@KeyzH13
@anthimseIf
Yes they would. They don’t treat their wives right and their wives don’t wanna have sex with them. Literally what the post is saying.
@Driza84
@VusiMzobe
Having children at any age honestly is an inconvenience. At some point you sacrifice your comfort and desires for what’s best for them.
@The_Ngozi
@onosowobo
Except society doesn’t tell men that they aren’t equipped for stuff like decision making and leadership because they’re too emotional. I believe that is her point.
@spiecy_diecy
@gyaigyimii
Nobody wanna hear his side cos he has a history of abusing others especially women. Rihanna isn’t the only women accused him of abuse. But of course y’all gone take this and run with it. Anything to support abusive men.
@solomonmissouri
This is not good. Folks eating this up as if this is how it’s supposed to be. Women carry the weight of taking care of the family while men continue to live their lives. Ain’t no man gone hear this and be inspired to be different.
Men love to take credit for building the world up until it’s time to talk about the effects of patriarchy and misogyny. Then suddenly it ain’t their fault. I thought y’all built the world.
@Bsmpsn96
@Forty_hs
@simsimmaaz
Yeah I know it’s always somebody else’s fault. Must suck being a man, can’t do nothing out here. Somebody else always holding y’all back.
@KeyzH13
@anthimseIf
Idk cos no evidence supports your claims. You’re assuming these women are treated well just cos they’re married and the data says otherwise.
@DustyDelaGhetto
“I wouldn’t pick my kids to stop basketball” his exact words. Sacrificing a game of a few practices, sure. But she’s talking about putting his career aside to prioritize being a father.
@PrinceHAK33M
You don’t think it was a coincidence that seconds after she shot him the whole LAPD was right there? Since when are that many cops responding that fast? That was a set up and the password was likely a signal to arrest Franklin.
@DustyDelaGhetto
Even in scenarios where both have careers it’s always the women expected to make the sacrifice. I’m sure at the height of his career LeBron ain’t sitting at home to be no stay at home dad for Savannah.
@justbecause022
@SolsSanctuary
Women are paid less than men. Women are discriminated against in hiring and promotion. Women are punished for having families in their careers, men are rewarded. Divorced women are more likely to enter poverty than men. Poverty affects women more than men….
@DirteeSprite
@jiggyjayy2
Maybe/maybe not. But I don’t see the point of being offended by a black woman dating white men when the black men complaining half the time don’t find them desirable or wouldn’t even date.
@BrianBrazen1
@queenveej
As much as y’all like to blame all your actions on women, you can’t pass on something you don’t possess. If women were making guys this way, you’d also see women displaying violence at the same levels. Which you do not. Y’all learn violence from men.
I was JUST telling my cousin, that as women, we should only become moms if we reconciled that we may have to be the sole parent and are ok with it. You can cross all the T’s and dot all the i’s with choosing a man, but he shouldn’t be considered into your decision to be a mom 🤷🏽♀️
They was just applauding Michelle Obama for suffering for a decade and staying, then criticizing Tia for choosing happiness over marriage. Men abandon their families now it’s “well he must been so sad and unhappy.”
Women are busy doing “marriage is not about happiness, it’s about commitment” for a gender that can just up and leave them and their kids with no prior notice. You birds annoy me. 🤡
@007TBae
@The_Ngozi
@onosowobo
Women are actually better suited for leadership according to studies. And the thing that suits them is their “feminine traits.” Yall don’t be knowing nothing
@justbecause022
@SolsSanctuary
In what ways do women have it easier? Because men are so called providers? Most households are dual income. BW are the breadwinners in black relationships. Idk what world y’all live in. But we in a patriarchy guys. That mean women are oppressed economically as well.
@SMEstudios
@jiggyjayy2
Hookup culture- possible pregnancy to end up with child you’ll statistically raise alone, minimum orgasms
Married- statistically likely to die earlier, labor increases, divorce statistically are likely to experience poverty as men have nothing
Long term relationship-free where?
