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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
14 days
Many of you are new here, so you don’t know me or my story. I’m Melly, from the Bronx, NY. At 23, I took a leap of faith and left my environment to find home and peace. One thing I’ve learned on this journey is that home is where the heart is, and we can have many homes.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
18 days
Is this a safe space to post myself without hate?
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
1 year
Stop telling women we need a hoe phase for character development. Instead, let’s push a solitude phase where we learn the rawness of ourselves. That is the REAL GROWTH. Not numbing yourself through sex. Know your worth as a woman. Revoke access. Protect your womb.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
17 days
Getting hated on since the age of 19 is crazy… being 26 and still receiving hate too is crazy. Ugh. FYI, y’all don’t know people to write think pieces about them. Weird. ( okay. I’m officially logging out) s/o to the earthy, neurodivergent, alternative, black women!!
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
15 days
Love exists b/c you're walking proof of it. There is so much love in this world, & there are people who are waiting to genuinely love you. Keep being that ray of sunshine, despite the waves of darkness. The sun shines regardless, even when there are people who don’t want it to.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
15 days
Me in high-school & college you weirdos!!!!! Also, I need y’all to Google Chaka Khan since big hair was “never a thing”. Imagine being mad at the way someone looks. LOOL. It’s ridiculous. I’m not pretending to be someone. I’m not doing mall pranks. I’m existing and y’all mad.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
13 days
A friendly reminder: there is NOTHING wrong with your nose (or any of your features). 🫂💚
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
13 days
Me @ life right now.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
29 days
*CRIES IN GRATITUDE* I’m living my dream life. Reflecting on where I was, where I am now, and where I'm headed fills me with immense joy. Your environment and the places you travel to shape your journey profoundly. With my heart fully open, love flows effortlessly into my life.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
14 days
When I say I'm outside, this is what I mean.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
9 months
I get to live divinely. I am in my element. I love myself. I love my life. I love that you can feel my energy and the peace that comes with it. I am a beautiful spirit. 🥹🫶🏾🫂 My biggest flex is no matter how cruel people are I will ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE and never become them🪞
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
14 days
Here’s some magic.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
1 month
My happy place.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
2 years
Not only am I extremely happy, I feel more beautiful. 🥹 Accepting myself whole was something I struggled with growing up. I was never seen as an attractive black girl, therefore this is liberating for me. :) S/O to healing.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
1 month
Imagine falling in love with me.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
15 days
Woah, please don’t use this as a way to bring SZA down or to debate if she had surgery or not. SZA was and still is a beautiful woman. Black women are beautiful regardless. This is not a competition on who is prettier or more original.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
1 year
Black women at peace 🫶🏾 >>>>
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
1 month
I wanted to show you all my favorite dresses so far. I only shop out the country and that is how I’m able to get pretty dresses. All of these are from local businesses/ farmers markets 🥹 ( except the first one which is from Ross)
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
1 year
Hippie Black Woman loving herself ( Not white sage )
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
17 days
Hello bb. You don’t have to, these are $9 press-on from Walmart! Go save yourself some $$$☺️💚
Of course. I’m stealing your nail design for my next set too beautiful. Thank you! 😍
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
4 months
Hello.
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@hugetulip
gr☆cie
4 months
Enough of this demonic talk! How do angels look?
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
12 days
A bean for sure.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
2 years
Earthy black girl meets …
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
12 days
It hurts me sometimes that I almost settled with a man who had me living in his cold basement, beat me, called me ugly, and made me feel bad because I didn’t sleep with him every night. It makes me sad that I allowed myself to be abused because I wanted love
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
2 years
As someone that doesn’t have any friends, I learned that people are toxic and people stay friends with others because they don’t know how to be alone. People think the friend-less is always the problem when people are straight up bullies and we decided to isolate ourselves.
@LifeOfAls
YT: LifeOfAls
2 years
No more befriending the friend-less. They don’t have any friends for a reason 🙏🏾
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
15 days
Here’s some good vibes for the weird energy. Stay blessed.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
12 days
Love exists because you exist. Please remember that. Don't seek outside yourself for temporary satisfaction. Being alone is just a chapter of your story, not your entire book. Love you!
