Went to Trader Joes. A Black woman yelled, "Hi Terry McMillan." Shocked me. And I said hello back. "I read all of your books." And I said, "Thank you. But how did you recognize me with my mask?" She said, "Please. You know how we see us."
OMG. On the verge of tears. Just received an email from my agent advising me that they've just sent royalty payments to me for my first novel, MAMA, and for HOW STELLA GOT HER GROOVE BACK. The amount is not important.
Write what you want to write. What you have to write.
So, WAITING TO EXHALE is going to be a TV series. Produced by Lee Daniels. Attica Locke and Tembi Locke are writing. Anthony Hemingway will direct. I lucked out.
Fun fact: “Waiting to Exhale,” based off the novel written by
@MsTerryMcMillan
, was a directorial debut for
@ForestWhitaker
.
This scene starring
@ImAngelaBassett
was completely improvised.
Watch the classic TODAY at 5:30/4:30c on Bounce.
She's smarter than they are and they can't stand that a black woman is not intimidated by them. I love her attitude. If she was white they wouldn't be talking to her like this. And we all know it.
600,000 African-American voters.
1 polling place.
Kentucky.
How is this even legal?
It is not legal.
Republicans have to cheat to win.
Vote by mail.
This is 2020.
Not 1965.
#kentuckyvotersuppression
If a black police officer stormed into a white woman or man's apartment and shot him or her dead by mistake, do you think the black officer would be walking the street?
Writing is not and should not be competitive. Do not compare yourself to anybody. Own your voice. Tell a story you'd want to read. Lie until you believe it. Jump outside your own skin and inside someone else's heart. Write without stopping. Edit later. Good luck.
I don't know why some of them hate us so much. We did not steal them. We did not enslave them. We did not beat them. Some of us outsmarted them. Beat them with brains. With the Presidency. And didn't hate them back. We moved forward. Not low. Because we know our value.
Today I'm 72 years old! Hard to believe but I'm happy to be alive and healthy and still doing what I love doing. I do not feel old even though I suppose I am!! I'll take it! ☕️
Okay. So. I just received a royalty check for $447.40 for royalties on MAMA, my first novel, published in 1987. This is what can happen when you write from your heart never thinking you'll ever see a royalty.
#royalty
I was just made aware that WAITING TO EXHALE made about $82M at the box office in 1995. I have never Googled it before. I wish I could borrow a few million of it today to get some things out of layaway!!!!
So. Seventy-one years ago today I was given the privilege of being born for which I am grateful and hope to continue giving everything I do, everything I've got until I slide into home. 🎂
#BirthdayWoman
Back in the day, I met Toni Morrison in NYC, when I was working on MAMA and I told her I was a writer. She looked me in the eye and squeezed my shoulder as she was leaving the stage and said, "I already knew that. And good luck, baby." That did it for me.
I have a housekeeper but she has not been here since early March. She usually comes every two weeks. I've been paying her anyway because she deserves to be paid. And I will continue to pay her until this virus is clear. I respect her.
I don't know why EXHALE is trending. But so nice to see all these beautiful women. I was proud and honored to have been included in the photoshoot. Time flies. Hi Whitney, baby.
A worker came inside my loft to change the bulbs. He was wearing a mask. But when he got to the top of the ladder I asked if he'd been vaccinated and he said no. And I told him to get down from the ladder and get out. I called management and lit into. them, too.
A 50-year old friend told me to spread this news. If you go to Walgreens or CVS for the Pfizer vaccine close to closing time and if there were no-shows, you can most likely get a vaccine b/c they have to toss them. She got one. But her husband didn't. Will keep trying.
While in Whole Foods a young African-American couple said, "Excuse me, you look so much like Terry McMillan, doesn't she baby?!" And I said, "But I have a mask on." And the young lady said, "But we know those cheekbones and that 'fro." This is how we do it.
My BFF moved to Lisbon over a year ago. We both lived in the Bay Area most of our adult life. She said she's never moving back to the USA. She's living on her SS: $2400 a month. 3 br and can see the ocean. Train rides to Paris, London, etc. New friends from around the world.
I will forever be grateful to and for Stacey Abrams. She has caused so many non-voters to realize how important their vote is. All over the country. Throughout African-American communities and cities. She has scared Republicans. We've got one more to go: Georgia. Bye Mitch.
I published my first novel when I was 36. I was not trying to get famous. I was compelled to tell stories about what breaks our hearts and how we recover. So don't be in a hurry to "get there". Bestsellerdom shouldn't be the goal. The rewards come when they come.
#Writing
Growth
Me and my new friend at the grand opening of Octavia's Bookshelf, the new and first African-American bookstore in Pasadena. Over 200 people lined the sidewalk. It was wonderful and my new sexy BFF knew who I was. What a day. Will read there. Proud.
