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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
2 years
a nap & shower is fasho a DATE. y’all just too hyper-sexual to have those kinds of dates because y’all lack discipline. y’all think a date is just going out to eat & it’s NOT. a date is whatever the two parties involved make it to be. y’all make everything about SEX, LITERALLY.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
I stopped mugging BLACK MEN back that mugged me & started greeting them instead & it’s amazing how INSTANTLY their demeanors change. Black men, Ik we’ve been conditioned to greet each other egregiously, but I REFUSE to pass that toxic masculinity down to my sons…!
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
y’all ever just be craving intimacy sometimes? not sex, but INTIMACY?!
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
2 years
there’s NO criteria when it comes to dating, it’s SUBJECTIVE. therefore, a “date” is whatever the two parties involved make it. I’m not saying y’all are wrong, this isn’t just y’all preference of a date, but to others it fasho can be… it’s not about SEX or MONEY.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
y’all give up way too easy & lose interest way too fast…
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
I need a massage, some head & a break from life…
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
self-love really preserves relationships.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
staying out the way keeps my mental health at ease…
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
2 years
EMOTIONALLY, i understand why you FEEL this way. however, LOGICALLY they don’t owe their parents anything. they didn’t ask to be here & neither did they tell you to give up on YOUR dreams. that was a sacrifice that you CHOSE to make!
@cliff_ohio
Mr. Zoe ♌️ 🇭🇹
2 years
Imagine you worked 2 jobs , gave up on your dreams and pushed yourself to exhaustion for almost 20 years just to see your gen z idiot child tweet that “you don’t owe your parents anything”
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
2 years
& for those that keep saying, “it’s called quality time not a date…” DATES are spending QUALITY time w each other, there is NO difference between the two. idk what y’all be talking about sometimes, but continue…
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
because they’ve programmed us to put THEIR business FIRST before our WELL-BEING.
@itspeterlay
Peter Lay
3 years
Why does “calling in sick” feel like a crime? 🧐
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
2 years
to those attacking ME & not the topic i understand you’re programmed to society-standards of what a “DATE” is, but it’s SUBJECTIVE. you’ve been misled. hopefully one day you’ll be open-minded enough to LIVE YOUR LIFE FOR YOU & not according to how you’ve been conditioned to…
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
I used to think that trusting ppl was my problem, when really trusting myself was the issue. giving ppl second chances when I should’ve trusted myself enough not to. fool me once, shame on you. fool me twice, shame on me type shit. I’ll accept that accountability wholeheartedly.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
4 years
When she’s opened minded, but stand firm on what she believes in >>>> BALANCE.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
seeing all these women enhancing their bodies make me APPRECIATE the REAL 1s MORE! The cellulite, & tiger stripes… LOVE IT.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
never understood the whole “friends w benefits” concept. If I like you ENOUGH to give you MY body, I rather just be w you exclusively. cus what we not gone do is SLUT each other out, then b weird to each other afterwards lbs…
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
there’s sooooooo many women that haven’t EXPERIENCED GENUINE INTIMACY! they’ve just been out hurr getting cracked on their backs—SMH. I truly want better for y’all! Y’all DESERVE wayyyyy BETTER!
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
I’m just tryna b in a better place MENTALLY, PHYSICALLY & SPIRITUALLY & WILL. In due time...
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
2 years
i LOVE women w STYLE. & when i say STYLE, i don’t mean wearing a bunch of designer shit. im talm bout the women that really COORDINATE their fit. the women that really PUT THAT SHIT ON! like, you can tell it’s IN THEM, not on them, even tho it’s ON THEM! it’s a difference. 🔥
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
I’m clingy AF, but love my space AF.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
I’m a firm believer in living within my MEANS, if i ain’t got it… I ain’t got it & I’m content w that. sometimes you gotta b GRATEFUL for what you HAVE & APPRECIATE what you LACK. you can’t have it all…
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
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BIG SEXYY had me feeling real NOSTALGIC because the whole show felt like those HOUSE-PARTIES i used to go to growing up! it was dope to see Chingy a STL STAPLE! 🐐 & Blakeiana sexy af in person! 😩😮‍💨🤤🔥she UP NEXT fasho! 10/10 show!!!! 🙌🏾
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
I see why there’s so many failed relationships when it comes to this generation, bc a lot of y’all don’t believe in RECIPROCITY.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
2 years
she’s not wrong, ppl gotta stop being so possessive over ppl that they’re no longer w. it’s ILLOGICAL. you have NO control over your friends/exes. they’re entitled to do as they please. i know it FEELS disloyal, but it’s NOT. FREE yourself from that FALSE-SENSE of entitlement.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
gaslighting is such a funny thing, you can CONSISTENTLY pursue someone & SHOW your INVESTMENT in them & they’ll TRY to make you feel CRAZY by saying, “you don’t want me fr.” PROJECTION at its finest. NO, you don’t want me fr. ppl will string you along as long as you hold on…
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
2 years
i GENUINELY LOVE when ppl keep it REAL w me & not compromise their INTEGRITY to protect MY feelings. that’s GANGSTA.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
4 years
Y’all niggas really b treating y’all gals like PROPERTY. 🥴
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
4 years
If y’all not bettering each other, y’all wasting each other time.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
4 years
I’m a firm believer in BALANCE With that being said... If I can’t SLUT you out & treat you like QUEEN... you ain’t for me.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
2 years
when they attack you & not the topic, that’s called PROJECTION.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
this chapter of my life is called, ACCEPTANCE. accepting those for who they are & accepting things that i can’t control.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
If talking to your s/o errday is “too much” for you, you should b single. y’all ain’t gotta SEE each other errday, but y’all fasho should tap in w each other ERRDAY.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
stop avoiding your feelings & suppressing YOUR emotional intelligence, you’re doing yourself a disservice…
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
Ain’t nun like having a PARTNER that you can BUILD w...
