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“You live in an echo chamber” isn’t the insult some people seem to think it is. By engaging people who believe monstrous things as if it’s just a difference of opinion, you dignify those monstrous things. White supremacy isn’t an opinion.
"When you get these jobs that you have been so brilliantly trained for, just remember that your real job is that if you are free, you need to free somebody else. If you have some power, then your job is to empower somebody else.” -- Toni Morrison
Just saw a tweet from a healthcare worker in isolation for Christmas because a patient’s family was refused entry b/c they had COVID. These ppl waited outside, then spat in the hcw’s face. My sister is an RN, and she carries. I don’t even know what else to say.
#BREAKING
NEWS: A federal judge ruled that Rachel Powell, the Mercer County mother suspected in the Capitol riot, may be released pending trial with restrictions.
HARSH WRITING ADVICE that a Black woman writer gave me nearly 20 years ago: Stop worrying about getting your writing published; worry about getting better at writing.
Yesterday, a dear friend was trying to understand why someone was being abusive toward them, and I said, “It doesn’t matter why.” I wasn’t trying to be dismissive. But that’s my m.o. now, romantically, platonically, and professionally. Zero tolerance for disrespect and abuse.
James Baldwin said, “I can’t believe what you say because I see what you do.” He was talking about racism and hypocrisy in this country, but I lean into his words as a reminder and a safeguard.
To show our support for new voices in literature,
@KieseLaymon
, Robert Jones Jr., and I came together to create
#LIT16
, a quarterly reading series celebrating sixteen debut authors and their works! Introducing our inaugural cohort:
EXCLUSIVE
Tessa Thompson (
@TessaThompson_x
) is moving into production in a major way with a new production company, a first-look deal at
@HBO
and
#HBOMax
and exec producing two big book adaptations – Who Fears Death and The Secret Lives of Church Ladies
A couple nights ago, someone tweeted asking how people were doing in the wake of this ugly week. I answered, and then I asked the OP how they were doing. Then a guy I've known virtually/online for 15 years, chimed in and replied to my reply: "Like you give a shit. :)." +
I wrote The Secret Lives of Church Ladies in hopes that Black women would see and hear themselves in my characters and their stories. I wrote it to be a balm, an affirmation, a celebration, and a guidepost for getting free. 1/7
In general, I don’t allow people to waste my time anymore or violate my boundaries. I no longer feel obligated to explain why I put up a boundary, and my boundaries are not debatable.
One of the things that young ppl need to know when they go into writing is that they ought to stop writing these stupid books that please ppl. They should write as if they might fail at it. To succeed @ something mediocre is worse than to fail @ something great. - Jamaica Kincaid
I don't know where that came from, haven’t had any prior negative interactions w/him. But I don't care where it came from. In under 5 mins, I blocked him on social & on email. I don't tolerate any kind of abuse or disrespect or unkindness. I’ve learned that “why” doesn’t matter.
I am a major fan of
@DeeshaPhilyaw
: THE SECRET LIVES OF CHURCH LADIES. She is a phenomenal storyteller, but don't take my word for it. Read her book and be changed and enlightened.
Perfect time for my annual tweet about the editor who told me Dr. Roberts (interview + her books) wasn’t an adequate source for my reported piece on race & child welfare. Said editor had met Cornel West at a cocktail party once & wanted me to get a quote from him on the subject.
What would you do if you were at the airport wearing a bonnet, minding your own Black-ass business, and Mo’Nique tapped you on the shoulder and told you the ancestors were displeased?
Verbal and emotional abuse can be slippery that way. But regardless of what you call it, you know how it makes you feel. And you don’t have to stay in relationship with people who make you feel bad. You don’t owe them access to you.
I’ve decided that it’s time for me to stop hiding behind my degrees and accolades and pride, and just admit that I have no idea how to work my Instant Pot. I just put stuff in it, press some buttons and leave it to the Lord.
I stayed for over a decade in an abusive relationship and subsequent marriage trying to reconcile that person’s claim to love me with his mistreatment of me. (This was my second husband, not my wonderful co-parent, ftr.)
A full 67% of the discourse on here would disappear if people would humble themselves and say (preferably to themselves or otherwise offline), "Huh. I didn't even know that."
Seventeen yrs ago, I spent Thanksgiving in Vegas with a mediocre man I barely knew because my mom had died a few months earlier, my kids were with their dad that year, and because I remember thinking, “I want the exact opposite of family for Thanksgiving.” Grief is a motherfucker
I was invited to a Facebook group for Black women, and one of the questions you have to answer to be admitted is, "How long did Sofia have to fight?" So perfect.
If tonight's tweets abt not giving up in your 20s/30s don't apply, then let them fly. No one is saying you're washed up @ 30. Those tweets are for those who think it's over for them if they haven't _____ by their 20s/30s. I was 49 when Church Ladies came out. Hold on. Keep going.
I have 2 dream meetings today that I could never have imagined when I walked out of my corporate job in the middle of the day in 2019, resigning via a one-sentence email while standing on the sidewalk in front of the building. 1/5
I LOVE getting edits back from editors. I’m not precious about my writing. For me, it’s like math. I’m trying to solve something, and sometimes it’s trial and error and estimating. And a good editor helps me get as close as I can to the right answers. Good editing is a gift.
