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@_QueenLibra_242

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Findom 💅🏾💵 Traveler. Self-care queen. Nerd. Free Spirit.

Joined October 2011
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@_QueenLibra_242
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🔥Had a blast #hotgirlsummertour Megan and Glorilla did their thing! ❤️🐍
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Women were always meant to be the leaders. Men are to provide labor at the instruction of women. Women are much more powerful and wise but their empathy was used against them and years of violence and brainwashing allowed many to be swindled.
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Controversial opinions y’all have as a women?
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Dental and vision being separate from our health insurance is absolutely wild when you think about it lol
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@_QueenLibra_242
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Yes, actually. Women should follow the rest of females in nature and refuse to mate with losers. Their bloodline should end with them.
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y’all gotta stop acting like you’re doing men a favour by giving birth. “males don’t deserve children”. so you would rather the human species goes extinct right?
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I’ve learned to not resent this but to be grateful I have the ability and opportunity to.
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investing in yourself is actually so expensive.
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I don't care how independent I can be, how many degrees I get, or what I make...I still want your money too.
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Women are not playing anymore and I love it.
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I am not a “strong black woman.” I am a delicate flower who should be treated as such. 😌 Spoken to gently and cared for while my intelligence is still respected. Thank you. Lol
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Men who act like you have to earn good treatment are to be avoided at all cost lol
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Your tactics are no longer working the way they once did. Not even the slut shaming is hitting the same. Women all over the world are waking up. The time has come.
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Having a degree(s) and a decent job/money does not make you a good person or someone who’s ready for a healthy relationship. Folks be arrogant, insecure, no personality, etc. because they believe those things make them “high value” and just ignore the need for therapy/inner work.
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@_QueenLibra_242
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And if you're a black woman there's a VERY high chance you've been trained to believe asking for better = greedy and entitled. The sick irony is, this is how you end up struggling and becoming bitter--you'll realize others aren't playing by those rules. They just want YOU to.
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You really don’t even have to ask real men for help. They offer it. They want to solve the problem so you aren’t stressed or sad.
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@_QueenLibra_242
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As a woman you have to realize that sometimes “choose better” means to choose nobody. Build community. Choose yourself. Can’t ever go wrong there.
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Cuz big dick energy says I want you to be comfortable and have what you need/want. BDE isn't stingy and it ain't cheap. It does not come with a lack mindset. It's always giving protector and provider. It's not insecure.
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I realized a while back that I simply did not desire male companionship enough to tolerate the things many women tolerate. For some it's worth it. For me, it is not. I also accepted that if that meant I wasn't a "good woman", "ride or die", etc. I was okay with that.
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Shoutout to my female ancestors that were wild women. I know it’s in the blood.
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@_QueenLibra_242
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It’s very dangerous to teach young girls they need to always be nice to people no matter what. Teach them to be strategic.
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If he wants a traditional woman + you working like a modern woman you already know it's a setup. Run. lol
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Halloween tings 🧡🖤
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@_QueenLibra_242
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As soon as you see/feel someone has no empathy for you…get outta there. exit. swiftly. Like, immediately.
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Religion was a major tool used to brainwash women and black people. Women can truly step into their power when they step away from that. You control and create your life.
@yesgirlboo2
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Controversial opinions y’all have as a women?
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You should hear how men sound--like they're looking for a free maid, therapist, and mother. Sounds like they need to be charged like they're in the strip club to me.
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I wish women could really hear themselves talk about the dating standards they set. It’s like dating a stripper.
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Gunna said he ain’t a simp, ya money just shrimp. I have to stan. Lmao 🤣
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I reallyyyy want more women to get comfortable asking for what they want, speaking up when they don’t like something, and being willing to walk away when what is offered isn’t enough
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Other women: "Omg I cannot ask for stuff. I don't see how ya'll do it. I can't take something from a dude like that. I feel like I'm responsible for all my expenses." Me:
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If you really wanna get ya feelings hurt then get into a verbal war with a libra(or air sign period), a taurus, or virgo. These are the people who will violate you the worst. lol
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I think alotta women get sexier as they enter their 30s+ because there's this level of self-assuredness and unapologetic, "I said what I said" energy that shines through. 🙌🏾🔥
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If an Air sign ever lets you even THINK you won the battle just know it’s because they’re gearing up to win the war 😂
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The way air sign women talk to people when they dgaf is the most diabolical, ruthless thing you’ll ever see—very reckless mouth lmao 🤣 Dem words be lethal
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People who show up for themselves and have high standards for themselves often have high standards for the people they allow in their lives. It honestly makes sense why some accept whatever. They don't require or think much of themselves to begin with.
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@_QueenLibra_242
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The jokes about women accomplishing so much post breakup are funny but there is so much truth to them. If your passion, education, and goals were truly your focus you would be blown away by what you can achieve in your life. Women underestimate the time and energy they give away.
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Imma be honest…soon as a guy starts sounding like he’s scorned and is afraid of being used by a woman I start getting turned off and checking out. Happy, healed tricks only. Lmao Not about to stress me out trying to ‘test’ whether I like you for you—bye sir.
