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@datEkitigirl02

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Joined March 2018
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
1 year
@Solomon_Buchi You should give some men their accolade too. They do chores...they wake up VERY early, surf their phones endlessly, then proceed to wash their precious CAR for all the hours the wife would do ALL the chores. Bathe and shout on everyone to enter the car if they don't want to trek!
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
7 months
@sirab_crypt @Goodkaaaarrmmaa When you see a potential abuser, you'll just know. Again, what is marriage?
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
4 years
@PhilipEsther19 @DrOlufunmilayo U forgot to add 'when you have money'
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
3 years
@Teeteelhorphe @LaoluCarsell @Biisi96 I wanted to say this. Seriously,they would rather ask you silly questions. Once went to a teaching hospital for checkup, got there,doc askd wat was wrong,told him I came for checkup. Him: ehn, what exactly is wrong? Me: nothing, what to do a general checkup. Him: next patient!
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
2 years
@FELIXO999 @_profpius God, thank you for already giving me a good man. Now, i pray for my sis and daughter, may they never jam this kind of man. Amen by fire!
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
4 years
@kfayemi When your mockery turns to celebration. Good move Gov. Youths should learn from this. Not all parents will cover your delinquency. Learn to be law-abiding.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
8 months
@Solomon_Buchi I stopped talking about my husband all together when all I hear is, wait na till you're 10years your eye go clear. I hate to say this was coming from my gender mostly. Well, e remain 3 years make e make 10. I'll be back for them, God's willing ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
2 years
@jon_d_doe Being a career woman is doing more work than one should do ordinarily. I work, and I must tell you that it is not easy. If I have my way, I'll quit work, I have two toddlers and it's hell. Sm ppl are still asking when will I birth d 3. And I look at them lyk assassins.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
8 months
Today, I've unfollowed about 15 person with the blue tick. You ppl asked for a f4f, only to unfollow. You're not a celebrity,. No content. No giveaway. Nothing. But u tot it's honourable for you to be followed than for you follow. ENKR
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
2 years
@NAS_PoliceNG The first girl FOUGHT her. Both girls- two fighting. Ok let's use the assault you want. But in retaliation, the second girl mobilized her family-ALL MEN, to humiliate, dehumanize, molest, kidnap, harass, intimidate and assault her! Justice must be served.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
2 years
@drpenking I hate to comment seeing you're a doctor but the pains won't let me. You shld know dat everyone cannot be like this. You are supposed to know! A pregnancy could come with pimple all over you, 3 months, just throwing up. Cannot use creams talk more of makeup. You shld know this!
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
4 years
@DuchessT_ Whoever told you this lie is from the pit of hell. My man doesn't smoke, drink nor womanize. I know you'd argue with me. But we cannot continue to think all men are badly raised and shame them. Football, yes. And that's not too bad an act.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
2 years
@jon_d_doe Wen in all honesty I want to birth more children, 1 or 2 more. Bt I just don't have the energy right now. I literally pass out every night after resuming to work at my house after leaving WORK! A nanny, a lesson teacher, a cook, a cleaner, a laundry woman...all in one is no joke.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
2 years
@lollypeezle ๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜ƒ well, I think women who cook most times enjoy meal prepared by another person. That's it. No be say you sabi cook๐Ÿ˜Œ
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
2 years
@Djjamzy_ Chai. Abeg, leave that man. He almost ruined my marriage. I began to imagine the things my husband had/achieved that made me marry him. I was seeing myself as a selfish being...maybe I married him on conditions. But nah,I didn't see anything. So, I blocked d werey.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
2 years
@instablog9ja It's funny how his gender would make light of this and still come bk to say 'the world isn't paying attention to sexual harassment against the make gender' Well, I wish you all good luck.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
2 years
@instablog9ja God forbid. This is not my marriage. Be careful what you wish yourself. Im 6 years in it. And i can say 'THIS IS NOT THE STANDARD!
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
4 years
@Chisara14 Everyone has a story. Sad. Had mine on bike. Was in Lagos for the 1st time and didn't knw I'd be on board with a total stranger. My bike man stopped sm mint to pick a guy, b4 I cld say Jack, he was at my bk. Long story short, sperm was on my trousers by d time I alighted. ๐Ÿ˜”
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
2 years
@NAS_PoliceNG Which one is 'got her assaulted as well'. Both do not carry the same weight. I heard she's an orphan thou. I hope the police would do their jobs well this time.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
2 years
This is why kunle afod is trending. Nigerians sha. We no get problem. Na why our govt no dey rate us be that.
