a podcast about psychoanalysis, politics, pop culture, and the ways we suffer now | feat
@counter_factual
&
@patblanchfield
🚨 new episodes on saturdays 🚨
🚨NEW EPISODE🚨We're joined by the great Sabrina Strings
@SaStrings
to talk her new book, The End of Love! it's a tour thru the history of western ideologies of romance, from troubadours to fuckboys, from victorian courtship to online dating, and beyond!
things are getting Real! Ordinary Unhappiness Ep 1 "What is Psychoanalysis?" drops 4/1 on all your favorite podcast platforms. Sign up for updates, exclusive content, and more at
for revolutionary psychiatrist Frantz Fanon, material oppression registered in mental anguish, and demanded both direct political redress and attuned therapeutic care. the great
@NicaSiegel
expertly walks us through Fanon's biography, writing, and legacies
🚨NEW EPISODE🚨 We're joined by family abolitionists
@reproutopia
and
@genderhorizon
to talk about the family as a historic institution, as a fantasy ideal, as a political rallying cry, and as a messy nexus of struggle, care, trauma, and taboos
🚨 NEW EPISODE 🚨 We're joined by the brilliant
@liz_franczak
of
@TrueAnonPod
to talk conspiracy theories, their history and libidinal functions, the bizarre Mel Gibson - Julia Roberts MKUltra thriller/rom-com "Conspiracy Theory" (1997), and so much more!
Freud wondered whether all love was really just transference love. Lacan suggested love was giving someone something they didn't want that you yourself didn't have. Before you shrug your shoulders and despairingly ask, "Who's to say?" the answer is: We are, and why the hell not?
new episode: how can psychoanalysis help us think about politics and violence? we talk about logics of identification, exclusion, repetition, pleasure, cruelty, and more, with particular attention to mass shootings and the heinous killing of Jordan Neely
🚨new episode! 🚨 we talk with
@Avgolis
and Ann Pellegrini, co-authors of the powerful new book Gender Without Identity, about "repressive forces" within psychoanalysis, gender as an experiment versus destination, moral panics over "protecting" kids & more
🚨NEW EPISODE🚨 We talked with psychoanalyst and psychologist Jess Ghannam about his research and work on mental health in Gaza; how state repression and psychic repression work in tandem; what PTSD means in a place where the traumas don't stop; and more
🚨 NEW EPISODE 🚨
we tackle Succession, primal horde monster dads, the anxieties of patriarchy, why the phallus is not the penis but a kind of tragic McGuffin instead, and everything about Oedipus you were too afraid of castration anxiety to ask
we talked with the delightful
@benwurgaft
about Freud's unfunny joke book, good jokes, bad jokes and dad jokes, Jewish humor, the social work of wisecracks, and being A Serious Person. come for the salmon mayonnaise, stay for the drunk whales!!!
🚨 New Episode! 🚨 we talk to the incomparable Grace Lavery (
@graceelavery
) about her new book, "Pleasure and Efficacy," pragmatic political uses of Freud, desire and shame, identity and activism, and the stakes of debates over what it means to be "real"
🚨 NEW EPISODE 🚨 We're joined by clinician Loren Dent, who accessibly walks us thru the idea of psychosis in both analytic theory and real-world practice! Plus: anxieties over "madness," treating people with psychosis in Eric Adams' New York, and more!
🚨NEW EPISODE🚨 We learned so much from Kevin Duong (
@ktduong88
) about the incredible story and legacy of Harlem's Lafargue Clinic (1946-1958), the repressed history of radical psychoanalysis in the US, how transference relates to scarcity, and much more!
we're so innovative in our disruption we're dropping saturday's content today! we talked with the brilliant
@moiragweigel
about the Frankfurt School, our fantasies of tech titans, their fantasies about themselves, silicon valley labor solidarity and more!
absolutely read this and tune in on Saturday for our conversation with
@NicaSiegel
about Fanon as a clinician, transferential constellations, psychosis versus neurosis, revolutionary subjectivity, and much more!
