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Happy
#BiVisibilityDay
. A reminder that:
1. Bisexuality is inclusive of all genders
2. You don’t need to be equally attracted to men and women to label yourself as bi
3. Your bisexuality isn’t any less valid because you’re in a monogamous relationship
4. Being be is the BEST!
Happy Bisexual Awareness Month to all the bi folks who have to say, “All bisexuals aren’t slutty and down for threesomes. That’s biphobic! But I, on the other hand…”
This glorious month let’s remember that “straight” couples at Pride may not be straight. Bisexual, pansexual, transgender, etc people may appear as straight even though they are very much a part of the LGBTQ community.
Happy
#BiVisibilityDay
! Reminder:
You don’t have to justify your bisexuality to anyone.
You can be monogamous & still bisexual.
You don’t have to like men, women, & gender nonconforming people equally.
Bisexuality is inclusive of trans folks and all genders.
You’re awesome.
I can’t tell you how happy I am that places like
@MensHealthMag
let me write this type of content. When I was confused with my sexuality a decade ago, there were no articles like this in a major publication for men.
Happy Bisexual Awareness Week! A reminder that you are “Bi enough” even if you haven’t had sex with a person of the opposite sex. Even if you’re married and monogamous. Even if your mom says “but you’re ESSENTIALLY straight now.”
Happy
#BiVisibilityDay
!! 💙💓💜
A reminder that:
- You’re still bi when in a monogamous relationship
- Bisexuality doesn’t imply equal attractions
- Being bi doesn’t perpetuate a gender binary
- There is a huge bi community both online and IRL. You just need to find us!
My poor, brittle, polyamorous, bisexual heart is exploding.
"Thomas The Bisexual Goose Will Be Buried Beside His Male Partner Of 30 Years" --
@KristinaSaurusR
If I started a sex club called “In Bed By Ten” would you join? All weekday orgies start at 530 pm sharp. They all end by 9. No afters allowed!! Weekend orgies go from noon-7 pm. That is it!!
When my boyfriend comes over he brings me cookies from my favorite bakery. And when my girlfriend comes over she also brings cookies from my favorite bakery. So I have an endless supply of cookies and THAT is what Polyamory is about.
I wrote an op-ed for the NYT encouraging bisexual folks, especially those who don’t feel “bi enough,” to come out—and addressed the impact that would have on the bisexual community.
Shout out to all the fem boys out there who wear whatever they want despite knowing that bigots will threaten violence just because they’re wearing a pair of short shorts or a crop top. You’re brave AF.
I identify as bisexual & queer. I’m attracted to all genders, ethnically non-monogamous & staunchly sex-positive.
Growing up I saw 0 positive representation regarding male bisexuality but after coming out 5 years ago realized we exist & we’re thriving. Come out. Be visible
#NCOD
Hi
#BiVisibilityDay2022
! To all the lovely bi folks:
1. You are still bi when you’re monogamous
2. Having an opposite-sex partner doesn’t make you any less queer
3. There is a huge burgeoning bisexual community.
4. You may not want to unicorn for a couple but I happily will.
I once had a doctor refuse to prescribe me PrEP cause I’m bisexual. As he said, “Just choose to sleep with women and then you don’t need PrEP.”
#UnfairCare
Healthcare in the USA is perfect as is. PSYCH! Over 2 months of
#WeNeedAButton
has taught us that most people have a negative healthcare story. What’s yours? Comment below.
#UnfairCare
It’s
#bipride
month. Just your friendly reminder that there are SOOOO many bi and pan folks out there. And our numbers are growing. Soon, we shall take over the whole world.
Happy
#BiPrideMonth
!! Your yearly reminder that:
-Bisexuality is very real
-Bi people aren't confused or greedy
-You don't need to be "equally attracted" to multiple genders to be bi
-Bisexuality is inclusive of all genders
-Bi folks are capable of being monogamous (just not me)
The biphobia towards Bi men recently has been so shit and honestly, in MY LGBT+ history month?! How dare! So I’m bring back
#BisexualMenExist
for some much needed positivity! Drop a pic below with the hashtag and RT this thread! Allies, also RT! I’ll start! 💖💜💙
Today officially starts
#BiWeek
! While being bisexual can be challenging at times, I am so lucky, happy, and proud to be bisexual. I wouldn’t want to be any other way.
Polyamory representation in TV and film is always inaccurate/abysmal because in reality, polyamory isn’t all that exciting or sexy. It’s Google calendars, board games, and deciding who’s sleeping over which night. That doesn’t make for compelling TV.
Yes, bisexuals have all of September for Bisexual Awareness month. During which we have a a special week,
#Biweek
which culminates on September 23, for Bisexual Awareness Day, because bisexuals are greedy and want it all. Obvi.
I also think there's something to be said about queer-baiting negatively enforcing gender and sexual stereotypes. Like, you can be a straight cis man and wear a crop top. Crops aren't just for gays. We need to allow for straightness to encompass more.
Today is
#BiVisibilityDay
! It’s not only a day for bisexuals to celebrate our identity, it’s also a time to meet other bi folks and expand the evergrowing bisexual community! So tell us a little about you! I’m Zach. I’m 29. I’m a finger guns bisexual who doesn’t know how to sit.
Monogamous people get so upset by people in open relationships when it doesn’t affect them at all. Whereas you being monogamous does affect me directly because you won’t have sex with me. So, if anything, I should be upset!
Things I’m accepting into the bisexual cannon today:
- nose rings
- overalls
- the bob
- pastel highlights
- all fantasy novels
- board games
- Taylor Swift
Republicans: We don’t know what law makers were thinking when they wrote “sex” in title VII 55 years ago.
Also Republicans: We know exactly what our forefathers were thinking when they wrote “right to bear arms” in the second amendment 228 years ago.
Bi men, I need your help for an article! I'm writing a piece about writing "Bi" on your Tinder (or comparative app) bio, and how that has affected your online dating experience. If interested in speaking to me, shoot me a message!
Have you noticed there’s never anything past “101” sex courses? It’s always an “intro to BDSM” or “101 crash course on pegging.”
Where’s my 401 sounding courses?
I’m trying to step my bussy up but can’t when y’all teaching the same “here’s a leather crop.”
I end all my phone calls with my close gay guy friends with “I love you” and I feel like if straight men did that to each other the world would be a better place.
My first and only time ever walking in a pride parade was with
@ambisocial
. I thought we'd be laughed at, or people would wonder why we deserve to march at all. I didn’t expect the cheers, bi flags, and all the faces painted in bi colors. I love our community.
#BiVisibilityDay