@1PRETTYWILLIE
@jiggyjayy2
@DoubleTakeLisa
If women can survive while raising kids alone with little to no help from men, I don’t see why they can’t survive giving out $300 monthly checks. Like you think that money keeping women afloat? 😂
@DustyDelaGhetto
Just repeating what was said. She had a career that she loved, gave it up for motherhood. LeBron said he wouldn’t. Yes he mentioned Savannah does great, but still said he ain’t quitting. That’s what the OP said. She ain’t lie to hate on black men. She repeated HIS words.
@und1sput3dtak3s
@slimgirlsupreme
@kuziva_m
And yet a random man see random women he don’t know existing and first thing he thinks of is marriage. It’s giving y’all are obsessed with it to be a group that think marriage is so oppressive.
@VortexProwess
@letsagoou
@abike1999
No, women are more likely to go into poverty after divorce than men. Only 10% of ppl get alimony. And most women don’t get child support. Y’all literally make things up to make yourselves feel better.
Yeah cos after 400 plus years of treating black folks like trash, white ppl gone see you and your white wife and suddenly find the humanity in all negros
@xomamamiaaa
@spinbackmecca
Do y’all have an addiction? Life be happening it’s 100% possible for normal ppl to have a rough two weeks and not want sex. Or even longer.
@VortexProwess
@letsagoou
@abike1999
That is US stats. You’re being delusional if you think otherwise. Americans do not make that much money including men. Where you think all this money women supposedly get is coming from? It’s based on income and men are broke. Y’all are not all Bill Gates.
To initiate sex with someone and then punish them for agreeing is such loser behavior. You want some weird cat and mouse chase thing because you’ve been inculcated to believe that women’s desire is under lock and key and should only be accessed through repeated coercion.
@wmacgwenzi
@LeratoMannya
Most women work and provide too. Even married women. Yet women still manage to be good to others and actually care for their children and husbands. Excuses ..
@DustyDelaGhetto
For men parenting comes secondary. Men usually get the luxury to pursue careers at their full potential and be fathers because the woman is there handling the load. But y’all committed to not understanding and that’s fine.
Y’all have a hard time distinguishing women who actually hate men, and women who hold men accountable for patriarchy and misogyny. Most women don’t hate men, women recognize we live in a misogynistic society that produces a lot of trash men.
@ToreeBby
She wasn’t helping her word it correctly. She was helping you understand. All words were used properly and in the right context, you just ain’t understand it. So just say that, don’t try to make someone else look dumb cos you don’t know what the words mean.
@say___e
@DOMtheB0MB
@Piphism
Men love women unconditionally? Is that why they make laws to control women’s bodies? Build systems to oppress women? Rape, abuse, and murder women? Treat women like sexual objects instead of human beings? And tell women they are unequal and should be under their authority?
@und1sput3dtak3s
@CrazyLexxiCool
@jiggyjayy2
Almost there. It’s a little different because Will is a man. Suffering in marriage is only something y’all think women should go through. Y’all believe men are just too good for it. But as women you believe we were made to suffer through a man’s bs.
If women “mature faster” and are so ahead of men intellectually, why are women supposed to be “submissive” to men? Why are women expected to follow men’s leads? Why are men “the head of the household?”
Things I think about on my 15 min break at work.
@TorraineWalker
@JiorJette
She was communicating like an adult the entire time. She was very respectful in her words and tone and he kept cutting her off. So it wasn’t til she stopped to give him 50 million compliments and stroked his ego that he decided to shut up and hear what she was saying.
Everybody would understand if she said she don’t feel comfortable in white spaces or around police. It’s only a problem when you shed light on the results of black male violence against black women.
@kingsemaj26
@pierrefleury_
How can you tell which one is the good man and which one is the bad boy, just by having them in front of you? I’d like to be educated on how to get such top tier discernment
@GuardurRose
@jiggyjayy2
@clayhov_
Crazy thing is, he says they have sex about 3-4 times a week. There are 7 days in a week, they have all them kids, very busy ppl, and still find time to have sex like every other day. You’d think she had this nigga beating off for months at a time.
@DustyDelaGhetto
But even in the cases of average ppl, even tho both work and contribute financially women still spend more time raising the kids. I think she’s trying to get y’all to see the difference in parenting for men and women.