@_Taaooma
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HOW PARENTS APPRECIATE WHAT YOU GOT FOR THEM ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
4 years
@aproko_doctor They are submitting to their husbands. How can you do something without your husband's consent? To chop self, we must get approval. Isn't that what we hear now. Religious extremity, bigotry. Seriously, we need to address somethings.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
8 months
@BOTAD01 Once you collect business startup from some men, just know it's upkeep money you're collecting. 5he business will not stand.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
2 years
@SpiricocoNg God is still in the business of doing wonders. Believe and you shall be saved!
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
2 years
@tyewoolove Thanks so much for this. I once argued with my husband that the good side should be eja, since we all eat eja and it doesn't harm...this cannot be said of akan๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜ƒ. Yeye argument. I know better now.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
2 years
@HitzLuzick @Djjamzy_ Yeah. The principle of repetition comes to play. Then it affects the way you see things.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
8 months
Hello tueh tueh, If 3k is not too small for you. Pls dm me your aza, like and repost. I'll be picking randomly. No drop your aza for comment again abeg. Scammers full everywhere. N.B: must be following @kuteshayo If you no need this money, no invite poverty to your life o.
@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
8 months
Time to drop aza. God bless you ma'am @kuteshayo I may not really need the money. No be say I get o. But if there's any mutual here that needs small money for afternoon snacks. Oya drop aza. Must be following @kuteshayo
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
3 years
@nwotasamuel @Teeteelhorphe @LaoluCarsell @Biisi96 Felt that? So we work on what they're feeling sebi. Lower hospital? Even when I have my NHIS there. Abah. Let's not normalise abnormalities.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
8 months
@IamTommivill โœŒ๏ธโœŒ๏ธ
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
4 years
@instablog9ja It doesn't matter. Even as wife, even if na me buy the car. Anyone sitting in the front b4 me would remain there. That's how to live long. I no get time for unnecessary drama biko.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
2 years
@TAAdeiye The thing the society is doing to men...making them unaccountable for their actions...is sad.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
4 years
@Postsubman As a woman, this case hard me. Minute wey u take waka go neighbour aos, u go don wash kettle finish.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
3 years
@meettheRichard Nigerian moms. I had my own share. I remember leaving home one day, finally. The best day wey I show up for compound cos of hunger, hoping to see her jump on me crying lyk we see in movies. ๐Ÿ˜ญ. She held that broom in her hands and told me to go bk to where I was coming from.๐Ÿ˜ž
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
8 months
@yunnothevi6e @___Muna_ You'll meet your kind of person and you both will learn the hard way!
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
9 months
@UncleCCA Source? I stopped following him a long time ago. Sometimes he is sensible, some other times, <<<<<.. I can't stand it.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
1 year
@Tspiceskitchen You're a genuinely happy person. Your smile is infectious. Keep it.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
6 months
@ekititrends Oya o. Make I get Ek followers.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
8 months
@IamTommivill I don late again.๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿคฆ
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
4 years
@Chisara14 Gender war is when we constantly pray for women ONLY when it comes to fertility issues leaving out their husbands. This automatically makes the woman the problem even without scientific research ๐Ÿ˜ช๐Ÿ˜ช
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
2 years
@Solomon_Buchi If a Christian woman does not honour her husband, then she's not even a Christian in the first place. You see, the word 'Christian' is not a title. It is a way of living. If you aren't living to the standards of the word, then, that's not being a Christian. It's something else.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
2 years
@Elforbes00 Yeah, this is it. I've said this over and over again! Feminism isn't about your petty ideas of who shld cook or who shld sleep late at night, it was a hard fought movement to give women a Voice, a right, an Identity, to see a Woman as a human rather than an object!
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
4 years
@Obadimz @bigdaddyvinz School is actually ile-eko. Even Sunday school is ile-eko ojo isimi. So ile-iwe can fit for a bookshop. Right?
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
3 years
@Postsubman I shld av read the comments first lyk I always did. See my life now. But hanty,, you, the guy and instagram where u met him....are all madt.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
3 years
@Postsubman I don't know abt you though but that your family, they are mad!
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
2 years
@_SLYTAUREAN God bless this person. I mean. Those things that the money can buy, do you HONESTLY have money to buy them! God bless you parents, they raised you well.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
2 years
The #OWO could have been me, could have been you, could have been anybody! Dear Lord, restore this country. So much innocent lives. Human being no be chicken nรกร ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
4 years
@DrAtangwho So AA is bae. I guess govt shld do head band for us, let's wear it around for ppl to know we're AA.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
2 years
@instablog9ja ..going bk on that promise alone is a sin to God, yourself and to the person you're making that vow to(exception are married ppl who didn't make that vow) Once, u can stand b4 ur partner &witnesses to say those things. See,stick to it! Peace!