On this date in 1925, Frantz Fanon was born. Read one of our features on his work and legacy in our forthcoming issue on repair. "To be a good therapist, it seemed, increasingly meant to participate directly in revolutionary activity."—
@NicaSiegel
just when you thought it was safe - the repressed returns! we tackle the limits of rationality, “kettle logic,” Freud as a “master of suspicion,” narcissistic wounds, family secrets and intergenerational trauma, and the child as the symptom of the parents
🚨NEW EPISODE🚨 The great
@annashechtman
, author of The Riddles of the Sphinx, talks the pleasure of puzzles; French feminism and sexual difference; forgotten histories; how the unconscious is structured like a language from Lacan to Wordle, and more!
on our latest episode we're joined by the redoubtable
@SamAdlerBell
, co-host of our favorite podcast (
@KnowYrEnemyPod
), to talk psychoanalysis and politics, betrayal in relations analytic, journalistic, and otherwise, and so much more!
🚨NEW EPISODE: Get Freudpilled! 🚨
@counter_factual
launches our journey into the Standard Edition! we talk why we’re doing this, how people form transferential relationships with texts and parasocial bonds with authors, problematic faves, and much more!
🚨new episode🚨special guest
@xtinesmallwood
🚨
we talk group life, group chats, projection vs projective identification, counter-transference as insight in clinic and classroom, plus Dan reveals how Bion helped him lifehack (and exit) corporate America
🚨NEW EPISODE🚨 We spoke with the great
@kate_manne
about her new book "Unshrinking"; fatphobia and diet culture; hierarchies of desirability and disposability; logics of scapegoating, anxiety over pleasure, moral emotions of shame and disgust - and more!
🚨 NEW EPISODE! 🚨 We talk with the great
@sarahljaffe
, author of the brand new "From the Ashes," about love, mourning, and how the lost objects we grieve - from people to places to ideals - can fuel and transform political action
ah, July 4th, the day USer celebrate how a band of brothers overthrew their own monstrous ur-father and made a pact between themselves to split the resources he had denied them and enjoy the fruits of theft, extraction, and domination themselves in harmonious equality and freedom
happy monday! two cool things. first: we're recording a mailbag episode this week! give us a call with your questions, dreams, fantasies, etc. (484) 775-0107! second: our first patreon ep, transference part 2 feat
@PatBlanchfield
and Dan, drops tomorrow!
🚨NEW EPISODE! 🚨 We talked with the brilliant Jade E Davis (
@jadedid
) about her new book, the history of "empathy" from human zoos to social media, her incisive and revelatory critique of "empathy culture," and so much more. check it out!
this morning we're recording the second of our subscriber episodes on the Standard Edition, on Freud's early research in neurology and his time with Charcot, and reviewing these diagrams (by Freud himself) is simply delightful!
we're in the paper of record defining the generational reconfigurations of the superego thanks to the brilliant (and hilarious)
@sarahlovescali
. obey your parental introjects and read it, they'll be even more disappointed in you if you don't
in typically vatic fashion, Jacques Lacan once said "it is well known that the ears are made not to hear with." whatever that may mean, we at Ordinary Unhappiness are committed to delivering the best quality audio possible, and our brilliant producer Dan is hard at work on it
we talked with the brilliant
@thrasherxy
about how capitalism and the denial of mortality facilitate mass death, how we don't just have or own bodies but are them, and what living together as parts of one big social body means for true solidarity and care
🚨 NEW EPISODE 🚨
We sat down with Ben Fong to explore the USA's singular love affair with drugs legal and otherwise. we talk what drugs do (and don't), what drugs mean, and the many anxieties, fantasies, and policies we weave around them. check it out!