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@_QueenLibra_242
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As a woman, you’ll find it much easier to walk away from things and people when you realize your worth and success isn’t tied to ANYTHING outside of you. Never believe something is your only option or last chance. It’s not. No one holds the keys but you.
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💙 Going with this
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“A woman who asks for nothing gets everything.” No. She gets this. THIS is the reality. Don’t ever listen to people who call standards ‘begging’ or try to convince you shutting up and accepting whatever makes you a “good woman.”
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@_QueenLibra_242
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Women gotta get out of the “guess I’ll take what I can get” mindset. No. It’s okay to want better. It’s okay to leave the table when you’re not satisfied with what’s being offered. In work or relationships. Stop letting fear hold you hostage.
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Very sad to watch women try to convince themselves they don’t want certain things because deep down they don’t believe they can actually get it
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Always the mood ✨
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Life gets much easier as a woman when you learn to prioritize yourself and always consider what's most beneficial for YOU. Most women have been wired to do it the other way around and it's no wonder they end up stressed and depressed.
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More women are waking up and refusing to sign up for struggle. You love to see it.
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Men decided to hoard resources and put barriers in place for women to depend on them so women should absolutely be charging. Nothing honorable about getting played & having nothing to show for it. lol
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Bitches turned dating into prostitution
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It's so interesting (disgusting) how they freely talk about women like this but then turn around and call women who require money whores lol it's really something
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Idk I get rich I’m bending Angela Basset over ASAP
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I love all the picky women with “unrealistic” expectations and high standards lol A breath of fresh air in a world where most are too scared to ask for shit
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@_QueenLibra_242
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Remember...it's never that they don't believe in tricking--they usually just don't have the money lmao If they did this is EXACTLY what most would do
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Women usually speak on things that are happening regularly and I find alot of men use rare cases, hypothetical situations, and imagined scenarios to make their point about the opposite sex being terrible. Logical gender my ass. lol
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@_QueenLibra_242
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And see ladies...they admit they show their interest and intention by spending so you're not wrong for getting gone if they won't open their purse. lol Evidence RIGHT HERE.
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Every Nigga don’t be broke .. you just not the bitch a mf wanna spend they money on 😂😂😂
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You don't always need to have some big, serious conversation with people who don't show up for you. Simply being unavailable, no longer allowing them to dump on you, or extract from you will cause things to dry up naturally because then you're no longer of use.
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I learned that if people view you as someone who belongs to a privileged class/group, they’re likely NOT going to have as much empathy when you talk about certain struggles. To them, that privilege outweighs everything so save it for people who can relate or care.
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Nope. Glad the girls are getting straight to the point if that’s what they want. A dude will sleep with you and knock you up in less time. 🤷🏽‍♀️
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Asking a man to pay for your hair, nails, lashes, & bills that you’ve only known for 7 hrs isn’t weird to y’all????
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We’ve all heard “if you couldn’t call him in an emergency then you shouldn’t be laying with him.” That still rings true. And I still love “A wet 🐱 and a dry purse don’t go together” lmao The grannies/aunties ate with that one 😂
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All that "I gotta know she real before I start doing nice things for her" is a big no. No woman that's been treated well + has high self esteem is going for that so you can quit while you're ahead. lol 😂
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Birthday depression is very real and I just want folks to know it’s normal and okay to just have a day to yourself or plan exactly what you want for the day. Or do nothing but relax.
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Ya’ll….they are LOSING it. Spiraling. Shook. Panicking! Shaking in their boots! Projecting their fear of ending up alone onto women. Lmao
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Let me tell you the problem I have...many people, even some black women themselves, don't believe a woman is worthy of love or a nice life unless she is "hardworking" and always self-sacrificing. And I simply do not agree.
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Currently: In The Bahamas acting like a tourist 🇧🇸 lol ☺️🌴🍹
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Unfortunately, a lot of women want to close their ears and go 👉🏾La-la-la👈🏾 when married/divorced women/single mothers tell their story because they still want to believe it won’t happen to them and prefer a fairytale. Wise women learn from the mistakes of others.
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Major safety tip:
@SasTheAss
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on solo trips, I don't even tell anyone I'm alone. Not even the hotel staff
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This is actually not true and I wish women would stop saying it. I'm starting to think it's just an excuse to keep dealing with losers.
@_50kgold
liv. — señorita soul snatcher ❤️‍🔥
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Good dick don’t come from good men. Idc. Idc.
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They want women to believe they peak and are “in their prime” early in life when the truth is you’ll look and feel great if you take care of yourself ✨🤌🏾
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Convincing women romantic love is most important when it's actually the least reliable was the real scam lol
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That fact that society has convinced us women finding love in their EARLY 30's is "late" is fucking INSANE.
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My tits bother you? -Rihanna #CarefreeBlackGirl2017
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More proof they know they need money and they will spend it on who they really want when they get it lol
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Now why is Christ in it?
