Would you guys tune in if I made a space and talked more in depth about my experience with racism in the fandom?
I feel like after all this time it needs to be heard.
Um gonna add onto this here's more racism I've experienced in the fandom.
Lost an argument with a friend he called me a "Sale noir" which is french for "Dirty black" — then he blocked me.
And when we were friends he wouldn't shut up about "BBC"s.
There was another time where I was trying to flirt with someone from my city and they just straight up said they don't do stuff with black guys.
So my happiness and opportunity at a happy relationship ended just because I was born the way that I was.
Poly relationships dont work.
It's the unfortunate truth.
I've never seen a poly that's lasted longer than a year. They always fail at some point.
Most polys I've seen are really unhealthy anyway.
Today I showed one of my friends what I looked like.
His immediate response was screaming out "You're a n*gro! You're a n****r! You're one of those". And then said it a few more times.
Joke or not, it makes me feel isolated and non-human.
All this pain, yet no POC support.
So fucking sick of this fandom and how prominent racism is. Feels like every friend I meet here is just trying to use me as a token to prove they’re not racist while also openly supporting anti-POC things. I’m just so fucking tired of it.
dude... these su*cides are making me really upset..
It's never too late to turn your life around, you don't have to end it. Please message me if you do have these thoughts.. And if you can, please message a professional.
I really hope rali and snow rest in peace.. this is awful
Here's another time where I found another guy in my city and we hung around each other online and we were cool.
I just wanted to be friends with him but he was looking for more than that.
For some reason he started ghosting me for a while.
Then he told me why:
@SnairNuma
For me they either say "oh I didn't know" and then proceed to ghost me, or they'll constantly ask if I have a "bbc" and it gets really fucking annoying.
@Steve_Craftsman
I've heard worse.
This pain is nothing compared to what COULD happen.
I think the worst thing that ever happened to me was in vrchat, I might talk about it sometime.
I'm putting this to rest once and for all.
I was 𝘄𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗴,
I was given the wrong definition of a poly
My experiences with bad people who didn't know what the fuck they were doing constructed my perspective on what the definition of polyamory is. (1/6)
Why do people use "fatherless" or "poor father figure" as an insult?
You seriously should be so sympathetic to people who actually lack that part if their life, because it's out of their control, and can seriously affect someone.
@Melophiliic
This is supposed to be an accepting community where people have each other's back.
Those values show when someone is being misogynistic or transphobic, but when it comes to race, it's taken as a joke and ultimately just invalidates the feelings of every victim of racism.
Some student in my class blurted out that its not okay to be gay because thats not what god wanted.
The teacher just responded with "God's not real" IM SO DEAD MY RESPECT FOR THAT TEACHER WENT 📈📈📈📈
@Steamed_lambs
What's the joke.
Even dark jokes are supposed to be funny, have a punchline.
That's why even victims of dark humor can laugh at the jokes.
This is just blatantly unfunny, this isn't a joke, just a cruel statement.