By the end of today I plan to either book a Seattle or NYC trip for 10/2-10/7. My decision will be made based on inquiries!
Contact me during this rare opportunity that I have my email open sitting at my desk, ;)
Some big news, friends. I am moving to Chicago!
I will be in Seattle until Feb/March of 2024 & plan to make frequent visits. But get on my books while you can! My Seattle trips will be prioritizing pre-existing clients.
As for you, Chicago, I can’t wait to get acquainted. 🩵
A provider just emailed asking me to not use certain photos of myself in my ads when touring her city because we both used the same Peerspace location for some of our photos.
Is it me or is this completely absurd? I gasped when I read it.
Sex workers are healers.
Sex workers are healers.
Sex workers are healers.
Sex workers are healers.
Sex workers are healers.
Sex workers are healers.
Sex workers are healers.
Sex workers are healers.
Sex workers are healers.
Sex workers are healers.
Sex workers are healers.
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Blissful afternoon. Post-romp we stretched out on the bed and listened to Abandoned Luncheonette followed by Astral Weeks. Both albums feel like pure summer nostalgia for me. What about you?
Couples interested in hiring a provider—I cannot recommend enough hiring someone for a cocktail hour before booking a date! You get to establish chemistry, ask all your exciting questions, & marinate in building tension. Don’t sleep on this extra step!
If you are a provider in the US and you are not aware of the website that many clients use to share intel of how to low-ball & manipulate providers into bare services, please DM me.
Information is power!
@heartereum
Do coal miners not sell their body to make money? Construction workers? Massage therapists? House cleaners? Truck drivers? Waitresses? Actors? This take is so funny and bad. Delete it before you embarrass yourself further.
Yes, I’m alive! Still rocking bed head on the daily. Reading book after book. Embracing the summer weather.
Please note that my new website is on its way and the current one is very out of date. In the meantime please just refer to my Tryst page for the most up to date info.
"BOOKING FORM
Provider References: Gina. Katie. Melissa. Jessica."
...Why are you guys like this? Thank you for this absolutely useless information/ Mambo
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Sex workers are some of the most emotionally attentive people on the planet, we will take your world on our shoulders with a tender smile. Yet so often we are the last people that even get asked social niceties like “How was your day?”
If a well-referenced suitor cancels last minute (less than 2 hours before an appointment) and refuses to pay a cancellation fee, do you alert his references?
The constant questioning of “WoUld YoU dAtE a SeXwOrKeR?” is so silly. It’s not like we are lining up, begging for you to date us.
On the fucking contrary 😂
As we are in the thick of cold/flu season let me kindly remind you: please do not show up to an appointment obviously sick & downplay your health. It is inconsiderate & puts our health at risk, which can effect our ability to work.
I'm so over rate-shaming coming from providers & clients alike. Our rate isn't our worth, a higher rate doesn't automatically mean the provider makes more than someone with a lower rate (in fact, I've found quite the contrary). It is a personal decision with countless factors!
Saw a post on my NextDoor about street-based sex workers and braced myself for the worst and was SHOCKED that almost everyone on the thread referred to them as sex workers (not slurs) and most of the replies were like “yeah so what” “they’ve been there for decades”
Not sure I’ll ever do a pro photoshoot again unless fully sponsored. They are outrageously spendy, my self-taken photos get better traction, and there are about 999 things I’d rather spend my time and cash on.
Thank you Chicago for such a joyful trip full of delicious food, lusty nights, and incredible conversation. You raised the bar so high I think I’ll be returning sooner than anticipated!
Just had a really wonderful last minute appointment with a newbie! Can you believe that? He sent me all of his screening and a deposit within moments of my request. And I rocked his world.
It isn’t hard to do, you know.
A man just sent me an email inquiring about a FMTY for Philly and attached 4 photos of his recently severed leg.
No screening info. Just severed leg.
You can't make this shit up.
If I don’t get booked for Christmas Day I think I may hire a provider for Christmas Day. We’ll drink boozy cocoa and eat cookies and watch holiday movies and snuggle.
That feeling when you know you're hooked and you can't get enough.
Now pre-booking for May in Seattle. Want me elsewhere? Book 6 hours or more & I’m there!
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And so begins my hiatus. My emotions are mixed, my heart is tender, and my wallet is, well, frightened!
I’ll still be on social media for the time being, but soon OF will be the best place to get updates!
I need to step in, once again, to the trending topic of sex workers having a miserable time dating in the civilian world. While dating in general can be hard, sure, I find this narrative to be harmful for the likes of FSSWers and what it says to our clientele.
Tonight I have an appointment with a provider, which was set up and booked by her girlfriend...who is also a provider!
That's what we call goals, baby.