๐ Award Winning Nightlife Producer, Wife, and Wild Creative โข Owner of
@confesstovenus
โข Features: Cosmopolitan, Paper Magazine, Refinery 29, Essence, etc.
I donโt care how many people attack me.
I donโt care how many people try to justify it. I donโt care if a โ17 year old is two weeks away from being 18โ or 3 days from being 18โฆ
THEY DONโT BELONG IN SEX WORK.
Iโm okay dying on that hill. Kiss my Black ass.
Thanks!
I was over 300 pounds when I met the person I ended up marrying, making thousands every week dominating men, and running two of my own businesses. When you see people pretending that fat people are unworthy and incapable of love/success, know its probably cap.
Tina turner. Dee Barnes. Anita Hill. Letโs also not forget the Black women with absolutely no social capital that will never even make the news because the world REALLY doesnโt care about them.
Besides Megan the Stallion, what other Black women have come forward and spoke publicly about a Black well known man harming them and was dragged through the mud for it?
There is no fucking thing as โMinor attracted personโ. No it is not just a โfetishโ. As a former Dominatrix and lifestyle D representing the Kink community as a whole, you are not apart of our community. We stand against you. We believe only in consenting ADULTS in Kink.
I need these o*lyfans girls to stop going on these podcasts just to be dragged and disrespected. Do yโall realize these motherfuckers would have no podcast without you showing up?
There are many aspects of BDSM that will trigger Black people. The terms Master and slave, white people using whips, etc. I wish more people would actually talk about it because they claim to be โinclusiveโ.
In the
@nytimes
โค๏ธ
Donโt let anyone convince you that you cannot do something because of what you have done in life. Capitalize on that shit and play on it.
Iโm going to be real with yโall. I wake up sometimes and regret ever being a Dominatrix because of the stigma I live with. It takes a lot of money and patience to transition out of adult work and the truth is not everyone is built for the reality of leaving it.
Free advise to Dommes: Stop arguing with subs and then coming to social media about it. You lose power arguing with them. Just walk away from them, laugh it off, and move on. That is real power. Let your silence speak for you.
Ladies, donโt let these red pill guys who talk about โwomen need to be submissiveโ phase you. One of them with a big platform gets drilled by women wearing straps after hours. They like Dominant women more than you would believe. Carry on.
Can I tell yโall something that made me cry? Iโve been buying folks in need fresh groceries for years. One of the people I provided groceries for in 2020, just messaged me to thank me for helping her through homelessness.
She just graduated college and wanted me to know. ๐ฅน๐พ
Why are so many people trying to normalize 17 year olds being in sex work and being apart of the BDSM community?
But if anyone says anything about that being wrongโฆ apparently itโs white supremacy? ๐๐๐๐ Bruh I cannot keep up. Yโall motherfuckers need god.
To whom it may concern,
You do not need to mirror toxic masculinity to be Dominant. You do not need to mirror toxic masculinity to be powerful.
Thanks,
Venus Cuffs ๐
Women whoโve murdered their rapists and traffickers shouldnโt be in prison. We cannot champion womenโs rights in the United States without evaluating the amount of misogyny it takes to punish any woman defending herself against any form of gender based violence. Set them all free
If you are a nightlife performer that thought dressing up as an Israeli soldier for Halloween and sporting a dead Palestinian baby with blood on it as a purse was cute, just know I will personally go out of my way to make sure you are never booked again. Thatโs a promise.
Every time a Black woman has publicly came forward about being abused, raped, or struggling with addiction they are the subject of jokes for years and even decades after. While alive and after death. Tina, Megan, Whitney, etc. To watch another black woman join inโฆ ewww.
people are fake pissed about this because nobody is laughing at abuse.
the humor is in the fact that this person would put on a wig, blazer, find the correct music and reenact an iconic scene we all recognize with absolutely NO context
idgaf thatโs hysterically unhinged ๐
Introducing my new show โTease Factoryโ June 1st! An all Black Burlesque Revue in Brooklyn, NY.
All Black Performers.
Black Owned Venue.
Award winning Black Nightlife Producer.
We are going to bring the heat.
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@Tim_Matheson
@HuffPostPol
He isnโt a civil rights leader. No civil rights leader would ever endorse someone who was pro segregation. Heโs now a leader for hire and has lost all my respect.
There are a lot of Abusers and Rapists that use BDSM as a way to hurt people. They call it โkinkโ but it isnโt. That is not BDSM. That is abuse. Make sure you are actively vetting everyone. Please.
Itโs me shot by me!
Iโm loving the fact that I own my own images. As a Black woman and creative that means the world when so many of these photographers are so predatory and use images of Black bodies disgracefully. Iโm proud of myself โค๏ธ
For 14 years, Iโve been calling out the exploitation of minors in the sex work community and adult entertainment industry. Each time Iโm told Iโm โhatingโ or โitโs a misunderstanding.โ
The truth is both industries have a large amount of people who see it too and donโt care.
"The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don't have any."
- Alice Walker
I am Powerful. I take up space. Iโm proud of it. โค๏ธ
@raphousetv2
For those that donโt know: These are the HOTEPS that queer black people, trans black people, black women, and disabled folks been telling all of yโall about for years but nobody cared because they targeted us.
Sometimes I think about my life and cannot believe that at 23 years old, my powerful Black Woman energy created an entire dungeon and community in the middle of a racist NYC community and walked away without a scratch. Iโm a tough cookie man. If yโall only knew...
I donโt want to be serious all the time.
Catch me dancing to silence. Singing my made up lyrics into the void. I want to live every moment until my time is up. YOLO. ๐๐พ๐ชฉ
@TheAfrocentricI
There is also the very real element of new school self hatred that didnโt exist like this before. *Some* stylists do not respect their clients because they are Black women.
Are there any Black influencers that have actually been paid for their labor from
@adamandeve
? Iโm feeling spicy today and I would like to know. I was contacted by them/someone that represents them to post and they offered me $15. Lol. Do they know who TF I am? Lmao.