@IvanIvez
@niicole__nicole
The fact that you equate a supervisor and subordinate to a romantic relationship between a man and woman and don’t see why y’all have a problem convincing women to adhere to this is crazy to me
@fairlyyfairyy
@StephanieYeboah
“Why can’t we just let black men abuse black women in peace like other races of men get to abuse their women?” Girl said “okay?” To him being a domestic abuser
@N29AAfrica
@CHRIS_andtell
Why are men dating women they deem “unworthy.” Also even when y’all find the “right” one y’all still don’t treat them right. Stop lying.
Men are sexual abusers. He’s hurt because he more than likely wanted sex, maybe even initiated it, but the part that hurts him is her giving consent. Go to prison.
Thinking a woman is undeserving of love because she’s had more dick than you think she’s allowed is weird. Meanwhile y’all work so hard to be able to say you’re “untouched” just to settle for a man that been with any and everybody.
@007TBae
@The_Ngozi
@onosowobo
I can find it just not gonna do research you. If you’d care you’d look it up. Funny how you say I’m easily misled yet you running based on the talking points of misogynists. The fact that you say history proves men are good leaders shows how smart you’re not. Like this world suck
Lauren Smith Fields
Guilty of: dating white men
*murdered*
BM: 😂😂😂
Thee Stallion
Guilty of: none
*shot*
BM: 😂😂😂
Kevin Samuels
Guilty of: misogyny, disrespecting BW
*accidental death*
BW: well anyway…
BM: YOU HOES HAVE NO RESPECT
Math ain’t mathin
What do black women as a whole need to be critiqued for? Y’all say this and also say “black women don’t take accountability.” What are black women doing that y’all want us to be accountable for?
Black women, learn to take criticism. Y’all take everything as an “attack on black women”. It’s okay to learn and grow. It’s also okay to listen to others opinions. You do not know everything and that’s okay.
@coryhall89
@abike1999
The education system that we have today is literally the same exact education system that existed when women weren’t even allowed to go to school. The school system was built for guys. The only thing different now is that women have access to education.
Chris Brown came out with a doc years later like “actually she hit me first” and niggas took that and ran with it…not that they care anyway, but that was their confirmation
I know some people are too young to remember but a lot of people back then didn’t even believe Rih was a victim (& still don’t). People even went as far as blaming her for the abuse she experienced. But this situation reminds me so much of what happened to Rih…
Kevin Samuels said beauty is not subjective it’s based on a mathematical equation and black woman ain’t high on the spectrum. Reminds me of how YTs used science to justify their superiority, using brain size to say the African wasn’t intelligent.
So you admit, young men are trash and have nothing to offer women. That’s why y’all want women with low self esteem and desperate cos this is the only way males can have relationships..
Parents of 20-something men, this is what your son is encountering out here, so if he’s not dating anyone don’t shame him for it. Thoughts on her perspective?
@CriticalBlkMale
@The_Acumen
All men benefit from patriarchy. All Americans benefit from living in America. You can be oppressed and privileged at the same time. As an American I have access to opportunities ppl in less developed countries don’t have. But I’m still oppressed by American systems. Get sense.
@pierrefleury_
Ok, but who is he to hold Black men accountable. Has he spent years studying the Black male condition. Has he reviewed data on the subject, been mentored by a scholar OR did he just wake up and start posting HIS beliefs and observations. Do you, but hold the self righteousness.
The dumb niggas that wanna play victim be using this fact and try to flip it. “NoBoDy CaReD wHeN hE bAsHeD mEn” duhhhh, that’s the point. Who tf wanna watch hours of men bashing? But y’all see him hate women as much as you do and get excited.
Kevin Samuels said out his own mouth 4 years ago that if he bashed women his platform would take off and that men don’t wanna hear the truth. Which is why he switched his content to bashing women.
He. Still. Has. A. Girlfriend. He just thought she wouldn't meet anyone. And now that she has? Oh he's pissed. Their kids are grown and she is out with New Boo 3 or 4 nights a week. Dude also has a grown child & a nice little condo...you get the idea
Had she went viral before she found out everything and just said “I met this man who is a nice kind guy, he wants to marry, and he takes care of me and pays for everything. But something ain’t adding up & I don’t feel good about it.” They would’ve said you can never please women.
