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Terry McMillan

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I write novels. I try to live honestly and not selfishly. Though sometimes I fail. Will try harder. For speaking engagements:

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@MsTerryMcMillan
Terry McMillan
3 years
Went to Trader Joes. A Black woman yelled, "Hi Terry McMillan." Shocked me. And I said hello back. "I read all of your books." And I said, "Thank you. But how did you recognize me with my mask?" She said, "Please. You know how we see us."
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4 years
OMG. On the verge of tears. Just received an email from my agent advising me that they've just sent royalty payments to me for my first novel, MAMA, and for HOW STELLA GOT HER GROOVE BACK. The amount is not important. Write what you want to write. What you have to write.
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4 years
So, WAITING TO EXHALE is going to be a TV series. Produced by Lee Daniels. Attica Locke and Tembi Locke are writing. Anthony Hemingway will direct. I lucked out.
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Terry McMillan
4 years
February 23rd will make 38 years since I've had any alcohol. And have never missed it because I couldn't just have one. #alcoholfree
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4 months
She worked it. And I believed her.
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4 months
Fun fact: “Waiting to Exhale,” based off the novel written by @MsTerryMcMillan , was a directorial debut for @ForestWhitaker . This scene starring @ImAngelaBassett was completely improvised. Watch the classic TODAY at 5:30/4:30c on Bounce.
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Terry McMillan
5 years
Today, I've been alive 68 years and grateful for each and every one of them. Thank you all for your birthday wishes! Go Warriors!!!!☕️
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5 months
She's smarter than they are and they can't stand that a black woman is not intimidated by them. I love her attitude. If she was white they wouldn't be talking to her like this. And we all know it.
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Fani Willis is basically saying if you swing at me, you better not miss
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4 years
600,000 African-American voters. 1 polling place. Kentucky. How is this even legal? It is not legal. Republicans have to cheat to win. Vote by mail. This is 2020. Not 1965. #kentuckyvotersuppression
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Terry McMillan
4 years
You can now download over 300,000 books from the NYPL for free |
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Terry McMillan
4 years
If a black police officer stormed into a white woman or man's apartment and shot him or her dead by mistake, do you think the black officer would be walking the street?
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Terry McMillan
4 years
Does anybody really care that the first black male has been cast in The Bachelor?
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Terry McMillan
6 years
Writing is not and should not be competitive. Do not compare yourself to anybody. Own your voice. Tell a story you'd want to read. Lie until you believe it. Jump outside your own skin and inside someone else's heart. Write without stopping. Edit later. Good luck.
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4 years
I don't know why some of them hate us so much. We did not steal them. We did not enslave them. We did not beat them. Some of us outsmarted them. Beat them with brains. With the Presidency. And didn't hate them back. We moved forward. Not low. Because we know our value.
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9 months
Today I'm 72 years old! Hard to believe but I'm happy to be alive and healthy and still doing what I love doing. I do not feel old even though I suppose I am!! I'll take it! ☕️
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2 years
Is he cute or what? Saw this in a catalog.
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4 years
Okay. So. I just received a royalty check for $447.40 for royalties on MAMA, my first novel, published in 1987. This is what can happen when you write from your heart never thinking you'll ever see a royalty. #royalty
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2 years
I was just made aware that WAITING TO EXHALE made about $82M at the box office in 1995. I have never Googled it before. I wish I could borrow a few million of it today to get some things out of layaway!!!!
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2 years
So. Seventy-one years ago today I was given the privilege of being born for which I am grateful and hope to continue giving everything I do, everything I've got until I slide into home. 🎂 #BirthdayWoman
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3 years
Back in the day, I met Toni Morrison in NYC, when I was working on MAMA and I told her I was a writer. She looked me in the eye and squeezed my shoulder as she was leaving the stage and said, "I already knew that. And good luck, baby." That did it for me.
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9 months
Well, this just made my morning. I received a royalty payment for $279.98 for my first novel, MAMA, which was published in 1987.
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1 year
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2 years
When I was young & hip. They stretch in the back and some young woman can rock them. Like I used to do at the club!!!
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4 years
I have a housekeeper but she has not been here since early March. She usually comes every two weeks. I've been paying her anyway because she deserves to be paid. And I will continue to pay her until this virus is clear. I respect her.
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4 years
I have come to realize that you can love family members but not like them.
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2 years
I think Harry is fine. And his brother has looked about 40 since he was born.
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Terry McMillan
4 years
I still miss E. Lynn Harris. He was a good friend.
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5 years
I don't know why EXHALE is trending. But so nice to see all these beautiful women. I was proud and honored to have been included in the photoshoot. Time flies. Hi Whitney, baby.
#WaitingToExhale . Wow, what a moment.
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3 years
A worker came inside my loft to change the bulbs. He was wearing a mask. But when he got to the top of the ladder I asked if he'd been vaccinated and he said no. And I told him to get down from the ladder and get out. I called management and lit into. them, too.
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6 years
I don't understand why folks are so hung up on the personal lives of celebrities.
