of their colour, balloon float because of their contentโ Focus on the content of your character.
@Actionjackson
said the morning. Encouragement for everyone ๐ค