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
damn LOVE ain’t in style nomo? seem like ERRBODY chasing LUST.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
Can’t b out hurr fumbling good women, ain’t too many of em left.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
once my social battery start running low, I go GHOST…
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
2 years
the WORST part of relationships for me, is when you KNOW is over because it’s literally out of your control & the vibe just OFF! i be SICK AF, wishing i can be delusional, but shit be TOO REAL to even FAKE it…
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
you know what’s funny? ppl will dislike you for staying to yourself because they can’t figure you out, BUT they’re not even genuinely INVESTED in getting to know YOU, they just wanna know you. weird right?
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
If you don’t do NOTHING else today— MIND. YA. BUSINESS.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
y’all gotta stop misconstruing “chasing” w COURTING. chasing someone MEANS, you’re pursuing someone that doesn’t SHARE that same INTEREST as you. if the interest is MUTUAL, it’s a courtship.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
4 years
You know what’s weird? Grown ppl not knowing how to communicate their feelings. Grown ppl ghosting ppl & trying to justify it by saying they don’t owe you an explanation. Now that ladies & gentlemen is WEIRD.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
this woman so beautiful, yet that’s an understatement, BUT she’s also very LAYERED & have so much SUBSTANCE to her. if you’re not tapped n/ w your highest-self all you’ll see is her BEAUTY cus you’re driven by EGO & LUST. she’s cut from a CLOTH that can’t be BOUGHT.
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DA LOU
3 years
I truly believe some ppl forget to continue to love themselves while being in a relationship…
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
sometimes you gotta show a mf how much you love them & LEAVE.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
anytime i pursue a woman, i always ask if they’re AVAILABLE & what i mean by that is… are you able to prioritize someone else besides yourself w/o compromising making yourself a PRIORITY???
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
We’ve been so programmed to compete w one another that some of us apply it to our relationships & work against our PARTNER rather than working w them, which is why BUILDING seems so obsolete. Please UNLEARN that.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
I really wanna learn how to be a parent thru my kids… I don’t want to recycle the same parenting that was passed down to me bc that would only strip them of their individualities. There’s no blueprint to parenting so I think the best thing you can do is…
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
2 years
mannn y’all women/men need to stop being so SUPERFICIAL because the materialistic things & money don’t MOVE errbody! some women/men want SUBSTANCE cus all that SUPERFICIAL shit y’all bringing to the table they do for themselves. y’all ain’t showing them shit they ain’t seen b4.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
the ESSENCE of dating is LOST nowadays… when did texting/ talking OTP become obsolete?! ppl are so possessive, attaching EXCLUSIVITY to ppl they’re not EXCLUSIVE w. & this FALSE-SENSE of entitlement, expecting ERRDAY pull ups. that’s PURE LUST. what happened to the SUBSTANCE?!
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
I really love self-aware individuals. I should never have to tell you about YOU.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
nothing wrong w missing someone even if you KNOW the feeling isn’t mutual. however, persevere your ENERGY for those that GAF about YOU & stop investing it where it’s not VALUED. w discipline comes CLARITY & eventually that “feeling” will fade…
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
i remember i told this one gal this & she put her hand over my mouth & said, “shut up. this what you wanted right?” lesson learned. CAREFUL WHAT YOU ASK FOR!