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Melly 🪞
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
18 days
I simply needed to grow up, focus on myself, and stop thinking everyone should live life the way I do. A lot of people who are writing these think pieces on other people's lives need to do the same. You can disagree without thinking your way is better.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
2 years
I hope you know you have multiple soulmates. I thought the loml was in NYC. Nah. You need to travel and experience new people. I know my person is traveling rn. Watch me meet them in Thailand or Tanzania. Or at the airport. You never know. Relax. Live life shawty.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
1 year
Don’t worry, be happy. Happy Birthday to me. Cheers to 25! 🥹 Hella grateful.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
18 days
Allow people to do what they want. Some are into hook-up culture, some seek a romantic connection, some don't see sex as an exchange, and some do. The problem is we think our way of life is always right, but -
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
8 months
I’m loving clip ins
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
13 days
I wish Black Twitter was more like Black Tumblr. Black Tumblr is so loving, peaceful, and authentic. Black Twitter, on the other hand, often feels negative and filled with low vibrational energy. It seems like all you do is make fun of people. Don’t you have jobs?
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
18 days
each individual has the right to live life the way they want, as long as they aren't harming themselves or others. I apologize if I ever came off as too aggressive or ignorant.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
5 months
It's my birthday here!! I'll be back with more pictures. #PiscesSeason
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
3 months
I hope you find peace for yourself.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
14 days
Thailand, I miss you so much! I'm debating whether to return to Thailand or Indonesia. I loved it there! I also really need a spiritual retreat.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
18 days
I wanted to add my two cents because I used to be against this and was adamant about it until I took a look in the mirror and realized I was projecting my standards onto others.
@FemK_Ultra
Plant Mommy Posadist
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Realizing that sex doesnt have to be this sacred all-important thing and can instead just be an expression of affection between friends who are dear to one another, is honestly the most lifechanging realization for me, surpassed only by realizing that Im a girl
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
8 months
Melanie.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
25 days
Screw the people who are trying to make me feel like I’m ugly when it took me YEARS to love myself. Screw anyone who doesn't see your beauty and has the audacity to make you feel bad because you’re not their standard of beauty. I will not change myself to fit in.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
8 days
Learning to hold space for yourself and others means accepting that not everything has to make sense to you.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
10 months
New tattoo 🥹🫂💚 This one is PERSONAL.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
2 months
Hey everyone :’)
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
17 days
I used a black eyeliner ( pls don’t judge me) and NYX - Salty Coco. 💚💚 now go AWFFF!!
@haosIuvs
🍉 is watching the boys
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wait the lip colour hold AWN
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
15 days
Anyways.. Chaka Khan. To any Black woman or girl: don't feel bad for a style that fits you well. Once you find your look, stick to it! By the way, my makeup style is extremely simple. And to the haters: you will watch every move and still be wrong about someone. Go clock in!
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
5 months
Lover.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
1 year
What did Lil Yachty say? I am so pretty. I feel so pretty.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
12 days
I find beauty in everyone & everything because I embody love. I can't see ugly unless your soul is ugly. I would never call anyone ugly b/c there is always something about someone that makes them glow, that leaves you in awe! Trust me, talk to people without superficial lenses.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
2 years
I spent the ENTIRE 2021 - ∞ healing and crying and I accidentally became this earthy, spiritual, natural black girl. I love her so much 🥺. I officially found myself.
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Melly 🪞
9 days
Fairy for sure! As a Pisces, by default, I’m a fairy.
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@TRHLofficial
The Redheaded libertarian
12 days
Every woman looks like a vampire, a witch, a mermaid, or a fairy. Ladies, which are you?
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Melly 🪞
2 years
Let’s see how many islands & countries I will relocate to / visit in my 20s before I move to Africa permanently. Hang tight. This is a long beautiful journey 😌 Current age: 24.
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Melly 🪞
5 months
Glowing in Thailand! Life is beautiful and I have time.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
2 years
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
2 years
Red Riding Hood ( Bohemian version)
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
2 years
Alternative black girls stand up. Earthy black girls stand up
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
8 days
Growing up is beautiful. May I continue to become wiser with age and never revert to old ways and habits.
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Melly 🪞
3 months
I’m pretty than a….