THREAD 👇
We are so excited to announce that
@DeeshaPhilyaw
's The Secret Lives of Church Ladies (
@WVUPRESS
) has been selected as the winner of the 2021 PEN/Faulkner Award for Fiction!
Back to my friend: I told them that the abuser didn’t deserve access to them, and they said it was hard to accept that what was happening was abuse. Mainly because it was verbal and emotional abuse happening online at the hands of someone who claimed to be a friend.
THANK YOU to
@TheStoryPrize
judges and to all of you who have supported and celebrated me and “The Secret Lives of Church Ladies” in so many loving ways!
Watch the ceremony, including my acceptance speech, here:
Big news: The Secret Lives of Church Ladies is the first book from a university press (or small press of any kind) to win the
@TheStoryPrize
for best collection of short fiction. Congrats to author
@DeeshaPhilyaw
, who joins recent winners Edwidge Danticat and Lauren Groff!
I delight in telling my close friends everything. From my deepest longings and fears, to the most frivolous musings & wishes. Because for decades, including in two long marriages, I kept so much, too much, to myself. Shame and secrets make/keep you sick. My friends are medicine.
Last night, listening to my ancestors and my intuition led me to have a difficult, awkward conversation with someone and make a hard decision that was absolutely in my best interest. Now and beyond, I will always choose me.
Jokes aside, the bonnet thing is emblematic of respectability shit, yes, but it's also related to a broader traditional evangelical Christian mindset that pits women against each other, including women in the same family....
Letting go of the need to be fully understood and not misrepresented is so freeing. I used to be relentless about both, but now I just don’t care. I will explain myself once (if I feel that’s warranted), and that’s it.
In 2007, I had the honor of attending Hurston/Wright Foundation’s Summer Writers’ Week. There, I workshopped a novel that I still haven’t finished, but I took away something more important: The confidence and belief in myself as a writer and in the stories I want to tell. 1/
@blktinabelcher
I turned my corner at 46. It got better not because I older, but because I finally cut loose/healed all that was holding me back. 30 is arbitrary. You’ll get there. ❤️
deleting the dating apps because I want to meet someone the old fashioned way: he’s a local activist fighting against gentrification who believes success is NOTHING w/o someone you love to share it with; I, an aspiring fashion designer-turned-model, pour milk into his bullhorn
I'm thrilled to be following in the big, brilliant footsteps of
@MauriceRuffin
,
@aimeenez
, Beth Ann Fennelly, and my dearest, my ace
@KieseLaymon
, among others. I’m excited for this tremendous opportunity to finish my novel and to work with UM students. Thank you!
Throw confetti in the air: So pleased to welcome
@DeeshaPhilyaw
to the
@MississippiMFA
program as the 2022-23 John & Renée Grisham Writer-in-Residence!! Good things in store for us all! Mississippi!
As someone who does “know how fiction works” 🙄, I think people are being obtuse suggesting there’s no difference between including details from real life/real people in fiction and what the Cat Person writer did.
Congratulations to
@DeeshaPhilyaw
, a finalist for the Los Angeles Times Book Prize in the first fiction category! Watch for the announcement of winners at
@latimesbooks
on 4/16.
Juneteenth Kickoff Festival, Chess with Cops, Stop the Violence Prayer Vigil, and more.
📸 See photos from last week’s community engagement over on our Facebook page ➡️
When you open up your Publisher' Marketplace Today's Deals email and the first thing you see are two Black women out here doing the damn thing. Congrats
@DeeshaPhilyaw
&
@zakiya_harris
!
I'll never stop quoting Toni Morrison who said the whole point of getting power is to empower someone else. I can't support everyone who needs it, but I try to do what I can. And that's all anyone of us can do: the best we can. 5/5
I love seeing these growing numbers of Black women writers with assistants and email autoresponders set up, all to support rest, healing, and self care.
Friend (to me): I'm reading your book for book club. Today I can't find my copy and I'm searching all over for it.
::: 2 HOURS LATER:::
Friend’s 16-year-old son (to her): You really should finish this book. The first few pages are quite horny.
Friend: I am now traumatized.
As an HR Professional, allow me to remind y’all that your coworkers are NOT your friends. If the opportunity arises, they WILL snitch on you. Period. It is what it is 🤷🏾♀️
Writers are particularly vulnerable b/c typically we've experienced years of rejection and/or bs so when an agent, editor, or publisher finally says "yes," we risk accepting bs terms b/c we're so grateful & happy to be there. And there are folks who will take advantage of this.
Writers *should* compare and talk about their experiences with agents. I have been lately, and wow. Some writers are being poorly served by their agents, if not outright manipulated and taken advantage of.
Writers *should* compare and talk about their experiences with agents. I have been lately, and wow. Some writers are being poorly served by their agents, if not outright manipulated and taken advantage of.
Never compare publishers/agents. Every publisher is unique, focuses on different niches, and has varied priorities… 🐧 Penguin, for example, sells more novels per day than I could sell in a whole year… it’s not a fair comparison. 📚
The way Democrats deal with Republicans now is the way Nice White Folks have always wanted us to deal with white supremacy and racism (systemic and otherwise): Let’s pretend like nothing really bad has happened and BE CIVIL.