🚨 NEW EPISODE🚨 We're joined by
@BklynInstitute
's Ajay Singh Chaudhary (
@materialist_jew
) to discuss his new book! From crypto mines to online gold farms to mindfulness boxes we talk extraction, exhaustion, the history of "resilience," and more
🚨new episode alert 🚨 our Wild Analysis series continues! we talk problematic faves, how people can lead us to crucial ideas even as they themselves can disappoint, nostalgia, growing up, guilty pleasures, and more, plus random run-ins with Slavoj Zizek
taking a cue from freud we're spending this week on holiday! here's the good doctor in hiking gear together with anna on alpine vacation in 1913. he'd take everyone mushrooming hunting and blow a little whistle to summon them to inspect particularly good finds
new ep next week!
🚨NEW EPISODE🚨 The first installment of our multi-part episode on Jacques Lacan's mirror stage is out now! We talk who Lacan was, why he's so notoriously difficult, why difficulty isn't everything, and what the deal is with that suspiciously happy baby👶🪞
tired: worried people wondering, what if Klaus Theweleit and Wilhelm Reich were right about everything
wired: febrile Young Republicans saying, yes, and we're leaning the fuck into it
🚨NEW EPISODE🚨 We finish our three-parter on Lacan's mirror stage! But can there ever *truly* be an exit from the mirror stage and the traps of identification? Where does therapy end and new possibilities for remaking ourselves and the world begin?
🚨NEW EPISODE🚨we're joined by the brlliant Rebecca Ariel Porte (
@___OED___
) to tackle a much-asked question: what's the deal with the pleasure principle, and the reality principle too? we talk paradises lost, utopias, fantasies, daydreams, and more!
Some questions may be impossible, and some work may be interminable, but that's no reason for us not to have some fun. Our first episode, "What Is Psychoanalysis" drops on 4/1! No previous knowledge of psychoanalysis is required. Sign up for updates here:
🚨GERONTOPHALLOCRACY 2024: The June Debate🚨
on the Goldwater Rule, defense mechanisms, splitting, contagion fantasies, disavowed realities, and what exactly happened Thursday night - and after
our latest ep is a crossover with
@BklynInstitute
feat. the brilliant
@daniel_m_lavery
,
@___OED___
, and
@KaliGinger
! they talk Dear Prudence, how advice columns dramatize changing social norms, transference, parasocial relationships, and much more!
we're going on a brief COVID hiatus while
@PatBlanchfield
isolates in the guest room AKA our recording studio - will be back Dec 16th! If you're missing your regular OU fix it's a great time to check out our many bonus episodes on Patreon:
🚨 NEW EPISODE 🚨 we talk with the wonderful
@thesaramarcus
about her book Political Disappointment and disappointment as "an untimely desire" that can sustain survival and fuel creativity. plus: campaign songs, our youthful political letdowns, and more
🚨 NEW EPISODE! 🚨 Our journey through Lacan's mirror stage continues! What's the deal with this baby, how is its joy before the mirror also a kind of tragedy, and to what extent do *all* our identifications require alienation and misrecognition?
It's October,
@PatBlanchfield
and Dan love horror, and
@counter_factual
is being very brave. On Saturday's Patreon ep, we plumb the suburban uncanny, explore the pleasures of fright, confess our childhood fears, and ask what Freud would've made of homicidal manchild Michael Myers
our journey into the standard edition continues! in our latest ep we talk neurasthenia (AKA nineteenth century burnout), hypnotism, how Freud sucked at hypnotism, and more!
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🚨NEW EPISODE🚨 We give Alex Garland's "Civil War" the Wild Analysis treatment. What kind of fantasy is this? And if the steady profusion of fantasies about another US Civil War is a symptom, then what anxieties - and disavowals - do our fantasies betray?
🚨NEW EPISODE🚨 We're joined by
@markkrotov
and
@lisa_borst
to talk two decades of
@nplusonemag
; the arc of intellectual discourse from the Bush years to Trump; transferential dynamics among editors, writers, and audiences, and more!
i am so excited that, for the next two years, i'll be working on ALL FREUD'S CHILDREN, a new book about the children of psychoanalysts, and taking on some of the myths that run my life. with deepest thanks to
@kfzbarrow
,
@penguinpress
, &
@dimarutman
.
