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@commandanttt

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๐Ÿ”žYour sometimes friendly Dallas kink educator, and Dominatrix. Kinky Google. Check My website for more!

SSC, RACK, & PRICK, ๐Ÿค8, TX
Joined April 2020
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๐•ฟ๐–๐–Š ๐•ฎ๐–”๐–’๐–’๐–†๐–“๐–‰๐–†๐–“๐–™ ๐Ÿ–ค DFW โœˆ๏ธ FMTY
11 months
โ€œYoUr sUbs ArE sOoO lUcKy!โ€ No, theyโ€™re competent. They read My profile(s), website, and figured out how to book Me properly. They compensate Me for My time. They follow instructions. Maybe instead of focusing on โ€œluckโ€, you should focus on comprehension.
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2 years
Friendly reminder; There are a multitude of different kinds of submissives. Meaning not everyone is a finsub, paypig, or cashcow. This doesn't mean they won't compensate you for your time. This doesn't mean they are a timewaster. It just means they aren't into ONLY Findom.
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2 years
Submissive does not equate to โ€œspinelessโ€. You have needs, you have desires, you have worth. Just because we put you down in fantasy, doesnโ€™t mean you must be so in reality. Take care of yourself first. That way you can serve your Dom with all of you, not just broken parts.
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1 year
BDSM isnโ€™t done out of anger, hatred, or malice. Itโ€™s done with care, compassion, and communication. So, letโ€™s drop the โ€œI hate men, thatโ€™s why I do Femdom/findomโ€ trope?
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2 years
Some of you โ€œsubsโ€ change owners as much as I change My panties. I am convinced no one really knows what โ€œownershipโ€ is anymore. ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ˜‚
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1 year
Being Dominant doesnโ€™t give you any excuse to be rude, overbearing, or demanding of people. We are here to guide, and nurture the submissives who choose to submit to us. Not demean, berate, and coerce them into submission. Communication and consent should be first, always.
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1 year
Iโ€™m known as the โ€œBDSM bullyโ€ because I have a low tolerance for bullshit. Iโ€™m not going to sit idly by while subs are trashed/abused on a daily basis. Iโ€™m not going to encourage Doms to continue cycles of abuse for ๐Ÿ’ฐ. We all need to do better to one another. Weโ€™re humans.
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1 year
Tearing someone down emotionally doesnโ€™t make you a Dominant. We uplift, encourage, and support our subs. This looks different for every dynamic. This can look like humiliation, encouragement, etc. They are the ones who get to choose what is torn down, not us.
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1 year
If you think talking to submissives, let alone people like this and you consider yourself a Dom you can either 1. Catch these hands. Or 2. Unfollow Me. I will not tolerate blatant abuse and disempowerment of subs. This is disgusting.
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1 year
Submissives arenโ€™t Pokรฉmon. We as Dominants arenโ€™t here to โ€œcollect them allโ€. You donโ€™t have to โ€œownโ€ every single submissive you encounter. Ownership dynamics are supposed to be a deepened kinky relationship, not some cheap attempt at a cash grab.
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1 year
Switches donโ€™t owe you explanations on how their Dominance/submission works for them. Switches who primarily Dominate are valid. Switches who primarily submit are valid. Just because you donโ€™t understand why someone switches, doesnโ€™t mean itโ€™s invalid to do so. โœŒ๐Ÿฝ
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2 years
You can be friends with your subs. BDSM is an intimate experience, regardless of if youโ€™re โ€œlifestyleโ€ a โ€œproโ€ or both. You need to be speaking to your clients as they are (human beings) prior to play so that way there is trust established. Please remember; respect is earned.
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9 months
What you see in fetish work is usually a carefully negotiated performance. Behind the scenes, there are extensive discussions and agreements to ensure everyone's comfort and consent. This includes the things like mental health stability, general health, limits, etc. (1)
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1 year
You are worth more than what is in your bank account. Your submission is worth more than what is in your bank account. There is more to BDSM than FinDom.
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4 months
The only โ€œtrueโ€ way to do kink, fetish work, BDSM, findom, Femdom, whatever you want to name itโ€ฆ. Is safely communicating your boundaries, wants, and needs. You donโ€™t have to fit yourself into some made up mold. โœจMake it your own. โœจ
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1 year
โ€œYouโ€™re not like other Findoms. You donโ€™t tell anyone to send.โ€ Itโ€™s because if you have the expectation of providing financial servitude to Me, you should be fulfilling that. Are you thinking about sending? Do it. Quit talking about it, and BE about it.
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1 year
Feminization/sissification seems to be a popular topic right now. Letโ€™s clarify a few things about it. 1. We shouldnโ€™t be policing a kink that has been used as slur reclaiming for queer people since the start. Some people start their coming out journey being feminized.
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@Bella_Jade94 ๐Ÿ˜ˆ
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2 years
Please vet your kink educators. You donโ€™t know who is going to use their โ€œexpertiseโ€ against you under the guise of self betterment. Not all of us wield power responsibly. Please keep yourself safe by doing your own research into who youโ€™re seeking education from.
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I am happy to admit that Iโ€™m guilty as fuck of this. I can be caught simping over My subs, and others on a daily basis. I constantly hit on Mine. Give Me muscles, bright eyes, and a femme demeanor and Iโ€™m ๐Ÿคค๐Ÿคค๐Ÿคค. Or just femmes. I fuckin love femmes so much. ๐Ÿ˜
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All sex work is real work. Yes, that includes dancing. Yes, that includes escorting. Yes, that includes any sort of work where you take money to give sexual oriented services.
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2 years
I was so horny after toying with My pets yesterday that I had to give My partner a spicy wake up call, isnโ€™t he lucky? Only to cum Myself and then dismiss him so he could continue getting ready for work. Itโ€™s so nice being The Commandant. ๐Ÿคญ๐Ÿ˜œ
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๐•ฟ๐–๐–Š ๐•ฎ๐–”๐–’๐–’๐–†๐–“๐–‰๐–†๐–“๐–™ ๐Ÿ–ค DFW โœˆ๏ธ FMTY
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As I said, A SIMPLE TUG and they fall in line. ๐Ÿ˜ˆ
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@commandanttt @Quark4Nagus420 Look what I made ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ
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