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3 years
A 50-year old friend told me to spread this news. If you go to Walgreens or CVS for the Pfizer vaccine close to closing time and if there were no-shows, you can most likely get a vaccine b/c they have to toss them. She got one. But her husband didn't. Will keep trying.
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Terry McMillan
5 years
Get impeached. Start a war. #TrumpsWar
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5 months
Just divorced a long-term friend. Should've done it years ago.
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3 years
While in Whole Foods a young African-American couple said, "Excuse me, you look so much like Terry McMillan, doesn't she baby?!" And I said, "But I have a mask on." And the young lady said, "But we know those cheekbones and that 'fro." This is how we do it.
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1 year
My BFF moved to Lisbon over a year ago. We both lived in the Bay Area most of our adult life. She said she's never moving back to the USA. She's living on her SS: $2400 a month. 3 br and can see the ocean. Train rides to Paris, London, etc. New friends from around the world.
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5 years
Wow!! I just got a $269.66 royalty check for my novel, DISAPPEARING ACTS! I am grateful. DA was published in 1994.
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4 years
I will forever be grateful to and for Stacey Abrams. She has caused so many non-voters to realize how important their vote is. All over the country. Throughout African-American communities and cities. She has scared Republicans. We've got one more to go: Georgia. Bye Mitch.
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4 years
I'm going to watch a horror movie because I know the villain is going to get caught and it won't take 4 years.
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2 years
Harry is sure cuter than his brother.
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6 months
So glad you found love and happiness Miriam!!! What a cutie-pie!!!! And happy New Year!!!!
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Be Believing
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Give it up to Miriam !!!
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2 years
It is getting very hard to live in the USA.
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4 years
I published my first novel when I was 36. I was not trying to get famous. I was compelled to tell stories about what breaks our hearts and how we recover. So don't be in a hurry to "get there". Bestsellerdom shouldn't be the goal. The rewards come when they come. #Writing Growth
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2 years
I am hoping and praying for the best on Tuesday that we have the first African-American female Supreme Court Justice.
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6 years
Guess which President didn't get invited to the Royal Wedding and guess which President did?
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1 year
Me and my new friend at the grand opening of Octavia's Bookshelf, the new and first African-American bookstore in Pasadena. Over 200 people lined the sidewalk. It was wonderful and my new sexy BFF knew who I was. What a day. Will read there. Proud.
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8 years
I'm sick of child molesters & white-collar criminals getting away with a slap on the wrist when black boys get killed for doing nothing.
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3 years
I'm a mess. My assistant managed to harrass all the people she knows l care about that I didn't know still cared about me 😊 & made a 45-minute video of testimonials of each one wishing me a happy birthday & why they like me! I am grateful & truly blessed.* *Family love a given!
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5 years
I love being black.
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Terry McMillan
5 years
Wow! Who knew? I've never seen this sweatshirt. Glad the words still resonate. My son was certainly impressed.
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Sylvia
5 years
I HAVE NEVER FELT SO PANDERED TO IN ALL MY DAYS WOW 😩😍
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6 years
Honey, you sleigh. #Oprah The white man in the white house is scared of you and your black female powerful self.
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4 years
A book can save your life.
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3 years
I wish I felt like cooking as much as I feel like eating.
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4 years
He didn't change the date out of respect.
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4 years
Write from your heart. Revise from your head.
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Terry McMillan
4 years
NOTICE: Hi everybody. Just wanted to let you all know that I am deactivating my Twitter page for the next 30 days so I can write w/o giving myself permission to be distracted. I will miss interacting but a writer's gotta do what a writer needs to do. Happy Holidays. Stay strong
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4 years
I admit. I'm really scared about what will happen to the United States if Donald Trump is not held accountable for all the shit he's done. It means the GOP Senators will have ordained him as our very first dictator. They'll regret it when they lose their seats. #SaveDemocracy
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4 years
Walked 3 miles. Passed this in someone’s front yard. She was sitting on her front porch. I waved. She waved back.
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Terry McMillan
5 years
Called Equinox to cancel my membership and they put me on hold so long I hung up. Called back: same thing. Tomorrow, I'm going to confront the guy and cut up my card in pieces in front of him. #Equinox
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2 years
A nap can change everything.
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Terry McMillan
2 years
Will Smith. I understand why. Because you had to.
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10 months
This is why I have so much respect for Joy Reid. She is not afraid to speak the truth. Our truth. And she's brilliant. I do not miss her show.
@KeneAkers
Kenny Akers
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Joy Ann Reid—on Trumps criminal mug shot. @JoyAnnReid 👇🏾
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2 years
I am sick of hearing Donald Trump's name and seeing his face on the news everyday.
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4 years
I love my little post office. And especially the Sistah who wears the best glasses and tells me where to buy them for $5.95. She shakes my packages. "Is this a book?" I say yes. "When am I getting mine?" I surprised and brought her one. Signed it. She put her hand on her chest.
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3 years
I married a man 22 or 23 years years younger than me and didn't care what anybody thought. I was happy for 9 1/2 of the 10 years. He grew up. Found out who he really was. Didn't get my $$. But we are still friends. Like his husband, too.
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3 years
That little Archie is getting cuter by the month. Looking like his fine father.