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
4 years
@instablog9ja if you like pay for everyone inside public transport everyday. your money go soon finish. And no, you're not getting any job. Just be nice, that's all.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
2 years
@diaryofa9jagirl @BBCNews I do not believe that all men cheat. I have seen it and I have instances. But in the instance of building with your man, this is based on choices. If you think u won't get hurt in the end, why not. Women are as important as men and can do whatever they want to if dey want to
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
8 months
Help that you didn't ask for will locate you today. Amen?
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
1 year
@Mazi_Ganihu @Solomon_Buchi Well, we should talk about those women later. Today, let's talk about 'some men'
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
2 years
@ulxma Women take risk birthing kids all time, that is the greatest of all risks. Go to the labour ward and see that HUGE risk. That is why they keep 'producing' men that will one day say 'women ve not produced anything' SHM
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
1 year
@Solomon_Buchi Christian is not just a title. It's an act, a living, a style, a way of life, a model after our Lord Christ. If your acts negate the love and selflessness of Christ, then you're not a Christian! Stay away from ppl that give you wrong counsel. Read the word!
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
7 months
Someone will carry these tiny beings for nine months, birth them between life and death, breastfeeding o,plenty sleepless nights and cares. Then, the first thing they open their mouth to say is 'dada' Don't worry sweetie. Your dad will continue where I stopped. I don try.๐Ÿ˜ญ
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
1 year
@henry_nwoke @Solomon_Buchi I'm proud of you darling. You deserve your flowers...I can't drag all men cos I have a wonderful set of them in my life, that was why I said 'some men'..God bless you for all you do for your family.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
8 months
Some head of the home never reach house o. Them don call their wives say hold up dey, they'll come home tomorrow. On top this Val. Baba Shade, no be so life be o.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
1 year
@d_ocheido 1. Do everything in moderation as the bible recommends. 2. Intent. What was/is your intention as you do these things. To make another fall? Or to add to your beauty? Or you don't even know. 3. Listen to the holy spirit. He speaks. He'll direct you.
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4 years
@Postsubman That's why sm married folks see themselves as mature. See foolishness. When we breastfeed it's not boobs anymore. It's breast, giving out breastmilk...food for the infant. Abi what is wrong with everybody in this country. ๐Ÿ˜”
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Mum Dekky
4 years
@KesterRichard_ @Obadimz @bigdaddyvinz Library will be 'ole ikowepamosi' Tabi 'Yara ikawe'. Depending on the context.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
4 years
@Wizebaba @school And ur own car is jst at the office doing nothing. And mama probably just needs a car to go to church on Sunday and attend occasional meetings, you better think twice!
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
4 years
@Chisara14 Nigerians and selective wickedness.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
4 years
@Chisara14 I never realized anything, I only pitied the man. You know we've been together for long and I saw he was not getting younger(men have limited time), so I married him. Nothing to worry about. If he misbehaves I'll send him bk to his father's house and marry another man.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
8 months
I'll av to reconsider following random ppl on this app. Na my DM dey suffer am.. For the umpteenth time, I'm somebody's wife and a mother of kids, a model to young ladies and mothers. E jo. If you find me worthy, pls follow, I'll follow as you engage.. No random FFL again!
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
7 months
Before wicked people wake up. Good morning good people of Nigeria. Today, you shall find favour. ๐Ÿ™
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
4 years
@_Taaooma Lord, I lift your name on high.... Who knows that song?
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
8 months
Good morning to everyone that will be cleaning and washing today. The Lord is your strength o.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
2 years
@Postsubman Poor parenting. Ppl are busy chasing the big bag forgetting they have responsibility. If your big bag cannot afford who would take care of the kids in ur absence, drop it. Talk about what do women bring to the table. Taking care of my family is what I bring to the table!
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Mum Dekky
2 years
@instablog9ja Social media may be the end of some people. As much as we preach purity b4 marriage,and of cos, especially for the ladies (I also share this view, I'm sorry) Marriage is a diff ballgame, it's an institution on it own. Ppl share vows...my body belongs to you and u alone...bla bla
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
2 years
@firstdoktor ...and be prepared for reality! All these talks MIGHT not matter.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
2 years
@jon_d_doe The story of my life. The tale of the working wife!
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
7 months
You'll think everybody is rich on X, until it's time for giveaway.๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜ƒ Don't belittle yourself. You're the best version of yourself and you're doing your best. Keep moving. You'll get there one day.
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Mum Dekky
9 months
@talk2veee If you take all advice on SM, you're not a wise person. Assisting your partner is not a big deal. You're only helping yourself.