I'm a mess. My assistant managed to harrass all the people she knows l care about that I didn't know still cared about me 😊 & made a 45-minute video of testimonials of each one wishing me a happy birthday & why they like me! I am grateful & truly blessed.*
*Family love a given!
NOTICE: Hi everybody. Just wanted to let you all know that I am deactivating my Twitter page for the next 30 days so I can write w/o giving myself permission to be distracted. I will miss interacting but a writer's gotta do what a writer needs to do. Happy Holidays. Stay strong
I admit. I'm really scared about what will happen to the United States if Donald Trump is not held accountable for all the shit he's done. It means the GOP Senators will have ordained him as our very first dictator. They'll regret it when they lose their seats.
#SaveDemocracy
Called Equinox to cancel my membership and they put me on hold so long I hung up. Called back: same thing. Tomorrow, I'm going to confront the guy and cut up my card in pieces in front of him.
#Equinox
I love my little post office. And especially the Sistah who wears the best glasses and tells me where to buy them for $5.95. She shakes my packages. "Is this a book?" I say yes. "When am I getting mine?" I surprised and brought her one. Signed it. She put her hand on her chest.
I married a man 22 or 23 years years younger than me and didn't care what anybody thought. I was happy for 9 1/2 of the 10 years. He grew up. Found out who he really was. Didn't get my $$. But we are still friends. Like his husband, too.
My housekeeper says she wouldn't mind coming over to clean if I could find somewhere to go for about 5 hours. I told her no way. It's been 4 months. I am still paying her. Every week instead of every two. Because I can. And she and her family need it.
#takecareofeachother
Some friends and family like to criticize me for giving cash to homeless people.
"I prefer to give them food," they say. "So they don't drink it up or buy drugs."
"You have never been homeless. Sometimes they might need a drink or a fix and a meal. Who am I to decide?"
I never forgot about her even though she's been quiet. She was a great actress and a class act. She made us all proud and I hope if she sees my Mama, they can hug because my Mama worshipped her.
#DiahannCarroll
As is my custom, I always read my novel two days before the publication date to see if it holds my interest. I'm 146 pages into it and have not dozed off yet. In all honesty, I do not remember writing most of this and don't believe I did. My characters did.
#Writing
This is not a hearing, it's torture. And racist as hell. Why? Because Judge Ketanji Brown Jackson is smarter than most of them and they can't stand that.
I have decided I'm not going to listen to another word Donald Trump says until he resigns or is indicted. I will mute him until then. He has robbed too much of my good energy and I'm snatching it back. Tired of being pimped.
I am not giving up wearing my masks and gloves until people stop dying. I don't trust the ignorant people who think they're immune. This has not been a sci-movie we've been living in the past four months. I don't even think the finale is close.
#pandemic
In 1990, frustrated that too many young AA fiction writers would go unnoticed, I compiled an anthology of emerging and established writers: BREAKING ICE. I believe it's time for another one.
Fun fact
#1
: ☑️ 4 million kids turn 18 before the 2018 election.
Fun fact
#2
: ☑️ 17yo's can register to vote if they will be 18 on or before Election Day.
REGISTER HERE: ➡️ …
#SundayMorning
#MarchForOurLives
I'll be 69 in 3 days. As a gift to myself & my characters who have felt somewhat neglected b/c I have spent so much time & energy focusing on the election & the pandemic, I am going to a cool place in the desert for 2 weeks to give my heart permission to surrender.
#writing
@emerald1910
When you feel like you've hit rock bottom, know that you can still go back up. Look for the stars or the sun. Put your palm on your heart. And breathe. Joy is waiting for you.
What was unfair about this election, Tucker? I know! The fact that millions of us had to vote by mail because Donald refused to handle the pandemic which is just one reason he lost. He can't pimp us the way he pimped his base & GOP & Fox. What a cult.
I am reading THE VANISHING HALF by Brit Bennett. This young sistah writes like she's been here before. The sentences are so powerful I find myself lying the book down just to absorb them. Then come back when I catch my breath.
I'm glad I'm a writer. I wake up, make coffee, sit here for hours and let my heart do the talking. I don't have to compete with other writers to feel good about the stories I tell. But I also don't lose. Because we all win. The world is big enough for all of our stories.
OMG! I actually used to wear these in the early 90s. One of a kind. They still constitute art to me. But I’m going to sell these suckers. They’re even signed!
We can't really celebrate the soundtrack to
#WaitingToExhale
without paying homage to the amazing
@MsTerryMcMillan
who wrote the characters who still feel like our dearest sister friends. Thank you 🙏🏾