🚨 NEW EPISODE! 🚨We talked with analyst and social worker Brian Ngo-Smith about homelessness, the impulse to help, the disavowal of hate, the erotics of care, and so much more
prepping to interview the brilliant
@moiragweigel
and there's so much we want to talk about: tech titans and the frankfurt school, the algorithmic mediation of desire via online dating, aggression and QTs, more. anyway: buy her and
@bentarnoff
's latest!
new Wild Analysis! in the spirit of the season, we talk horror as a feeling and a genre, reveal what scared us as kids versus what scares us as adults, and examine John Carpenter's classic "Halloween" (1978)
🚨 NEW EPISODE FOR PATREON SUPPORTERS🚨 The first of our two-part Thanksgiving Specials tackles the so-called "Holiday Syndrome," the family scene in all its yearnings and pain, what it means to regress, and why so many holiday dishes resemble baby food
.
@counter_factual
and
@PatBlanchfield
co-wrote for
@DilettanteArmy
on a topic near and dear to our hearts - the subject supposed to know. It's a classic psychoanalytic concept with real world implications. Please use it for good and not evil!
we have COVID, so for this week we've unlocked Pat and Dan talking free guitars, how there is no outside of transference, and why that's good actually. new content - Standard Edition
#2
, special guest
@SamAdlerBell
, more mailbag fun - resumes next week!
we talked about so much on this episode its impossible to succinctly summarize here - esp RE themes of exhaustion, different polemical versions of Fanon, &c - but we learned A TON from Nica, whose latest in
@Parapraxis_Mag
you should definitely read
if you can't get enough of people talking about psychoanalysis on your TL here's about 50 hours of us on
@UnhappinessPod
doing it. simply listening to the first episode ("What is Psychoanalysis?") will make you more of an expert than that guy from Vox!
Announcing, with
@PsychosocialFo1
, our Third Seminar: The Wish! As always, all events and courses are sliding-scale (including free).
For more information:
Registration:
we're taping a year-in-review, year-ahead episode next week - hit us up here, on patreon, etc with any questions, vibe checks, etc. you want us to pursue! and as ever our voicemail remains open 24/7 for your dreams, anxieties, complexes, etc at US (484) 775-0107
🚨 NEW EPISODE🚨 we spoke with Joseph Earl Thomas (
@jetvgc
) about his amazing new novel, the meanings of "trauma" from popular discourse to literature to emergency rooms, US empire, liberal fantasies about the dignity of work, family, and so much more!
our first Patreon-only segment is out! join
@PatBlanchfield
and Dan as they continue the conversation on transference, bartending, and lots more besides
🚨NEW EPISODE: MAILBAG TIME!🚨 We take your calls, talking the value of diagnostic categories, neoliberalism and mental health crises, and a Christopher Nolan-style dream involving nicotine patches and a mysterious figure who may or may not be Kanye West
🚨NEW PATREON EPISODE🚨 In a world wracked by resource wars and colonial repression, where messianic expectations and best intentions seem to only ever yield mass death, we talk all things Dune, from the Herbert novels to the Villeneuve films and beyond
🚨NEW EPISODE: THANKSGIVING SPECIAL PART 2🚨 We move from family rituals and traumas to social traumas and historical crimes; the history of the holiday and behind the holiday; and the fantasies, brutalities, and anxieties of settler colonialism itself
🚨 NEW EPISODE 🚨we had a magnificent time talking JD Vance, Kamala Harris, and the libidinal churn of the electoral landscape with the great
@SamAdlerBell
of
@KnowYrEnemyPod
🚨 NEW STANDARD EDITION EPISODE 🚨 Christine Smallwood joins us as we get to know Freud's dearest correspondent, frenemy, and intellectual "alter" Wilhelm Fliess, a man who saw the nose as the window into the soul