I literally have people I trust I stick by and hover around at events because of this reason and anxiety from my past with this stuff. So sorry to any of my smash friends if I hover a bit around you at events. It’s cuz I feel safe around you
@MVG_Mew2King
Annoy them. The community needs to raise their voices and inconvenience those who did this. They won’t listen unless we legitimately annoy them until they have to do better
TW: SA
Only saying this cuz people don’t understand consent and coercion. Sexual coercion comes in many forms. It isn’t just threats.. it can be someone pressuring you or putting you in a position where you have no choice. So tired of people saying silence = yes when it DOES NOT
You wanna know what the worst part about ending a long term relationship is? It’s the grief. It doesn’t matter if you still have feelings for that person. You still grieve losing them in general as a person in your life regardless of how you were treated/felt. It just sucks
@Yoshi_O_Smash
Does your apartment have cameras in hallways by the doors? Talk to your landlord and see if you can get your hand on ANY video evidence of them coming in and out of your apartment during the times it was stolen.
After seeing Twitter be a mess over a guy wanting to fight someone in Philly PR here is my reminder to smash players: no one will ever respect you as a player if you threaten someone over this game. No one will care how good you are bc no one likes someone who is that angry
If someone ever sends you a hateful comment whether in dm or chat just profess your love for them.
Meanie: “lol your stream sucks”
Streamer: “I….I think I’m in love with you”
Defeat them with love
I didn’t put everyone from Philly. I wasn’t able to attend as much as I’d like but starting next semester I’m coming a lot more! Here is my small tier list for Philly :3
Taking back your independence is hard after not being independent for so long. Today I did something that seems small to others. After months of saving I ordered everything for my pc. Yes I’m broke now but before I could never be ambitious enough to spend this much
@melabunni23
I have so many experiences and blocked people in the smash community because of how badly I’ve been treated and I’m a lesser known person and it’s just sad. We should be allowed to exist without this
SUPPORT YOUR LOCALS!! They need you to keep running so it this comes to America now is such a huge time to support them because they will need every bit of support to keep going!
@M_Kellez
@melabunni23
How someone dresses doesn’t mean people have any right to comment or say something that makes them uncomfy and hit on them. Women dress how they want to empower and make them feel good. It’s not our fault you can’t not be a creep
I know I haven’t been around as long but I really am grateful for bairs. Before my first one last year I was about to quit smash but bairs saved that for me. It has given me amazing friends as well as my amazing bf. Im so happy I decided to start going to locals and that bairs
Trying to love my body again. At least I’ve lost some weight. Can’t decide if I want to go swimming or not but at least this bathing suit looks pretty on me 🥹
I went 1-2 at a stacked ass bracket I was projected to go 0-2 in and I played really good tonight especially for coming off a hiatus! I’m honestly proud of myself tonight. Bairs 400 has been great
Melabunni is such a sweet and positive influence in this community. She DOES NOT deserve this at all. The treatment of women in this community is absolutely disgusting. This is why most women don't go to locals alone. It's why I rarely use face an. Do better smashers
I didn’t let this guy into my arena because I was ending stream soon and he got mad about it. I then went to his stream and he was calling me all kinds of of vile slurs(see in video). And they wonder why women don’t feel safe in this community? This is sickening. More in replies
@ArbiterSkyward
I don’t ever wanna be referred to as a “tournament girlfriend” personally. I compete myself and I have even played my bf in bracket before. I’m much more than just someone’s gf in the community lmao. I also met him at a local. We both just support each other and watch each other
I’m really happy rn. I went 1-2 my first local. I expected to go 0-2 but I performed really well, had some close games, and didn’t get 3 stocked. For my first local I’m really proud of myself for how I did
I’m so excited for the semester to end so I can consistently stream again <3 my last semester is gonna be super light since I’m almost done my major so I’ll have more time on my hands to stream, make yt videos(maybe) and go to more smash locals 🥹
I’ll be launching an Etsy store within the next 2 weeks of art! It will include:
- emote packs which will be around $5.00-10.00
-custom emotes
-twitch and Twitter banners
-custom art and fan art!
My goal is to raise $2,000 for a pc build so that I can upgrade from a laptop ❤️
This was my first time doing makeup in weeks. I also bought a new necklace. Take care of yourself. I was neglecting myself for a while due to life problems. It’s okay to struggle gamers just remember to be kind to yourself ✨mental health matters✨
Hi friends. I took a break from Twitter to work on my mental health. Accomplished cleaning my room and worked through some stuff. Still struggling with my anxiety but it is doing better then before! To all my Philly friends I will be at bairs tomorrow!
✨Normalize talking about mental health issues✨ I’ve always been super open to everyone about what I struggle with. Being diagnosed with depression, anxiety and ptsd definitely opened up many wounds and realities but I’m just proud for trying to even get up in the morning
I love this version of myself…. Just can’t be it around certain family members. I can’t wait to move. I love my family but like… I just wanna be myself
2 more weeks and I’m graduated college with a degree 🥹
Then I can restart my life!!
More smash locals (gonna be between multiple regions)
Comeback to streaming!
Returning to old hobbies
New job
Ya know I really wish I was okay enough to stream more. Just life has funny ways of keeping someone down. Doing my best to heal just when it’s matters of the mind the healing process can be tricky
@Luc1lleX
Please don’t apologize for making a decision for the betterment of yourself! I had to make the decision to remove someone who caused trauma to me a while ago and I felt bad but it made my streams a much safer place for myself and my community! I’m very proud of you girl!
I had an amazing time at bairs and supercharged this weekend ❤️ I at least took a set after a long break and that’s all I can ask. I’m really happy I got to see my friends. I’ll try to come back up in July 🥺
THIS!! No offense to nsfw girlies, I will never bash you, it’s the jerks who sexualize anyone. I literally stopped using face cam and went to vtubing bc men would comment on my body and ask me to “jump up and down” and well you know said nasty stuff to me
As someone who tries hard as fuck to not be sexualized on twitch, I’m scared for what degenerate viewers come out of the woods because of the amount of sexual content getting normalized on this platform