She missed the exact same red flags you people have been preaching for people to ignore for years. He was paying all of her bills and not asking her for money. According to the advice givers on here, that’s when she should’ve stopped paying attention.
There’s is nothing y’all hate more than single women living and enjoying life. Y’all want women to sit around and be miserable to continue to push this idea of needing a man. God forbid women live great lives not centered on men.
If women have sex with too many men she’s a whore and unworthy of respect. But if you ain’t fuckin by the 2nd or 3rd date you’re playing games and men shouldn’t deal with you.
@thatsjusmytude
@justKDHN
Considering BW have the highest rates of abuse and the issue with black femicide, the latter clearly doesn’t outweigh the former.
@COFFEESAYY
@keiajahk
Prolly because men are looking for another woman to take care of them. While women just spent years taking care of a man and isn’t looking to do that all over again. Especially if she’s older. But ppl are also still marrying less.
You threw in the word “allowed” to make a point nobody was making. Intentionally creating a family that you can’t provide for is insane. If you barely making ends meet and you purposely go and have children because you want kids that’s dumb and selfish.
No matter how many times we tell y’all saying “poor people shouldn’t have kids” is a form of eugenics yall gone keep on saying it.
“I want to wait until I’m financially stable to have children” is NOT the same as saying “Poor people shouldn’t have kids”
A lot of black
@DonDunItAlll
@___symoneee
Y’all always talking about submission. She gotta submit to poverty? Y’all love gender roles without upholding your end of the deal.
@steesvflo
@Dreadful4Tymes
Some men will kill a mf if they did something they ain’t like to their car…an object. Men will kill over just about anything including killing for no reason at all. This means nothing.
@amarihanifahh
@UdokaOmen
he literally asked a woman her height and told her she was built like a linebacker after she said she was 5’8, that man was an asshole not some caring nigga
This man told me he has a KID. So I responded, “how old are they?” This man gone say, “I have a son. I don’t have a they.”
Yeah and now you don’t have my number because you are blocked.
@coryhall89
@abike1999
Men literally made laws to prevent women from going to school. Now those laws have changed. Men built the system for boys/men. Now that you aren’t succeeding at the rate women are all of a sudden it’s more tailored for women when it was created to keep women out.
@VerginityRocks
@amarihanifahh
@UdokaOmen
Lmao “that was only once” he’s had various instances of disrespecting black women. He also said beauty is based on a math equation and bw ain’t it. And idc if they thanked him a lot of women don’t mess with him, and those women prolly dumb anyway.
It’s not an enjoyable experience and is that bad considering women have died and can die. Women deserve to be informed of what exactly we’re signing up for.
I wish y’all wouldnt psyche yourself out about childbirth like this cause you will never enjoy the experience.. smh i promise these tiktoks be making it seems worse than it is.
Exactly, nothing unfair about women having the final say in if or not the child is born. She carry it, give birth, whatever she choose, oh well deal with it.
And her reasons were men keep emailing her asking her to prove why they need her services. Asking a therapist what they bring to the table is crazy. And here you are mad at her. Y’all need somebody help, just not hers.
She listed her reasons in the og tweet. Maybe it's not insulting to you, but you aren't everybody. And given that this demographic is the most denied when it comes to therapy it's not just about "one therapist"
They know how they gonna treat you based on who they decided they wanna be. Y’all make women responsible for men’s behavior by telling women they weren’t good enough to be respected then men meet the love of their life and run them through the 7 rings of hell.
Men are very observant. they already know just how they gone treat you based off of the mental notes they’ve took to help build their conclusion on the type of woman you are.
This not a good comparison, saying having children isn’t smart if you’re not financially capable don’t mean your rights should be taken away. You have the right to choose what you want, doesn’t mean everybody gonna think that’s a smart choice.
“poor people shouldn’t have children” and “i’m pro choice” can’t occupy the same space. you literally do not believe certain people deserve reproductive rights. i want y’all to be for real.
@Toonz_Dumbass
@ChoclitTale
Men have a system (patriarchy) and a society (misogynistic) backing them that’s inherently corrupted n shows they aren’t here for the purposes they claim which is to protect, so you should also agree to generalize in this instance as well