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4 years
My housekeeper says she wouldn't mind coming over to clean if I could find somewhere to go for about 5 hours. I told her no way. It's been 4 months. I am still paying her. Every week instead of every two. Because I can. And she and her family need it. #takecareofeachother
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7 years
I dare you. Please.
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Lawrence O'Donnell
7 years
Hey @OReillyFactor please sue me too because I believe Wendy Walsh. Retweet if you agree.
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3 years
I'm proud to say that my son is a Stanford grad!
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3 years
Personally, I was never waiting to exhale nor have I ever lost my groove. I write fiction. I lie such that it feels like the truth.
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7 years
Not coincidental that I met Trayvon’s Mother and Father 5 years after losing their son. Heart still aches for them.
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6 years
Happy Birthday President Obama! Lord, I wish three terms had been possible. You would still be protecting our democracy and the economy. #ObamaDay
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5 years
Some friends and family like to criticize me for giving cash to homeless people. "I prefer to give them food," they say. "So they don't drink it up or buy drugs." "You have never been homeless. Sometimes they might need a drink or a fix and a meal. Who am I to decide?"
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I never forgot about her even though she's been quiet. She was a great actress and a class act. She made us all proud and I hope if she sees my Mama, they can hug because my Mama worshipped her. #DiahannCarroll
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As is my custom, I always read my novel two days before the publication date to see if it holds my interest. I'm 146 pages into it and have not dozed off yet. In all honesty, I do not remember writing most of this and don't believe I did. My characters did. #Writing
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4 years
In the company of two amazing women!
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4 years
Who in their right mind could possibly want four more years of this?
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2 years
This is not a hearing, it's torture. And racist as hell. Why? Because Judge Ketanji Brown Jackson is smarter than most of them and they can't stand that.
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5 years
I have decided I'm not going to listen to another word Donald Trump says until he resigns or is indicted. I will mute him until then. He has robbed too much of my good energy and I'm snatching it back. Tired of being pimped.
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4 years
You are never too old to fall in love (again).
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4 years
I am not giving up wearing my masks and gloves until people stop dying. I don't trust the ignorant people who think they're immune. This has not been a sci-movie we've been living in the past four months. I don't even think the finale is close. #pandemic
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In 1990, frustrated that too many young AA fiction writers would go unnoticed, I compiled an anthology of emerging and established writers: BREAKING ICE. I believe it's time for another one.
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5 years
Let us pray.
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CNN
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A thunderstorm threat looms over Trump's Fourth of July show
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4 years
The older you get the more expensive mistakes are.
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6 years
Fun fact #1 : ☑️ 4 million kids turn 18 before the 2018 election. Fun fact #2 : ☑️ 17yo's can register to vote if they will be 18 on or before Election Day. REGISTER HERE: ➡️ … #SundayMorning #MarchForOurLives
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5 years
Since you can buy just about anything on Amazon, I'm thinking about ordering myself a husband.
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4 years
I'll be 69 in 3 days. As a gift to myself & my characters who have felt somewhat neglected b/c I have spent so much time & energy focusing on the election & the pandemic, I am going to a cool place in the desert for 2 weeks to give my heart permission to surrender. #writing
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4 years
I am having two lemon-ricotta pancakes with no syrup. And an egg, over easy. Not that you care. I am lonely.
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4 years
@emerald1910 When you feel like you've hit rock bottom, know that you can still go back up. Look for the stars or the sun. Put your palm on your heart. And breathe. Joy is waiting for you.
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4 years
What was unfair about this election, Tucker? I know! The fact that millions of us had to vote by mail because Donald refused to handle the pandemic which is just one reason he lost. He can't pimp us the way he pimped his base & GOP & Fox. What a cult.
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4 years
I also worry about folks who don't have a washer and dryer in their apartment or home. Especially if they have kids.
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4 years
I am reading THE VANISHING HALF by Brit Bennett. This young sistah writes like she's been here before. The sentences are so powerful I find myself lying the book down just to absorb them. Then come back when I catch my breath.
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I'm glad I'm a writer. I wake up, make coffee, sit here for hours and let my heart do the talking. I don't have to compete with other writers to feel good about the stories I tell. But I also don't lose. Because we all win. The world is big enough for all of our stories.
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2 years
I had a legal abortion not long after Roe v. Wade was passed. I do not regret it because it was an accident and I was too young to be a mother.
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5 years
I don't know what I'd do without books and music.
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5 years
Write about what frightens you. What you find perplexing. Disturbing. What breaks your heart. And what you wish you could change. Then change it.
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4 years
Donald: Get your shit and get out!!!
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2 years
I celebrate my blackness and womanhood every single day of the year.
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2 years
OMG! I actually used to wear these in the early 90s. One of a kind. They still constitute art to me. But I’m going to sell these suckers. They’re even signed!
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4 years
You're quite welcome. This was one of my favorite scenes. But setting the car on fire tops them all.
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Write Life
4 years
We can't really celebrate the soundtrack to #WaitingToExhale without paying homage to the amazing @MsTerryMcMillan who wrote the characters who still feel like our dearest sister friends. Thank you 🙏🏾
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