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Every day I realize more and more how women end up with certain men and in certain situations…
@JulietCObodo
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I accidentally made my date cry. He told me that he wished he could just move past his childhood loneliness. So I walked him through an inner child healing exercise. He started bawling at the table. I think he’s the one 🥰 Questions below:
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I’m a Barbie girl, in a Barbie world ☺️🎀🌸👛💅🏾 Me 🤝 All things pink and girly
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Reaching the age/stage of life where you don’t want even one speaking to you>>>
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This is why I said insecure men literally envision scenarios that’ll make them furious for absolutely no reason at all lmao
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People joke "women go through a break up and get degrees, buy a house, start a business..." but don't truly make the connection. When we focus our energy, creativity, and time for our betterment the possibilities are endless.
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Women are so creative and we waste it by focusing on men and how to appease them.
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I'm fine admitting women are not perfect but I'm not talking shit about my fellow women for male approval. Can't get jiggy with it. Keep that mess from 'round me.
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The more direct and honest you become the more you realize how conflict avoidant and passive aggressive many people are
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I try to only hire women when I need something done. Web designer? Woman. Photographer? Woman. And I don't feel bad about it at all. I rather put money in another woman's pocket any day.
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If you are a woman who strives to live a certain lifestyle/look a certain way—just keep your plans to yourself. Only share when you’re sure you’re in the company of like minded, equally confident people.
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Women be scared to look mean, selfish, shallow, greedy, etc. and I promise you worrying about what other broke mfs think is gonna have you right there busted and disgusted with them lol The real ones will relate + respect you prioritizing yourself and being assertive
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Unfortunately, you cannot rely on men to leave you alone when they know YOU want more and they just want a good time. The truth is, they'll allow you to stick around and waste your time so YOU have to value your time and energy & be willing to leave.
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More women need to be asking “what’s in it for me?” and stop feeling bad about prioritizing themselves/practicing self preservation. Stop fearing losing people or letting folks make you feel guilty for doing what’s best for you.
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It’s important for women to remember that even when it comes to the ones you think are decent…men are still men. When their misogyny creeps out and shows itself do not be surprised. Lol
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I said it before and I'll say it again--women entertain men who shouldn't even be allowed to breathe near them and then they become arrogant and forget they were never deserving. We gotta end that. lol
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Now that women want something in return for their time and energy dating is "too transactional" lmao Chile please
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“Well don’t share your opinion if you don’t want people to comment on it. This is an open plat....” *blocked* Now it’s closed.
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Contrary to popular belief we women DO get cut off for just wanting to have sex/fun with a man. I thought ya'll said ya'll like that kinda arrangement? 🥺😓🤣
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When I say women are more at risk of having their income affected due to often being the primary caregiver(research backs it) THIS is what I mean. And it’s why I say: never feel bad for requiring you be provided for.
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I got fired from my job cuz Yuki had a runny nose yesterday so she couldn’t go to daycare. The company owner said I had too many inconveniences in my 90 probation period. The inconveniences being my child getting sick and my boyfriend getting a kidney transplant. So book with me!
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Ladies do not be afraid to ask “What’s in it for me?” Stop acting like you can’t be kind and still have sense. “It’s just the way my heart set up I can’t…” Yes tf you can. lol Stand up. That ain’t ya damn heart—that’s fear and not knowing your worth.
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You gotta know yourself and make peace with it. lol No one can make you feel a way once you're in that space.
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People say all this stuff about women getting older but I feel like I’m only getting finer, happier, more confident, and more paid 🙃
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I think people forget Libra is the sister sign of Aries. They turn up quick but we turn up HARD. We’re like the nerd at school that will knock all this shit over and surprise you when you fuck with us. lol
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Wizkid concert💚🤍
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👇🏾 See how they can never be consistent? You’re dumb if you get nothing else out the deal and a prostitute/gold digger/user if you DO. They switch sides depending on the situation to shame you regardless.
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Ya'll saw how the second one came crawling in at the end too?? I was like there's more!?
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I fear this “get the bag” culture we have now has caused many to hyperfixate on money/school/career accomplishments and neglect the internal work
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@_QueenLibra_242
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Stop putting joy and fun on hold. There may not be a later. Handle your business but make sure you're making time to enjoy your life.
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Men don't choose you off of potential. (unless they're a groomer or something) They have to at least be satisfied enough with the current version of you. So ask yourself why you feel the need to take on someone you know is a far cry from what you want.
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@_QueenLibra_242
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Did not expect to come back to all these mentions but if you disagree--I don't need to hear about it. You're only getting blocked. No response, just blocked. Because that's what losers deserve. lol I do not care what you think.
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One of the things that comes with being opinionated and ahead of the game is accepting that you will get heat for things that people will come to realize down the road. You gotta be willing to stand ten toes down even when it's just you standing.
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Black women mind your business. Don’t be out here wearing yourself out trying to fight/be the voice for everyone. Trust me, life is much more lovely, prosperous, and stress free on this side. Focus on you.
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And this lovely woman says she didn’t expect a gift but at least a call or text. Now ya’ll see what we been saying—expect/require little and you will get even LESS.
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