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Mum Dekky
8 months
Who are the people trending #BelieveInPBAT ? As in, don't they have family members to flog sense into them? Suffer no dey tire Nigerians ๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ˜”
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Mum Dekky
7 months
Weekends could be very stressful for a mother of 3, with no help, who wants to maintain a clean house and give her family healthy meals..... May God ease our affairs. Thanks to my amazing Xfam for checking up.
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Mum Dekky
8 months
If you have 500 naira today, it's as good as you don't have money. 500 ๐ŸŽคcannot give you a good meal at a sitting. ๐ŸŽคcannot take you to and fro your house conveniently ๐ŸŽคcannot buy any clothing 500 naira is the country's second highest denomination. That's how bad it is.
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Mum Dekky
1 year
@thewinlos This is my husband in disguise....
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
2 years
@mazpa_md People that were born in 2009, never been to any traditional meeting/setting are shouting 'this doesn't happen in my place' Well, thanks to the fighters. We really need to reintroduce history in schools. These children do not know ANYTHING!
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Mum Dekky
6 months
@ChisaraAgoha You're not asking for too much anyways. The right guysss will come. All you do is just pick one.
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
4 years
@PremiumTimesng From comments here, people are naturally wicked! So bullets that could wound people cannot kill them. The shooting was intended just to wound? I don't get. Wicked Nigerians. We're our own enemies. #EndSARS #NIGERIAPREVAILS
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Mum Dekky
8 months
The rate at which young women disrespect their husbands these days is quite alarming and it is fast becoming a pandemic. This person is supposed to be the King of that kingdom o. Your Spiritual head. Why talk to him in such condescending tone as though he were your child?
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Mum Dekky
8 months
So, ystdy @kuteshayo ND I decided to gift 3k to few ppl...wat gave birth to dis was very funny dou. D money was originally for me, but I tot..I might not actually need it afterall. THIS is an abomination to our politicians, they continue to take even wen they don't need it๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡
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@datEkitigirl02
Mum Dekky
2 years
@bond_00Seven @Djjamzy_ Senseless. Block block block.
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Mum Dekky
8 months
Make we just make this guy Nigerian's President #nottooyoungtorun ..Oloun he go fix this country. Guy is not selfish. Humanity first. Oluko. God bless you.
@IamTommivill
Mr Tom
8 months
As a small account Handler, let me give you tips on how to improve your impressions. Do you know it's not only on your posts that impressions counts ? You can gain massive impressions by commenting under big account post. That's the only and best way to reach your
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7 months
Abeg, who has "President Tinubu" phone number, anyone? I'll just speak to him on OUR behalf. Trust me, he'll listen. I bet you. I have this pitiful voice of appeal. Won mรกa gbแป. By tom, fuel fit don turn 200naira. Just his number!๐Ÿ˜ญ
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Mum Dekky
4 years
@jagzangel Everybody dey appreciate her now o. Let a husband say I helped my wife with half of the chores...then we'll remember how unafrican it is. NB:if you're cheating on ur wife, don't expect this gesture o. U cant be giving our money to our other sisters. God bless you here sis.
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Mum Dekky
2 years
@instablog9ja Well, when reality hits you, come back and say these things again. Even if the man is not working at all, na you go still come bk cook, raise voice and all the planet would support him. I hate to say it bt it is what it is!
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Mum Dekky
2 years
@TAAdeiye Oh yes. These were my thoughts exactly this morning. Absolutely nothing will happen to them. They can also decide to stay in the marriage and be irresponsible. Yet, nothing will happen to them.
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Mum Dekky
8 months
Business is not for the faint hearted. Some days are good, some days are not so good. MAY THE LORD SEE US THROUGH.
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Mum Dekky
8 months
I love the way everybody is doing shout-out for their mutuals. As in, we no come this life to come look o. No gree for anybody.
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Mum Dekky
4 years
@Wizebaba I dont have a problem with you buying car for your mom first. But if I have say 2 kids already, I'll go to work, drop the kids at school, return 4rm work to market, pick the children @school . Go home, prepare ur meal and probably attend fellowship in d evening..all on bike
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Mum Dekky
8 months
No be by to dey follow me, if you won't engage. Pls don't follow. Better to have few active engagers than plenty inactive followers. Not all are here for Elon's money. Some of us just want to catch fun. Abeg abeg.
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Mum Dekky
4 years
@instablog9ja Someone once said: English : See wickedness Yoruba: E ri ca.
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Mum Dekky
7 months
Good morning Singles. How was your night?๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ˜‰
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Mum Dekky
4 years
Everything about the woman is not tied to the man! She can also become an important personality. Please rest.
@Postsubman
Postsubman
4 years
- Actor - Uba weighs in on the trending Silhouette challenge.
Tweet media one
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