@Wuggaaaaa_
PLAY MAKER ♡
3 years
Him : stop i’m bout to nut Me :
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DA LOU
3 years
so, Russell Wilson is a “square” because he’s COMFORTABLE being his AUTHENTIC-SELF??? y’all done been so conditioned to ppl portraying to be someone they’re not, y’all don’t know what’s REAL NOMO. when in ACTUALITY, that’s “SQUARE” behavior. portraying someone you’re NOT…
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
2 years
a woman sexual past prior to her marriage has NOTHING to do w her not wanting to give her partner sex on a regular basis. BAD CORRELATION. y’all really have to stop attaching ENTITLEMENT to MONOGAMY because yet & STILL NOBODY OWE you shit that they don’t want to give you!
@MamaTea_
Mama T 🌿
2 years
It's "sexual liberation" until you married now it's "He shouldn't expect for me to sleep with him on a regular basis" nobody told you to wear yourself out in these streets to begin with, now you don't feel like it with the man you're supposed to spend the rest of your life with??
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
4 years
If you fw ppl that VALUE their time, they’ll value your time bc wasting your time is wasting their time.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
society has programmed us to have this FALSE sense of entitlement when it comes to ppl doing what’s BEST for THEM at our EXPENSE—which ultimately blurred our LOGIC & led us to be emotionally-driven…
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
There’s ppl that stroke ya ego to manipulate you, then there’s ppl that stroke ya ego to massage ya soul. Careful who you let consume you...
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
so many ppl skip the platonic level before the relationship, which is why those relationships never end amicably bc y’all never had an FOUNDATION to begin w…
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
I feel like every man that quote this should speak for themselves, for (perspective purposes) for the women… For me, having a quantity of women definitely gave me a FALSE sense of security, my ego was fed, but soul was EMPTY. I’ll never neglect my core like that again.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
4 years
Some ppl feel so unwanted inside that they do things for a WANTED response. Such as ghosting ppl, hoping that someone blow up their phone & make them feel WANTED. Relying on others to stroke their EGO bc they’re too hollow inside to stroke their own...
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
it’s so disgusting out hurr, if i choose to INVEST my TIME into someone, it’s because i GENUINELY want to be w them. casual-sex way too saturated nowadays to be lying just to kick it.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
2 years
being apologetic as a parent is very IMPERATIVE because it teaches kids ACCOUNTABILITY.
@Kyla_Lacey
Kyla Jenée Lacey
2 years
Having a mother that can apologize to her kids is a big flex for me.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
I’m very transparent when it comes to my vulnerability—wearing my HEART on my sleeve has always been therapeutic for me.
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DA LOU
4 years
Mutually moving on w/o bad blood >>>
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
ppl w no since of self awareness will always waste your time. If they don’t know themselves, how TF they know what they want?!
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
i LOVE socially-awkward women that’s COMFORTABLE in their social- awkwardness…
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
2 years
that’s why YOU gotta be ya own safe space/ peace.
@Tsu_Surf
Tsu’Ca Doncic
2 years
The corny part about makin somebody ya SafeSpace/Peace ….. they can take it away, whenever….. I’ll feel safe when I’m DeaD.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
some ppl purposely misunderstand you because they don’t want to ACCEPT you for YOU. their perception is their “REALITY”
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
4 years
Mfs b at WAR w themselves thats why they b so argumentative.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
2 years
some ppl will ALWAYS label you as the villain in their story because that’s their way of deflecting accountability. I’m ok w that tho because err bed I’ve made, I’ve laid in it comfortably. idc how delusional someone CHOOSE to be, their PERCEPTION will never be MY REALITY.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
body been craving INTIMACY lately…
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
2 years
I’ll never have SYMPATHY/EMPATHY for someone that deflects ACCOUNTABILITY & lie to themselves just to paint others as the VILLAIN… NO, LIVE IN YOUR FUCKING TRUTH & OWN THAT SHIT!!! stop projecting & deflecting cus you’ll never HEAL & won’t GROW!!!
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
at this point in my life, i just want connectivity, EMOTIONALLY, PHYSICALLY & SPIRITUALLY. i don’t have the ENERGY for meaningless CASUAL relationships. i NEED SUBSTANCE. I’m done INVESTING my SOUL where it’s not VALUED.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
cellulite too. 😌
@Intuitivempress
ꫀꪜꪖ
3 years
Stretch marks are sexy asf
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
definitely finna try to gaslight you… SICK.
@bigni314
Ni.
3 years
When they answer a question with a question they’re about to lie
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
self-sabotaging is so ASININE to me now. just because something FEELS personal, doesn’t mean LOGICALLY it’s PERSONAL. ppl actions towards me will never DEFINE me. that’s a reflection of THEIR CHARACTER. Im learning projection is very contagious.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
ya body will really talk to you, all you gotta do is LISTEN.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
idk why ppl want mfs to HUMBLE themselves just because they’re insecure about themselves… ERRBODY should be “full of themselves” if you ask me.