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
4 months
As a black woman from the Bronx who was told I couldn't make my dreams possible, I now know that the world is my oyster.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
6 months
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@Facedasarcasm
BBL TRIZZY 🍑
7 months
What’s your favorite face card that says, “take a seat”? 🤔
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
11 months
Haha
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@imanikhadijahh
𝔪𝔶𝔰𝔱𝔦𝔠 𝔰𝔬𝔲𝔩 ✰
11 months
HS vs Now
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
4 months
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
4 months
New YouTube Video!!
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
5 months
Thank you all for the birthday wishes. I feel so loved. 🥹🥹💚
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
2 years
Appreciate all versions of yourself 💚
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
2 years
Hey Big Head.
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Melly 🪞
2 months
Mentally, I am going through a lot! Thank you for loving me and understanding.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
1 month
I’m just a woman 🥺.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
2 years
May I introduce myself?
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
2 years
Love
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Melly 🪞
2 years
2 years later. ( still in therapy)
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
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My therapist asked me, "Why do you isolate yourself when you're triggered?" I was honest and said it’s because of my childhood. I always got bullied for simply existing. I grew up as the "weird" girl and was bullied for my looks because I was considered different.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
4 months
New YouTube Video!!
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
2 years
Feeling extra pretty these days 💚
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
2 months
Don’t let loneliness cause you to forget your worth.
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Melly 🪞
10 months
:)
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
6 months
I can’t wait to look like this again. I didn’t know how fine I was in college until now?! Insecurities are your biggest hater.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
6 months
Y’all want to see what I looked like in College? Mind you, I was soooo insecure.
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Melly 🪞
9 months
(: .
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@bashbossanova
BASH
9 months
trust men or have a pretty face
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Melly 🪞
4 months
11:11.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
10 days
Stop sharing your dreams, goals, plans, and travel destinations with everyone. Some people already don't like you. I'm learning to keep my happiness and peace private. Seriously, there are too many envious souls out here! Hate-watchers are real.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
1 year
Definitely my pretty era. I love it here.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
4 months
I absolutely detest the back camera, but I am desperate for guidance on what setting powder to use as a dark skinned woman so that my eyes appear bright and radiant. Please help!
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
2 months
This is that I am out of the country, I'm coming to America as a new person, and you're not taking my peace GLOW.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
1 year
Anyone claiming that sex isn’t sacred and soul ties don’t exist is crazy. Y’all be out here fcking, no connection, depressed with multiple demons. Attachment issues. Yikes! Please don’t listen to these people. They’re the main ones miserable and I wonder why 🤔 HEAL.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
1 year
I look like this emoji now - 🤓
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
2 years
I am divinely protected. Did you hear me? My ancestors. My spirit guides. GOD. Don’t play about me. The way people be disrespecting me trying to get a reaction out of me. I pray. I get on my knees and I TALK TO GOD. Karma is real. To anyone that bothered me, ouch!
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
2 years
I am trying to teach women there is more to life than being someone’s girlfriend and playing house. I am trying to show women once you love yourself, everything will flow naturally. I see women waste their youth over a man they didn’t end up marrying.
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Melly 🪞
6 months
No one actually wants to be in a divine union-ship. I am a lover, not a one night stand and a sneaky link. I want to grow in love, get married, and have kids. If I’m not getting that, I rather be by myself. It’s peaceful here.
@atakeslimm
Slim
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why u single?
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Melly 🪞
9 months
Lover.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
2 years
If you have dreams and goals stick to them. Stack your money, fix your credit score, travel, and continue to heal. Accomplish everything first, date people who have a PLAN to better themselves and their life. Ask yourself, “is this person worth having a baby with?”.
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Melly 🪞
1 year
It’s Melanie.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
2 years
I came across a mean girl and I am SOOOOO PROUD OF MYSELF because I told her she is NOT going to disrespect me. She didn’t apologize and kept being shady. my voice was cracking and I was on the verge of crying because I hate bullies and confrontation. Anyways, s/o to me because
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
2 years
NATURE BITCH.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
5 months
Happiness. Peace. Love.
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
18 days
K. That’s all folks. That was my most recent selfie. 💚💚💚💚☺️🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻💚💚🌻🌻🌻
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@YourBigSisMel
Melly 🪞
6 months
I’m grateful for the community I have. I don’t care about being an influencer or famous. All I want to do is go live and talk to you all. Document my life, and put y’all onto healing and traveling. That’s it! 💚🫂
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