@JENNontheRocks_
No but seriously though. The only thing that was semi strange was the hoodie... But it was actually really kind of the girl to give someone a sandwich for helping her mount her TV!!!!
Constant reassurance is literally the basis of any healthy relationship.
Reassurance can look like doing what you say you're going to do, calling people to check up on them, keeping plans, making plans, telling people you need space when you're upset, but you still love them
I support women having a public spiral or 3! We used to be locked up for hysteria! So when I see a woman having a public breakdown, I'm glad we're free to be unhinged!
@JENNontheRocks_
Deadass lmao. Even when she says she added everyone to close friends and how she posts thirst traps in public posts!!! Her ex bestie was just mad insecure and didn't know how to manage her jealousy in a way that saves friendships
Or the moral of the story could be that African Americans and Native Americans got really fucked over by white America + there also is model immigrant privilege
My Indian neighbors are a radiologist and phD. They each have multiple siblings who all have advanced degrees too. The moral of this story really is “carry your ass to school and gets some education.”
@sageburnerr
It's the personality part that's strange. But also - I've been traveling a lot lately, and I've noticed that people are more interested in hearing where I went and I'm like... Me getting on a plane doesn't make me interesting. I'm also a self taught artist! That's cooler imo
@Jani__Gee
"heard you got that deep for me, pray your love is deep for me, imma make you go weak for me, make you wait a whole week for me" is going to be my wedding vows tbh
@shOoObz
Foucault talked about the panopticon!!! We're in a digital one, and we're finally able to answer the question "who watches the watchmen?"
It's other watchmen.
I used to think men going to therapy was unequivocally a good thing; I've learned that some men use the therapy language to justify being bad fucking people.
@ceciATL
Fear that the person will leave, fear that they'll be "taken," fear that we won't be "enough," fear that it won't be enough, fear that others will judge us, fear that we won't find better, fear that there is better.
A lot of y'all are not people I would want to be friends with. Y'all seem really unkind and that you use your friendships/intimate relationships as a way to bully others to feel better about yourself
The idea of my femininity being validated by a person (particularly a man) taking charge sounds like me signing up for a parole officer. A prison. A nightmare
i don’t get into the idea of a submissive or weak femininity at all lol. i don’t feel my most feminine when im being told what to do. i don’t want to turn my brain off and be led. i feel most feminine when im listening to myself, trusting myself, leading myself
Heartbreak really reminds you that you're alive omg.
I'm really feeling the weight of being human; but because I believe love is a worthwhile burden and I'm worthy of love, I'm going to carry myself through this.
Reading the replies have been so intriguing, because it's revealed (1) people's value system (2) the heuristics that exist on this app (3) the lack of curiosity/people's desire to be "right" and (4) that there are some people who do understand some of what I'm saying
Ppl do you dirty and then want you to (1) "have shame" (which is a silly construct) or (2) react in a way that doesn't paint them negatively.
I feel like as long as you aren't lying + being factual about your experience... What's the problem?
why do ppl expect you to be quiet about your hurt or their actions toward you? idc who sees or hears it. screenshots it. make a scrapbook of it. gossip about it. idc. my hurt, anger, sadness.. my experience is valid and it’s mine. i don’t have to stfu & be silent about anything
@PayAlleria
@ask_aubry
Yeah like... I get not liking the British because they're legit colonizers. But then don't date one????? Also her saying "what if I talked about Mexicans" lets me know she don't get racism😭
I think selfies are so cool, especially when women take selfies of themselves. The idea that we can (1) be our own muse and (2) exercise control over our perception and (3) play a curatorial role in our objectification? That's dope
I understand the fear of getting hurt, but I hate being around people who want you to audition for their love, affection, and respect.
Those be the niggas who put you through secret tests and harshly punish you for failing.
Omg what if Eric dies this season? He's on drugs, he's drinking, he's single, and now he's mentoring Rob - who literally chooses the worst fucking mentors
#IndustryHBO
I did feel bad for Drake’s baby mother cause he framed her as being a lowlife and a mistake and I’m like naur buddy you a lowlife too this is who you are. Y’all equally yoked
Maybe because I’ve been poor, the idea of staying away from someone because their family is poor is crazy to me. Especially as a Black American. Poor but making a way is just like, life.
@platformedboots
It's terrifying!!! Her being so involved and acting like she's doing this out of benevolence.
There are some people in this world who LIVE to hear other people's mess because it makes them feel better. It's yucky
thank you
@theestallion
for your hard work. Black women have always been on the forefront of civil rights movements. we need to mobilize against Aubrey. he's a threat to the Black community!
Sure, but food and drinks in other countries are less processed and less inflammatory than US food.
It's very common for people to leave the USA, go to other countries, eat a lot of food, and lose weight because their foods are cleaner
She lied to herself (lots of people do) and put on the freshman 15 plus a few more pounds. Likely from snacking and eating quick serve foods without recognizing the difference in calorie density
@xoBeanxo_
They don't! And they also have internalized messages that their needs aren't important/too much, so they're afraid to speak up and depend on others.
well, why would I want to be around someone who is delighting about being "right" when I'm in pain/hurting? of course it hurts when people pour salt in your wounds.
@Jani__Gee
Health benefits. Especially as women! When we get older, our estrogen levels decrease and our muscle mass decreases!
As a result, we become weaker, more frail, and our risk of osteoporosis skyrocket!
We should be concerned about building our muscle mass to reduce our risk
Yep. As an aside, that's why I'm wary of men who call themselves "doms." In BDSM, the subs give the doms power.
However, a lot of "doms" just want the opportunity to abuse people and get away with it
I listened to this podcast some years ago that talked about the sexual depravity that happens in circles of the elite having little to do with sex and more to do with power/novelty/invincibility and pushing the psychological limits of what they can experience and get away with.
@sageburnerr
That's so cool!!! A lot of people aren't traveling to do that. Next time I go to France, I wanna take a fencing class there because why TF not
Eric is gaslighting the fuck out of his friend who has brain cancer in a bid for power. He's such a bad fucking person. He's who he wants Harper to think she is omg.
#Industry
Girls get in a happy relationship and now can't understand why there are women who h*te men😭 like plz!
we have lost reproductive rights, podcast guys, passport bros, men like Jonah hill... Sick stuff lmao
I've also eaten 150 crawfish in one sitting. I really don't understand how people are saying "how can you eat 50 oysters in one sitting?"
folks don't be real eaters.
I do not dream of climbing the corporate ladder and proving my intelligence and diligence to everyone... If you don't know I'm brilliant, that's on you.
I just wanna rest and do art and be beautiful and dance