@Tsu_Surf
Tsu’Ca Doncic
3 years
In the 10% of America when it comes to earnings. No handouts. Took everything they got. We gotta be ass kissers if we ain’t Drake, Durk or a migo. 😩 our fans be the BIGGEST down fall why we not farther.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
4 years
Procrastination is just another word for ANXIETY...
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
2 years
just because you AVOID attachment doesn’t mean you’ve mastered DETACHMENT. mastering DETACHMENT requires SELF-LOVE. ppl that possess SELF-LOVE isn’t AVOIDING ATTACHMENT because DETACHMENT is INEVITABLE once their BOUNDARIES are compromised.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
close mouths don’t get FED, if you want something— SAY IT. & if he/she don’t feel like you’re WORTHY of it, GO WHERE YOU’RE VALUED.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
I don’t care what my shorty have & what she doesn’t cus we’re going to BUILD regardless, mfs wayyy too superficial nowadays…
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
i hate when folks use that “respectfully” term to justify their passive aggressiveness behavior… just say that shit w ya CHEST & stand on it!
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
I love admitting when I’m wrong, or when someone prove me wrong cus w ACCOUNTABILITY comes GROWTH.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
i don’t GAF who don’t accept ME for being ME, BLACK or YT. that’s not going to stop ME from being ME… a lot of ppl have yet to ACCEPT themselves, so why would i expect them to ACCEPT ME???!
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DA LOU
3 years
It’s very draining approaching err relationship w ya guard up, you gotta KNOW when & when not to play defense. & if you’re unsure, you probably have some more HEALING to do…
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DA LOU
2 years
ppl that commit suicide are the STRONGEST ppl on EARTH. it’s very INSENSITIVE to label them “WEAK” or “SELFISH” whether they have kid(s) or not, if they’re dying INTERNALLY what can they possibly offer ANYONE???! it’s personal, not PERSONAL.
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DA LOU
3 years
yo, you could be texting/calling someone ERRDAY & they just wake up one day & decide to ghost you… this ERA is not for the WEAK. if you take everything PERSONAL, you won’t survive this ERA, trust.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
It’s not that i don’t GAF about ME, i just don’t GAF about the way ppl CHOOSE to perceive me. their perception isn’t MY REALITY.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
4 years
Working out really a mood enhancer...
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DA LOU
3 years
You’ll miss out on a lot of GREAT ppl holding on to those that hurt you.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
2 years
i wouldn’t cut my POTNA off because he chose to talk to my ex. i GENUINELY don’t think y’all understand how WEIRD that is to be possessive over someone you’re no longer w! I’ve always treated my exes like PARTNERS, not PROPERTY so I’ll never understand the ENTITLEMENT.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
I’ll admit, sometimes I’m purposely rebellious just bc i like doing WTF i want to do. i like bumping my head sometimes, i don’t always want to b WISE & learn from others bad choices. sometimes i just want to b SMART & learn from my OWN bad choices. call me crazy, but I’m AWARE.
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
I give errbody enough rope to hang themselves bc, as long as I TRUST myself, trusting ppl won’t b an issue, bc a mf got ONE TIME to show me their TRUE COLORS & Ima BELIEVE EM. when you don’t trust yourself, you’ll always give ppl second chances…
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
4 years
Taking care of your body doesn’t just consist of what you eat. Who you hang around & what you consume on TV/ Internet plays a part in your diet as well...
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
1 year
choosing my LOGIC over my EMOTIONS FEELS like I’m compromising my CHARACTER, but i gotta remember just bc it FEELS that way doesn’t mean it’s TRUE. it’s just how i FEEL in the MOMENT. it’ll fade. i just HATE FEELING conflicted, but I’m always granted CLARITY in hindsight…
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
We live in a egotistical driven world, where err body wanna b RIGHT. Sometimes it ain’t even about being RIGHT, it’s about the dialogue. Broadening one another’s perspective. & Pushing the needle forward...
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
I’m very comfortable w saying something BOTHERED me & being labeled “sensitive” afterwards, can’t NOBODY gaslight me into thinking that being emotional-intelligent makes me less of a MAN. I’m very AWARE of my triggers & won’t allow a SOUL to throw rocks & hide their hand!
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@_N9neshalant
DA LOU
3 years
when i LOVE… i LOVE unconditionally. whether we’re amicable or not—my LOVE won’t change. there’s NO condition POTENT enough to EXPIRE my LOVE. however, my LOVE has BOUNDARIES—cross em & you’ll have to experience my LOVE from a distance.
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