Today a stranger told me that I seem to have that “old school love and loyalty that is rare to find” - this has had to be one of the best compliments I’ve received 🥺 bc it’s something I take pride in.
I’ll never understand men who follow random girls on IG, most of whom don’t even follow the men back - yet these same guys are lookin for a wife or are already married.
How are married women ok w their husbands doing this?
Wouldn’t be my future husband.
So I made a comment about the fact that I love my car bc it’s naturally aspirated v6, not a turbo - and now I realize why guys become my bros instead of potential suitors. Greattttt.
The only one stopping you from doing ANYTHING is you. No family, no relationship, nothing.
You’re responsible for your healing, maintaining your relationships, & your self care.
It’s easy to blame the closest thing to you.
But remember - the closest thing to you is yourself.
@karnsidhu_
@jasleen_toor24
She’s mad because y’all are ignorant. Walking into the Gurudwara yet preaching caste. It made sense years ago. But it doesn’t mean anything now. Keep your discrimination to yourself. It’s not culture. It’s an identity crisis. Our last name doesn’t define our heart and mind.
Not only do I want to experience things that heal my inner child, I want to experience things that heal my teenage years and my early adult years as well.
From the cheesiest to the most intense love - I want it all.
In the form of family, friends, and a partner and kids.
a lie is a lie - no matter how small. and it’s the fastest way to make me feel indifferent about someone. especially if I have to learn about it from someone else.
no lie is worth losing my respect over, especially since i am so understanding of the truth.
It is sooo important to recognize the ACTUAL impact your actions have on others, regardless of your intention.
Emotional intelligence includes personally holding yourself accountable for the negative impact you have on others (within reason of course).
executive dysfunction is so real
The way I practice getting out of my ADHD funk is by making small deals with myself.
Work with your body. Not against it.
Don’t punish yourself. Reward yourself proportionally to your task.
Add more tasks each day until this becomes a routine.
basic emotions wouldnt be so exhausting for people if they stopped lying to themselves & others
Its more exhausting to lie/withhold than it is to be honest/communicate
Its more exhausting to deal w ppl when they sense a lie than it is to deal w their reactions to the truth
Imposter syndrome is quite common professionally, especially within the brown community. It’s OKAY to acknowledge your worth/knowledge!
The problem occurs when women (& men) use imposter syndrome as an excuse in their personal life. It can hinder introspection/emotional growth.
Men are so convinced they suffer in silence meanwhile it’s actually everybody around them that bears the brunt of their emotions. It almost always visibly reflects on how they treat people
basically you can meet a narcissist in any situation - not just in a romantic sense but within a friend group or work environments.
that’s why it’s hard to notice it. Bc we expect it in romantic relationships. But nopeeee. could end up being your ‘best friend’ of 10yrs.
@parmvirgrewal_
so idk why I can’t find any pics of mintu other than stuff I need to fix 😂 so here’s mintu in 2019. But he’s holding up well - he reminded me this morning on the 405 😎
hiaau na kaihee thaahe, maanak sabh amolvay. ||129||
Do not break anyone's heart; these are all priceless jewels. ||129||
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je tao pireeaa di sikh, hiaau na thaahe kahee da. ||130||
If you desire your Beloved, then do not break anyone's heart. ||130||
yo how could I not see that? I recently experienced the most COVERT narcissistic personality disorder ever. in the name of “imposter syndrome”. holy poooop.
dsm5 reference of NPD for my nerds.
• know your audience.
• understand the way your audience best receives information.
• adjust how you speak accordingly.
these are key steps to connect with and lead almost any person or group you interact with.
@SamuraiLife369
Wouldn’t say ones nicer than the other 🤷🏻♀️ real reason is that I lost a lot of my hair when I fell sick for a few yrs, so I cut it to one length so that it would finally grow back evenly.